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#yes their situations are different#but bro the black hair i cannet#alnst#alien stage ivantill#alnst ivan#alnst till#alien stage ivan#alien stage till#dead plate#dead plate rody#dead plate vincent#plips rambles
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interaction i have with shocking regularity is when someoneās complaining abt someone they know and theyre like āughh theyāre 21 and dont have a job and refuse to learn to driveā and then they remember who theyāre talking to (me. 21 cant work cant drive) and go like
#text#āur situation is differentā Do u know Their situation enough to say that lol#also like. be srs if u didnt know me ud think the same way abt me. Do u think this abt me subconsciously?? guessing yes#The only person who HASNT made me feel like this and has actually articulated what they meant in a way that didnt feel like a dig#at me was š« last night hence why its on my mind
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Also also. If you always come out of therapy sessions feeling worse than when you went in, over and over, you may want to consider trying a different therapist or at least ask the one you have to try a different method of whatever you're doing in there.
#Crying isn't always the release it's cracked up to be if it ends up being the only thing you do#Like yes it can be good but if nothings actually getting solved you might just be hurting yourself#Telling the difference between progress and harm can be hard in those situations
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i know everyone likes to put tharja in the "yandere goth girl" category but tbh i feel like pigeonholing her into one specific archetype does a huge disservice to her character. is she obsessed with curses and robin? yes. is she constantly shoved into a fanservice role by intsys? absolutely.
but i think a lot of people forget just how impactful a lot of her supports are...there's something about tharja that makes nearly everyone who interacts with her divulge their deepest secrets and points of anxiety with her. we see this with libra, who tells her of the abandonment he endured at the hands of his parents. we see it with nowi, whose cheerful demeanor slips off as she tells tharja of her missing parents. and although tharja is not the only one lon'qu confides in regarding ke'ri, their support is notably the only one in which lon'qu divulges that there was romantic involvement between he and his childhood friend.
and despite her antisocial exterior, she always listens mindfully and offers to help! she even goes out of her way to discreetly help the shepherds (getting virion to do odd jobs that benefit civilians, interrogating henry to make sure he bears no ill will towards ylisse, etc).
a big thing about tharja is that she IS kind. she IS considerate. she just also has a reputation to uphold as a dark mage and that (paired with her overall awkwardness ofc) makes her true nature hard to see at first glance
#fire emblem#fire emblem awakening#fire emblem heroes#tharja#tharja fire emblem#also aside from the fanservice she gets shoehorned into a lot of people dislike her for the noire situation#which yes. absolutely makes sense.#but like....also.... it's implied that it's NOT the current tharja who treated noire that way. it was doomed!future tharja#is this splitting hairs? yeah i guess? but like...the whole point of awakening is that our decisions and bonds shape who we are.#we could be an entirely different person depending on what we choose to value#the tharja from noire's timeline is not the tharja from the current timeline and current! tharja shows how much she cares for noire#another point of contention with tharja is her robin obsession#which CAN be annoying. i'll grant you that.#HOWEVER she only mentions robin in 2 of her s-supports i believe#frankly i think cordelia is a worse offender here. i can't think of a support where she DOESN'T mention chrom#anyway let's also not forget how committed tharja is to being sharena's friend in FEH#GOOOODDD i really do love tharja... she's so great#i was actually reading lon'qu's supports because i want to do an s-rank convo tierlist for him maybe but i got distracted#by his support with tharja which is just SOOOOOO peak#that i just ended up reading all of tharja's supports as well sjsjskksksk so sorry lonk i'm thinking about tharja today!
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Wei Wuxian eats a watermelon. Yep!
