#wedding muslim

[pinbones]

I've seen a few posts about women and pants now and many of them are very good, and not to nitpick those posts or downplay religious sexism or anything, but I have to emphasise:

Somebody who DOESN'T live in a controlling religious country/cult/family is also affected by sexism. We all know that, right? Secular parts of the first world also have opinions about how women dress, including when it comes to trousers, especially in childhood and in institutions like schools and the workplace

Me and many people my age (20s) remember being forced into skirts, punished and shamed by parents & teachers & peers & possibly then bosses about what we wear not being feminine enough, and it wasn't by deeply religious sects. Many updates to dress codes are very new and sexist views are still in place in many institutions. Normalised societal misogyny wants women (and people they want to treat as women) to dress femininely, down to what KIND of pants they're allowed to wear (compare a pink top and jeggings to mens jeans and tell me these two women are treated the same. Hating women in pantsuits is still a sexist office joke today, and even those outfits are feminine compared to male suits, which raise eyebrows when worn by women). The women I know who wear trousers regularly are literally otherwise feminine, and all wear dresses to events.

I know trousers have become much more normalised over the past few decades in secular society (yay!! the result of many many years of effort and lawbreaking) but let's not be absolute when we talk about the pants concept lol. Especially within a larger conversation about female/transmasc/intersex/transfem masculinity and social perceptions, especially in an age of rising fascism

[secular-jew]

Jewish wedding in Jaffa Israel, circa 1899. In another Pallywood lie, the photo was promoted as "Palestinian" but they neglected to notice the key structure in a Jewish wedding ceremony, aka the "huppah" - the wedding canopy.

[booasaur]

Special Ops: Lioness

[desi-pluto]

Hello Followers and Moots,

It's almost been 2 months since I got married, so I just wanna spoil you guys with a pic from my wedding under the read more 😉

[modestaesthetics]

[blackxlesbianxstanacc]

I’m late to the party but there’s finallyyyyyy a book for the fat Black Lesbians 🥹💜 As a Lesbian Muslimah, Kris has my entire freaking heart. I hate that I’m almost at the end of the story. If anyone knows more Black lesbian literature please let me know! I’ll love you forever <3

p.s. I’m thinking about uploading a little book review…we’ll see 🦑 ~

[sealedwithmusk]

“أنت القصة التي لا أريد أن تكون لها نهايه".

You’re the story that I never want to have an end.

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💍 ٠١/٠٦/٢٣

#personalphotographs #متزوجة #simplenikah #noweddingextravagance

[bentbox-co]

[mymusicbias]

[dailycupoftrauma]

It's wedding season y'all

[songs-of-the-east]

Newlyweds in Tajikistan -  Jeremy Weate

[hafsadeeyah]

28.06.2024

Alhamdulillah 💕

[divinum-pacis]

Kashmiri Muslim brides at a marriage of 30 couples in Srinagar, Indian controlled Kashmir, Wednesday, Feb. 21, 2024. Mass weddings in India are organized by social organizations primarily to help economically weaker families who cannot afford the high ceremony costs as well as the customary dowry and expensive gifts that are still prevalent in many communities. (AP Photo/Mukhtar Khan)

[chameli]

why can’t south asian authors write about anything other than arranged marriage/and or religion? i’m so sick of reading the same shit over and over again. might as well write my own book at this point bc all the ones i’ve read so far are boring & stereotypical as hell 🙄

[myungjaehyun]

he looks like he'll leave me at altar if I say I like kpop

[thumbelenina]

I could be with you at home, watching you sleep, and still miss you.

Marriage is such a beautiful thing, and I can’t imagine sharing it with anyone but you. I pray to always be the best wife you could ever ask for.

Bahebak kitr, zoji.