#xenolabel

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disclaimer at bottom PLEASE read it

Obsesslovein

Your love is obsessive and all consuming. You might feel as though the only way to describe your sexuality/romantic orientation is as “obsessive”.

This includes acknowledging the harmful aspects of obsessive behavior.

Platonicobsesslovein

Your platonic love is obsessive and all consuming. You might feel as the only way to describe your platonic care/love for people is as “obsessive”.

When you make a friend you may feel as though you’re obsessed with them.

This includes acknowledging harmful aspects of obsessive behavior.

Faultobsesslovein

You identify as obsesslovein and feel guilty, upset, or otherwise bad for having obsessive behavior.

This is NOT romanticization of obsessive behavior. This is NOT related to yandere in ANY WAY. You must acknowledge the negatives of obsessive behavior, and understand that it is not related to yanderes before using this label.

[left image ID: The obsesslovein flag, it has a bright pink, magenta, and light red/pink stripe. In the middle is a heart with darker versions of the colors.]

[middle image ID: The platonicobsesslovein flag, it has a red, pink, and orange stripe. In the middle is a heart with darker versions of the colors.]

[right image ID: The faultobsesslovein flag, it has a purple, light blue, and light purple stripe. In the middle is a heart with darker versions of the colors.]

[anendoandfriendo]

You know what. Fuck this. We made a xenolabel because at this point there's no way there isn't at least one system with an introject/Xive or some person who hasn't seriously thought about this, and they deserve something.

(Also someone in our system suggested this so that too.)

Vanimemic - an identity label related to the vanilla extract meme on Tumblr.

[kneeshrapnel]

cupidogender [a gender which feels related to sin, demons, pride and the deep/extreme understanding of attraction and affection. related to figures such as, but not limited to, cupid and eros of roman and greek mythology.]

related genders and ideas:

-daimogender [a gender which feels related to demons and the supernatural]

-cupidobaonic [a gender which feels lovely and has ties to cupid from roman mythology]

[starboystation]

PLEASE infodump about your husbands I would be so glad to read that

Oh uh!!! Ok!!! 👉🏻👈🏻 I'm just gonna talk about a ton of random headcanons that've been floating around in my head

Ok uh!!! Lgbtq hcs that I've probably mentioned a million times bc they're changing again

Crutchie is pansexual & demisexual!! :]

He's nonbinary and trans, probably uses a few xenogender labels I'm too lazy to pick right now-

He's also a pronoun hoarder!! I've made this joke before, but ask him about his pronouns and he'll start naming them off to the tune of Yakko's World or something (he doesn't like using she/her though, those make him feel really icky)

Use pog/poggers pronouns for xem I dare you he'd get so excited

They usually present pretty masc, sometimes a little more feminine if he feels like it

Crutchy is panromantic and asexual!!

(Yes that means all 3 of us are pan I just project a lot)

He's a demiboy and also uses a bunch of xenolabels I'm too lazy to pick right now (again)

But I think he'd like sungender and plushgender :) yes I'm still projecting

He uses he/him, they/them, she/her, sun/suns, and dey/dem, and 🌈/🌈s pronouns!!

(I guess they wouldn't use 🌈/🌈s in canon era though because they don't really ,, have emojis? I dunno. But when you say them outloud it's just like "rainbow/rainbows" so maybe that could work)

Usually presents masc just because it's what they're used to, but he also loves presenting feminine!! :]

Moving on

Uhhh a few miscellaneous hcs that I adore so much and I would literally cry if they were canon /pos

They're both autistic!!!

Crutchy also has dyslexia and adhd

Crutchie has anxiety, depression, and a lot of trauma

Crutchy probably has some trauma too but it's fairly minor

COMPLETELY UNRELATED TO THAT BUT CRUTCHIE IS CHUBBY. I rest my case

Uhh ok that's all I'll say for now bc I don't wanna b annoying aaa

[plushyteeths]

-> mental health got rlly bad in fourth grade , started therapy + s/h

-> got diagnosed w/ gd in like sixth grade + internalized my mental illnesses

-> truscum phase , need i say more

-> spent five years s/h + four bein fucken miserable

-> finally realized that i'm the one keeping myself stuck

-> started looking into xenolabels + neoprounouns + kin stuff + things i'd avoided before

-> started having more fun with my gender + presentation

-> whaddaya know !!

-> feelin a lot better :}

-> still bind + want top + taking t

-> still dysphoric

-> but i'm not gonna let that be the be all and end all of my expression + experience

Can we put "ACTUAL TRANS PEOPLE" to rest?

I'm seriously done with it.

I have dysphoria, I hated myself, I was anti-nb, I was anti-nondysphorics, I was anti-xenogender, I was truscum garbage, I identified as ftm, I wore baggy and oversized clothes to deal with dysphoria. I wanted and still continue to want, to end my life due to dysphoria.

Fuck "Actual trans people" It's gatekeeper bullshit I won't stand for. Genuinely so tired of seeing that stupid shit.

The most cis-conforming trans person is still trans, therefore still unacceptable.

As an "Actually trans person" fuck off with that.

