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“Are media representations of fans as ‘weird’ and ‘overly emotional’ fair? What is your own experience of fandom?”
A fan is somebody who is obsessed with a particular star, celebrity, film, TV programme, band, and they participate in communal activities (Hills 2002). Most of us are fans of something, as long as we are interested in something. There are many types of fans represented in media and the public, such as normal fans, weird fans, and overly emotional fans. Although there are also some normal fans in the media, I still agree that media representations of fans as ‘weird’ and ‘overly emotional’ are fair. In this blog, we are going to see how the fans are ‘weird’ and ‘overly emotional’ on media, and my own experience of fandom.
One Direction’s crazy fans
According to the research (Chin 2023), the study of fans isn’t new, and it is not just about K-pop or K-dramas. One hardly needs reminding that fan audiences have historically been viewed as ‘obsessive, freakish, hysterical, infantile and regressive social subjects’ (Proctor n.d.). The Channel Four documentary ‘Crazy About One Direction’ (CAOD), begins with the narrator, Julia David, explaining that Directioners are ‘simply crazy’ about the band and that the fan culture is nothing less than a ‘new breed of fan’ who use social media to ‘worship their idols’, and ‘go to extreme lengths to get noticed by the boys’ (Proctor n.d.). They are loyal to their idols and become crazy and weird. According to Proctor (n.d.), those crazy Directioners perform their fandom by tweeting the band and often begging them to ‘follow them’ on social media. From One Direction’s crazy fans research, we can see how ‘weird’ they are.
Sasaeng Fans in Korea
Sasaeng are fans of music groups, who have taken their obsession to extremes because nothing says ‘fan’ better than a bloody letter (Iwicka 2018). Sasaeng fans are people who infringe on the private lives of artists, and they are also ‘weird’ and ‘overly emotional’ in media. In Korea, fans usually give artists gifts like soft toys, or flowers during performances. According to my own experience, I have ever heard some of the weird fans put a micro camera in the gifts, to peep at that artist. Besides, they also get celebrity’s phone numbers from some sources or follow celebrities to their hotel room and keep on disturbing them.
On 21 May 2019, EXO member Kai was broadcasting live on Instagram when he was gym. When he wants to leave, there were two sasaeng fan who are stalking him, and waiting for Kai near the gym of his car (Philippines Star 2019). Not only Kai from EXO, but also a lot of South Korean celebrities met sasaeng fans. During 2021, Blackpink member Kim Jennie was the target of a US$30,000 billboard advertisement set up by Filipino socia media influencer, Christian Albert Gaza, who is a self-proclaimed No 1 Jennie fan (Chung 2021). Sasaeng fans are mostly weird and overly emotional, they not only want to stalk their private lives, but also date the celebrities.
✨My Experience of fandom✨
First and foremost, I used to be a fan of EXO member Luhan while I was in primary school. On October 8, 2017, Luhan made an official announcement on Weibo of his relationship with Guan Xiaotong, which was one of my most memorable experiences. On that day, Luhan's Weibo followers dropped by about half and the social media service was down for a few hours. This research demonstrates that Luhan's fans are typically extremely emotional, since they always consider themselves to be Luhan's girlfriend. Some fans will call themselves as 'girlfriend fans' or'mother fans' on social media platforms. According to my fandom experience, 'girlfriend fans' are more weird and overly emotional. If the celebrities they like suddenly expose their relationship, most of them would either hate the celebrity's girlfriend/boyfriend on social media or begin to condemn the celebrity's girlfriend/boyfriend.
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Conclusion
Based on my research and experience in fandom, I believe that media representations of fans as 'weird' and 'overly emotional' are fair. They are strange and extremely emotional, yet they like celebrities. If the celebrities do something that the toxic fans are uncomfortable with of, they begin to hate and destroy them. However, despite their weird and extremely emotional behaviour, it is all because of they like the celebrities, but in the wrong way.
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References
Chin, B 2023, ‘MDA20009 Week 9 Fandom’, MDA20009 Digital Communities, Learning materials via Canvas, Swinburne Univerity of Technology, 6 October, viewed 8 November 2023.
Chung, JW 2021, From stalking to date requests: 5 times diehard K-pop fans went too far, South China Morning Post, viewed 11 November 2023, <https://www.scmp.com/magazines/style/celebrity/article/3155816/5-k-pop-idols-who-were-victims-sasaeng-fans-blackpinks>.
