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On today's episode of auDHD boygirlfriend and autistic girlfriend, my girlfriend walked into our room, paused for a long second, and then asked me why the room was flashing rainbow. I just replied that it felt like the correct way to listen to nightcore, which she accepted as an explanation. She would, a couple minutes later, admit that she didn't initially register the rainbow strobe lights. Instead, she just knew that something had changed, and it took her a moment to realize that that thing was the brightly flashing rainbow lights she was standing in
#we're both autistic#but i got the adhd turning every dial up to the 'hyper' end of the spectrum (hyperverbal for example)#and then there's my girlfriend with the factory settings autism#we balance each other out well#personal
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Things I make for myself when insomnia kicks in
Just a chart about what I wanna change up and keep consistent in my art - I mainly wanna draw Raph with a tail because he deserves one, it fits too well. Donnie gets a long tail too because I didn’t realize how dino-like he looks until I gave him one, and now it’s a must for me haha.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt headcanons#note these are veryyy much for my own art so by all means ignore this completely for your own unless it resonates#these are just my personal headcanons#I’ve been getting more and more fond of the turtles having tails - especially Raph whose design honestly feels more complete with one#I also am now attached to Donnie having a long tail too because 1) he looks cute with one and it really works for him and-#2) I LOVE giving the Brains and Brawn duo more stuff in common#I could write an essay about how many things Brains and Brawns duo has in common in general#but also portal duo as well!!#we already know that Mikey and Leo look a LOT alike#so I think it’s cute when Raph and Donnie have stuff like that in common with each other too#like how canonically Donnie’s sclera are on the yellow side like Raph’s#anyway I’m sorry if this is a random post I am very tired and still have not slept#ALSO yeah i wanted an excuse to doodle April it’s been too long i missed her#I’m excited to finish this comic up to show the OTHER reason I gave Donnie a long tail#I made this in like five minutes because working on my comic was not working out#also Draxum totally has a tail he’s a sheep#I lean away from Mikey and Leo having longer tails mainly because their designs are already so busy#with all the colors and shapes present on them#so to me longer tails kinda takes away a bit#meanwhile Raph and Donnie are more monochrome in comparison so I feel like tails only help them?#I think as well Donnie’s torso/carapace being on the shorter side makes a tail balance him out#(me trying to justify the visual gag im putting into the comic for literally only two panels)#didn’t draw the caseys because I am tiredddd#and they would have just ended up where April is anyway
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Little bright colored outfit with a fun vest ~
(shoes from ebay like 10 years ago. everything else is thrifted)
#ootd#jfashion#fashion#fantasy fashion#mori kei#....like... adjacent... lol#no idea what style this would be lol.. makes me think of like whimsical vaguely fantasy themed childrens book character#finally posting one of my aforementioned seven million drafts of actual outfits and costumes i have finished and edited#the photos for but just never feel like posting lol..#I need to find one of those people whos like 'omg i am ADDICTED to social media ugh i wish i could get off of it#im just browsing and posting like 60 times a daaaaay!!!' and take a little magical bottle and suck some of the social media#enthusiasim out of them. for moi. In exchange they can have some of my 'literally just never in the mood to post or interact with the#outside world ever' energy. We can balance each other. huzzah and so on#Though I think maybe it's part of the general thing I've heard of like.. I can't remember if it was in reference to adhd or just some sort#of general execcutive functioning issue type of thing - but the idea that things have to be ''just right'' before you do something. like#'oh i need to do this task. but i have to wait until XYZ first' or 'oh i can do this but only if X specific condition is met' or etc#The fact that I even have to be in a Specific Mindset to post. or sometimes will delay posting on social media because like 'oh well#I'm going somewhere tomorrow. somehow this matters. i cannot spend 5 minuts posting TONIGHT. clearly it will interfere#somehow schedule wise with the doctor appointment i have 15 hours from now. yes. yes. i must wait until my appointment is over#tomorrow afternoon. THEN i shall post' or etc. etc. lol. NOT even taking into account the many days#I just genuinely and physically sick and it's not even a mental thing. I just physically dont feel like sitting at the computer lol..#ANYWAY.. trying to get back into it. trying to get a business bank account.. make a proper paypal so i can start selling sculptures again.#selling clothes and sculptures.. posting about such things then of course as one must. etc... chanting to hype up and motivate myself lol#But yes. this is my favorite outfit out of the bunch so I am posting it first I guess.. maybe others later..#Also the purple dress says its from shein. which I've heard is bad fast fashion stuff. but maybe okay since its second hand? I havent#been to the bins since like 2020 or late 2019 even. and I think stuff like shein and temu has only become poular in the past few years#but I bet if I went to the bins now I might would find a good handfull of that stuff. Probably now not much different than what you#find in a walmart or a forever 21 or actual physical stores you can go to though. I hear quality of clothing is down everywhere no matter#where you get it or whatnot. What bountiful joys unfettered capitalism and exploitation bestows upon us (<being sarcastic).#Wearing one of my favorite little vests though. I love the texture of it and the clasps on it
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I think what we can gather from this gritho team up (finally) is that they are essentially efficient and coordinated chaos
#grian#ethoslab#secret life#traffic smp#trafficblr#because like#they are effective at chaos individually#but since their flavours of chaos are so different they balance each other out quite well#which just make the chaos somehow organized#like how grian planned around what Etho was just gonna leave for the moment#and how Etho was prepared for resolving multiple outcomes in the way Grian wasn’t#like#there was no way they could’ve been more effective at getting that wither and warden to fight#like Grian effectively evacuating most people#and Etho luring them together#just the perfect balance#and somehow the balance makes chaos#love it#we should analyze them through a microscope
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i think the best ship is the girl who's always trying to get stuff done and complete her mission and the guy who helps her know when to take a break and have fun and not crack under the stress of it all.
