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New Year, New Skincare Routine — Bonitas Cosmetics

Jump to product information What better way to start the new year than to do a total refresh on your boring skincare routine that just has not been doing anything for you? Thankfully, I’ve found a whole line of products from Bonitas Cosmetics that has genuinely improved my skin. This is a complete refresh from what my previous routines have been and normally I wouldn’t add or change products so…

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Tarot Valentine's Cards - For Sale Now!

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My Everyday Cup of Coffee

Make a cup of coffee with me ☕️

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Visiting Haunted Overload 2022

Visiting Haunted Overload 2022

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September Halloween Giveaway

👻🖤🎃 GIVEAWAY 🎃🖤👻 check out details on how you can enter to win these Halloween items!

It’s been some time since I’ve run a giveaway, so to celebrate the beginning of September and the spooky, fall season approaching, I’ll be picking one winner to win some cute, Halloween themed items! This giveaway will close on Thursday, September 8 @ 11 pm EST and one winner will be announced via my Instagram Stories on Friday, September 9 @ 12 pm EST. Check out details on how you can enter to…

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Halloween Coffee Bar Must Haves

If you’re a coffee addict and you love Halloween, these items are must haves for a spooky Halloween coffee bar right at home! Check them out now! 🎃👻☕️🖤 #FoundItOnAmazon

Something you should know about me is that I’m a huge Halloween fan and have an outrageous addiction to caffeine. I can’t even imagine the amount of money I’ve spent over the years on Dunkin’ and Starbucks, especially when pumpkin spice makes its way back onto menus. Over the last couple of years though, I’ve grown a huge appreciation for making my coffee right at home. For everyone who makes…

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Spicy Whipped Feta with Roasted Red Pepper Dip Recipe

This spicy whipped feta with roasted red pepper dip takes less than 10 minutes to make and is the perfect summer time snack. Check out the recipe here and bring it along to your next summer cookout or picnic!

I recently visited a relative who introduced me to one of my newest favorite dips, which I’ve somehow started incorporating into most of my meals or snacks. Spicy whipped feta with roasted red pepper dip is perfect for the summer, as it’s quick and easy to make, using only a handful of ingredients and minimal effort. While the taste is very rich, the dip itself is light and enjoyable, especially…

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Dr. Marten's On Sale Now!

Dr. Marten’s On Sale Now!

Everyone loves a pair of kickass Dr. Martens, but they don’t come cheap, so when they’re on sale they’re definitely worth grabbing right away. If you’re ever looking for a pair, Nordstrom Rack is the perfect place to begin your hunt. Nordstrom Rack carries high end brands, like Dr. Martens, at discounted prices… so what do they have on sale right now? Check out some of these styles below, before…

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Kid's Halloween Clothing Under $15

Kid’s Halloween Clothing Under $15

In this house, Halloween is everyday and my love and appreciation for Halloween and horror has graciously rubbed off onto my daughter. If you’re like my daughter and I and love dressing in spooky Pink Tulle Pumpkin Dress Black Cat Sweater Dress Pumpkin Long Sleeved Shirt Silly Pumpkin Long Sleeved Shirt Pumpkin Sweatshirt Black Cat 2-Piece Outfit Skeleton Pajama Set

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Packing up some Horror Valentine's Day Card orders and getting ready for Valloween!

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Horror Valentine's Cards - For Sale Now!

Grab the perfect set of Valentine's Day cards for those special people in your life who love horror movies. These cards are to DIE for!

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Vintage Halloween Comics

NEW Vintage Halloween Comics to share throughout October 🎃👻💀

Hello ghouls, I’ve been working hard on creating new Halloween themed Instagram story templates, but wanted to do something a little different and fun. These new vintage Halloween comic images are now available to repost! Share them on your feed or head to my Instagram to share on your story now! View the original post here. Please feel free to visit and follow me on my social media…

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Top Shops for Your Baby Bats

Hello mummas and dads! A difficult task I’ve found throughout my (almost) two years of motherhood is finding my daughter clothes that are not your typical colorful combination of dinosaurs, bunnies, and ridiculous “CUTIE HAS ARRIVED” quotes. While my daughter is big into Minions, Mickey Mouse, and other characters, sometimes it’s nice to tone things down a little and share a part of my black…

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If Looks Could Kill - Accounts to Follow for Halloween Inspo

Halloween is almost here! Check out these accounts you should be following for the perfect Halloween makeup inspiration 👻🎃💄

Happy Hauntings, ghouls!

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, it’s almost Halloween! Ever since I was little, Halloween time has always been my favorite time of year. Dressing up in your favorite costumes of ghouls, movie characters, and more gives us a chance to be someone else for the night.

I remember my mum preparing me for Halloween marches around school… teasing my hair, letting me…

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Tales From the Crib Onesie - For Sale Now!

Grab your ‘Tales From the Crib’ children clothing now! 🎃👻

Hello ghouls,

Tomorrow is October 1st and what better way to celebrate than to buy some ghoulish clothing for your little ones?

Wraith’s auntie and I partnered together to design Tales From the Crib onesies and toddler tees for the Halloween season (or for any day of the year)! I crafted the design and auntie Jackie prints each design on a piece of clothing (typically on Gerber clothing).…

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Can parents still be wanderlusts?

Can parents still be wanderlusts? Life as a new parent doesn't mean your prior hobbies and interests need to stop. See how we're planning our first big trip with baby!

Hello fellow wanderlusts!

My husband and I have always loved traveling. For years we’ve dreamt up trips across the states and around the world. While over seas trips have yet to make it into our plans, some of our favorite trips have been to Seattle, New Orleans, and Nashville.

