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In honour of ace week, and because I don't hear it enough:
REPULSED ASEXUALS EXISTS AND ARE AS VALID AS OTHERS
IT'S OK TO BE DISGUSTED BY SEX
IT'S OK TO NEVER WANTING TO DO IT
VIRGIN ISNT AN INSULT
YOU DON'T NEED AN EXCUSE TO NOT LIKING OR WANTING IT
SEX ISN'T WHAT MAKES US HUMAN
IT ISN'T VITAL
IT'S NOT SHAMEFUL TO NEVER DO IT
YOU DON'T NEED TO "TRY IT" TO KNOW THAT YOU HATE IT
IT'S NOT CHILDISH TO BE GROSSED OUT BY IT
IT'S FINE IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IT
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT AND PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES
YOU ARE NOT BROKEN EVEN IF PEOPLE INSIST THAT YOU ARE
FUCK APHOBES AND FUCK PEOPLE WHO MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO HATE SEX
YOU AREN'T ANY LESS VALID
WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING APHOBIC, INSTEAD OF SAYING "BUT SOME ACES DO ENJOY SEX", SAY "IT ISN'T AN ISSUE NOT WANTING IT"
YOU ARE SO VALID IF YOU ARE A REPULSED ACE PLEASE NEVER FORGET THAT!!!!
PEOPLE ARE JUST BEING CREEPS IF THEY INSIST THAT YOU MUST DO IT
IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT THE STEREOTYPICAL "ASEXUAL WHO WRITES SMUT AND MAKES SEX JOKES"
IT'S OK SKIPPING UNCOMFORTABLE SCENES IN MOVIES AND SHOWS
IT'S OK TO NEVER DO IT IN YOUR LIFE
THE WHOLE "OLD PERSON WITH CATS" ISNT EVEN AN INSULT CUZ IT SOUNDS DOPE AF NGL
ALSO IT'S OK TO BE MAD WHEN YOU HEAR PEOPLE CLAIMING HOW GOOD SEX IS AND ALL THE "IT'S HEALTHY" BULLSHIT BECAUSE NO YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DIE EARLIER BECAUSE YOU DON'T DO IT
ALSO ITS NOT A SHAMEFUL THING TO NOT DO ANYTHING YOURSELF EITHER
AND ITS ALSO OK IF YOU EVEN STRUGGLE TO SPELL SOME WORDS OUT BECAUSE OF YOUR REPULSION
IF YOU'RE AN ADULT YOU'RE VALID AND YOU DON'T NEED TO DO IT IN ORDER TO BE VALID AS AN ADULT
YOU'RE NOT MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING
YOU ARE QUEER ENOUGH !! YOU DESERVE A PLACE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY, AND YOUR VOICE DESERVES TO BE HEARD!!
#making this because i really need it and i would sob if someone wpuld reassure me this way#and I'm sure some other really need ot as well#repulsed ace#ace#asexual#ace week#lgbt#queer#grem stuff#took me a lot of strength to spell some words because im so repulsed :'/#apothisexual
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hc that merlin and Gwen (who are besties btw) are absolutely running shit. Got a problem? Go to them - always to them. They're the ones who know the most about the castle and have full control of the royal schedules.
Uther does not know about this and neither does Arthur - however whenever either one of them pisses Merlin or Gwen off or they just do something like seriously fucked up (looking at you Uther you absolute ass) they bury them in work.
and I mean like bury them: making them wake up at like first light for an 'emergency' (apparently someone thought they saw a sorcerer) straight to training the Knights, to a meeting with the council to deal with the non-existant sorcerer, to confirmations of a celebration
they don't know what the celebration is for. (in truth it's not for anything, the castle just wanted an excuse for a party, and it's funny gaslighting the royals into thinking they approved some random ass celebration a few weeks ago)
The servants know and 100% annoy them with inane shit because their "input" is needed (no the fuck it's not, but getting to fuck over royalty is fun for them)
random servant #1 to Uther: Apologies for interrupting Sir, but the seamstress wanted to confirm time for your fitting for your outfit for the celebration tonight?