#shipping#captain swan#new dream#kanera#snowing#outlaw queen#han solo x princess leia#lizzie x gordo#channy#canderemy#i know a ship probably came to your mind but imma level with you:#i realized i love this while i was watching camp rock two#mitchie is just like 'we gotta work really hard to save the camp!' and shane is just like 'okay but hear me out: we're having a picnic'#and they just balance each other so well and i love them!#OH ALSO THIS IS WHATSHERFACE AND WHATSHISFACE FROM STARSTRUCK#(i know because I've watched that movie a LOT with my mom)#tiana x naveen#(almost forgot about them!)#then again maybe this is all inspired by me on more than one occasion being frantic or stressed about planning and stuff#and one of my guy friends would just. say my name. distract me. close the planner. remind me that my stress isn't helping me.#it happened once at college i was like 'ahhhhh this is such a big schedule for after graduation it's so much'#and my guy friend was like 'i can make it all easy for you.' and then closed the planner.#i need friends like that.#another time i was frantically loading the car for a friend group road trip and a little stressed#and a different guy friend just#said my name. and held his arms out. and then gave me a hug. it was so soft and safe#so maybe I'm just projecting and manifesting my dreams onto them#kazzy overshares in the tags#just an upper right looking for her lower left 🤞#OH ALSO. scarlet queen
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being super normal about White calling Billy "a dreamer"after the events of Maybe No Go
#truly alarming amount of tags on this post don't click read more fr#the venture bros#pete white#bily quizboy#billy whalen#idk man the way they balance each other is really interesting#the things they agree on and disagree on are almost arbitrary#'you can't put mouthwash in a cookie' 'trust me' vs 'we should spend 10 mil on a motorcycle instead of housing' 'that's such a cool idea'#billy trying to pep white up about the ball#'this was your dream too' like come on dude when have pete's dreams ever worked out#when have yours#'what are we gonna do now billy?' 'we'll cross that bridge when we come to it'#baby the bridge has never been more present#ALSO white calling billy the dreamer when HE'S the one who pushes so hard for things#billy has dreams that might not be realistic but they give him hope and he works around the way the world works to make things happen#like being a self-taught surgeon and believing in a magic ball#pete has dreams IN SPITE of what is realistic and he will mold reality to be what he wants in order to make it happen#like fixing the quizshow and pretty much everything that happened in invisible hand of fate#and they both have disabilities that affect them in vastly different ways and impact their relationship with realistic goals#like billy's hydrocephalus being presented to the audience as mostly a social issue for him and the hand and eye being marks of trauma#rather than like an actual block for him beyond needing to tune the hand up every now and then#vs white's albinism making him physically unable to be in direct sunlight and making him actively fearful of doing certain things and#being certain places#to be clear i know the actual effects of hydrocephalus as well as the hand and eye but this is based on how the show presents it#like billy took these things about himself into account and went ok these are part of my reality and i will work with them#and pete took his reality and went ok i will cover it up with fake tan and wigs or sunscreen and hats and make reality what i want it to be#and that's what makes them a good team!! that's why they science together well#it's also why they argue so much#accepting reality and playing within its constraints vs hating reality and changing it to suit you#these are the hallmarks of scientific progress
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it's been a strange arc so far
when I was 19-21 and having an extremely imbalanced relationship with someone in their mid 30s I was like 'we are both adults so the fact that this is fucking me up is my fault'
when I hit my late 20s and saw how young people in their late teens and early 20s seem now I was like 'oh wait I was so fucking young I didn't know shit about my own limits or about managing relationships and I don't know why someone in their mid to late 30s would be into that except for nefarious purposes'
the weird bit is now I'm into my 30s - not even that far into my 30s - and while I still wholeheartedly believe that last thing about how young (and self destructive) 20 year olds are, I'm also kind of like 'huh, actually nobody I know that age has their shit remotely together and frankly the reason this fucked me up is because NEITHER of us knew what the fuck we were doing it how to cope, for different reasons and at different life stages, and there probably wasn't any malice or intent to control as much as there was Blind Flailing.'