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#nothing out of the ordinary here. Just good fandom fun#Watermelon discourse has been going on and I want to let people know where I stand.#This came about because I wanted to experiment with translating the (traditional) PD-MDZS style to a digital format#and while sitting there thinking of what to draw...my inspiration came to me.#This is the equivalent of sneaking vegetables into the spaghetti sauce but its important to get your gotdamn veggies#I'm not very good at organizing my thoughts (evidence: the tags of every post on this blog).#but please do not look away from this moment in history. One person cannot solve it and no one expects you to.#Even if it is just spending time doing some research on the situation and history. Or boosting posts that are more articulate#Any action helps! ANY action! Everyone has a different level of capacity for this and that's okay. Anything is fine. Dont let it be nothing#Anyhow. did I like doing this digitally? Yes but its mixed. It was faster but also spark the same joy I usually get while drawing#I will have to get over it very quickly though. You will all see why in a few days
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one of my favorite parts of speculating ahead of the Veilguard is the number of people talking themselves around and around in the loop of "Illario is extremely suspicious and the most obvious choice for who betrayed Lucanis ā However, Illario seems like he genuinely cares for Lucanis and seemed sincerely distraught in The Wake ā I know in my heart it must be Illario: there is no one else with means and motive ā If Illario did it, I understand why given how Caterina has treated him and them, and he has arguably earned a bit of a villain era ā The situation is ultimately caused by Caterina and Crow politics and, again, Caterina ā I don't want it to be Illario because I want he and Lucanis to have a good relationship given all they've suffered together ā However, there is already an existing bitterness between them because of the succession question and in Illario generally because he's seen as lesser ā Illario is the most obvious choice"
#so many of us are like it's gotta be Illario I don't want it to be Illario it makes sense it's Illario#It's like... it's a tragic situation because no matter whatāeven if it is Illarioāthe root cause is Caterina and she's already dead.#Speaking for myself. *I* keep doing this loop bc even if it was Illario it's hard with what we know so far for me to hold it against him?#Yes he had different choices. Obviously he could have done anything else. But like it isn't just ambition and spite.#Assuming it is him [points at the loop] it feels like a situation fostered by the way Caterina raised and hurt them both.#What methods do you feel you have when the only thing you know is knives and murder?#How else to feel when the cousin you love like a brother eventually convinces himself he doesn't hate the grandmother who ruined you both?#She is only āCaterinaā in your mouths and you are ācousinā in his but he is choosing her over you and how else is there to feel?#After all: she's sharpened all your emotions into knives. They're only ever knives.#ANYWAY that got away from me there for a second#I think that's why we're doing this loop. It's gotta be Illario but it being Illario resolves little. It's not a complete catharsis.#It's really the facts of their lives. It's really what Caterina did to them. It's really the yawning pit at the center of House Dellamorte.#Illario Dellamorte#Lucanis Dellamorte#Caterina Dellamorte#Dragon Age: The Veilguard#Dragon Age The Veilguard#Dragon Age#DATV things#DATV spoilers#Veilguard spoilers
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I skip all Hiccstrid scenes in Rtte because buffstrid is not canonš
#am i mentally ill?#maybe#but do I also possess the power to redraw Hiccstrid scenes with buffstrid#yes#I do#hiccup#Astrid#hiccup x astrid#biblically accurate hiccstrid#hiccstrid#buffstrid#httyd#Rtte#shit post#I wish I was joking#Iāve fried my brain to the point where I just cannot watch them#and if Iām being honest a lot of the Hiccstrid scenes are kind of hard to watch anywayš#donāt get me wrong I absolutely love the ship#however#they make me kringe#yes kringe with a k#because the normal ācringeā word is used too often and too negatively just to insult people having fun#So Iām using kringe and hoping it doesnāt already mean something extremely offensive#okay I googled it itās fine#I am now dubbing ākringeā to be a friendlier version of ācringeā and only to be used in a situation where you are expressing your opinion -#-and not directly insulting someone else just because theyāre a little different#what the fuck was I originally on about#oh yeah I kind of find canon Hiccstrid kringe#hot take mayhaps?#idk my opinion manš¤
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I finished posting the unabashedly educational Sword Fic.
It includes a detailed (but hopefully beginner-friendly) explanation of all the steps of making a Nichirin blade from a sunny mountain like Mt. Youkou, a touch of swordsmith and metalworker folk lore (including demons), meta about what must make Kimetsu no Yaiba's swordsmithing methods different from real life methods, some character exploration for Haganezuka and his polishing method, vocabulary and additional resources in the chapter notes, and hopefully, an endearing, silly POV character to learn this all through.
