#writing is my hobby...? and also my cross to bear

[dollishmehrayan]

BATBOYS TOXIC TRAITS / RED FLAGS + GREEN FLAGS ── .✦

a/n: the thing is, they all aren’t like problematic when it comes to relationships but they do have some things and flaws which when heard sound “oh okay that’s fine” but may be like super annoying in a irl relationship also this was a request by anon (here)! (Tags: batboys x reader)

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DICK GRAYSON ── .✦

RED FLAGS:

Chronic People-Pleaser: Will prioritize everyone’s needs over his own (or yours), leading to burnout… and you having to remind him you exist.

Flirty by Nature: He’s not trying to flirt… it just happens. That waitress? Nope, not on purpose, but yeah, you’ll roll your eyes a lot.

Hero Complex: He always has to “save” people, including you, even when you’re perfectly fine handling it yourself. “I got it, babe.” No, you don’t, Dick.

GREEN FLAGS:

Emotionally Intelligent: He can read your mood like a book and knows exactly how to make you smile (with pancakes shaped like hearts).

Physical Affection Expert: Hugs, cuddles, forehead kisses—you’re basically his personal teddy bear.

Supportive King: He’s your biggest cheerleader, hyping you up in the most genuine, heartfelt ways. “That’s my girl.”

JASON TODD ── .✦

RED FLAGS:

Anger Issues: He’ll throw hands for you at the slightest provocation. Guy looks at you wrong? Jason’s already removing his jacket.

Emotionally Guarded: Good luck getting him to open up. He’s more likely to tell you his deepest fears after you’ve fallen asleep.

Reckless Behavior: He’ll drag you into the most insane situations and act like it’s no big deal. “What do you mean this is dangerous? It’s fine.”

GREEN FLAGS:

Loyal to a Fault: He’ll defend you with his life, no questions asked. “You mess with her, you mess with me.”

Soft Romantic: Beneath the tough exterior, he’s writing you sweet notes and remembering the little things, like how you take your coffee.

Protective (in a good way): He won’t smother you, but he’ll make sure you always feel safe, even if it’s just crossing the street.

TIM DRAKE ── .✦

RED FLAGS:

Workaholic: He’ll forget to eat, sleep, and sometimes text you back because “the case was just getting good!”

Overthinks Everything: Spends hours analyzing your last text to figure out if you were mad or just tired. “Was that period passive-aggressive?”

Terrible Self-Care: You’ll have to force him to drink water and go to bed like a mom with a rebellious child.

GREEN FLAGS:

Incredibly Thoughtful: He remembers every detail about you, from your favorite flower to that obscure hobby you mentioned once.

Adorably Awkward: His shy smiles and fumbling over words when you flirt back are endlessly endearing.

Problem Solver: He’ll find solutions to all your problems, from fixing your computer to making your bad day better with tea and soft music.

DAMIAN WAYNE ── .✦

RED FLAGS:

Insanely Jealous: He glares daggers at anyone who looks at you too long. “Why is he breathing near you?”

Judgmental: He might critique your taste in music, books, or anything else with his usual bluntness. “This… is what you listen to?”

Control Freak: He likes things done a certain way and will try to “help” you by micromanaging your life.

GREEN FLAGS:

Devoted Partner: Once he’s in, he’s all in. You’ll never doubt his commitment because he’s always showing up for you.

Loyal Beyond Measure: He’ll defend your honor to anyone, even Bruce. “She’s perfect, Father. You simply lack taste.”

Surprisingly Gentle: Despite his tough exterior, he has a soft side that only you get to see, like the way he pets animals—or you—so tenderly.

BRUCE WAYNE ── .✦

RED FLAGS:

Emotionally Repressed: He’s basically a human brick wall when it comes to expressing his feelings. “I’m… fine.” No, Bruce, you’re not.

Work Comes First: He’ll disappear into the Batcave for days unless you drag him out by the cape which becomes quickly annoying.

Overprotective: He’ll want to track your every move, not because he doesn’t trust you, but because he worries too much. “It’s for your safety.”

GREEN FLAGS:

Quietly Romantic: He may not be overly expressive, but he’ll show love through subtle gestures—like a bouquet of your favorite flowers left on the table.

Ultimate Provider: He makes sure you never want for anything, whether it’s emotional support or physical comfort.

Unshakable Devotion: Once you’ve captured his heart, he’s yours forever. There’s no halfway with Bruce—he’s in it for the long haul.

[ghostyypawzz]

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“all alone in my bedroom with the lights turned down and my roommate gone”

“i know it’s over, still i cling on.”

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[cursecuelebre]

All about me!

I just feel like it’s time to put a little post about me!

My name is Ashlyn and I’m from New England America, my pronouns are She/Her ~ Age is 22 - I am bisexual ~ Neurodivergent

I’m a pagan and a witch based upon my ancestry, Hellenic polytheism and Norse/Germanic paganism and witchcraft.

I’m mostly started out as a tarot reader then became a witch and a pagan, I practice mostly folk magic and Ancestral Magic. Right now trying to find a traditional magic practice. I do a lot of knot magic and needle work presently.

My guardian animal: I don’t know if that’s the correct term but Bears 🐻, I always had dreams/nightmares about bears since I was little and when I did a tarot reading on what my familiar spirit is the bear came up.

Why I started this blog?

I guess the main reasons to keep a digital record of my experiences, thoughts, lessons, etc. to share my experiences so I thought maybe it can help people find what they are looking for and learn about it. Also a chance for me to learn about other people’s perspectives and ideas. I’m always open to learn more and share more information the best I can.

Also I like to swear in my blogs because I like to, I don’t do it excessively but it’s prevalent if you aren’t comfortable with it.

My hobbies!

I read a lot. Not just one subject, Fantasy, Fiction, Historical fiction, Non-Fiction, and Classics. I might post some book reviews and recommendations on this blog. My favorite book is LOTR it’s my cozy and feel good book, Tolkien also had a lot of pagan inspiration for his stories.

I also write! Short stories to writing long stories about whatever comes to mind. I write fantasy and historical fiction, but also horror and thriller. At times I write poetry. Sometimes when I’m bored use my tarot for a creative writing project.

I like to do crafts. Especially when it comes to paganism and witchcraft. I sew and embroidered poppets, sigils, or symbols. I wouldn’t say I’m neat with a thread and needle but I get the job done.