#red said#this is about one specific relationship btw.#wanted to clarify that because there have been several men over 30 who fucked me up between the ages of 16 and 21#and i adamently do NOT want to keep pretending that was incompetence. that was predation. sometimes incompetent predation.#but with the person I'm thinking of? she really hurt me and the age gap and difference in life stage was a not insubstantial factor#but mostly she was just spiralling out really badly and i offered her something to hold and she did try to keep things balanced and safe#but she was very off balance at the time. so the fucking up was more that than it was about power or control#we were just both very stupid and very sensible at the same time which is a great way to dig yourselves deeper#and idk I'm like 2 or 3? years younger than she was when we met iirc#and the closer i get to her age the more I'm like yeah you know that's a human reaction. i can see how that happens.#and i kind of feel bad for the amount of bitterness I've held and malice I've ascribed because ultimately#i think it was just two people having different crises trying and failing to figure out boundaries around them#but this has come on really suddenly and it's kind of fucking me up as well#cause I'm frightened of falling back into patterns of oh it's never anyone else's fault that i got hurt#but i don't. thiiiiink so? bc it's really only this one thing. i am not making these excuses for other people.#idk. sometimes people just fuck each other up.#I'm not even sure i think it was a bad thing that it happened. a lot of bad happened but we also catalyzed a lot of change in each other.#i feel like the reason i keep picking at this is that it's complicated. it was not good. it was good.#she really fucked me up and she was a terrible friend to me at times. but she was also the first person to really look after me.#and she kind of helped me start to learn how to need other people. which was good.#when my grandma died she wrapped me in a blanket and cancelled her plans to watch TV on the couch with me#even though she barely knew me at that point#and she was one of the first people to consistently ask for consent and check in. and she did genuinely care about me.#but she also truly fucked me over a couple of times.#but mostly that was just because she was buried in a pit of despair and self loathing.#she seems a lot happier now. i hope she is. i don't know if i want to know her particularly but i think if she's happy she'd be nice to know
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i need fgo to acknowledge servants horses more
#achilles isn't enough i need to know how each servant is around their horse(s)#i think that duryodhana has two main steeds and would have a hard time controlling them for when he's being petulant#highest ranking older mare (12-16) + her offspring (4-8) the older one would have a stubborn and calm temperament who doesn't respect duryo#and her daughter would have the same kind of chill but would be more playful and curious. dur is talking with his brothers & she trots over#starts nuzzling and sniffing his clothes because she's bored. duryo keeps talking but starts petting her#i also think duryodhana has instinctively good balance and he's good at multitasking so showmanship-like riding comes to him easily#but he's shit at all horse maintenance. especially hoof care; he's convinced his girls are going to kick him and doesn't want to even try i#but he wants good care for his horses so he watches over the servants tending to them. bossy yet incompetent duryodhana 🥰#we know georgios is a good owner but i think he likes rein maintenance & spends a fair amount of time making sure bayards armor is spotless#lalter gives out snacks more easily than her counterpart (going after the wild hunt takes energy! llamrei is a good girl!)#percival is great with horses in general and he enjoys taking care of them and will help out any other knights if they're having trouble#ashvatthaman is (un)surprisingly really good with young stallions. he's not afraid of them at all and will scold them for their mean deeds#horse tries to eat his clothes or nibble his hair and he's like. oi stop that you bastard. and the horse listens (will eat his hair later)#prince of lanling is very thorough with horses getting enough feed and water and will make sure they're well rested#arjuna is like. the main character of a horse movie. he's emotionally sensitive with them & bonds with horses easily (who sense his worries#works really really hard to be good at riding and wants to leave no room for mistakes. really aware of his posture at all times#we had dogy event please give me hors event... horses cute and underrated<-most biased man talking
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Shoutout to my Monkees mutuals for reminding me about the Monkees and their music; now I'm thinking about how She is such a season 2 Damon talking about Katherine song.
Meanwhile, 1864 Damon is of course firmly Vampire Girl by the Misfits (he would die for her, and he did).