#my fics#SWORDS SWORDS SWORDS#would you like a story about the years of background of this fic?#I was not very well-versed in metallurgy until recent years but my study of the Japanese language goes back to#well#longer than some of you may have been around#I always liked samurai and swords for the aesthetic but started to take more of an interest when I lived in Shimane#and on a day when I had a friend taking me around to rural sites associated with a legendary monster she was like#let's go see the sword museum while you're out here#but that museum was closed (it comes back into this story though)#so we went to a different one that no longer exists but that was my first encounter with how much work it takes to make the sword ore#fast forward years later#I am writing this blog and it becomes known as a fun place to read about Japanese culture as seen in KnY (thanks glad you enjoy)#I decide that I must tell people how hard it is to make the ore and finally visit that main museum on a trip back to Shimane#I collect material and struggle to do more research and wrap my head around it#and I write the first version of Teppi's story that focused mostly on the smelting and glazed over the forging and polishing and stuff#meanwhile I am in a job situation I have already long since wanted out of and soon I want out a lot more desperately#job searches were disheartening but then I found THE ONE I WANTED#and on that first interview when I was already like PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE#they asked if there's a Japanese cultural topic I could suddenly explain in great detail if asked#and without mentioning this blog I said I had recently written up something for fun about tatara smelting methods (and they forgot this)#fast forward again and I very happily got the job and was very nervous as I got the rundown on a very large annual nerd project#and when they announced the topics for that year I saw that tatara smelting methods in the region I knew them from was on the list#and I was like#asudyaiusdyuasdyuahduahduhsdhuPLEASE GIVE ME THAT#and i got it and when I went out there for research people were like#...why do you know all this...???????#and since I dared not mention my KnY blog I was like#...I lived in Shimane...#it seems I broke the tags because the rest of the story got cut off but hi yes you get the idea
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hello sel!!! hru doing??
The ask game is super fun! How about Gojo + vindictive.
I hope u hv had a lovely day š«¶
zuro anon
zuro anon hello!! thanks for sending in a prompt!! i'm doing good š„ŗ spending this lil vacay at home, mostly š„ŗ and happy to be back writing š„ŗ i hope you have the loveliest weekend š
contains: non-canon, childhood enemies to lovers (ish), (modern) arranged marriage, reader wears a braid and dresses
gojo + vindictive
you hate gojo satoru. you have ever since you were 5.
he's a bullyāa real cocky one at that, with no regard or remorse for how his actions affect those around him.
on the day before your 6th birthday, right as your parents gathered together for the annual countdown, he gobbled up the entire plate of your favorite milk cakes before you could even take a bite. this marked the start, the beginning of a vengeance stewing inside of you.
at the age of 8, when you first learned how to do your own braids, he would tug at them, pull them free and unravel all your hard work for the past hour. you used to chase him for it, yell "satoru!" with all the strength your little lungs could muster and he would merely laugh and run faster.
the name "satoru," you've learned, must be synonymous with "sabotage," because it's all he's ever done. he threw the flower geto suguru handpicked for you straight to the ground, and purposely splashed gutter water all over the white dress you intended to wear on your first date.
not to mention, he's always rubbed in the fact that he's better than you, at everythingādangled all his accomplishments in front of you as if he knew they were just centimeters out of reach.
gojo satoru is solely responsible for tainting your childhood memories a miserable cerulean blue.
so, when your parents sit you down one day and tell you that you'll have to marry him, you feel transported in that moment, to each and every instance gojo has ever wronged you. it flips through your mind like a montage of flashbacks in a movie.
it's both surprising and not. your families have always been partners, in everythingābusiness, education, and now you guess, life as well. you hate gojo's guts but this creates an opportunity you don't think can result from anything else.
so, sure, you'll agree to the marriageāonly to make his life a living hell.
