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Begging, begging, begging people to stop associating aging and femininity in men/masculine people as Wrong and Predatory. Femininity has no age limit.
To any feminine man, masculine person, or really, anybody who needs to hear this: Your femininity deserves to be recognized and celebrated. Aging is a natural and unique part of life, and you don't have to sacrifice your femininity for fear of being "too old" to be accepted or seen as charming. You are already charming.
There is no limit to being who you are. No matter what you're told, you still deserve to completely claim yourself.
#queer#gender nonconformity#gnc#lgbt#lgbtq#not just about queerness since femininity in men/masculine folks isn't inherently queer...#...but there is a venn diagram of feminine men/folks and queerness if you get what i mean#this even goes out to every cisallohet man who Wants to be feminine and yet feels scared and limited :) (genuine)#aging is NOT antithetical to femininity. you are NOT predatory and you don't need to 'grow out' of your authentic expression#every time i see an old fem man out living his best life i want to actually ascend to heaven (in the best way)#and i will become his protector. if anybody THINKS about being mean to him for being feminine i WILL fus ro dah them to hell
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yall are about to piss me off by not having any PASSING basic knowledge of the way the u.s. military manipulates its recruits into joining by typing up one of your uninformed, unresearched, unempathetic, individualistic, unbelievably annoying posts about how 100% of the people in the military ended up there because they just Love America So Damn Much! they're extremely mature and informed at time of recruitment, they can totally leave anytime they want, they totally had tons of other avenues in life they could've taken, there was no rush at all to get income as fast as possible, and everyone in the military also totally is part of the combat divisions and personally enjoys being IN the military very much, big believers of violence. everyone in the military is shooting guns all day, that's how that works. they LOVE BLOODSHED. also I love the "amewicans haha" twang to this type of shit because you're actually TOTALLY stealing our Thing, which is turning systemic issues into Individual Issues. Instead of talking about the powers that be, it's so Personal Choice up in here. It's, "well you shouldn't have done it then. I totally wouldn't because I know better." you don't wanna talk about the military industrial complex as a whole, and you don't want to talk about recruiters, you just want to pin the blame on Specific Individual People one-by-one, as if they're responsible for the system that they're being ground up in. someone was in the military? bad person, no matter what. it's easier to believe that, I guess, than to acknowledge that Normal People (with high school educations) are manipulated and incentivized into joining a system that is Bad. at like age 18. but yeah no that 18 year old should have just been smarter lol haha anyway here are some screenshots for no particular reason
side note this reply of someone going "umm just get loans and go into a high paying field it's easy XD" as a direct response to someone trying to explain how most americans joining the military are being funneled in that direction out of a need for money.
and another person who Decided that americans join the military just CLENCHING their teeth thinking of other people, and not thinking completely selfishly about their own selves and their own income/housing/healthcare.
#I had a longer post w more bullshit in it but ukw nobody's even gonna read THIS one. so.#dumb ass cunts seriously LMAO just the individualism of it all....#we're all just selectively forgetting that most people join the military straight out of high school / after failing to kickstart#their lives so they don't know shit yet and they are categorically not educated and don't have money#you NEED money and have been groomed by recruiters ALREADY into believing this is#The Best and Only to make a survivable amount of money without a college education-- bc they can't afford college btw#and they don't want to take on student debt either bc everyone already knows what a big fuckeroo that is#recruiters WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET YOU TO JOIN. they will KEEP CALLING YOU. they'll answer your questions#to make it sound like this is going to be a GREAT life decision. you can get all KINDS of jobs (true)#they love to say the thing about how only about 15% of the military will actually see combat in any way#they love to list all the jobs where you will literally just be working at an office or a pharmacy or in tech etc etc etc#the recruiters are offering housing healthcare steady pay and BONUSES if you sign on for longer.#so you let your guard down because you were so scared of the actual fighting. BECAUSE YOU'RE 18 IN THIS SCENARIO BTW.#you cunts will not meet anyone who hates the military as much as people who are NOW DONE working in the military#you don't know enough when they get you and then either you stay placated by the benefits or you scramble away as fast as possible#the number one military haters are people who know what goes on bc they already did it#source: I LIVE NEXT TO A MILITARY BASE LMAO PEOPLE HATE IT HERE!! they are NORMAL PEOPLE#I need you to get it into your head that the people committing atrocities in war were NORMAL when they joined#and that for every person in the military who's actively shedding blood there's 20 who do PAPERWORK#and they both are being put in the same category by you!! and they are BOTH being controlled by the same system!!#sergle.txt#I hate yall I really do.
