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( TwiNote for Android | TwiNote for Apple ) - Mr Collins.

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offering [ i will do ychs of this for 15$ ask me abt it ]

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you can preorder them now if you even care

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hot take but a lot of groomers/pedos i've seen in "system" spaces are endogenics/endo supporters. may be some sort of connection there

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yeah endos are fucking stupid thanks for stealing my meme and our terms xx

Foond this but it was an anti endo acc so i stole it bc this is funny

-Figure

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not one of my singlet friends trying to claim they have DID without trauma just bc they hear voices after knowing me for well over a year and knowing my stance on stupid ass endos. my brother in christ you do not have alters. you deny any sort of trauma before the ages required for a CDD and deny not remembering your childhood. fuck you dawg

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[Text: This alter is a Joe Hawley factive but does not support his source's actions.]

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the future isn't and shouldn't be plural. the future should be more accepting and accomodating to those with cdd's and the future should be safer and more protective of children so they don't develop a fucking dissociative disorder or ANY trauma disorder. fuck's sake

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What are some terms you use instead of "alters"? I usually just go with alters since people will know what I mean most often with it, but one of my friends only uses "parts" and another uses "stars" (cutest thing ever, I know)

So I was wondering what some you guys personally use are? There a reason for the word you use or just because it happened to be the one you picked? ^_^

[ endos do not interact, thank you! ]

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first appointment with our new psych and she diagnosed us with BPD KJNFDGHKLJFGDKLDHLK thats crazy to me. tbf she specializes but id didnt know that so im just. shock? yknow. because we've been waiting for this for years and it just suddenly happens boom out of the blue

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happy bday caseoh

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ma baby

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f2u as discord emotes

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comm for @aspentreesart !!

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The wildest part about being a system and having known you are a system for a while (6+ years for us) HAS to be seeing people who are just figuring it out fall into holes that you've long left behind.

Like. Yeah. We also thought we needed to keep tabs on everyone to increase communication. In the end it became too unwieldy. Especially since DID evolves with what you experience all the time.

Microlabels are cool and I fully support anyone who uses them, but figuring out what to call every single structure in your system isn't for us anymore.

Another thing we notice is people who try their best to know who is fronting at all given times. A lot of that comes naturally to us nowadays, but it's also... OK not to know. Especially if you're not focusing on anything system related at the time.

I guess a lot of this boils down to, it's okay not to care. It's okay to go with the flow of things and figure out at your own pace. Identity is fluid, especially if you have a dissociative disorder. You don't HAVE to have everything figured out 100% of the time.

It's okay to take it slow. It's okay to not know. It's okay to just exist for a bit. It's okay to live and experience things beyond being a system.

To all the people who are just starting to comprehend this. You do not need to know and label exactly what is happening in your head all the time. Fuck, we sure don't. And we're happier for it.

It's okay to just be you.