"hello, fiancƩe," he greets you, for the first time since the agreement.
you don't do anything to hide your disgust, face scrunching up as you spit out, "shut up, satoru."
the wedding planning is horrendousāat least, you hope it is for him. you pick out every single cake flavor you know he hates and choose the brightest venue possible for the event. the lights you pick for the afterparty are strobe lights, and you make sure to do multiple test runs just to play with his eyes. it doesn't occur to you that the solution to his light sensitivity is simple: just a plain pair of shades.
you wear plumping lip gloss on your wedding day, just so his lips burn when you have to kiss him. but gojo is either extremely numb or just good at faking it, because all he does is grin as he whispers quietly before parting, "spicy."
in preparation for your married life, you create a ledger of some sortāa book of accounts housing every single thing gojo has done wrong. you write down your plans to get him back for each of them, a list of pranks and inconveniences to make him regret ever messing with you all those years ago.
at half a year of marriage and 25 years of knowing each other, he casually tells you the big "i love you," but you're sure he doesn't mean it. you tell yourself your heart is racing from how infuriating his existence is; at how stupid his face looked when he'd said it. not anything else and most especially not the little dimple on his cheek that shows itself every now and then.
(you didn't know it yet then, but he'd found the ledger you kept and read through it all. the one-year plan, the three-year plan, the five, and so on. and it does nothing but strengthen how he feels about you, since he was 6, 14, and a few years ago at 24.
it's at your third year of marriage that you find outāhow gojo's known all this time, but more importantly, how there were reasons behind every single instance you thought he was out to ruin your life.
with intelligence far beyond his age, gojo has always preferred the company of adults more than children. at age 6, he would listen in on conversations his mother had with her friends, roughly comprehending complex worlds with the simple ones he understood. someone had mentioned something about their daughter being allergic to milk. and so, when your birthday came up and all he saw were milk treats, he gobbled them all up in an effort to make sure you wouldn't be subjected to an adverse reactionāeven though you were far off from any dairy allergy.
what he was sure of, however, was that you were severely allergic to bees. and when he spotted one perched right on the buttercup stem geto handed you, he had no choice but to smack it right out of your hand and down to the ground, stepping on it too, for good measure.
and, okay, maybe he was a little naughty for tugging at your braids when you'd just spent all that time doing them, but he always liked how they flowed into waves when they unravelled; how you'd chase him afterwards, angry but so, so pretty.
if there's one moment gojo will consider real sabotage, though, it's that date he stopped you from going to. like there was any way he was going to let another man see you dressed like that. he isn't nice that way. when gojo wants something, he's not sharing, and the sight of you in whiteāthat was meant to be his and only his.)
#gojo x reader#jjk x reader#shotorus.workbook#this was interesting!!! bc i dont necessarily see gojo to be vindictive (hella petty yes HABSFh but not vindictive)#so trying to somehow incorporate the prompt really stretched out my braincells#thank you for this zuro anon!!#i hope you like it!!#additional context stuff!! they both come from affluent families and gojo is a little insane when it comes to love#not normal at all LOL he gets off from reader's hatred hsbfhsgdfv#reader learns to love him eventually. its rlly just a matter of seeing everything differently and understanding the whole situation#why he did things the way he did etc etc#not written but gojo hasbeen a kind of constant in reader's life and has been there at their lowest too !!!#and he really does go out of his way to make things work for reader too just not in ways obvious to reader !#for one of their classes in uni gojo got a really high grade compared to everyone else so chances of a curve were slim#reader's grade wasn't really that high and they were really sad about it#so gojo did a bunch of extra work for the professor so that he would agree to curve everyone's grades higher LOL#things like that ! he also trashed the front yard of the first boy that broke reader's heart šššš#nonie.zuro#ask#rep#ask game answered
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I saw a rant about how the back and forth between Fyodor and Dazai is ridiculous at this point and like. I think thatās the point. The point is that one is not actually superior to the other in regards to intellect so they are ALWAYS going to be stuck in this cycle of āwell I thought of/planned/predicted that!ā.
