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I WILL NOT ACCEPT A LIFE I DO NOT DESERVE
I WILL NOT ACCEPT A LIFE I DO NOT DESERVE
I WILL NOT ACCEPT A LIFE I DO NOT DESERVE
Stop settling for less than you deserve. You don't like your life? Manifest a better one or SHIFT. Stop accepting a life you don't like.
You can be grateful for what you have but gratitude shouldn't stop you from wanting more.
"My CR isn't that bad"
Would you shift here if it wasn't your CR?
No? I thought so.
If you answered yes, I'm fucking jealous.
Now go shift and live the life you deserve. You can shift. You deserve to shift and live a life you enjoy. Live, not just survive.
#shiftblr#shifting#reality shifting#shifting realities#law of assumption#shifting blog#shifting journal#im done with this reality fr#we deserve better than this#i deserve better than this shitty life#fuck my mental illnesses#fuck this shit#AAAAAAA#desiredrealityxposts#wow that was intense
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how was it queerbaiting? Chas was openly gay. plus Joe never said he was straight. he just said he was married. bisexuality exists.
joe was straight; he'd been with a woman for years, and outright tells chas that he's marrying another woman very soon. he hated chas, and admitted to him that he "did things he wasn't proud of" with him to earn his love and trust. suggesting he's bisexual just makes this more gross, so thanks anon
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My mood currently is deeply angry about climate change and US healthcare, alternating with fantasies of seizing every health insurer’s money or hostile takeover of BP and then divesting of all fossil fuels at once to cope. And binging all the Bridgerton novels on audiobook. And repeat. No wonder I haven’t wanted to leave my apartment this weekend.
Please enjoy two photos of my cats who are living their best lives.
#I think I’m pretty good at not thinking about upsetting things when there’s nothing I can do#but between that new oceans report and the fresh hell that is women’s maternal care post roe v wade#I am ANGRY#we deserve better than this#Oscar did enjoy this weekend though it was a 24/7 snuggle fest
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i cannot bring myself to delete the original twitter thread of my fotc fic but like,, i also cannot just have it at large on my profile, unpinned. the Dilemma
if editing tweets was allowed beyond the 30min after posting window, the solution would be so simple. alas, musk hates gays who can’t type
#we deserve better than this#y’all know i’ll share the ao3 link on this blog though#bc i respect you here#personal log
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January 2023: Tyre Nichols
It is a sad time in The City. If you don’t know about Tyre Nichols’s murder, here is some local reporting. My heart goes out to Mr. Nichols’s family & friends. This moment should be about them & Mr. Nichol’s but I know some people will make a talking point out of the fact that the 5 police officers involved are African-American in an attempt to absolve all officers of racist bias.
The reality is that policing in America has its roots in systemic racism & white supremacy. Anyone trained in such a system will be corrupted regardless of background & intentions. Add to that, the fact that giving human beings power over their fellow human beings has always led to corruption & abuse. The United States has, with few exceptions, responded to the symptoms of its systemic racism & economic inequality by increasing spending on law enforcement rather than spending that money on programs that would address some of those disparities and, in turn, alleviate the symptoms. I don’t know about elsewhere in the world but, in the United States, the police are trained to see the citizenry, who pay the taxes that employ & insure them, as potential criminals & they treat us accordingly. I say that as someone who, simply because of his skin tone, has survived encounters with law enforcement that have left other men & women dead. For a reality check, the local police academy takes 21 weeks to complete but, in order to get a license to do natural hair in Tennessee requires no less that 300 hours. Let that sink in, the girl doing your locs had more hours of training than the cop on the street with a gun.
I’ve said this before but I once thought the kind of social justice I talked about would be some antiquated thing that young people would simply look at me about & say in a reassuring, although slightly patronizing, way, “Sure, pops. Everyone know that these days.” On subjects like this, I wish I had outlived any usefulness I might have. I would rather be a relic than relevant.
#tyre nichols#memphis#systemic racism#the city#life in the united states#life in memphis#economic inequality#we deserve better than this#tennessee#natural hair#locs
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currently balling because of the cancellation of warrior nun
#i cant stop crying#it hurts so much#god i hate netflix#fuck u netflix#fuck netflix#we deserve better than this#absolute bullshit#avatrice#sister beatrice#ava silva#warrior nun
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i feel like johanna mason being like "they can't hurt me, there's no one left i love" except it's capitalism taking away my favorite shows and making shittier movies and ruining the music industry with tiktok and just overall stealing true joy and expression from every part of the entertainment industry
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The tragedy of being William Afton’s daughter in FNAF..
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#vanessa afton#vanessa shelly#fnaf vanessa#elizabeth afton#circus baby#william afton#steve raglan#springtrap#fnaf movie#sister location#fnaf fanart#here’s your daily dose of angst guys 🩵🩵#Vanessa and Elizabeth’s stories make me sob#They are both betrayed by their fathers#both assuming they at least wouldn’t hurt them#both just wanting their father’s love#THE scene in the movie where Vanessa is stabbed by William#and she whimpers ‘dad’ you can just tell she was shocked#she really thought he’d at least never hurt her#this is why the Williams go to super hell#neither of them deserved their daughters#and their daughters deserved way better than what they got#WE HERE care about Elizabeth and Vanessa 😤
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Imo the best ending to Supernatural would have been to just stop with them alive on a random hunt or them finding jobs and living the life they just wanted or whatever.