Uther, baffled asf running on 5hrs sleep: celebration? there is no celebration??? and what colour scheme
Servant #1 trying not to cackle: yes sir there is? you advised of it just last month - the seamstress just wanted to take last measurements
Servant #2 elbowing #1 to get their shit together: and the blue and purple scheme? You approved it over a month ago, and Prince Arthur confirmed last week before preparations were made.
(all the food is stuff Arthur and Uther barely tolerate and mildly hate and their alcohol is weak asf - meanwhile the knights and everyone else are eating amazingly, drunk off their asses)
more in the tags lol
#bbc merlin#merlin emrys#arthur pendragon#gwen pendragon#morgana#uther pendragon#knights of the round table#Leon is sleeping#everytime Arthur or Uther piss either Merlin or Gwen off he hides#he refuses to play along because he's loyal#but also he's a bitch and he's annoyed with them as well#new servants are always horrified#they're reassured this happens like once a month#once it happened twice in one month#Leon couldn't be found the whole time#he was with hunith for a holiday and to “help” with an issue#the “incident” as its labelled is because Uther tried to marry Morgana off to some old creep to better help Camelot#and Arthur got his ego bruised and decided to be his prev. princely self (i.e. he was a dick) to some of the new knights#the old creep “passed” in his sleep before the wedding unfortunately#and Arthur got turned into a donkey again#merlin overheard by several people cause he's not trying to whisper: if he wants to be an ass#i'll turn him into an ass
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yeah yeah sure rough freaky t4t gay sex where i mount you aggressively and overstimulate you by making you cum over and over until you're crying etc etc. but- hey, no, listen. take my hand for a second. what if. what if maybe um. you know, instead of that, what if you let me just lay back and kiss my neck gently and slowly jerk me off or maybe ride me for a little while and praise me for how much I've been doing lately and how good i make you feel all the time and tell me you're proud of me, because you know it's really hard for me to always just push through and make myself get things done and you want me to be the center of attention just this once, so you decide to make me cum this time while muttering praises in my ear to make me really feel as appreciated as possible. maybe. (please)
#sorry for being all sappy and shit but . mn ncbdjdbdjn#idk i probably have some sort of undiagnosed chronic illness and it's been really hard for me to do things lately#and i wanna be appreciated for it and also not have to do a majority of the work during sex sometimes because i don't like trying to spend#energy i don't have#so um. yk whoops#please please please give your doms praise and reassurance and aftercare we are not emotionless pleasure-giving machines#well some are and that's okay but not all of them#anyway sorry normal tags now#ftm nsft#t4t nsft#ftm t4t#trans nsft#ftm dom#ftm top#t4t mlm#nsft t4t#praise k!nk#soft nsft#gentle sex#stupid sappy bullshit ass post
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god the way ghost’s voice drops when he tells soap, “you’ll need to improvise to survive”
before that, everything he says is steady but when he acknowledges that soap’ll have to do something outside his skill set, something he intimately knows to be difficult, his voice wavers. he does the same when he says, “welcome to guerrilla warfare”; it’s sombre and serious in a way he doesn’t act for the rest of the mission. if you read into it enough, he almost sounds apologetic; like he knows exactly what soap’s about to go through and wishes he didn’t have to
he keeps soap going; poking at him and making jokes, giving him tips and asking about his progress. he never lets him stop and take a second to think bc he knows the moment he does is the moment it'll all hit him; the betrayal, the pain, the fear, the deaths, all of it will drown him and if that happens, soap won't make it
he needs him to be a soldier through and through and he knows this is one of the worst kinds of battlefields you could end up on
and the only times he slips is when he acknowledges that fact
it happens again when he says, "tryin' to get you here alive and in one piece". his jovial dark humour facade drops for just a moment when he has to face the potential reality of losing soap. then he tries to pick it back up again with, "one of us has to survive to tell the tale"; completely discounting himself as a survivor to try and rally soap and make him think it’s all down to him
and soap does the same thing
when he's calling out for ghost on the radio, he's tentative, testing the frequency, then when he doesn’t get a response, he grows desperate; "ghost, this is 7-1, do you copy?"
