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i was supposed to be protected but you wouldnt know what to do with me if you tried

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Something something canine poetry because why not?

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Imagine if you will…

Wax wearing this…

But sleeping inside this….

She’d be Beeswax

But should I?

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Hello

Not to give them the attention they so desperately crave but I'd strongly suggest blocking the user @did-is-not-real , they seem to be making the rounds. If you don't know how to block a user from a sideblog you should be able to do it manually in your settings from a computer or you can message them like an x or something from the sideblog and then block them from there.

Also don't doomscroll through their account, it'll probably make you sad

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SO IT TURNS OUT THAT NONE OF THE NILS CAN DO PIZZA YET. I TOOK OVER TO HELP FINISH THE FOOD. ALSO YES HI HELLO, I AM PART OF THIS TOO. SOMEBODY WILL PROBALY UPDATE THE PINNED LIST OF MEMBERS EVENTUALLY BUT IT'S NOT GONNA BE ME.

-HABIT

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I hate it here-

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You’ve been traumatized. It haunts you. You keep seeing new facets both in that situation and reality as a whole. You feel like there were things in play you didn’t know about. You’re dismantling everything you knew. truly am extremely sad to know you’ve been harmed, but no one should be halted in progress, pondering over and over, the hurt they’ve been through. You know this deep down, so you keep moving, distracting yourself from it.

Let’s reframe it.

You’ve been traumatized. Traumatized people are hypervigilant. They pay close attention to social cues. They read dynamics. They can always predict the worst possible outcome (very helpful). Traumatized people make the best biosensors. But like any tool, it must be calibrated. Knowledge and analysis—therapy and facts—that’s the way you calibrate what you now have.

Don’t think of yourself as broken. Think of yourself as having new insight, and once you have processed the immediate fight or flight responses and find the sources for all your emotions and actions….you will be immeasurably important to those around you who, thank the heavens, haven’t been through the same thing.

You have the power, the knowledge, the purpose, the strength, to end for others, what happened to you.

The best part? It’s the bad people who taught you that. We make our own consequences.

It’s just physics.

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Instructions unclear: became 44 people instead.

on it boss

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#im sorry WHAT

Yeah. I don't know how the hell this started and frankly I'm terrified to find out.

theres a tiktok thing going around about littles and consent. thoughts?

That's a child alter. No. This... This shouldn't even be a question, what the fuck.

As a general rule, don't listen to tik-tok, guys. It's formatting is entirely too restrictive to get proper nuance or provide proper sourcing, which leads to the spread of misinformation entirely too easily.

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theres a tiktok thing going around about littles and consent. thoughts?

That's a child alter. No. This... This shouldn't even be a question, what the fuck.

As a general rule, don't listen to tik-tok, guys. It's formatting is entirely too restrictive to get proper nuance or provide proper sourcing, which leads to the spread of misinformation entirely too easily.

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Our lord and savior Cheesus, if you will.

Wisconsin, I am in you. Where do you keep the cheese.

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sometimes, in order to be kind, you have to also be a bitch. kindness is absolutely conditional, and that condition is being kind in return. not just to me, but to those around me and whom i care for. will some people call me self-centered or entitled for it? sure. but only those who are just upset that i won't let them get their way. the ones who are truly self-centered and entitled, and throwing a fit about it. people who don't deserve to be listened to anyways.

they'll call me a bitch, yes. but ill know that in reality, i was just strong, and they didn't like that.

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I made spring rolls, and they made a funny =)

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Hi so I don't know if the blog is still active but I was in this server and 3 trauma. systems said that endo systems aren't real and I was wondering why they think that? They also think trauma systems are the only ones

We personally believe that systems which identify as endo may not have access to their traumatic memories at this time, or may not realize that something they went through was actually traumatic for them.

For this reason, we do not believe endo systems should be attacked or fake-claimed, however, currently the diagnostic requirements for DID is to have sustained trauma* at an early enough age that the brain was unable to meld into one personality, with 2 or more distinct personalities present.

This may be why they view endo systems as invalid, however, there are many other dissociative and personality disorders out there - however DID is our main focus, and admittedly we don't know enough about those disorders to say how they play into those systems opinions.

We'd recommend doing your own research, so that you have that information under your belt if you're ever invalidated again.

* Please note that how much trauma is highly subjective and will vary from brain to brain, as different people will have different tolerances. Just because it doesn't bother one person does not mean it isn't a massive trigger for someone else.

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Our dog Roxy, absolutely drowning in stuffed animals and blankets on the bed.

Send me happy thoughts. I have been up and doing things today. Feeling happy and accomplished. Let’s have a happy post! Reblog with a picture of something that makes you happy! I’ll go first:

Here’s Bo, snuggled in warm and happy.