#you ever seen two lesbians argue about catradora its unstoppable force v immovable object

[scumashling]

Thinking about the time two of my friends (catradora shipper and and catradora hater) got into a fight over whether the ship romanticizes abuse and the argument eventually devolving into the hater going "well I was adora/golden child and my abuser/scapegoat is like catra. Catra being redeemed made me want to go back to my abuser so this Show is Harmful. Also Adora shouldn't forgive Catra because Victims shouldn't Have to Forgive their Abusers. Also you're invalidating my abuse by defending Catra. I can't believe you'd do that" Then blocked the other person when they tried to talk privately about how it's not okay to get that personal over fandom discourse. Terrible no good situation all around but it did make me realize the importance of media literacy and engaging with fiction as fiction