Hills, M 2022, Fan cultures, Routledge, London.
Iwicka, R 2018, ‘Every Breath You Take: Sasaeng Fans’, At the Interface / Probing the Boundaries, vol. 99, pp. 125–147, viewed 10 November 2023, <https://research.ebsco.com/linkprocessor/plink?id=b28b24e8-2373-3530-8d04-7355f54fe6c2>.
Philippines Star (Manila, Philippines) 2019, ‘EXO’s Kai exposes alleged “sasaeng” fans’, 21 May, viewed 11 November 2023, <https://research.ebsco.com/linkprocessor/plink?id=8adcf75c-6a0a-3b75-a957-1370b7abae6d>.
Proctor, W n.d., Chapter 6 A New Breed of Fan?: Regimes of Truth, One Direction Fans and Representations of Enfreakment, viewed 10 November 2023, <https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/83943346.pdf >.
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varric. 🖤
#📢.txt#that's it that's the post#dealing with a lot of weird overly attached fangirl emotions about him today with the release date trailer and all#i just love him a lot and i hope that all of these death markers in clips and trailers are intentional misfires#but if they aren't... i'm gonna work with what i've got#after all my very first chaptered dragon age fic was a cailan survives au - that kind of thing is in my wheelhouse
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PSA KIND OF A RANT BUT ALSO JUST A GENUINE QUESTION BUT LIKE DOES ANYONE FEEL WEIRDED OUT THAT THE SHADOWHUNTER SERIES ARE KIND OF TARGETED FOR TEENS (I mean, aren’t they though)
I know I hate and shit on the shadowhunter series (SORRY IT DESERVES TO BE CRITICIZED) and y’all, I’m seriously okay with having characters have trauma and being complex (seriously I’m all for it!!!! I love those fascinating characters) but make these people young adults or something. because this should not be targeted for teens!!!!! LET ME REPEAT MYSELF!!!! THIS SHOULD NOT BE TARGETED FOR TEENS!!!!! I just don’t like the message it sends. I think it’s probably the worst in TMI.
oh if you’re abused or have a shit childhood, it’s okay to put that on others and make it their problem. oh if you’re boyfriend is toxic and emotionally abusive, it’s okay because y’all are soulmates apparently and your whole identity is about him!!!!!!! I don’t mind insane fantasy romances!!!! but don’t target it towards teens!!!!! I still get amazed that this incest toxic fantasy is for teens???????
I don’t know, it’s just weird that a 50+ year old woman is writing about teens having sex. like does anyone feel Cordelia was extremely sexualized????? there’s just so much problematic shit CC writes. and once again, I don’t believe that fantasy books should be “real” “make sense” or whatever excuse people want to use to defend misrepresentation, incest, or heavy topics (abuse, trauma) that are written poorly.
I don’t care if clary and jace aren’t actually siblings- they thought they were and they’re both toxic to one another, also the fact that clary is there to serve jace’s happiness is wild. so like if you want an outrageous fantasy world, that’s absolutely valid but don’t have it targeted for teens. this is my whole beef with the shadowhunter series (and more let’s be obvious) is that teens pick up these books and maybe they don’t understand (doesn’t a brain fully develop at 25 or something?????) and thinks the type of stuff that is in this book is okay or to be admired.
maybe I think too much of this (I’m a very heavy and emotional thinker/person who feels A LOT) and maybe teens don’t actually think this???? maybe they can differentiate that this is fiction and not to be admired? but it’s just weird reading about teens and all the problematic stuff they do. I’m in the young adult ish category so it feels uncomfortable at times for me. make them young adults or something!!!!!!