Video Games I love Halo, Skyrim, Fallout, AC Valhalla and Odyssey, Animal Crossing, Red Dead Redemption.

Hiking and Foraging in nature

Witchcraft and Tarot cards (obviously)

My Likes!

Season: Autumn

Holiday: Yule/Saturnalia

Music: Anything that sounds good to me: Right now Opera is my most listen to. From Opera to Oldies to Folk music to Heavy Metal to Pop songs. R&B is a guilty pleasure of mine and a couple of rappers and hiphop artists. So again I kinda like everything.

Animals: I love cats I have three of my own, Rabbits, Squirrels, Deer, Horses, Bears, Ravens. I like any animals but those I wanna say are my top ones 😂

Insects: don’t necessarily like them but spiders and moths are pretty neat, but Honeybees or bees in general are my favorite they’re quite special to me. Hopefully one day I start beekeeping.

TV Shows: Penny Dreadful was amazing if you like dark horror, witchcraft, in a Victorian setting that incorporates a lot of classic horror stories like Frankenstein and Dracula highly recommended it with Eva Green and Helen McCoy. I don’t have a favorite movies or tv shows definitely but Legion, LOTR, Immortals, Harry Potter movies, the show Vikings. Are great and anything like it just 🤌

ASMR/Meditation ambiences

Smell of burning wood

Tarot cards and reading and finding anything that I can do with them that is new

[tarakanpaintedpurple]

Getting to know your moots

Tagged by @prince--esque so now its your cross to bear >:)

•What's the origin of your blogs title?

Tarakan means cockroach in my native language, as well as shares the first two letters with my irl name. Sadly, just „tarakan“ handle was taken, so i colored the thing purple.

•Favorite fandoms

Although i post and talk exclusively about Destiny 2, i used to be a very active fan in most of the fandoms of 2010‘s (yes im old back off), so Undertale, Vocaloids, small bits of FNaF, TMNT, musicals (Hamilton and The Guy who didn’t like musicals mainly), animation memes community and Marvel at its prime. After 2020 the only fandom i remember being in is Arcana. I also like Ultrakill, but know very little about it lol

•OTPs+Ship name

Aside from canon ones i dont really have any solid ships. I do think some characters (Elsie and Shaxx) would look cute together, but to call them a ship would be an overkill imo. Basically ship the characters you like with the other characters you like, mix and match babey :]

•Favourite colours

Lilac, sky blue, yellowish orange and navy green

•Favourite game

From the ones that i play/played, Undertale, Katana zero, Stray, Streets of rage 4, Disco Elysium and Destiny 2 hold a special place in my heart.

•Weirdest habit/trait

Striking random ballet starting positions, minus the arms. Be careful with dance classes, kids.

•Hobbies

Aside from drawing and gaming, i sew with cross stitch, bike, try to stay alive during pilates and do jigsaw puzzles.

•Something you're good at

Drawing line by line(???). Can’t remember what my art teacher called it in school, basically instead of trying to replicate the 3D object using shapes or tracing an image, you look at the outline of the subject and draw it line by line. Helps when you’re learning to draw something for the first time. With that being said, been told that my art looks traced by my art professors, so tread carefully lol

•Something you're bad at

Expressing myself with words. Always either over explain or dont say enough.

•Something you excel at

Badminton, wanna 1v1?

•Something you love

Winter, it associates with a lot of positive things for me, like my partner’s bd and first time meeting my friend. Also snow, love the snow.

•Something you could talk about for hours without off the cuff

Conspiracy theories >:)

•Something you hate

Lack of empathy/understanding. Like dude, we have limited time in this world, and you decide the best way to spend your days is to make others miserable?

•Something you collect

Unique bus/train/subway tickets, my most prized possession as of now is a metro ticket from Kazan that looks like a coin :]

•Something you forget

A lot of things, im incredibly forgetful. There’s a possibility that there’s a forgotten cup of cold tea standing, waiting for me, as im writing this.

•What's your love language

Physical touch and words of affirmation. You’re awesome, squeeze my hand

•Favorite movie/show

Men in black (don’t laugh), Good Omens and Gravity Falls

•Favorite food

My mom’s tiramisu, my partner’s chicken curry and dumplings. And sushi, but everybody likes sushi.

•Favorite animal

Seals, polar owls, pigeons and bunnies. Perfect mix of aerodynamic and cute

•Favorite subject in school

Art class when we got to draw stuff and computer science. I also liked literature.

•Least favourite subject

History and sewing, because the teachers were just awful

•What's your best character trait?

Рeople’ve told me that my jokes and support help them immensely, so i guess im an excellent jester ‘,:)

•If you could change any detail of your day right now, what would it be?

No aching back, otherwise im doing great.

•If you could travel in time, who would you like to meet?

My grandma in her youth, she’s an amazing lady and i wish i could meet her before the time got to her. Also, Little Ceasar’s CEO

•Recommend one of your favorite fanfics

Not a fanfic reader, sadly. Buuut i did like @makoredeyes ‘s amazing work: https://archiveofourown.org/works/58466131/chapters/148934281

Also, no pressure mentions: @valdakon @perianth-nixie @makoredeyes @phoenixichi @cannyparagon

[benevolentbirdgal]

I am writing a Jewish teenage boy who has a close relationship with his mother, but I've also read that there is a Jewish stereotype of mothers being overbearing and their children not fighting back. How can I not fall into this stereotype while also portraying my character and his mom being very close?

Hi, thanks for asking! And hype that you're writing about Jews - a virtual bagel for you!

As is often the case when I answer these sort of asks, I can better answer the more specific you are (i.e. if you have particulars of the character or a specific scene feel free to follow up via ask or message), but am happy to offer general tips and invite other Jews to comment:

Make their relationship more fleshed out in general, don't have the dynamic of an overbearing mother in isolation. They could have activities they do together, whether those hobbies are Jewish or not. Maybe they go see baseball or bake for Shabbat together. Maybe they go visit their relatives and have disagreements about those dynamics. The specifics I'm listing aren't the important part - I just mean to have them have a larger relationship beyond potential arguments or pushiness. And ideally one that incorporates Jewishness in some positive way.