then when ghost answers, he smooths out his voice; he hides the pain, the fear, and no matter what response you give to ghost asking if he’s injured, soap brushes it off (“i’m good”, “what’s the difference?”, “i’m not a medic”). soap decides it’s in ghost’s best interest to hide the extent of his injuries
he doesn’t know where ghost is, if he’s secure, if he has any weapons; he doesn’t even know if he’s in las almas until he says, “there’s a church, i’m headed to it”. for all he knows, he could’ve run in the complete opposite direction. if ghost knows he’s hurt, then his attention would be split between his own survival and soap’s
and soap, who lets himself be poked and prodded towards the church, needs to hide his own doubts. maybe he needs ghost to believe he'll make it so he himself can believe it ("what are my odds?" "don't make me bet against you", "think i'll live that long?" "probably not")
he all but begs ghost to tell him he'll get through it and if he knows just how bad off he is, maybe he'll change his mind. maybe he'll think he won't make it to the church
maybe he'll leave him alone for good
"you injured?"
"i’m good"
"let's find out how good you are"
#remember when i said soap kept being injured from ghost for his own good and said it was a thought for another day?#well todays the day motherfuckers its more alone meta time!#i dont think he expects ghost to give him guerrilla warfare 101 over comms#i dont think he expected him to bail altogether otherwise he wouldve sounded different calling for him#but he probably thought ghost would focus on himself a lot more than he does#even after he gets to the church its in his best interest to stay silent and unnoticed (like a good sniper should)#instead he gives away his position both by constantly talking and shooting to take out the shadows about to kill soap#they both try to hide things from the other to reassure them that theyre alright. that theyll both get out alive#and youre trying to tell me they arent in love?#bc thats not how soldiers act#no matter how they feel they have to report injuries#soap jeopardises them both by withholding that#he acts like a man when hes supposed to act like a soldier and why would he do that if not to protect simon the man instead of ghost his I.#love motherfucker!#coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt#we’re a team. ghost team#talk meta to me#ghoap#ghostsoap#soapghost#soap cod#john soap mactavish#ghost cod#simon ghost riley#meta#cod mw2#cod mwii#save post
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🏈❤️💙✨ a very small video (with delightful editing!) of Daniel at last Sunday's game | x
#daniel ricciardo#autumn posts#I am almost positive I saw this posted but I cannot find it again!!#I'm sorry for the double post!!#I did want this on the old blog since his 'whoo!' is so cute 💞#okay back to work here!!#hope everyone is well ❤️#sending good energy its a stressful day with the US elections#v thankful I early voted!! going to be with my friends irl this eve to calm the nerves 😵💫#always good to support each other and I have hope!!#sending everyone lots of support and reassuring vibes#❤️❤️❤️#ahh I gotta run brb!!!!
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It's just… Who's gonna do what? Because I'm… I've never...Oh, my God. I'm so not playing this cool right now. I went to an English boarding school, dear. Trust me, you're in good hands.
#rwrb#rwrbedit#red white and royal blue#alex x henry#alex claremont diaz#henry fox mountchristen windsor#firstprince#usernuria#userveronika#chrissiewatts#userninz#usersteen#usermaloune#userlang#mine*#i think we moved on too quickly from this scene#its sooooo important#like i know it happened differently in the book but for movie context and viewers its better like this#henrys reassuring grab in the second one it makes me wanna scream#taylor captured alexs nervousness so well 🥺
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Reasons Tommy/Buck&Tommy aren’t going away (yet);
- The 911 insta followed Lou, and they only follow mains and people who are reoccurring (and reoccur a lot)
- They also have posted two BuckTommy posts recently, showcasing them as an official couple of the show
-Both the things above have happened in the past week, whilst they’re filming ep 8 and finishing writing 9&10 which to me suggests Tommy will be in at least one of those eps.