I’m probably just thinking too much into this lmao but does anyone else feel this way about the books???? and before someone says OmG dOn’T rEaD iF yOu DoN’t LiKe It- the only reason I read these books was because of show Malec and I stupidly thought it was going to be the same masterpiece and I was sorely mistaken- and then I read about the insane stuff CC has gotten away with (plagiarism, how she treated people in the Harry otter fandom, how she treats her own fans when they criticize her, like I think she’s actually insane) and I just feel like this fantasy world and some of these characters deserved better treatment and should’ve been put in the hands of an author who actually cared more. I’m just tired of problematic authors and writers ruining shit for us
#anti cassandra clare#anti cc#just my stupid opinions#it’s kinda a rant#but am I thinking too much of this#like does anyone else feel this way#or am I being overly emotional#anti jace herondale#anti clary fray#anti clace#this doesn’t cover everything of how I feel#I don’t know if anyone is actually interested in my thoughts#am I annoying y’all yet lmao#so it’s for 14 year olds and up#but still weird like I wouldn’t want someone under eighteen reading this and thinking it should be admired#maybe if the writing actually has some accountability#or showed that hey trauma is okay and valid and what you went through is okay and so is working through it#there’s nothing wrong with seeking help#but the way she writes it is so insane to me
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#fr 2006 ian would be SHOOK#i wonder if he’d be sad by the letter or just think it’s weird and overly emotional#meme#smosh#ian hecox#anthony padilla#the letter#☀️🔍#not your girlfriend#beardier half
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#i have so many behaviours and fears and#no emotional regulation and issues and disorders and fearrrrr#and i do not know how to explain it so that ppl who dont relate can possibly understand it#but it is like i am trapped in a nightmare dimension where everything is always bad#my brain isnt even wired to see anything in a positive or hopeful light#which is how humans are wired typically to ensure survival lol#in swedish avpd is also called anxious personality disorder#which can clue in on the fact that if you know what a personality disorder is#(your brain hasnt developed normally but in a disordered way. often bc of trauma etc)#my brain is wired to be anxious abt wverything all the time#so i always naturally see everything in a negative and dark and bad and horrible light#which is fucking terrible. it makes life exhausting and like a constant fight#other ppl dont get that bc their brains arent wired to have this horrible outlook on EVERYTHING#so thid just gives me extreme trust issues and my brain always fights to make sense of things#bc it cannot do so in a rational manner#and basically i just feel so ashamed when i think of how like... overly emotional and fearful i am#as soon as anything happens im like wow this person literally wants to kill me bc humans are evil#which i know intellectually isnt tru bc if it was i'd be dead by now 💀#ig i just feel so lucky that one person still is my friend after almost 2yrs now#despite my whateverthefuck moments when idek what im saying..#'working thru my emotions' in a way that doesnt make sense#esp when hes seen some of what i've written and im like NOOO i was spiraling when i said that i dont mean that i think most likely i dont#anyway.. feeling grateful 🙏 i wish i was normal#or at least had th ability to have connections and relationships most ppl w mental illness are still capable of having#avpd is fucked upppp it is such a weird mental disability.... 0-o#bc of my fear i also struggle with relaxing into it bc im like no imma fuck it up soon or no hes gonna leave me soon bc i suck and dont#deserve having him in my life at all. i really wish my brain wasnt wired to be terrified like i hate my brain and myself like why cant#i just be normal!!!!!! ☹️ i am thankful for every moment still.
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nah but ppl shitting on gege for writing gojou's reactions the way he actually is and not fanon's version of him is so funny
#jjk spoilers#jjk 222#gojou satoru#jujustu kaisen#draco.txt#no but gojou isn't the overly emotional type he has never been man filters out all his shit#ofc he's going to act like that#if you were expecting waterworks you missed the very essence of gojou#think back to hidden inventory. think back to every other scene.#gojou satoru hides behind his calmness his derangement is his calm.calm before a storm is gojou#i can go into heavy detail but i wont#twt is weird yalls shit on gege every chance you get
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LIKE. lets reframe the question. yes you can kill me for being too aro to live if you wish but fucking LISTEN FIRST. if you are not currently in a relationship. maybe your life is good maybe your life is not so good. maybe you want one but cant get one do to circumstances. maybe you only kinda of think about wanting one but your like. eh. i can do without for now. you know. but. OH MY GOD! the REST of my LIFE. NOOOO ROMANCE?
and yes. no to be clear, if its a thing you want. you would be missing out on that experience. THAT ONE. POSSIBLE EXPERIENCE. okay. now is there also a fruit youve never eaten? a hobby youve never tried? does that youve never eaten a fucking. i dunno. pawpaw. mean a strawberry is less delicious? does never going ice skating mean you never experience the joy of rock climbing?
when someone phrases a question like. ITS THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!! RAHHH!!! You suddenly get the urge to. what? count you joys objectively? qualitate and calculate every aspect every missed chance and moment?? the question was not. would you be MORE happy. it wasnt, would you linger on the possiblity of a missed intimacy and closeness. a form of sharing a life for a while or for an age that you might enrich all parties. it was. do you think you would be happy.
