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If ICE Shows Up at Your Door, Know Your Rights!

Do NOT open the door. ICE does not have the right to enter your home without a valid warrant signed by a judge.

Remain calm. Don’t run and most importantly do not lie about your name, age, immigration status, etc. Anything you say or do can be used against you.

Do not sign anything. Ask to have documents translated. If you do not speak English ask for an interpreter. Have an attorney look over any documents that ICE gives you.

Make a family plan. If you have children, identify a caretaker.

Record. If you witness someone being detained by ICE, you have the right to record as long as you do not interfere with the arrest. Pictures, videos, and any information you can gather, can help verify an immigration raid and also help someone’s immigration case.

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100% correct OP

What else is there to infer if the culmination of Carmy’s fine dining odyssey is that he feed the woman who will seek him out because of that meal Sydney?

Just thinking

About how will never get over, that the first episode of S3 was a contemplative study of Carmy. Detailing what made him into who he is. His past, his quiet joys and struggles, his achievements and setbacks, what forged him…

And it culminated in Sydney eating his food that he pushed to have sent out , as the denouement

Exemplifying how they’ve always been linked throughout space and time through food , emotion, purpose, passion, meaning, and were always destined to find each other again

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I was watching clips of the Bear last night and find it very interesting that Richie, the Polish guy who pretends he's not, says something like "it looks Polish" when Carmen rearranges the spices and he hates it. It does make you wonder how he went from adamantly hating and denying his own cultural background in season 1 to calling his daughter Polish terms of endearment in season 3

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It never fails trying to go about addressing concerns with someone problematic and them lashing out in a problematic way because they are well.. problematic. Being micro aggressive towards Black women or any women of color in a fandom should not be tolerated. Not when the main actress of said fandom is a Black woman who is highly outspoken about her position as a Black woman in this industry.

A lot of women of color are pouring their souls into creating content and wanting to share a safe space of ideas and thoughts but it gets discouraging running into people who are committed to perpetuating harmful stereotypes or just refusing to understand how comments and behaviors look or are viewed from a lens different than a white one. We should all strive to create a space and community that is positive and nourishing for everyone who wants to participate.

The negativity, the silencing, the messiness, the lashing out, the possessiveness over thoughts is so toxic and draining. It’s mostly why I choose to sit back and do my own thing. Nobody is being censored when you get asked privately to reflect on how things you’ve said impact other people. Even now I still choose to be protective of that platform because other people are involved. But if you don’t feel safe in that community, it’s ok to say something. Women of color in this fandom I see you and I love you. I hope you have a wonderful day.

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@freedelusionshere I didn’t realise that Anna Posey is also one half of a chef couple! This show is full of them, hey? Also didn’t realise her husband was on the show too?!

So many similarities between these folks and Carmy and Sydney. Anna with her artistic talent like Carmy (and focus on no waste…Carmy might have had that dream in ep 1 when he asked Sweeps to set up a compost lol); David sounds like he may have some things in common with Sydney but I need some Syd-lore to be made canon on the show to confirm!

I’m sure someone has pointed this out before, but is the Cicero/Computer setup for S4 like the story Anna Posey’s husband, David, who co-owns Elske with her, when they talk about a bad business partner absconding with their money to Hawaii? Meaning the story he tells Syd in S2 during Sundae was foreshadowing?

Anna shows up in S3 in Forever, and talks about Elske at the table with Syd and how they feed everyone. They ended up recovering after their messy financial situation and went on to be very successful.

Anna also is a painter and an artist with an art degree who likes to focus on creativity and no waste. Check out Anna’s ink, btw.

David grew up learning to cook from his mother, and was a “chubby kid who made snacks” with interest in music. He went to CIA and worked at Alinea in Chicago.

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they keep bleeding love -

I never noticed until this exact minute but in the scene directly after the Claire/Carmy "sex" scene in Omelette where Syd is putting on her stained chef whites, the first stain that the camera focuses on is a tomato sauce splatter on her chest, directly above her heart: a stain as though her heart has been pierced with an arrow and the sauce is blood.

In the final scene of the previous episode, Bolognese, we see Syd's tattoo of three swords piercing a heart as Carmy prepares the ragu with the fresh pasta that Syd told him about for Claire.

This show is so obvious, you guys, it's SO OBVIOUS

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Today I visited my moss rug where it is on exhibition, and took some more pics of it.

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Abby Elliott arrives at the Golden Globe Awards

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Ha, I personally believe Carmy and Syd are both sheltered dorks with high aesthetic tastes so they would be very curious when it comes to sex just like everything else, but let’s get real, Carmy would already drink Syd’s bath water if he was allowed and wants her to run circles around him a bit?

There would be a lot of “do you like this, do you like that” like they’re planning a menu, but they’re on the menu 🤣. I find it very interesting that Carmy obviously doesn’t like “fun” with other shallow people and you can tell how his brain works a bit with those intricate beautiful drawings which Syd was very into even though she was annoyed at him, so you can kind of get a feel for what she’s into. Which is bringing out his creativity to match hers. They vibe for real.

Syd seems to like attention in very specific ways and doesn’t in others, so I imagine getting her to open up would be by listening to her, just like she has asked. And Carmy would probably need time to process stuff not just react. You can already tell he wants to take care of Syd and he kind of just watches and observes her constantly. Tiff finds this kind of behavior “weird” but it’s because he’s actually a thoughtful person (Tiff is the weirdo to me).

Syd and Carmy both seek to feel understood, I mean most people would like that, but they’ll withhold emotionally if they don’t. Syd will not go through the motions like Carmy (or at least I don’t think she will, we’ll see in S4). She will do a risk/reward evaluation and bail if she’s not emotionally invested. Which she is now, so she’s in a bind.

I do think sex would change their dynamic. He wants to give her beauty, he’d like to have someone to enjoy and explore that peace with instead of just on his own. She wants someone rock solid she can take risks with who will ground her.

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Ayo Edebiri | 82nd Annual Golden Globe Awards in Beverly Hills, California | Vogue | January 05, 2025 | 📷 Alexis Asquith

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If Olivia Colman can get a Best Supporting Actress Emmy nomination for 5 mins of screen time in 2x07 Forks, Abby should be nominated at every awards show for 3x08 Ice Chips. As should JLC.

The disrespect Abby Elliot is receiving this awards season 😤😤

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ayo’s nominated for outstanding directing at both the DGA and NAACP awards! deserved💛

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Another Pinterest find

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iconic tbh

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WATCH: The Bear Season 3 - WTF Happened to this Show

This is the most hilarious of critical videos I’ve watched so far. She’s absolutely right. They TRIED to bury Sydney and Carmy’s friendship in season 3 by greatly limiting their interactions, and that is why the season was so…void.