#wedding muslim

[pinbones]

I've seen a few posts about women and pants now and many of them are very good, and not to nitpick those posts or downplay religious sexism or anything, but I have to emphasise:

Somebody who DOESN'T live in a controlling religious country/cult/family is also affected by sexism. We all know that, right? Secular parts of the first world also have opinions about how women dress, including when it comes to trousers, especially in childhood and in institutions like schools and the workplace

Me and many people my age (20s) remember being forced into skirts, punished and shamed by parents & teachers & peers & possibly then bosses about what we wear not being feminine enough, and it wasn't by deeply religious sects. Many updates to dress codes are very new and sexist views are still in place in many institutions. Normalised societal misogyny wants women (and people they want to treat as women) to dress femininely, down to what KIND of pants they're allowed to wear (compare a pink top and jeggings to mens jeans and tell me these two women are treated the same. Hating women in pantsuits is still a sexist office joke today, and even those outfits are feminine compared to male suits, which raise eyebrows when worn by women). The women I know who wear trousers regularly are literally otherwise feminine, and all wear dresses to events.

I know trousers have become much more normalised over the past few decades in secular society (yay!! the result of many many years of effort and lawbreaking) but let's not be absolute when we talk about the pants concept lol. Especially within a larger conversation about female/transmasc/intersex/transfem masculinity and social perceptions, especially in an age of rising fascism

[secular-jew]

Jewish wedding in Jaffa Israel, circa 1899. In another Pallywood lie, the photo was promoted as "Palestinian" but they neglected to notice the key structure in a Jewish wedding ceremony, aka the "huppah" - the wedding canopy.

[booasaur]

Special Ops: Lioness

[vitbrollop]

you will be happy my son.

[thurio-edau]

me when i learn that my mom had decided to make me marry her friend's son since i was a fucking child

[hamdosana]

Make dua for your partner in every salah.

Even if you’re not married yet. Pray to Allah to give your future spouse good health, increase their imaan, give them protection, and bless them and you when the time is right.

[divinum-pacis]

December 2024: Ribnovo, Bulgaria Selve Kiselova, a 21-year-old Pomak (Bulgarian-speaking Muslim) bride, has elaborate makeup applied to her face before her wedding ceremony. The people of this Bulgarian mountain village are famous for their unique marriage rituals Photograph: Nikolay Doychinov/AFP/Getty Images

[desi-pluto]

Hello Followers and Moots,

It's almost been 2 months since I got married, so I just wanna spoil you guys with a pic from my wedding under the read more 😉

[modestaesthetics]

[blackxlesbianxstanacc]

I’m late to the party but there’s finallyyyyyy a book for the fat Black Lesbians 🥹💜 As a Lesbian Muslimah, Kris has my entire freaking heart. I hate that I’m almost at the end of the story. If anyone knows more Black lesbian literature please let me know! I’ll love you forever <3

p.s. I’m thinking about uploading a little book review…we’ll see 🦑 ~

[sealedwithmusk]

“أنت القصة التي لا أريد أن تكون لها نهايه".

You’re the story that I never want to have an end.

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#personalphotographs #متزوجة #simplenikah #noweddingextravagance

[bentbox-co]

[mymusicbias]

[dailycupoftrauma]

It's wedding season y'all

[songs-of-the-east]

Newlyweds in Tajikistan -  Jeremy Weate

[hamdosana]

An Apology from a man to his future wife!

DearFutureWife, I know, I don't know you. But yet I want to apologize to you.

I'm Sorry...

Because I haven't so far asked for your hand in marriage.

I want to be your husband to protect your Chastity and mine.

I want to be your husband to preserve you from fitnah of our time, where most of the boys and girls are engaged in Haraam Relationship just to fulfil their desires (physical or emotional).

But it is the decree of Allah. And He will make us together at proper time. May be, I'm not completely ready, because to live In our society. A man needs a home and a good job to provide for his family.

I'm sorry my dear future wife. But we must be patient. Insha'Allah soon Allah will make us together.

Remember me in your Dua's As I remember you in my Dua.

Lets pray that Allah make us together soon from his bounty.

O'Allah please grant all brothers & sisters a pious, loving & caring spouse soon Ameen.