do you think YOUD NEVER EXPERIENCE HAPPINESS. do you think your feelings would be constricted through a tube of NO ROMANCE. do you think one loss, one ache, one feeling of regret, MEANS YOU NEVER FEEL ANYTHING ELSE? You would never see a sunset? youd never eat a delicious and emotionally significant meal? Youd never cry with someone out of joy or grief or anything else an feel comfort? GET A GRIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#some shit#the undersaid part of this is. dont know how long it is. sorry. lol. but true!#anyway yes yes you can now try to attack and kill me for being a bitter aro. EXCEPT PSYCHE BITCH!!!!!!!#IM FILLED WITH EMOTIONS AND I CHOOSE TO BE THIS WAY#(if u even THINK about using that statement to bittle loveless. replused or otherwise less 'gettable' aros i will PULVERIZE YOU INTO DUST)#aro cause i like reading comic books more than feel like overly involing myself in understanding the weird swing of my heart lol#well that and. dating sounds like it sucks dooky. why would i do that. read the ninja turtles with me lol#<- ppl who engage with non typical romance ARE COOL AND GOOD.#and we can coexist. its not a fucking either or stitch u dig?
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anyways. yeah yeah boys are allowed to be soft and explore their feminity. but the second you exclude boys of color, specially black boys, from that you're an ugly person. sorry not sorry 🤷🏾♂️
#this need to focus on hyper masculinity and overly violence/strengh/roughness/toughness when it comes to moc bodies?#even when it doesn't suit anything about the guy???? uhmmmm. weird how that keeps happening#like this goes far beyond bandom bc ive seen this shit in every single fandom were one of the main guys wasn't white#tho in fairness idk if i would even go as far as calling pete a main character when most of the time people don't care about him beyond him#being a convenient cardboard w/ a dick & maybe an exotic color of skin for their white boy of choice to have their deep emotional breakdown#<- ok in being kinda unfair bc there is good stuff out there but man sometimes you gotta wade through so much bullshit
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God dads outburst at me about the election really has left me shaken and fucked up
Spent the last few weeks feeling incredibly lost and tired. All it took was dad breaking my trust in him and losing his stupid ass to the right wing.
#Bro Im so mad about it but also too exhausted to fucking do anything as of this moment#But plans are being made to move in with the ol ex and just live there.#Its. Scary. Really really scary. But its okay.#Its his own fault for letting himself get so overly emotional and basically yelling about how he cares more for an ideal like that than lik#The daughter who wants him to be safe#Same goes for the reat of my family tbh#Theyre all just happily living their lives and Im jist sat here looking like a crazy person#Trying to have brunch while also tryibg to be normal#It sucks. I hate it. Im tired.#I feel so fucking disconnected from my family now and its a weird feeling#I feel like I dont actually belong anymore and its awful#But hey. Who cares right?#Eldest daughter + only child syndrome in an asian family is a HELL OFNA DRUG.
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Kinda hate how weird men can ruin you passion for something.
#I’ve been writing reviews for theatre shows I’ve seen - it’s been going pretty well - like I’ve been quoted by theatre company’s etc#but this one guy who was obsessed with me (he hasn’t been texting me as much cause I kept being rude to him)#would write a 300 word review of my review each time I wrote one - it was weird and he would analyse sentences and assume my emotions from#the text I had written - like one time I wrote about the faulty audio in a show - and he responded with ‘I could really feel your stress and#heartbreak over the faulty audio. it must have distressed you so much.’ - and I was like? it’s just faulty audio#anyway I’m going to starkid innit tonight and was going to potentially review it (maybe not because I’ll be overly biased)#but he just texted me to say I look forward to your review of the starkid show (why does he remember the dates that I’m going to things -#honestly weird and creepy)#and now I don’t want to write it because I don’t want his response
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Poison, they say, is a woman's weapon. As if that makes it lesser. As if poison does not betray a deeper anger Any fool can grab a weapon or throw a fist The so-called weapons of men are Weapons of the moment, of passion Poison demands foresight, patience What does it say that the woman's weapon Is one that requires a simmering affront A banked fury growing ever hotter Even while hidden behind the required smile
They say we're too emotional But our weapons tell the truth Poison is a crime of the slowly boiling, Of people who know exactly what they're doing And poison, they say, is a woman's weapon.