And then the story just fucking STOP, because Chuck is not here anymore, so they are no longer part of a story they are finally free. And we could still write and read fanfic about how they live after they won.
#they should have just STOP before fucking killing them all#that might have stopped the story with no possibility for a revival#so I'm not sure#but I would be fine not having any revival if the end was satisfying enough#it would still be better than what we had anyway#an open ending would have been better#because they would be ALIVE and FREE#they deserved to be happy#spn#supernatural#spn 15x20#Carry On#there's no carrying on when everyone is fucking dead#don't mind me#I'm still bitter about that ending#dean winchester#sam winchester#castiel#jack kline#eileen leahy#destiel#deancas#saileen#if you don't ship those no hate please#my random thoughts about spn
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there is no shirt for my residency 😭
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hey everyone - i know there’s a lot going on in the world right now, a lot of causes that need support and visibility now more than ever.
i’d like to take an opportunity to highlight a cause that’s very literally close to home for me: i live very, very close to springfield, ohio. the haitian community there has always needed help and support but now, with white supremacist rhetoric and bold faced lies being circulated nationally, with threats of violence and heightened ignorance being more common than ever, they need it perhaps more than they ever have.
there has been a lot of hate since trump and his little bootlicker attack dog jd vance have started this shit, but there’s also been an outpouring of love and community outreach in the weeks since springfield was thrust into the worst kind of spotlight.
the hatian community support and help center has been invaluable in helping hatian refugees get what they need to start a new life here. they are headed by a team of haitian immigrants that are personally familiar with what their fellow immigrants need. they have been instrumental in keeping their community from falling through the cracks.
i’m humbly asking, if any of you can - please, please consider donating to the HCSHC. every bit helps. and if you can’t donate, please, please share this around. if you’ve ever reblogged one of my posts or found them funny, if you’ve ever scrolled through and liked and reblogged what i’ve put here, i implore you to share this too. this is a very personal cause for me; i want to see these people who are new here, who enrich our community but are met with too much derision and spite, receive the help, respect, and dignity they deserve.
#haiti#springfield#donate#signal boost#yes i’m tagging that stuff because i’m hoping it helps#i’m so serious when i say this is personal for me.#springfield and the cities/towns surrounding it have all felt the heavy gaze of the nation resting on us#there’s been both so much hope and love but also so much hate and violence#it’s been. emotional. i can’t imagine what it’s like being a haitian refugee here right now#please please give if you can. they need our help and deserve our time and respect.#fleeing violence and fear just to be thrown into a different kind of violence and fear…#no one deserves that. we can better better than that.
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it actually really bothers me how it was always “daniel to red bull” now it’s “liam to red bull” but it’s never once been “yuki to red bull” when he’s been driving the life out of that car for years
#we all know the reasons but i just fucking hate it so much#he deserves so much better than he receives
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you were raised in comparison.
it wasn't always obvious (well. except for the times that it was), but you internalized it young. you had to eat what you didn't like, other people are going hungry, and you should be grateful. you had to suck it up and walk on the twisted ankle, it wasn't broken, you were just being a baby. you were never actually suffering, people obviously had it worse than you did.
you had a roof over your head - imagine! with the way you behaved, with how you talked back to your parents? you're lucky they didn't kick you out on your ass. they had friends who had to deal with that. hell, you have friends who had to deal with that. and how dare you imply your father isn't there for you - just because he doesn't ever actually talk to you and just because he's completely emotionally checked out of your life doesn't mean you're not fucking lucky. think about your cousins, who don't even get to speak to their dad. so what if yours has a mean streak; is aggressive and rude. at least you have a father to be rude to you.
you really think you're hurting? you were raised in a home! you had access to clean water! you never so much as came close to experiencing a real problem. sure, okay. you have this "mental illness" thing, but teenagers are always depressed, right. it's a phase, you'll move on with your life.
what do you mean you feel burnt out at work. what do you mean you mean you never "formed healthy coping mechanisms?" we raised you better than that. you were supposed to just shoulder through things. to hold yourself to high expectations. "burning out" is for people with real jobs and real stress. burnout is for people who have sick kids and people who have high-paying jobs and people who are actually experiencing something difficult. recently you almost cried because you couldn't find your fucking car keys. you just have lost your sense of gratitude, and honestly, we're kind of hurt. we tell you we love you, isn't that enough? if you want us to stick around, you need to be better about proving it. you need to shut up about how your mental health is ruined.
it could be worse! what if you were actually experiencing executive dysfunction. if you were really actually sick, would you even be able to look at things on the internet about it? you just spend too much time on webMD. you just like to freak yourself out and feel like you belong to something. you just like playing the victim. this is always how you have been - you've always been so fucking dramatic. you have no idea how good you have it - you're too fucking sensitive.