Have the son argue back! Not (necessarily) in a disrespectful way, but in a way the mother respects and that is congruent with how Jews understand argument. Jewish culture understands skillful arguing as a emotionally and intellectually intimate process, not necessarily at angry odds with one another. (Not all arguing is skillful, especially from teenagers, but if you want a fight you shouldn't have the son being a pushover-Jewish-man-stereotype or the mom a pushy-Jewish-woman-stereotype).

Make him have healthy relationships with other women (sisters, friends, cousins, etc.) so it's not "and the only woman this Jewish boy talks to is his mama" and the weirdness that would imply.

Make the mom's concern valid or understandable if they're arguing about something (which makes for stronger writing generally, IMO, for motives to be contextually understandable and not just because that character or category of character is Just Like That). Even if she's wrong, the story should understand why she's pushing about whatever it is. This doesn't have to be super high stakes - it could be something like Son wants to try new recipe and Mom pushes back - it's a great recipe, but the conflict is the difficulty in getting kosher gelatin or whatever. (Again, just an example - the point is to make whatever the mom is pushing contextually understandable, not just "Jewish woman/mom = relentlessly pushy").

As I often advocate, not writing "child ESCAPES the CLUTCHES of traditional Jewish practice to LIVE a HAPPY and FULFILLED life of CULTURALLY XTIAN ATHEISM and Jewish community/parent/whatever is DEVASTED because they are OLD-FASHIONED and WRONG" type of stories. I have no indication or belief this is your plan, but always good to bear in mind that tradition (including religious tradition and related culture) isn't always some terrible cross menorah(?) to bear that elders are insisting upon. If you're not Jewish, I don't think it's likely to be productive to attempt "leaving Judaism and now I'm happy totes assimilated" stories. As this relates specifically to Jewish mothers, I would tread lightly on "she's inflicting Judaism on her son" type of content if you aren't of the community yourself. "Sharing joy of thing with son" is much less likely to get awkward or out of your depth.

Another general tip that's a hill of mine: decide what you want this Jewish family's type(s) of Jewishness to be. You don't need to infodump this all to your reader, but you'll be able to craft more believable dynamics that are less likely to bang into stereotypes if /you/ know what their deal is, Jewishly. I hope this is helpful - feel free to follow up and good luck writing!

[angelmush]

hi molly, you inspire me so much, thank you for being you. im about to move to a new city by myself for the first time and im scared. how did you build your life into one you loved? how do i meet people? i want so many things but sometimes they seem so far out of reach!! anyway, wishing you well and it always makes me happy to come visit your page and see you living life so fully :)

hello sweet anon!! sorry i am just getting to this, i was out of town for a few days and have been pretty offline in general lately. to be honest, i feel really really really underqualified to answer any questions about meeting people and making friends, as it is something that has never come easily to me, but i will do my best because i am SO excited for you!! moving somewhere new can be really healing!! i also want to gently remind you that social media-- even tumbr --is a highlight reel.

building my life into one i loved.

i think it's a few things.

it's a skill to find excitement about small things. delicious meals, nice weather, cute animals. being intentional about noticing and allowing yourself to feel excited about the little stuff does some kind of magic in your brain, and in appreciating your life in general. i am not naturally gifted at this whatsoever, but it's a muscle that takes practice to build, like anything.

i also dedicate a LOT of my free time to hobbies. right now it's mostly knitting, but often it's cooking and training my dog as well. watching movies and talking about them with people. spending time decorating the house. i'm very very very much a homebody, often to my detriment. it is monumentally difficult for me to take the first steps to leave the house to do things, even fun things, but once i do i am almost always better for it.

one sort of silly way i have helped to mitigate this, is that my girlfriend and i have started making seasonal bucket lists and magnetizing them onto our fridge. it turns it into sort of a game i guess, and it makes me feel accomplished to cross things off. we did really really well with ours this summer! we have three sections, small things (make smoothies, try a new dinner recipe, make a playlist), medium things (take the dog to the lake, see a movie in the theater, have drinks on a patio), and large things (go camping, go to pride, celebrate my birthday), etc. we just made our fall/winter one and i'm already sooooo excited for it!! it helped me to have a reason to leave the house while we were still getting our bearings in this new city.

i also have limited my social media time more recently on all apps except tumblr and pinterest to 15 minutes per day total. this helps me feel so much less frantic and it's easier for me to stay present than it used to be.

i also started taking medication! it's been a really big piece of the puzzle for me, personally. it helps my baseline be significantly more resilient and regulated and stable. it isn't a singular fix, but it opens up more space for that joy.

as far as meeting people goes, i will let you know when i figure it out LOL. im someone that needs a lot of quiet alone time to function and so i spend a lot of time with myself. i am still learning how to make the bridge from casual friends to a deeper and more meaningful friendship with the people ive met since moving here last august, and it's been a very clumsy imperfect process.

i'm sure this probably wasn't all that helpful haha it felt disjointed to write, and like i said, i am severely underqualified to give advice on this topic. but these are a handful of things i think have helped me in the last year, so hopefully there's something you can take from it!! wishing you all the luck and joy and wonder on your endeavors!! you can send me an ask anytime!! <33

[random-writer-online]

All About Me! ˆ𐃷ˆ

⊱  ۫ ׅ ✧ All About Myself ⊱  ۫ ׅ ✧

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⭑.ᐟ⤷ Who are you? 

۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ My online name is Kokorimu, but you can call me Koko! I have different nicknames for my close friends, but that’s a secret (˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ✧ I created this Tumblr blog a few days ago (March 15, 2025) so I’m a newborn at this type of stuff…

⭑.ᐟ⤷ Hobbies, Favorite things, etc?

۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ My hobbies are really small, as all I can think of that I really do is writing prompts, head-canons, Drawing small doodles and not coloring them, cooking is another hobby that I don’t really do daily but try to do once and a while! I also like to play video games and board games, I love reading both books and fan-fiction. Drawing fashion pieces is what I like to do when I’m bored in school too.  ૮꒰⸝⸝>  ̫ <⸝⸝꒱ა ۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ Favorite foods has to be any type of pasta for me, or danish desserts (I’m a sucker for those!). ۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ Favorite games will be Sally Face, Animal Crossing, and Nuclear Day! (also more but I can't remember any lol) ۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ Favorite shows/movies/series is Hannibal, Wednesday, Hunger Games, Deadpool, Totally Killer, Time Cut, Freaky, Alien: Romulus, The Monkey, and probably others that I can’t remember. 