- Tim keeps calling it a love story and a romcom, I highly doubt he’d end that after three and a bit eps. Especially after how it’s been built up.
-Oliver said that Buck and Tommy have some getting to know each other but he also said him and Lou do too. That they need to build these relationships- doesn’t sound like it’s going anytime soon.
- Lou said he was pitched an initial arc, which is normally 4 eps, but that doesn’t mean the arc can’t be extended. Especially when the reception is as good as it has been- and also they needed the wiggle room incase it was received poorly.
- Oliver also said he’d like Tommy to stay around, regardless of what happens but also said he’d like to continue their story in a similar thread to Tarlos.
-Tim and Oliver talk a lot about getting Buck off the hamster wheel, and I think him staying in a LTR would be the final part of that. Otherwise he’s still kind of on it, where he gets in and out of relationships without settling for a bit.
-This one is half joking, but Lou keeps mentioning the fact 9-1-1 has a s8 totally unprovoked 😂
#BuckTommy#just to reassure those who think Tommy will be gone too soon#I mean personally I’m not fussed if he stays forver lol#but yeah I think he’s here for longer and so is there relationship#also stuff he says in the cameos if you read i between the lines#like it’s hard fo fully tell cuz he kinda contradicts himself but I’m pretty confident#and if I’m wrong? well I’m wrong lol#Leah rambles
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leo being aromantic is such an amazing headcanon. like it fits so well. being surrounded by couples who complete each other. wanting to have someone who completes him but not in the romantic sense. and feeling broken because of it. always flirting with people to overcompensate. and after landing in ogygia. him and calypso learn not to rely on external validation. learn that they're whole as individuals. and becoming best friends instead of dating. because a romantic relationship is beautiful. but not the apex. i love this so much.
#he would have been so scared to admit it to himself#but also terrified to admit it to his friends#but they reassure him that he is not broken#he is singular#and he is validv#this could have been such a beautiful thing#oh well#my hc is he's aromantic and that's that#percy jackon and the olympians#pjo text post#pjo#heroes of olympus#hoo text post#hoo#leo valdez#aromantic leo valdez
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Arondir will survive, right?
#that's all I've come here to ask#knowing that original characters don't fare well in trop :(#someone pls reassure me that arondir will live#i cried when he told galadriel that adar has taken everything from him#arondir#the rings of power#rings of power#trop spoilers
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i'm soooo unwell when i realized laios was the reason that chilchuck began opening up to the group in the first place. that half-foot was keen on being closed off and secretive to his grave but of course laios threw him off and his stance has long shifted since episode 13 and when i think bout its always laios. ..
laios. who got chilchuck crying and pleading and opened up his bottled emotions for the first time in how many years. ..letting the party (particular laios) know who much he cares!
its laios who listens, values, and takes chilchucks advice to heart always and would have followed through if the falin chimera situation didnt happen!! and its laios and only laios whos able to calm chilchuck down when hes spiraling in his own mind and needs a gentle touch and voice to bring him back from the brink
#chilaios#laichil#they make me SICK#I'M SO. ..#their love and care is so. ...its always there. ..#also how many times does laios pat chilchucks shoulder to reassure him thats so flipping cute. ..#how we feeling chilaios nation i'm so well fed
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As always wishing there was a socially acceptable way to simply say "I'm about to get weird and act strange for a little while and it will look unsettling from the outside but I promise it doesn't hurt anything and I'll be back to normal later" or "it is going to take me so long to complete this minor task that doesn't really affect anyone else, but I promise it will get done eventually, all is well" or even "the way I am doing this will seem counterintuitive to you but trust me that there's a good reason"
#basically i want to reassure people that even though i will sometimes get a distant and congusing vibe in person#i do not hate them and all is well and this is so i can continue to function in society#i'm gonna get the aura of a shelter cat sometimes but this doesn't necessarily mean anything is Wrong#or well. what is wrong is complicated enough that it would take a very long time to explain and we're not here to do that#it does suck that i am so bad at asking for help and receiving help and looking grateful for help. i know i'm working on it#it's just like at the point i need help i mainly need help communicating effectively which is what you need to do to get help#it is kind of like. so just do the thing that is hardest for you in the hardest moments of your life when you can barely think. good luck!#but i have listened to a lot of advice podcasts so i have better scripts for it now it's just.