The difference is in their connections and what those connections are made of. I find it fascinating actually that Fyodor thinks heās won because he STOLE gravity away from Dazai and claimed Dazai didnāt even know how to use it when he had it! The thing is though, Chuuya doesnāt seem to be under Fyodorās control anymore and he hasnāt ever chosen the people who try to use him like an object over Dazai. And despite the four years of separation (which was longer than their time together) he always came when Dazai expected him to.
And Iām thinking he expects him to now which would ultimately be what tips the scale in Dazaiās favor. Because where Fyodor sees a tool Dazai sees his partner. Iām also thinking Chuuya isnāt the only key to success here and that was why he chose Sigma too (if the points where he thinks about the ADA not using each other is any sort of foreshadowing).
#also actually I have some more to write on the differences between Fyodor and Dazai and how they see Chuuya specifically#also kinda obsessed rn with the idea of Sigma being what changes everything around ultimately#like yes Chuuya is there but if this actually IS some kind of entrance exam (which would be AMAZING) sigma will have to shine somehow hereš#ALSO by he hasnāt ever chosen anyone over dazai before I mostly mean like#in the given situation where it was working dazai and getting to broader horizon of understanding or of choice heās always chosen thay#and Dazai very much represented that especially in the beginning even if Chuuya ultimately being and staying with the Pmā#isnāt the greatest outcome for him#ANYWAY AM RAMBLING UPON THIS FINE MORNING#bungou stray dogs#bsd#nakahara chuuya#dazai osamu#Soukoku#Fyodor Dostoyevsky#BSD manga spoilers#BSD manga#BSD spoilers
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regarding ex husband bag, i have an hc that might not be popular but: i think bakugo retires from prohero work kind of early, like late thirties/early forties. Hes done more in two years than most heroes do in their whole lives, he's gone all out, almost lost an eye or a limb more times than he can count. He's gone through that whole league if villains ordeal, it changes his perspective on his juvenile ambition. He has a son, and while that used to spur him to work more and protect him, now he realizes that's the very thing that split his world in two. So, he cuts down on the patrol hours, maybe starts teaching the next gen of heroes to feel less guilty, he finds purchase in combing down rowdy boys' hair as best jeanist did before him. But that doesn't quell his guilt, his sense of impotence and ptsd and maybe that's when you start slipping together again. He works more but still looks tired, cause he stays up all night, awake. He has more time to think, about you and your son and his perceived failure as an husband and a hero. And you, well you love him still, so you help him. He falls asleep easier in your arms, thinks less when he's with you, feels less guilty when he sees why he left in the first place, his wife and his son. And I think that's how you get back together, you slowly fall in love all over again (the love was always there) and give him solace and meaning, and he can finally protect his wittle family the way it deserves. š„ŗš„ŗ
this is so heartbreaking and mending all in one omg !! but no, no, i absolutely agree with you !! i really think about this a lot, like. how long do we think bakugou really does this hero business ??
i tend to have this personal hc that he does retire a little early, like maybe late 30's. idk, i think after everything that's happening now in the manga, i think his perception of 'victory' and 'success' will change a bit. i also think with all this coming out about endeavor, and then literally being at the forefront of it all in the worst way, i almost think he would be a little disillusioned ?? obviously he still loves his heroes, 100%, but i think he finally is able to see through the smoke and mirrors and realize this life isn't as grand as he thought it was. that it's a lie. so i definitely see him retiring early.
but oh boy !! that totally does take its toll on him mentally !! you are so right !!! because he may know what he was striving for doesn't really exist, but that doesn't change that it was his lifelong goal, and that has to be so hard !! he probably goes back and forth for a while and maybe even loses his sense of identity and aklhfakhfgka it's probably so conflicting for him š„ŗĀ
and then fitting that into the plot about his lil son š„ŗ you put it together with such heartache !! such comfort !! you are so so right. i don't even want to add more because it's perfect !!Ā
#changes his perspective on juvenile ambition ā YES#he sees his lil son and remembers all that he wanted to be at that age and his heart STOPS#can't even THINK about his baby boy in ANY situation he was ever thrown into#oh man. maybe he's even like lowkey terrified of what his quirk will be if it manifests#i really think after everything in his life he would look at hero-ing differently#and i dont think he'd want his boy to get caught up in it š„ŗ#āæ ask willow#āæ thoughts: bakugou#āæ theme: ex husband bakugou#cw children
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ā vi. stay | follow
It is an inevitability, she feels, that they are always a little out of step, a little out of sync. One ahead, the other behind, a shadow to the otherās light. Pulled together not by fate nor by destiny, but by a small series of choices that are greater than the sum of its parts. They will always find each otherāto the very end.