#reasons why ailelie#shouldn't write#poetry#murder#poison#do you see where I was trying to go with this?#there's this idea that poison is for women or cowards#and there's this idea that women are overly emotional#but poison is SUCH a cold and calculating weapon#sure it *could* happen in a moment of passion (adding bleach to dinner or something)#but it is far more likely to be carefully planned#and like if you go back to that idea that women are emotional and poison is bad b/c it is womanly#you get this weird situation where 'they' both call women emotional and ascribe to us the colder murder weapon#like do they not realize how their dismissal makes poison the perfect weapon? a weapon of slow rage rather than quick passion#am I making any sense?
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chuuya bsd and cherry sk8 have the same gender
#and it's one i Want#yeah i stand by this#unfortunately it's also one that makes people read them as overly emotion and feminize them in weird ways so. that's not a slay#hello grace here
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the tonal whiplash between “the sun and the star” and “a nico di angelo adventure 😋” is kind of insufferable... it just sounds so goofy for lack of a better word. like the least nico di angelo thing you could do to a title. but also i think its really funny for that reason like i don’t know what the necessity is for that additional tagline but i’m glad rick riordan continues to not take nico completely seriously LOL
#i had no idea mark oshiro was nonbinary btw RGAHHHH im so excited.... so excited to hear theyre a more introspective emotional writer#i love will and nico as being silly amplifiers to each other but im so excited to see more from both of them....#also hearing that rick riordan's wife was crucial in establishing will's character and voice and alignments is so fascinating#i would love to hear her character analysis wtf#rrv#also im really excited for the plot but i cant help but see this as another percy jackson fail 😭#good for him for leaving the questing realm and going to college but like.#nico was already the one who kept up with bob after percy forgot about him#leo was the one who went back to help calypso after percy forgot about her#now nicos going back to tartarus to help bob again#i dont hate percy or anything i just think he is definitely a bit of a flake and jerk#but in a very human way. like sometimes people just kind of suck a little bit. especially when they're 16#and sometimes you have to look out for yourself and the ones you love at the expense of being a jerk to others. yk#im not trying to be overly critical of him at all LOL i think he's fine. but there is a pattern here#i also think its a failing on rick riordan's part for not giving percy and nico's relationship the resolution it deserved....#like the end of TBOO was a silly 'gotcha' and like. dunking on percy sort of thing#which i think it was good for nico to tell percy about his crush on his own terms. but the whole scene is so.... weird.#like. silly. like annabeth high fiving nico (???) that felt so strange for all parties#like percy and nico really needed like a serious conversation about their history 😭 and the genuinely mean ways percy treated nico
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not to be like dramatic or mentally ill about it, but having to say goodbye to succession this year is actually more emotional than I thought it would be. I started the show thinking “oh, rich white people going through shit-that’s funny!” but oh man did I underestimate it.
I didn’t expect it to hit so hard and just be so, SO brilliantly done. Every single person that works on that show gives their all and it is evident in every moment. I joke a lot about the emotional turmoil it’s put me through, forcing me to confront my own internal and external issues, relating to these absolutely insane characters and hating them at the same time. I wish I wasn’t so dramatic in saying that a lot of the art that has changed me has come at very important times in my life and succession was the most surprising but I’m actually genuinely so grateful.
anyway. all this to say, I’m actually really sad to see it end so soon? even though we can all agree it should definitely end sooner rather than later, for a proper send off. it changed me in ways that still shock me to the core while also still being able to laugh at the absolute nonsense of the central storyline. so if anyone needs me on march 26 I’ll be
#not me being overly emotional over a silly ass hbo show like shut the fuck up#jesse armstrong you’ve ruined my life FR#ANYWAY sorry to get so weird on main I’m kinda going through it right now lmao!!#succession
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Dear Machine. Hate, the Cog is insanly fucking good god damn
#late i know but been busy a bit lately#been a long time since a song has been that close to actually making me cry ngl#song is insanly amazing but it makes me feel really bad at the same time#especially him using a lyric from the other albums#i wish the best mentality on him cause like#the concept of being that heavily perceived with the things you make is terrifying#idk how to word any of this my brain dont work properly#not a tagged post cause its too much of a rant#also i feel weird talking about it#moss post#ignore me im being weird and overly emotional idk
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when lorde said 'i love it here since i stopped needing you' she was being so real
#.txt#as someone who always needs to have someone to be attached to and to rule my emotions its so weird but so freeing to be in a long-ish#period of time when im not overly attached to someone to the point of having my issues triggered 👍 i truly love it here
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