[myaoiboy]

I just want to point out that you can't claim intellectual property on an identity? Because lately I've seen a lot of people saying "well, I coined this term so you need to give me credit in your posts about it." No? That's not how it works. Especially since a lot of these are terms that were used by other people prior to being "officially" coined by that person, who may or may not claim that it applies to them. You don't get to keep other people's identities as intellectual property because "you coined it."

Likewise if these terms are supposed to be inclusive, linking a bunch of (related or non) identities to one person's blog and saying "ask them whether or not this can apply to you" or saying "this is so-and-so's system/term so nobody else can explain it differently." is really messed up and exclusive to people who actually use it.

There are a lot of other problems with tumblr right now but the number of people claiming that once you "coin" a term it's set-in-stone, unchangeable intellectual property of the "coiner" that can't be used unless you credit them is pretty fucked up.

[just-a-coining-blog]

Femeow

Your gender has a connection to cats and femininity

Your gender is fluffy and anti-social, while also feeling warm and cozy

It might feel feminine in a non-conventional way

Could have a connection to toe beans, Maine coon cats, sweaters, naps in the sun, and dresses

Could also be related to meowing as a stim or just for fun!

[image ID: four stripe flag, with a pale purple, salmon, pink, and orange stripe]

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Exhausfloric

Your gender could be described as both exhausted and flower-like

Your gender could be represented by bluebells and other flowers that droop

Your gender could be related to sleeping flowers*

Your gender could feel like a bee taking a nap in a flower

Your gender has a connection to being tired / exhausted and also liking flowers

* a real flower preserved using frozen technology, these flowers can last for years and will not wither or die

[image ID: a four stripe flag with light purple, dark blue, grey, and purple stripes. The top and bottom stripes are bigger than the middle stripes. One flag has an icon, bluebell flowers, and one does not.]

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Cycleflux / Cyclesexual

Your sexuality feels as though it’s on a cycle. For example, in fall you may have no sexual attraction while in spring you may feel hypersexual. The cycle could be over the entire year, a few months, or any other amount of time.

Your sexuality fluctuates along this cycle, it always follows the same pattern.

It might feel like your sexuality is “scheduled” to be a certain way at a certain time

[image ID: a 6 stripe flag with green, orange, and blue repeating in that order.]

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Dreadgender

Whenever you feel gender there is a strong sense of dread accompanying it.

Your gender may be described as dread or dreadful

Or you might dread feeling your gender.

It could be exhausting as well!

[image ID: a 3 stripe flag, too dark blue, middle dark purple, and bottom dark red. Over the top is a grey face with dropping eyes that have tired lines, and a frown.]

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Winneromantic

When feeling romantic emotions you are overwhelmed with joy, delight, and/or pleasure.

When you experience romantic attraction the main emotions you feel are joy, delight, and/or pleasure.

Romance in general elicits joy, delight, and/or pleasure from you.

[image ID: a 3 stripe flag with bright pink, blush, and light pink. In the middle is a happy face with hearts around it and a hand next to its cheek.]

Etymology

Winne | ✰ | Noun | ✰ | Meaning: Joy; Delight; Pleasure

Middle English

Derived from Old English wynn (“joy, delight, pleasure”)

| ✰ | Proto-West Germanic wunnju

| ✰ | Proto-Germanic wunjō (“joy, desire”)

| ✰ | and Proto-Indo-European wenh- (“to wish, desire, love”).

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Agxndr

A gender that feels connected to masculinity/femininity/androgyny and agender while not fully being connected to any of the above

It feels like being adjacent to agender & masculinity/femininity/androgyny

Example: One may feel masculine and Agender adjacent

Femagxndr

Sub-term of agxndr; feminine & agender adjacent

Mascagxndr

Sub-term of agxndr; masculine & agender adjacent

Neuagxndr / Androagxndr

Sub-term of agxndr; androgynous & agender adjacent, neutral & agender adjacent

No flag yet, might make one later

[just-a-coining-blog]

I have some posts scheduled for next week(ish) (maybe the week after) so here’s my notice that I am in fact alive

I Hope you like the stuff Ive coined, also all of them have flags!!! because I’m cool like that (/j)

And if you ever want, my asks are open so feel free to send in a request or just a nice message :3

[kneeshrapnel]

new xenogender: maomaogender!

for those who have a connection to mao mao from mao mao: heroes of pure heart!

maomaogender uses mao/mao/maos/maoself, pri/pride/prides/prideself, mrr/mrrp/mrrps/mrrpself, and nya/nyan/nyans/nyanself pronouns :3 here’s how to use them ^^

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Fortistick

a gender that feels forced, whether due to societal expectations, trauma, or being unable to find anything else that describes your gender correctly. You might feel like you’re stuck with a gender that you aren’t happy with.

Flag desc;; multiple horizontal stripes in pink, yellow, and blue with 3 black stripes going vertically. There are lines that make it look like the colors are “dripping”/“sticky”

Genderswitched

a gender that feels like it was suddenly switched on you. It might be unstable or difficult to label, it could also come with a feeling of being having to become comfortable with your gender all over again.

Flag desc;; a flag with 2 grey spinning arrows over a background of beige with rainbow gradient circles/lines going around it out from the middle

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First post ig :D

Theoriasexual

Liking sexual acts in theory but not necessarily in practice!

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