#ffxiv#final fantasy 14#ff14#gpose#gposers#warrior of light#thancred waters#wolcred#wolcred week#aureia malathar#oc tag#myreia screenshots#aurcred 2024#ffxiv spoilers#i said i wouldn't go overboard and then i did š#the thing i am constantly rotating in my head is how many times they've gotten close to their friendship turning into something else#and then events just... set everything back to square one#they are ping-ponging around each other for 10 years because something always happens#enw situation is a bit different since it happens relatively quickly compared to the other moments#but aur's head isn't exactly straight in ultima thule#i think that pixie in il mheg is going to drop the apple on thancred's head for being an ass--or just to mess with him#he deserves to be messed with ngl#anyway the order is 1: arr -> arr base finale#2: bloody banquet escape -> reunion in HW patches#3: soul snatchery in SB -> reunion in ShB#4: Ultima Thule š#yes i do realize i keep using thancred's gunblade as a power object what of it#also i put aur in a dress for the bloody banquet and then she doesn't wear dresses again for about 2-3 years because āØtraumaāØ
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yknow when i heard "Arthur Lester killed and ate a guy and enjoyed it" i was picturing him having a fun little barbecue or something, but idk i feel like he had some mitigating circumstances there
#malevolent podcast#arthur lester#malevolent spoilers#yes i heard that before i started the podcast. it's part of what got me to listen to it LOL#i also assumed the āenjoyed itā was about the eating not the killing. which would be a somewhat different situation#anyway rest in peace everyone involved you had a truly terrible time
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my review of she hulk was basically āi actually really like the idea but they just forgot to make the show goodā and tbh i kinda feel that way about agatha in that a lot of the writing line to line feels very bare minimum. but what agatha has going for it that she hulk does not is (1) an actual plot, which means the bare minimum goes further than it did on a show aiming to be marvelās first sitcom and (2) a lead character with an actual personality
#they just forgot to give she hulk a personality other than She.#like yes. ok. you definitely areā¦ a woman. and i suppose a lawyer.#sometimes it felt like watching crazy ex girlfriend if rebecca was normal and had no problems or idiosyncrasies#whichā¦ i feel like when i describe it that way you can see the issue maybe#not as bad though as the wanda situation#it will never stop being funny that wanda plays like a key central pivotal role#in 4!!!! different mcu stories. one of which is a TV show. ABOUT HER.#and not once across that entire time do we ever get a sense of an actual personality#like can anyone name an mcu wanda trait other than ātraumatized i guess?ā and ālikes TVā#āevil except when sheās notā#iād say ārobot fuckerā but in the mcu even that is stripped of interestā¦.#mcu
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hag hut
#animal crossing#animal crossing new horizons#acnh#something different from my recent style yeah?#funny thing is this is similar to my original island concept#ye olde pepperfig#anyway. i LOVE hags!#we're dealing with a hag right now in dnd called the tea keeper#she trades secrets#it's tough because my character does not trust hags and does not like this situation#so i have to act like i'm not thrilled about it haha
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The Longest Promise (2023) | The Untamed (2019)
#the longest promise#the untamed#xiao zhan#cdramaedit#theuntamededit#cdramasource#asiandramanet#userkareena#cdrama#shi ying#wei wuxian#*#*tlp#the longest promise spoilers#SPOILERS SPOILERS#different situations but i like both gremlins came to the rescue#and yes wwx's was very hot and lwj was thinking of how flexible wwx could be#but to be fair to shi ying#he pretty much said yeah i'm marrying her right after this#yes he was already planning on saying it but still#do better lwj
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