#Damon Salvatore#The Vampire Diaries#Datherine#the Monkees#She#that post defending Auntie Grizelda got me listening to them a little again and first of all She slaps#and second of all Damon is singing it about Katherine. privately of course. but in his heart#Vampire Girl#the Misfits#I like to imagine Damon would be very fond of both of these songs#some people see him as a Taylor Swift fan because he mentions her but he specifically says that he *tolerates* her music to get girls#the only music we canonically know he listens to is Enjoy the Silence by Anberlin and 21 Guns by Green Day. So really he's an emo#well and Ask the Angels by Dead Sara in season 5#I'm trying to think of any other diegetic music Damon chose in some way. but just based on those three I'd say he's a man of taste#and I like to imagine there's some diversity in what he listens to#assigned Monkees fan by way of my tumblr mutuals hehehe#anyways time for my monthly main blog post#idk I need to bring these things more into balance. but ah well here we are#I love how tumblr is just all of our obsessions bumping up against each other and sometimes meshing together#I should reblog with applicable lyrics#some music for my favorite terrible vampire man <3 ;)#update: I was gonna pick some lyrics but nevermind it's really just the whole song#although 'she needs someone to walk on so her feet don't touch the ground' hits in particular#Vampire Girl is pretty lyrically straightforward but it definitely hits human Damon's devotion to her#also I know it's not necessary to italicize song titles but I wanted She to stand out because I feel like if you don't know the song#you might think I just capitalized a random word. so I wanted to be clear#I ramble#even in the tags I ramble
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They're working very hard to balance out our fear
#stubborn and hunted i mean#they're trying very hard to balance each other#it is so fascinating to me that if you yhink you can lure den out to more advantageous terrain them arguing will straight up kill you#even though that's kinda the same thing they agree on doing with the eye of the needle#well‚ prolly because hunted is scared of den more‚ stubborn is convinced one solid punch is enough‚#and generally they seem to trust each other less to get the job done#if you weren't so damn scared of what she'd do to you we wouldn't have died something something#vs we died because you didnt have enough of it
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I'm crying about trees again, this time for a slightly different reason (yippee ;-;) You're gonna have to stick with me for this one I gotta give you context. (This is Yiga Clan related trust me)
The Hinoki Cypress is a species of tree known for very sturdy wood with a very straight grain and lovely coloring, and it's the kind of tree a lot of temples in Japan are made out of for these reasons.
The reason that this kind of tree is so strong is because they take a very long time to grow. Most mature trees of this kind are hundreds of years old. This makes the rings on these trees very compact, giving denser wood, making it tougher.
Unfortunately, due to overlogging and the popularity of the wood as a building material, these trees are much less numerous now than they were hundreds of years ago. And we can't just plant them anywhere to restore the old growth that once was. (For obvious reasons but there's more) These trees depend on the old growth in order to grow from seed because they prefer soil that consistently drains and then gets rained on regularly. This makes them dependent on old growth because the extremely old cypress that fall over create the perfect environment for the next generation to grow. New trees will grow in the bark of the old, so it's not hard to find groups of these trees growing in a straight line where an old tree fell.
Which finally brings me to my analogy.
It's one of my headcannons that Master Kohga is basically immortal. If not, he definitely ages much slower than a Hylian. Like these old growth cypress trees, he probably grew up in an environment where he was able to receive support from true Shiekah elders.
And then... the Shiekah's bloody history. Used to build up the kingdom of Hyrule and the royal lineage of Hylia. In order to protect the superiority of the kingdom, it wasn't enough to just leave them be, the Shiekah were made to be an enemy, outcasts. Many of the elders carrying the history of the Shiekah, along with anyone else who dared fight back, were felled. Another sacrifice to build Hyrule's bloody history.
Remnants of those old cypress forests exist today, in a few places. Only about 3 of the original old growth forests are around today, (if I remember correctly) and their numbers continue to decline slowly.
The last factions of the Ancient Shiekah remain, held together by their leaders. Master Kohga and Lady Impa. Most of the people they knew growing up are gone. Everyone they know now is practically youthful, only being alive for less than 100 years. The last elders left to cultivate the next generation. And that generation will likely survive continuing on the same path they fall on.
The Hinoki Cypress is going to haunt this narrative because to me it is such a powerful symbol of the Shiekah and the Yiga, their history, how they've been used by the Kingdom of Hyrule.
And I'm crying about trees again.