⭑.ᐟ⤷ What fandoms are you in?

۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ I’m not in a lot of fandoms, But here’s a short list!~

Sally Face

Supernatural

DCU 

Danny Phantom

Camp Camp

DreamSmp (only person I watch is ConnorEatsPants and Jack Manifold, please I am NOT toxic I swear (๑•́ -•̀)

Good Omens

Genshin Impact

Merlin

Marvel

Harry Potter

LEGO Ninjago 

Hannibal

Venom

Squid Game

The Maze Runner

Iron Trials

Total Drama Island

Percy Jackson and the Olympians

Mean Girls

⭑.ᐟ⤷ Dislikes?

۶ৎ⋆˚࿔Types of people: Two-face, People who are transphobic, homophobic, etc. Religion haters, Mean people. ⌇⤷ Side Note⌇⤷ If you cannot support homosexuals because of your religion, that is totally fine! just please don’t outright hate on them/make mean comments about them… ( ˶°ㅁ°) !! ۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ Types of food: Broccoli, thick carrots, anything soggy or that has a wet texture, rice noodles, pineapple on pizza, blue cheese, OLIVES, any licorice, gummy bears, Brussel sprouts, raw pickles, tomatoes. ⌇⤷ Side Note⌇⤷ I hate these because some of them make me physically gag whenever I try to take a nibble. Brussel sprouts? I have to clog my nose because of ‘em. It’s also a texture thing like tomatoes and rice noodles… Gummy bears I think is just because of how they taste, I like gummies but certain ones like Haribos just– no.  ۶ৎ⋆˚࿔ Other: I hate presenting for anything. I get social anxiety from that cause like what if i'm too quiet or if my voice sounds weird?? like I’ll do a project but you cannot make me present unless I’m in a group. 

⟢ about my blog is over here; ABOUT-ME with about myself also in there. ˆᗜˆ

[saintsaensreads]

Oh dear! Oh dear! I shall be too late!

This year, maybe more than any other before, I've been plagued with a reading curse : a curse of DNFing books. Not out of boredom or dislike, maybe the exact opposite : a too passionate approach.

This year has been a year of many first in various aspects of my life. One of which less enjoyable than others : my health has taken a toll (which, fingers crossed, will not bear any physical consequences) but which for sure left me with quite a shaken spirit.

One of the effects of said shaken spirit was a feeling of general instability. While, at the same time, I was quite sure to have left behind most of the instability I had lived through until this year... Well, life never goes as planned it seems. Unfortunately, both my physical state and this now infamous feeling of looming instability left me reeling, and I found myself properly unable to finish books which I enjoyed a lot. It sounds strange, believe me it is even stranger to go through it !

The victims of my DNFing :

[Covers of : The Books of Jacob - Olga Tokarczuk (english edition) ; L'Arte della Gioia, Goliarda Sapienza (italian edition) ; Histoire d'un ruisseau, Histoire d'une montagne, Elisée Reclus (french edition)]

These books were fascinating for me, for different reasons :

The Books of Jacob explored a narrative style, as well as a subject and a place throughout centuries I know next to nothing about.

L'Arte della Gioia offered a uniquely endearing story, coupled with a writing style which left me breathless, while also challenging my understanding of italian in a literary setting.

Histoire d'un ruisseau, Histoire d'une montagne might be the odd one out : I would take this book, which is both a study in political ideas and geology, with me while going on hikes. I wanted to observe and be in a similar environment as the one studied there. Obviously, my health being what it is, I didn't hike nor walk as much as I had hoped for.

These books, varied as they are, were so fascinating that I gave it my whole energy when I read them. I would settle, start a sentence, think it over because of how beautiful or thoughtful it was, start dissecting it (as one can do when one is a former literature student...)... and then two chapters in, the energy is out of the window, because life is not un long fleuve tranquille, and I'd find myself at a loss on what to do when my mind cannot focus anymore as much as I would like it to. What a conundrum.

I'm not loosing hope I'll ever be able to read those books entirely at some point (maybe next year even!), but what I can take out of this year is that I might need to stop pushing myself too much.

It's easy, in a way, to feel pressured to read books quickly in our current society. Even more so when there are so many great books that seem to be waiting at your fingertips. And wen book content is being published by single readers at an unfathomable speed, content creators who talk about books are showing off monthly TBRs so high it might swallow them whole if they fall on their heads... How can you remain distant and unaffected ? The answer is quite simple : you can't. So you want to read. You want to read a lot. More. Always more.

And with such an environment, it's just as quickly guilt-tripping to know you enjoy books, to know you are able to enjoy books, but to physically or mentally be unable to read or to stick to a story. I have been through this so many times this year, it's mentally exhausting.

Now, while I had tried this year to work on finding a healthier balance in my work life, I now also hope to find a healthier balance in my hobbies, of which includes reading.

I love reading, but I don't want to feel pressured into reading. I also don't want to spend my free time only reading as a consequence (which happened sometimes, because I felt urged to finish books...for no reasons at all). I have a lot of hobbies besides reading that I which I could dedicate time to : writing first and foremost, but also (as you might have noticed) knitting and embroidery, learning languages... there are so many creatives outlets I wish I could focus on !

But most importantly now, I want to be able to enjoy the books I'm reading without depleting what little energy I have. I want to have a healthier relationship with my hobbies. And while before I was afraid of loosing time by not being in a good enough physical state, I want to take care of myself so that, when I have the energy, I can fully enjoy the hobbies I set for myself. Reading is about learning, discovering, emphasizing. It takes even a lot more out of you, if you try to get out of your comfort reads : changing genre, styles, periods or languages... there is no shame in that. And there is certainly no shame in needing time.

In the end, I DNFed these lovely books out of self-preservation, to go on with a lighter mood and find a better balance in my reading life. Hopefully, in a few months, I can come back to them in a calmer mind and a calmer environment, where I'll be able to dive without fear into their stories to discover them fully, enjoy them fully... and share them with you as much I as I like !

[paula-in-dreamland]

Get to know your mutuals!

Thank you for tagging me @bilbotargaryen and @ladyaldhelm :)))))

What's the origin of your blog title? Just felt like it summed up what this blog is as a multifandom blog? Aka my escape/dreamworld/delulu fantasy realm ?? I changed it to this sometime in High School about 10 years ago (I think lol; I just know it has been A LONG TIME), and it just...stuck. Haven't changed it since. And now, I can't remember ANY of my old/OG blog titles.