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I demand a whole filler arc from Toei that has absolutely nothing to do with the main story and the only characters are Sabo and Luffy going on a silly little adventure for at least 30 episodes. No angst. No pain. Only these two being silly and loving each other so much it's so fucking unbearable to watch you have to like, physically stop the show to breathe and then continue watching the two brothers being clingy and stupid and probably ending capitalism and slavery in a random country somewhere.
#and then sabo sees luffy gear 5th and he's like 'hey that's my brother!!!!' to a random dude#seriously can we. can we. can we#can we get more sabo/luffy content in this fucking thing i am tired i am so tired#stampede is not one of my fav movies for the fanservice plot i only like it for sabo and luffy and their two seconds of screentime#i said no pain and no angst but i am a liar i want at least 5 episodes of them crying bc of ace and sabo reassuring luffy#and telling him it wasn't his fault#but also i want them being silly#one piece#revolutionary sabo#monkey d. luffy#asl brothers#well it's sl brothers now but a is in our hearts the soul is still there ily ace
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slaughterhouse posting part 2 that isn't going to be polished at all and has been sitting in my drafts for days, but this scene is so interesting to me because i genuinely have no idea what megatron wants from ravage in this interaction- and i don't know if megatron knows, either.
megatron starts out by saying that the decepticons' loyalty isn't to him- its to the cause. ignoring how this is immediately striking me as completely, blatently wrong due to the times we see megatron rallying the decepticons around himself when other leaders fail to do the same (nevermind the fact that he started the cause in the first place), he then gets angry with ravage when ravage confirms that- yeah, actually. you're not the cause anymore. we have moved on with someone new. megatron gets so angry he stands up, he looms over ravage, he raises is voice and balls his fist- and why else would he do this if he wasn't upset that they're moving on without him?
which would, of course, make megatron a hypocrite. he left the decepticons and refused to take any effort to rejoin them- he clearly doesn't actually want to return to the fold. but when the decepticons unite themselves and move on from him, it's different. i can abandon you, but you cannot abandon me.
i've always took this reaction as being an immediate, no thinking, gut reaction to finding out the decepticons are moving on without him. he's angry, potentially feeling betrayed by them, when he... doesn't have much of a right to feel that way. and it's not like megatron wasn't given an option to join the decepticons again if that's what he actually wanted.
he was given a choice. he turned it down. he could of turned it down for any number of reasons, but no matter the reason, the point remains that he turned it down.
going back to panel after megatron snaps, ravage clearly takes megatron's outburst as him being upset that they've moved on without him. despite the aggressive way this interaction started with ravage attacking megatron, ravage spends most of this conversation attempting to reassure megatron. megatron gets angry that galvatron took over and they're moving on without him? okay- so then he wants to come back, right? he's upset he's been replaced?
well, galvatron isn't permanent. say the word and you'll be back in charge. megatron says that the decepticons aren't loyal to him, ravage reaffirms that they were loyal to him but now they've chosen a new leader since he left, megatron gets angry that they're moving on without him, and then ravage reinforces their original loyalty to him by saying if he wants to come back, they'll follow him.
and then megatron turns it around; yes he was just angry that the decepticons were no longer loyal to him, but now that same loyalty is toxic, actually. and it is! it absolutely is toxic. but i think ravage backed him into a corner here, even unintentionally. he can't sit down and actually address why the decepticons moving on makes him angry without admitting some part of him wants to return to the cons. or at the very least he still feels possessive of them and doesn't want them to function outside of his influence. when given the option to rejoin, he responds by insulting the decepticon's (and ravage's!) sense of devotion/loyalty and then quickly changes the topic to seawing and the trial. he doesn't say a solid yes or no answer because he doesn't actually have one to give.