#im also thinking about Palestine at the same time as well#i'm watching the violent murder of people and their culture in real time#the parallels aren't lost on me#is it that much to ask that we let people live to be old and pass on their stories and culture#anyway if it wasn't clear I'm not fond of the whole “right to rule” narrative that totk has#the whole “i rule/do this thing because my lineage says so” that's the curse#being unable to break free of the conflict between incarnations because of the actions they keep repeating#the idea that someone has to come out on top instead of balancing each other out#all this has already been said by people much better at expanding on these thoughts than I am#loz#master kohga#yiga clan#thoughts n rambles
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sorry dashboard. and i love you
#j.txt#my household is extremely fucked up!#at this point it's choosing between speaking up high risk high reward or not like i have been forever and keep biding time until we can#get Away from each other#unfortunately this is all based on my ability to breadwin and save money and move w their help around the house in the meantime#and our timeline keeps moving#so it's hard to know if i should speak up cause we'll be stuck together for another year or if i should just shut up cause it's almost over#yk?#ouughggghgoughegh#maybe i'll just message my brother n be like. hey just so u know i see this and it sucks and i don't want u to think ur crazy for seeing it#or being mad about it!#but w her state of mind i don't feel like i can bring it up in a way that wouldn't sabotage us further as we try to keep this balancing act#until we get the FUCK out of here#well. looks like i just needed to talk it out loud to find a solution literally in. tumblr tags um#yeah sorry again dashboard. and i love you
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average +r round
#can you guys be nice about our air neutral we both were trying to out play each other and ended up just playing ourselves#txt#its so funny this matchup is STUPID .#both having to play the waiting game to get resources but having to play aggressively to keep the other at bay is#a really fun balancing act#and we both know each other so well we just attempt reads constantly and fail cuys were both trying it its hysterical
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do i think she's horribly deranged and wearing well? yes. do I think he could have fixed her? also yes.
#this is about brutalia#I don't mean this in the sense that bruce is capable of fixing people rather#that being in his presence inspires others to rethink their lives and get a kriffing grip#also I think bruce and talia balance each other out super well and we were robbed of them as a power couple
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I downloaded the sims 2 ultimate edition from that google docs tutorial and everything went great!! And then I downloaded a bunch of mods and fucking. Broke everything. And even after deleting them I couldn't get the mods that came with it to work? So I uninstalled and am reinstalling to see if that fixes it :(
#i just couldn't leave well enough alone 😭#im pretty sure i downloaded the mods correctly! im just too computer illiterate to figure out what the problem is#thats like my only standard for relationships i need a girl who is good at computers#im good at other stuff we could balance each other out!!
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I think what I love about Flirty Robots is the more playful dynamic between Pidge and Lance. They genuinely banter and while they can bicker it never feels hostile.
Keith and Lance’s relationship often felt a lot more actively antagonistic than any of the other inter-Paladin relationships.
Lance’s wannabe Casanova persona has tons of potential with sassy science gremlin Pidge.
There’s also the fact that Lance seems willing to follow Pidge on whatever crazy adventure she wants to go on. Like in episode 1, when they see Shiro’s escape crash land, Pidge immediately run after it and Lance is right behind her.
Or when they’re at the space mall wher Pidge and Lance work together to get that retro gaming console.
Both are also very family oriented.
Then there’s the potential for angst between homesick Lance and the ever searching Pidge. Both desperately miss their families and want nothing more than to be reunited with them, but one is pulled towards Earth and the other is pulled away.
And this heading a bit into headcanon territory, but I feel like both use their respective outward personas to the mask their inner pain.
Lance is always flirting and acting like a goofball to cheer both himself and others up and to keep him distracted from thoughts of home, while Pidge throws herself into her work to not let the possibility of both Matt and her dad being dead sink in.
This is a not a comprehensive list of many reasons I ship Flirty Robots, but I hope you can start to see why I like it.
OHOOO SOO TRUE ACTUALLY. the way that they're opposites but also so so so similar........I can See It
#still dont know if id ever write it because idk if im capable of getting in their headspaces in a romantic way in regards to each other#but ough. i Understand#voltron#xpegasusuniverse#the thing abt keith and lance being more antagonistic toward each other is like. yeah. they are.#but thats part of what makes them so compelling to me because its like. theyre soooo different and they cope w trauma in different ways#and they grate on each other and butt heads and argue but when it comes down to it they work so well together !?!?#like not even in a romance way just a Teamwork way#they balance each other out. water and fire. sniper and sword. cool and hot. defense and offense. et cetera.#and To Me the reason why klance is so compelling is because theyre so much more similar than they think#and once they get past the initial arguing/antagonistic phase and become Teammates theyre one of the best pairups for missions#just because they work so well together. well oiled machine and all that.#anyway im clasping ur hand in solidarity because we both Get It (lance ships)
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