OTP(s) + Shipname: Sigtryggr x Stiorra (Imma make a poll to decide on an official name soon), Rosalie and Emmett (Rosemmett), Anakin x Padme (Anidala) are arguably the ones I hold in the highest regard. But I also am a ship whore so I have like forty bagillion that you'll see pop up.

Favorite colour: Mostly just pink - especially like bubblegum or pale pink. However, I also like light pastels/"baby" colors in general.

Favorite game: Any game that I can DESTROY my older brother in during 2player mode. But I also am a huge fan of like social simulation games [Sims, Animal Crossing] and like the business simulation games [ie ZooTycoon]. Idk if I have a favorite.

Song stuck in your head: Sports Car - Tate McCrae (we can uh-uh in it specifically) // Abracadabra - Lady Gaga (the chorus lmao)

Weirdest habit/trait? Hyperfixating on characters to an obsessive level ?? But I'm also trying to ~unlearn~ the idea of fangirling being cringe/weird and instead trying to embrace it (and really try to to unlearn anything being weird/strange because it is really all about perspective; your weird is another person's normal)

Hobbies: Writing, Cooking, Fangirling. I'd love to get back into dancing/performing, vidding, and photography/cinematography.

If you work, what's your profession? Not currently working.

If you could have any job you wish, what would it be? Realistically? I am hoping to publish some original fiction. Just gotta find time outside of my fanfic writing to do it LOL.

Something you're good at: Caregiving (for children specifically)

Something you're bad at: Socializing (lol SAMESIES; I prefer my internet friends, husband, and child)

Something you love: my child and husband and dog; my tumblr mutuals

Something you could talk about for hours off the cuff: Probably child development?

Something you hate: nutella

Something you collect: Stuffed animals. Fictional characters. Books [Yeah I'm qualifying books]

Something you forget: Words. Grammar. Social practices. To tell people things.

What's your love language? I think it was gift giving and maybe quality time?

Favorite movie/show: Current favorite is probably TLK for show..... A Cinderella Story is my go-to for movie.

Favorite food: There are so many??? But perhaps my family's meatball recipe.

Favorite animal: Dog, penguins, bears....If it's cute I like it.

What were you like as a child? Dramatic, bubbly, sweet, curious.

Favourite subject at school? Biology, math, dance. At one point, Latin/Spanish.

Least favourite subject: Tie of History and English...More so English.

What's your best character trait? My empathy.

What's your worst character trait? My judgement / competitive nature

If you could change any detail of your life right now, what would it be? Finances and house.

If you could travel in time, who would you like to meet? Carrie Fisher. Jason David Frank. Aaron Carter. Heath Ledger. Brittany Murphy.

No pressure tags:

@azriona @holy3cake @whitedarkmoonflower @chman90 + anyone else I'm forgetting

[louisthiccsexyglitteryass]

Intro Post

I'll make this better maybe

Stuff under the cut

Name: Rocky

Pronouns: He/They/It (use equally)

Age: 18+ (my blog is for everyone, but my actual age is 18+, as long as they have some sense), my birthday is 6th January

Sexuality: Queer + Acespec

Gender Identity: Transmasc Non-binary (gender is a construct and my construct doesn't include female)

Fandoms: 1D, Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss, MCU (especially Deadpool), David Tennant (especially GO, no I don't support NG don't come for me), The Marauders (vehemently anti JKR), other random little books and shows and games, feel free to ask!

Music: 1D + Solos, MCR, random soundtracks, Queen, Yungblud, Olivia Rodrigo, Chappel Roan, 5SOS, Arctic Monkeys, The Academic, McFly, Sabrina Carpenter

Books: The Secret History, The Picture of Dorian Gray, RWRB, AGGGTM, Vox, The Handmaid's Tale, Frankenstein, Good Omens, Deadpool comics (more I can't remember)

Movies: Legally Blonde, Spirted (2022), Beetlejuice, What We Do In The Shadows, RWRB

TV: Ghosts, What We Do In The Shadows, Glee, The Young Offenders, Gilmore Girls, Henry Danger, Jessica Jones, There She Goes, How I Met Your Mother, Gavin & Stacey (other stuff I can't remember)

Games: Animal Crossing New Horizons, Stardew Valley, Spyro Reignited Trilogy, Hades

Hobbies: Writing, Crotcheting, Knitting, Drawing, Sewing

My Tags:

- "rocky's oc's;" = stuff about my oc's (followed by "_______ core")

- "rocky's oc lore" = also stuff about my oc's

- "rocky's oc original posts" = my original posts about my ocs

- "rocky's rambles" = my silly original posts

- "rocky's asks" = my asks

- "rocky learns digital art" = my attempts at learning digital art

- "rocky's fic" = my fic (please bear in mind this is a newer tag and everything else is severly disorganized)

Links:

Fic Masterlist

Hazbin Hotel Fic Masterlist

Hades Game Fic Masterlist

Socials:

- Discord/Bluesky: louisthiccsexyglitteryass

- Ao3: LouisThiccSexyGlitteryAss

- Sideblog (mostly unused icl): @badmove-justactnormal

[softguarnere]

Fic Writer Interview

Thank you for the tag @mercurygray!

How many works do you have on AO3?

Currently 6, but hopefully that number will go up over spring break

What's your total AO3 word count?

119,136

What are your top 5 fics by kudos?

Like A Girl (Like A Man) - Band of Brothers

Just A Kid - The Outsiders

Bear The Burden Alone - The Chronicles of Narnia

For Whatever We Lose - Band of Brothers

Do you respond to comments? Why or why not?

Yes, absolutely! I share my writing because it allows me to connect with people who share my interests. If I'm not posting replies, it feels more like a one sided conversation, imo. Also, it seems the polite thing to do

What's the fic you've written with the angstiest ending?

It's about to be Like A Girl (Like A Man)! You'll see why soon >:)

What the fic you've written with the happiest ending?

On AO3, it's probably Bear The Burden Alone, but I try to keep the fics that I post here on Tumblr kinda upbeat with hopeful -- albeit open-ended -- endings.

Do you write crossovers?

Yeah! For Whatever We Lose is actually a crossover with The Pacific, and I'd love to do more crossovers in the future

Have you ever received hate on a fic?