you were like, maybe too good of a kid. unwilling to make a real fuss. and the whole time - the little points, the little validations - they went unnoticed. it isn't that you were looking for love, specifically - more like you'd just wanted any one person to actually listen. that was all you'd really need. you just needed to be witnessed. it wasn't that you couldn't withstand the burden, but you did want to know that anyone was watching. these days, you are so accustomed to the idea of comparison - you don't even think you belong in your own communities. someone always fits better than you do. you're always the outlier. they made these places safe, and then you go in, and you are just not... quite the same way that would actually-fit.
you watch the little white ocean of your numbness lap at your ankles. the tide has been coming in for a while, you need to do something about it. what you want to do is take a nap. what you want to do is develop some kind of time machine - it's not like you want your life to stop, not completely, but it would really nice if you could just get everything to freeze, just for a little while, just until you're finished resting. but at least you're not the worst you've been. at least you have anything. you're so fucking lucky. do you have any concept of the amount of global suffering?
a little ant dies at the side of your kitchen sink. you look at its strange chitinous body and think - if you could just somehow convince yourself it is enough, it will finally be enough and you can be happy. no changes will have to be made. you just need to remember what you could lose. what is still precious to you.
you can't stop staring at the ant. you could be an ant instead of a person, that is how lucky you are. it's just - you didn't know the name of the ant, did you. it's just - ants spend their whole life working, and never complain. never pull the car over to weep.
it's just - when it died, it curled up into a tight little ball.
something kind of uncomfortable: you do that when you sleep.
#writeblr#warm up#my dad was actively doing bad shit to us and we STILL were told we were lucky . and to a point i do think im lucky#i just think also there's somethin to be said about like. how about we stop using comparison to dismiss ppls individual struggles#yes there are people who have no perspective. for the reference tho having perspective actually made me really unwilling to get help#for what was a serious and debilitating mental health issue. bc i thought i didnt DESERVE IT#and i would rather have 600 ppl who aren't THAT bad get help and get heard and get seen#than make any 1 kid. do the math that i did: look at the world that is dying and the people who are hurting and say#''oh. okay. others have it worse. they are probably better people than i am. i am being unreasonable. i cannot ask for help#i am not good. i am taking too much space. i am not worth saving.''#bc our WHOLE lives we are taught a scarcity mindset - that you can 'steal' from someone. so that instead of changing a system that doesn't#actually offer fair support to everyone#we put the impetus on the individual to just... demand less.#and here's something - there are probably ppl who think i DIDNT deserve to get help#bc i DID have it better than other people#and something about that is ... so sickening. bc i think all of us in some way at some point WILL need help.#we were supposed to make communities. we were supposed to offer our hands. we were supposed to raise the barn#instead we said: it could be worse. now handle it yourself
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So… how we feeling about these new names?
#ace attorney#ace attorney investigations#aai2#ace attorney posting#ace attorney series#sebastian debeste#yumihiko ichiyanagi#eustace winner#raymond shields#eddie fender#ace attorney shitpost#ace attorney miles edgeworth#this is a look into my brain over the past 20 hours#I’ve finally lost what few marbles I still had#I’m still reeling over the absolute horrendous choice that is. eustace. winner#I think I’ve invented a whole new stage of grief.#a part of my brain is hoping we can pull a Sonic movie and have it changed before September#because COME ON.#EUSTACE.#WINNER.#I quite like Verity Gavèlle - it’s a bit more subtle than Justine Courtney#and I was not expecting Eddie Fender at all but I can vibe with it#(though I definitely prefer Raymond Shields)#but my boy deserves better than EUSTACE. WINNER.#to all folks out there that share the name Eustace I’m sorry for what you’ve had to witness this week.
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what was the point of lila thinking home was a feeling she didn't deserve and could never earn until she found diego. what was the point of them finding deep, meaningful love in each other. what was the point of lila opening her heart and confessing that all she really wanted was a family with him.
what was the point of developing diego and lila over two seasons, creating such a beautiful, chaotic bond, just to destroy it for no reason.
#the umbrella academy#diego x lila#lila pitts#diego hargreeves#what was the point!!!!!!#isn't it great when there's no character resolution and everyone just gets erased from existence#instead of giving us emotional closure they just added more pain and trauma and called it a day#what was it all for exactly. to give the handler a peaceful happy life of all people#don't even get me started on the bracelet or that awful pointless love triangle#steve blackman is gross and so is the way he talks about lila like she's not even a character in her own right but just an afterthought#someone who was there to pair with five while diminishing all that she is#five needed a love story so they just shoved lila into that role as if she were some random accessory to five's story#rather than her own character with thoughts and feelings#a woman's entire character arc is ruined just to give a guy a love interest#i feel sick#i've already mentioned some of this on twitter but whatever#as you can probably guess i'm not going to gif this so-called new season#lila deserved better. diego deserved better. we deserved better
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My hot take is that Maedhros and Maglor would not be all that suprised that Silmarils burned them - they know what they did.
But. They would, completely irrationally, be suprised that Silmarils burned their brother.
#they each believe that the other one is a better person than them#and obviously not deserving of burning unlike them#you would think they know better#so did they#yet here we are#they are so unwell about each other#maedhros#maglor#silmarils#silmarillion#silm
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