Becoming parents has naturally changed a lot of short and long term plans for us now. We’ll be dreaming up plans for…

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Hello loves!

It’s been quite some time since I’ve been able to compose a well written blog update, let alone even have the time to get dressed in anything but PJs or leggings. Hopefully you’ll all be able to tolerate my inevitable rambling in this post. With so many life changes in the last year, it’s been a little difficult finding the right time or energy to make any type of content for The Blair Bitch that won’t come off as “blah blah blah I’m making zero sense”.

As a quick life update, I got married last August and we welcomed a baby girl into our family in late December. Now, when I initially became pregnant my plan was to post updates on my pregnancy frequently. As a type one diabetic, I figured I could offer a different perspective on pregnancy, but holy shit did I underestimate how difficult it all would actually be. While I’d love to go into details regarding my pregnancy struggles, I’ll save that for a later post. My main focus of this post will be regarding the postpartum “snap back” body all women strive to get after their pregnancy.

Now, wholeheartedly, I’d like to say “screw you” to whoever convinced people women needed to snap back to their pre-pregnancy body so quickly. Yes, I totally get it being a huge want and desire to maintain a nice body after giving birth, but no one actually tells you just how difficult it can be. We can’t all be Kylie or Kim and bounce right back after growing a baby for 9 months and then dealing with all the new stresses of motherhood.

It took me a long time during my pregnancy to understand that I needed to stop comparing my baby bump to every other women’s. I felt bigger than most women at all stages. The second I learned I was pregnant I literally felt as though my body was finally like “okay, you can breathe normally and stop holding your gut in – it’s time to finally relax”. From 8 weeks and on, every part of my body grew so quickly. Thanks to many, many, MANY doctor visits, I learned most pregnancies as a diabetic result in more amniotic fluid than most pregnancies (yay diabetes). This was still really hard for me to accept for a very long time though.

As someone who has constantly struggled with my weight, the weight gain took a huge toll on my mental health. I never wanted to take pictures of myself. I hated even leaving the house. I felt like a balloon! The pregnancy groups I ended up in on Facebook didn’t make me feel any better either. So many women would post pictures of their bumps. We’d be in the same week of our pregnancy and they wouldn’t even look pregnant. Thankfully, these groups also helped me understand that every body is different though. Some women had bigger bumps and some simply had smaller. There wasn’t anything to it. That’s just how it is.

My whole pregnancy I kept reminding myself that once I had my baby, I’d be back to my pre-pregnancy weight. Boy, was I wrong. Breast feeding didn’t go as planned, I never got enough sleep, I lived off of coffee, I couldn’t even go outside to take walks with baby, because it was the middle of winter, and my new birth control made me gain back all the weight I had just lost. Then, as if life hadn’t been difficult enough, COVID hit the world and I couldn’t even sign up for the gym. It’s literally as if the odds were against me ever losing weight again.

Here I am, 7 months postpartum, weighing the most I ever have. As frustrating as it’s been, I’ve had to take a step back and remind myself that just like pregnancy bodies, everyone’s postpartum recovery body is simply not the same. I’m doing more work mentally and physically than I ever have in my life and if my body isn’t where I want it to be, that’s okay. I’m raising a child. I’m working from home, WHILE I’m raising my child. I’m still not sleeping, even when baby girl is getting a good nights rest. I still don’t drink enough water and drink way too much coffee. I can’t expect my body to go back to 120 lbs. right away or even ever right now and THAT. IS. OKAY!!!

We need to stop projecting this idea that women are expected to be done up, right back to pre-pregnancy weight with no stretch marks throughout this whole process. Our bodies have taken 9 months to grow a human and now we need to raise a child. There isn’t time for rest. There isn’t time for perfection, or makeup, or workouts. Whoever says there is has it made. Life can be hard enough without the challenges of motherhood, but add in a new baby and it becomes that much harder.

If you’re a new mumma, remember to take your time. Don’t be so hard on yourself. All of our bodies are different. Some women don’t get stretch marks, some women have fast metabolisms, some women had enough energy during their pregnancy to still be active, or had such severe morning sickness they lost weight during their pregnancy. Everyone is different. You’ve just grown a whole human and carried that weight (literally and figuratively) for 9 months and now you’re carrying that weight on your hip every single day.

No one and nothing can prepare you to be a parent. It’s a learning process. Things are going to be rough and it’s okay to not be “okay” with your body right now. As long as you remember to keep yourself healthy. Keep your child healthy. The rest will happen when it happens. Especially, now that we’re in the middle of a pandemic and life just is not the same as it once was.

I’ve recently invested in a jump rope, more home cooked meals, daily vitamins, and stretches. Across the internet you’ll see a lot of people taking up new activities like skateboarding, rollerblading, and yoga. Now, I don’t know about you… but, some of these activities are a little difficult to fit into my schedule. The point is though, is that as you take the time learning how to juggle being a mom, there’s always new things we can learn to take care of ourselves. If you have the time, going on walks with your baby is great exercise and can help you get out of the house in a safe, social distancing manner (just remember to bring your masks if you’ll be in a crowded area).

What are some activities you are taking up these days? What issues are you finding the most difficult during your postpartum recovery? Feel free to share your tips and stories in the comments and more importantly, stay safe and healthy!

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Misconceptions of the postpartum “snap back” body. No one warns you just HOW difficult it is to lose the weight and why it's okay to love your new body. Hello loves! It’s been quite some time since I’ve been able to compose a well written blog update, let alone even have the time to get dressed in anything but PJs or leggings.