Yep! I've deleted the comments, but some people were VERY ANGRY about the background Babe/Roe content in LAGLAM -- you know, despite the fact that the plot of the fic is driven by a queer woman's decision to cross-dress. Guess they had to draw the line somewhere, but the hypocrisy of it all makes me chuckle

Do you write smut? If so, what kind?

Kinda? I deleted most of it from the original LAGLAM drafts and instead just alluded to it, but things are going to be different in FWWL. Get ready for crappy ocean metaphors and religious imagery, babes!

Have you ever had a fic stolen?

I hope not :( That would stink

Have you ever had a fic translated?

Not to my knowledge

Have you ever co-written a fic before?

No, but I think it would be fun!

What's your all-time favorite ship?

Everlark! (said while frothing at the mouth because they make me go insane) I've been obsessed with them since I first read The Hunger Games at age 9. I could write you a whole novel about why I think they're perfect together, but I'll spare you the ramble (unless anyone wants it?)

What's a WIP that you want to finish but don't think you ever will?

Tears in my eyes when I tell you that it's probably the requests in my inbox. I keep telling myself that I'll get to them, but I've just felt unmotivated with all the stuff I've had going on in my personal life/at school. I really really do hope to get to them someday, though, because some of them will be really fun to write

What are your writing strengths?

I have no clue, lol. I tend to get compliments about how I describe settings, so I'm gonna say that!

What are your writing weaknesses?

My abuse of commas and italics.

What are your thoughts on writing dialogue in other languages in a fic?

Personally, I love doing it. Especially in a fic like LAGLAM, where even though most people don't speak the language I'm using (Cherokee), I feel like they can still see the importance to the characters and to the story. And I like tricking people into caring about Indigenous language preservation. My teachers told me that anything can be a vessel for carrying language on, and by God, I took that to heart

What was the first fandom you wrote for?

Oh boy. I was in the fifth grade. I had won many writing competitions. Two classmates approached me and told me that they wished The Hunger Games had more post-Mockingjay Everlark content, and that since I was a good writer, they wanted me to write it. I was traded many cosmic brownies and other such snacks throughout the year for my services in providing my classmates with Everlark fics on pages of notebook paper that are probably crumpled up in a landfill by now. At the time, I had no idea I was writing fanfiction, but it was the start of my favorite hobby. Look at me now, baby!

What's a fandom/ship you haven't written for yet but want to?

I've always wanted to write for TURN: Washington's Spies but have never had the courage haha

What's your favorite fic you've written?

I have a couple of one-shots that I'm pretty pleased with, but currently I'm going to say LAGLAM because it's been so special to me <3

Tagging (but no pressure!): @almost-a-class-act @latibvles @footprintsinthesxnd @liebgotts-lovergirl

[ghost-recs]

hey :) it's very cool that you're making such organized rec lists! you probably don't mean any harm by this but is rating them necessary? by recommending them you are already telling people that you like them, and saying what you enjoyed about them is also great!

but rating fics on a scale from 1-10 and putting your opinions into the general tags/ tagging directly so that the writers that- i'm guessing largely did not ask for your criticism- are very likely to see it creates an uncomfortable atmosphere

i know that at least for me i would not enjoy being putting next to other authors like this, and having a rating put on a fic that i worked hard on and that is therefore probably very dear to me would feel discouraging. many authors on your lists also explicitly state that they are not looking for criticism on a hobby they want to simply enjoy

again, i assume that you mean absolutely no harm and simply want to help others find fics they might enjoy, but this luckily isn't school, we can simply enjoy things without having to grade them

this divide in fandom, where artist are treated like 'content creators' and readers as the 'consumers' is a larger issue that way too often causes artist to lose their joy in being active in fandom.

fan art should be about community, after all we're all just some people with a shared love for our favourite characters

so please, let's share and support the fan fiction ( and fan art in general) we enjoy in a way that doesn't feel like a product review

Hey! :) I just wanted to address this before it becomes something that I never intended/wanted it to become.

In no way, shape, or form am I trying to offend or criticize anyone when I recommend works. My “ghost ratings” are purely my personal preference out of my favorite fics. It is an easier way for me to organize my lists based solely on my personal taste and preferences. The ratings are not meant to be a grading system. They don’t measure the quality, quantity, or even the content of the works. What they show are simply which ones I preferred over others.

I will admit that choosing to add my own personal rating is to let others know which fics were my favorite. But first and foremost the entire point of making these lists is to share the love of these works. I enjoy adding the ratings just to show personal preference. After all, everyone has pieces of writing, fics, or fan art that they prefer over other ones. It’s fun to gush a little extra over the works that you most enjoy!

Again though, it is not meant to be a critique. I am not trying to offer advice or pretend that I could do better. It never crossed my mind that someone would view these recs as a “product review,” and that is my own fault for not thinking it through from that perspective. I don’t view these artists and writers as “content creators” and the readers as “consumers.” We ARE just one community! :)

That all being said, I am deeply sorry if I have offended anyone or crossed a line. I never meant to do that and truly just want to share fics that I enjoy with others. To any writers, artists, and readers that I’ve offended with my ratings, I apologize and I hope you will forgive me.

I have decided that my ratings are not worth the risk of possibly discouraging others. It would break my heart if I knew my recommendations were doing that to others. I will be taking down all my ratings and will not be adding more to any future recs.

Anon thank you for discussing this with me in a kind and helpful manner. And for not assuming that I’m trying to be a jerk and tear others down.

I love you all! I love all of you artists and the love for the fandom that we share! Thank you for bearing with me, and have a great day/night!🫶🏻

[pvnktimez]

Introducing...

Punk Times! My name is PK Penhasi and this is the free online hub for the culture zine I started with some of my friends in Olympia, Washington and is moving on to be based out of San Diego for the time being. Eventually, I hope to see it crossing state borders all over the Imperial core of the USA. This zine is evolving with each new issue as new collaborators come on and new ideas spring forth from the void in my head that some call a brain.

Self-published and printed for free at the library, I began this zine to keep my writing skills sharp after 4 years of college and no career prospects in mind. Specifically, a multi-genre zine seemed perfect for my many hobbies including literature, poetry, games, comics, journalism, and short prose. In addition, I want this to be a space that unites people, where your voice can be heard and perspectives shared without censorship or 450 character counts. Deep dives into culture, introspection, spirituality, philosophy, and fart jokes are the norm here!