ravage nails it down anyways. megatron has no idea what he wants from ravage in this interaction because he doesn't know where he stands anymore, let alone what he wants for himself. before ravage was revealed to be on the lost light, megatron was captain. he even seems content to BE captain- but ravage makes it complicated. ravage is a direct reminder of who he used to be and the people he used to surround himself with. worse, people he's abandoned and hurt in order to get to where he is as captain now. megatron left the decepticons behind with no command structure, no guidance, no plan- and ravage's mere presence is a bitter reminder that even if he's run off to the autobots, he can't escape that.
he's settled into a state of stagmentation with the autobots. one he's content with, maybe- at the very least one he can live with where the guilt isn't as heavy. it is the easiest way out megatron saw for himself.
but if anyone can get him to doubt himself, well.
who else better than ravage to stir up the past?
#blight rambles#blight's meta#transformers#maccadams#maccadam#mtmte#more than meets the eye#transformers idw#idw transformers#idw tf#tf idw1#transformers idw1#idw2005#tf idw#ravage#mtmte ravage#tf ravage#transformers ravage#idw ravage#megatron#idw megatron#mtmte megatron#tf meta#transformers meta#this post is very messy and i debated a lot on posting it bc. idk if it even reads well or if my view on this scene isnt completely biased#because of how much i like ravage#but uh take it anyways. i cannot stop thinking about the slaughterhouse scene#i WISH. i wish their dynamic stayed fucked up. i wish they stayed angry and uncomfortable with each other#i wish ravage having to reassure and comfort megatron while ignoring his own pain was an intentional writing choice and not just#well. what we got in canon. where ravage is megs' support and thats it
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Need skyblr to get me because these guys have been stuck in my brain for a while now
#sky cotl#thatskygame#sky children of the light#skyblr#Reassuring Ranger#Princess Sky#Princess Sky:COTL#Please please#I need someone to understand#the vibes man the VIBES#as well as history#hehe :3#This can go both ways btw
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WAIT DIDN’T YOU MAKE THE MITSKI LESBIAN LYRIC COMIC IN 2019 THOUGH
haha yes! for more context, at that point i had known i was queer for some time, but it was around 2020 that i started to seriously consider i might be a lesbian. incredibly, i had this revelation when i was in the middle of working on my graphic novel starring lesbians 💀
i mentioned this on twitter/ig, but i think part of the reason why it took this long (other than my clownery) is bc i have an inexplicable fear that one day i'll realize i'm a fraud and i was lying to everyone... even though i know people figure themselves out at their own pace and everyone has a unique, personal journey to self-discovery! change and growth doesn't make you a liar. and i've already spent so much time worrying about this imaginary future where i'm wrong instead of thinking about what feels right. so i want to embrace who i am, at this moment.. i just can't help the little devil on my shoulder who makes me doubt myself at times.
so yeah! that's me! i've only ever admitted this in private... and i'm still a little shy saying it now. but i wanted to make that comic because i think it's so fucking funny that "it was a dare" was my honest to god rebuttal against suspected lesbianism LMAO
#anon#replies#everyone has been so sweet about it though#sharing their own stories about identity as well as this fear of being “wrong”#its very reassuring to know im not alone!
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I’m so glad that Mariana and Charlie have fallen into one of my favorite dynamics
Mariana: ethereal god, divine and pretty
Charlie: wearing a gas mask and nothing else while foaming at the mouth and eating rotten flesh
They love each other and I love them<3<3<3
#qsmp#qsmp purgatory#el mariana#slimecicle#I love these two sooo much#Charlie reassuring Mariana about meeting up in🥺#god I love them#I really need to watch Mariana moorreee#but my Spanish is shit and I struggle with understanding it#oh well
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