In a world where social media algorithms seem to expand our connection with the world at large, they also are amazing at limiting what circles we actually get to bear witness too in echo chambers of similar post types. My desire is for this zine to throw new ideas into the hands of people as we share in common culture underneath the mainstream.

Stay tuned as this page unravels into chaos as I release smaller quibbles, unpublished articles, random opinion pieces, and scans of the published zine as issues roll out in time <3

[rrking]

He's Just Too Busy

Never was a poet tbh but right now my brain hurts

From the longing stares to the long letters I write most nights... I don't care that my sleep is now in nonexistence.

I ought to care that my interpersonal relationships are breaking down around me in the real world... But I don't.

That my mind is in tatters and all I can natter about is the man behind the mask I perceive as true love.

I don't care that I sleep through the day and shine brightly when it's dim, because it's all for a good cause, I tell myself.

It'll pay off in the future, because it's for him.

Except... One teeny tiny detail.

Not that of his fame or fawning hoardes of women,

The fact he doesn't know I exist or maybe I'm just another 'fan'.

If it's not me... it's that he's just busy.

That's okay, I think. I would learn to cope.

We would talk over text about things that are normal.

Sport, weather, work, family, hobbies, random shit... I've no desire to discuss with him work if he doesn't want to - because I don't want a working relationship.

I want to be the person who he comes to in order to decompress. That person he feels so comfortable with in person, spending time with me isn't such a stress.

Oh, how I want him to love me... How I yearn to be loved by someone, I mean... But that's all muddled up in the crossed wires between.

How I long to be held in his arms, and fall for his infectious silliness.

That's just one of his charms, I suppose. From the clown-like, asymmetric grin to the dorky air about him, the way I've taken to feeling is so unfair and so fucking grim.

Because if it's not me, you see... It's because he's busy.

It's not like a stand a chance anyway, though I do often wonder if he would feel the same.

Would our lives intertwine, or would they fall apart, lame?

I know he isn't playing me, but he's playing my heart.

He's playing himself, also. Shouldn't he be indifferent and he fall so...

Deeply?

With the latter, I say: He's just busy. I tell myself he's just busy. Don't be so gruff.

I'm not good enough. The lonely thoughts hit.

Would he be into me?

From the spontaneous visits across the other side of the world with but a moment left behind, to the complete lack of respect for the NDA he signed - would that man care as long as it's something else we get to talk about?

Or does it cease to be like that? More mature and serious? I like that thought.

Cute thoughts and heartfelt apologies when our plans have fallen through, once again, of course.

"It's alright," I say, but he would insist.

"You deserve so much better than what I can give to you, dearest."

He's just busy. He's just busy. My head's just busy.

When he's gone for months at a time and I'm at the Universe's mercy, it might be another woman's face that I see... But I'd never tell him such insecurities. I would never misuse his fragile heart.

Not for clout and never for art.

Because he's busy, remember? It's not that he doesn't care.

Even when I'm left in the dust with nothing but cobwebs to bear. Always in someone else's shadow... I'm beginning to think I belong here.

Loveless and lonely - Perhaps my sense of fulfillment isn't supposed to come from a man... Even if he's the one I see in my plan - for the future. I picture us together... Would he picture me? Would he picture us?

No. He wouldn't, because he's busy. He's just so busy.

For him I would put aside my insecurities. I would kiss him back like nobody else was there.

I thought perhaps, in the pockets of time spent with one another,

This meant he would be patient and treat me with care.

But he's too busy.

Doesn't he want to make the effort?

Am I unworthy of his love?

No. He's just busy. Just busy, he says. That's all he says. That's his only excuse.

I'm cynical, now. It's not like he's given up on love, like me. If this goes on, one day, he'll find somebody else and be their 'just busy'.

She will have some other convincing factor, of course. That's what always happens, since I'm never good enough.

I could be the most perfect woman, the best wife.

But, I know deep down that I still wouldn't catch your eye.

Instead, I'll just tell myself that you'd never care for love or for me. It seems less wicked,

than chasing a dream fenced in pure white picket.

Because you're too busy. You're too busy for me and my thoughts. My desires. My love... I have so much love I could give you, you know.

But, hey ho...

Maybe one day, it'll be me who's just too busy.

And strangely, that would be the best comeuppance ever.

[whatudowhennooneseesyou]

I need to throw away my 'anonymous' mask for this because I can't bear with the weight of it any more. Plus, it makes me feel like I have something to hide, while in reality, I am a 27-year-old adult with a lot of adult-like obsessions, and I honestly have nothing to hide. 🥲🫶 There, I said it...

First of all, the noona obsessed over Hyunjin from a while ago... that's me. And that happened after I read your readings about him (especially 18+) and some other answers to asks about him. Never have I ever thought I would think about him as a 'prey' because of our age gap. Well, now sounds like it's me, I am THE prey to his gorgeousness (is this even a word, though?). 😆😆 Prey to his whole existence, it I dare to say. 🥲🫶

Now to the main point... The BtoB Minhyuk obsession is also me. 🥲 You asked to spill tea why my Hyunjin obsession is dirtier, but actually, the moment I wrote that ask, I meant it the other way around. I kinda developed dirtier thoughts about Minhyuk in the start. Well, because Minhyuk is older than me, and I thought it sounded more logical to do so... BUT, after I wrote that ask, some things have changed. I saw the actual 'mommy Hyunjin' in the SKZ Code episode, and I was like.... OMG, this creature is gorgeous. Like... Please understand me when I say this, but Hyunjin has never looked so majestic while cross-dressing for the SKZ family concept. That short bob wig was a no-go for me. And while Minhyuk does look like a greek god type of creature, Hyunjin is just effortlessly ethereal. So, here's the deal... although I have imagined doing dirtier things with Minhyuk then I would with Hyunjin, after just a short while my head was like 'Nina, Hyunjin IS dirtier and sexier in bed, so Minhyuk probably wouldn't do half of those things to you. Everything you want screams HYUNJIN.' 🥹🥹

I have been writing poems and short paragraphs (imagine kinda things) for a while, but I actually sat down to write a smutty episode about what I imagine the night with Hyunjin to be like. 😆 I am embarrassed to talk about it, but it exists, lol... I hope I hid it somewhere safe (as I tend to write on paper, not in computer... What a crazy romantic person I am huh).

You were interested in what those 'dirty' details were, I believe. Well, actually, there is no heavy bdsm and nothing close to degradation or too much pain. When it comes to Hyunjin, the dirtiness of my thoughts lies in the dollification kink and some other fetishes of mine (hands, thighs...). that's it 🥲🥲🫶

Tumblr seems to be the only place I can share this all in though. 😅💛 Thank you for reading all this nonsense 🥲🥲🥲

P.S. If you're familiar with what Succubus and Incubus are, well, Hyunjin would make an excellent Incubus. I would not regret dying making love with him 😆🥹 I hope someone writes a good smut on that sometime 🥲🥲🫶

Hello @kimnina96 and it's so great to finally speak with you over the internet plane!!!

And you don't have anything to hide at 27 because I feel like most people will just accept your adult obsessions at your age, at least the mature ones will.

Hyunjin's presence is so powerful that I sometimes forget that I am older than him because he doesn't act his age but he's only 2 youngers than me which is nothing in Australian age.

So, yeah, we might be older than age but maybe not stronger in strength haha.

I definitely see what you mean in they have VERY different types of beauty, Minhyuk is a Sagittarius stellium so he looks like a centaur and has that masculine 'Michaelangelo' attraction because his body...omg it's like he was carved by marble itself.

Whereas Hyunjin's Pisces stellium gives him an otherworldly presence, especially when he has his long, dark hair because it adds to his 'supernatural' vibes.

You write poems? On paper? Ahh my heart! That's so beautiful and it's a dying art form, I feel that's such a beautiful hobby and I'd love to read one sometime if you ever feel comfortable with it.

Okay but like...Hyunjin being the doll or Hyunjin making you the doll? Because they would be beautiful and majestic in both ways.

There are so many dollification fics here with Hyunjin and *chefs kiss*, they are an EXPERIENCE TO READ AND SO ACCURATE!

Tumblr is a great place you can just release all your intrusive thoughts with very little consequences.

And he suits being an incubus so well and I'm sure I've read fics of Incubus!Hyunjin, particularly with this fit.

Artist of the month Hyunjin is such an underrated Hyunjin look that I hope we'll see again.

And I'm also jealous of how quickly Hyunjin's hair grows, the man must have Hercules strong hair with how quickly it grows after receiving a lot of damage of bleach.

[jasper-unofficial]

pun and beer :3

closing off the we are characters headcanons with these two, let's goooo

choose a character and ask about my headcanons here, if you like

PUN

🏳️‍🌈 a sexuality headcanon

pan (no pun intended x2).

🏳️‍⚧️ a gender headcanon

he gives me kind of "i'm probably not 110% a man, but that's none of my business" vibes jlfkgjkdfjglfkd

🧸 a headcanon about their childhood

unfortunately, i think some other kids definitely found him very weird and bullied him :( thankfully, like i mentioned in my post with chain headcanons, i think he and pun have been friends since they were very little, so chain was always there to protect him.

👻 a headcanon about what scares them

honestly, most things. if you jump out from a corner at him and say "boo", he will scream.

🎶 a headcanon about music

for some reason he gives me the vibes of someone who mostly listens to iconic pop stars both from the 90s-00s and current ones. he's like a britney spears and charlie xcx girlie (gender-neutral).

👽 a headcanon about a weird quirk of theirs

finally i can say it! i think, by some string of fate, he also collects plushies. but it's not bears, maybe rabbits or something.

💤 a headcanon about their sleep

he loves sleep. he would sleep literally 24/7 if he could.

🦾 a disability headcanon

autism <3

💝 a headcanon about their love language

he is so quiet about it in general that it's hard to say, but i'm gonna choose quality time. it kind of feels like spending time with chain is already enough for him.

🫂 a friendship headcanon

pun and phum are future best friends!

💔 an angsty headcanon

even though we don't see much of it, he is like... seriously distressed about liking chain. he gets really anxious about it sometimes and is really afraid someone will find out, because he is very scared of losing their friendship.

🪢 a headcanon about their family

i think at least one of his parents is diagnosed autistic, and he's had a pretty supportive and comfortable environment at home thanks to that.

📓 a headcanon about their hobbies

he writes fanfiction. also reads fanfiction. his hobby is fanfiction.

🌟 a headcanon about their desires/wishes

i do think that he daydreams about chain reciprocating his feelings from time to time. he's run about five thousand scenarios of how that might happen in his head. and that's his secret big wish.

🥇 a headcanon about what they’re best at

genuinely organising people. being a leader. he might be silly, but he can get people together and really motivate them to do something for a cause.

🍫 a headcanon about food

he loooooves food and would eat almost anything.

❤️‍🔥 a romantic headcanon

he is a little insane about romance, i will not lie. he has seen every single romantic movie and series under the sun. he would do the silliest but also most romantic things for his partner for sure.

😺 an animal related headcanon

he loves all animals, but feels especially partial to anyone, who gets overlooked or is actively hated. he would not let you kill a single spider. cup-and-paper method only!

😭 a headcanon about the worst thing that happened to them

from his pov, falling in love with chain :( as much as he daydreams, he often wishes he would just love him as a friend.

😶 a random headcanon!

one of his favourite movies is 'emma.' (2020). the main character constantly tries to play matchmaker and ends up marrying her best friend. actually, now that i think about it, he might have also read the novel by jane austen the movie is based on and loves that as well.

BEER

🏳️‍🌈 a sexuality headcanon

bi (none of those boys are straight istg).

🏳️‍⚧️ a gender headcanon

a cis boy.

🧸 a headcanon about their childhood

he was really upset about losing contact with phum, when he was sent away, but his parents never let him call overseas, because it was too expensive, and he wasn't really allowed to use the internet either. he asked fang how phum was doing, whenever they crossed paths, though.

🫂 a friendship headcanon

he is the type of person to have multiple best friends and really just wear his heart on his sleeve with people who are close to him.

🪢 a headcanon about their family

he has strict parents and one younger sibling.

📓 a headcanon about their hobbies

he also loves photography. that's something that helped him and phum reconnect, when he returned, as they discovered it separately.

🥇 a headcanon about what they’re best at

he gives me the vibes of someone, who is really good at math.

😺 an animal related headcanon

huge dog person.

😶 a random headcanon!

he's gonna be in a relationship by the end of the series. with who, i have not decided. but he will.