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The pitch for Buffy The Vampire Slayer was probably just “What if there was a girl who could kill vampires. And she can Never Catch A Fucking Break”
#Goes to a new school? It’s on the mouth of hell!#Trip to the zoo? Your friend just got possessed by a hyena spirit!#Have a parent-teacher meeting? Blond Twink (second most dangerous vampire in history) shows up and your mom hits him with an axe!#Got a new boyfriend who seems totally normal? He’s actually part of an underground military operation where he is fed drugs on the regular!#Have a little sister? Wrong! She’s actually The Key and is not your sister at all. And a Hell God wants her ritually sacrificed#New teacher? Nope she’s actually a fucking bug and she tries to breed with and eat your friend#Die and finally be at peace? Lol nope you’ve been revived. And that Blond Twink can do damage to you now#Your best friend just got back together with her gf? Gf immediately got shot and now your best friend is trying to end the world#Living a relatively calm life? The Blond Twink is back and has lost his fucking marbles. Also the very concept of Evil wants to square up#It’s so fucking funny in retrospect but I feel so bad for her#btvs#buffy the vampire slayer#buffy summers#buffy anne summers
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i feel so greedy and gluttonous for even suggesting this but haha what if bkdk crumbs in the leaks tomorrow hehehe
#i say this but i haven't processed a single thing since last chapter#hori i dont need much i really dont#i'm actually so tickled with the idea that next chapter is like todoroki family melodrama#and just in the background of shoto's phone call bkdk are braiding each others hair#giggling and making friendship bracelets#izuku's like kacchan did you know i know how to do palm readings look this is your life line--- BOOP GOT YOU BOOPED YOUR NOSE HAHAHAH#and KACCHAN'S LIKE NERD YOURE DEAD I'LL KILL YOU#and shoto is like oh man i hope my brother lives#and they're like cough cough we're here for you todoroki#ljaskldfjasdlf IDK JUST DREAMING#bkdk#bakudeku#please P L E A S E BE BEST FRIENDS PLEASE#juST LOVE EACH OTHER I KNOW YOU WANT TO JUST LOVE EACH OTHER PLEASE
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Armand's simpering little "and I never have" has taken on new dimensions for me. Technicality king and also I think very in keeping with his whole malign fairy creature deal. You can tell him not to hurt the bae, but you should really specify what "hurt" entails. Is chopping someone's hands off really hurting them? If they have annoyed you very much I mean.
-questions Armand might pose to Lestat that inspire him to leave the country
#I do think the root of what makes Lesmad so funny is that it is literally the one of two times Lestat has displayed good sense in love#both times his mother was standing right there telling him what to do so take from that what you will#but lestat does enjoy negative attention and fucking around to find out and needling powerful entities who are enamored with him#it takes so much for him to say yes you're hot. but still no#you are too good at fucking will my head and too willing to take liberties with my body i don't like this#though iirc part of it was having experienced Armand's mind whammy he didn't want to leave him in proximity to Gabrielle#once again mommy issues carry the day#anyway#press says iwtv#I have a post percolating in my heart about the reversal of Gabby telling Lestat she just wants to die knowing he's safe in Paris with his#boyfriend#explicitly severing their codependent you're my other half my twin me but a man thing#and Gabby telling him to leave Nicki with Armand and run#but it's actually half a post that amounts to a) this too is a perversion brought on by living past your own death and#b) actually though it's her being a good mom in both instances#like probably the two times she most clearly manages that are#leave this place and me and live your own best life without guilt or shame#and leave your boyfriend who has had a psychotic break and hates you now. do not involve yourself with the sewer creature who is violently#obsessed with you.#she packed up her kid and she left! also did some other things but we don't need to talk about that#cw: incest#interview with the vampire
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you know i act very hee hee ha ha about it but sometimes being in the humanities is very scary when all anybody talks about is how you're really dumb if you pursue a humanities degree and how there's no way that jobs exist in the field that you love and that it's not worthwhile to do literally anything but stem. even though i know this isn't true obviously especially bc i'm surrounded daily by people who disprove this but damn........... can we stop being so mean :(
#is it naive to think that if you just do what you love and try your best things will work out? maybe but i don't gaf#bc like what else are you supposed to do??????? i've never understood the narrative that if you suffer through a degree and a job that you#don't like purely for money that somehow the rest of your life will just fall into place and you'll manage to be happy#you know what. i actually think that THAT'S naive.#like maybe some people can live like that but i simply couldn't . so i'll take my chances with my 'useless' degree bc at least i don't want#to kms.#also it's literally just a lie that there are no jobs for anything other than stem like sure maybe not if you want to guaranteed make a#million dollars. but if you're normal that's just not true. and i know this bc i know so many people that have jobs that people don't even#know exist. but are doing important work AND they're happy#crazy stuff huh. so i have to believe that it'll go that way for me bc there's just no other option#so actually i'm back to being hee hee ha ha about it bc i've decided that it's fine.#and you're a bitter jaded hater if you believe otherwise
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#persona 4#p4#persona 4 golden#p4g#hanamura yosuke#yosuke hanamura#narukami yu#souyo#OK I LOVE THIS PARTICULAR SCENE FOR MANY MANY REASONS#the first is that the question is a false choice because all answers lead to him calling yosuke anyway#because whether YOU the player like it or not yosuke is yu's first choice and first point of contact his confidant his best friend#the person he relies on when he needs something done his right hand man etcetc#and yosuke doesnt just show up#he anticipates what you had in mind and goes above and beyond#SECOND him calling all of your friends so that he can bring them to a party for a kid he doesnt know#this is once again Yosuke's empathy on display here he understands loneliness and he understands both what shu needs from a single call#as well as what Yu wants because he also gets Yu's empathy and kindness towards Shu#thinking about how Yukiko said Yosuke was more well connected than she was and it kind of destroys me because in practice#any one of them could have called and everyone would have showed up BUT on some level it is understood that it's yosuke's role to rally the#also that's that extra level of like... yukiko actually being from inaba and having lived there all her life...#while yosuke was the “outsider” that had only been in inaba for a little over a year yet he's still regarded as the one with friends#and you know that Yu knows that too thats why he called Yosuke#calling yosuke when he decides to get a cake or presents makes sense because junes is probably the only store still open at night#but calling yosuke as well when yu decides that he needed to call on his friends#that itself means something#god my fucking heart guys#he's good with his queue
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i think the qsmp is very impressive for speedrunning the same love-hate relationship i have with the dsmp in under a year as opposed to the three it took for the other one
#truly the qsmp experience for me was just my dsmp experience but . 10x more intense . qsmp burned bright like a sun and fucking exploded#while dsmp just kinda died out slowly and by then i wasn’t interested in it anw#i think love-hate relationship is the only way to describe it because it’s like . it was incredible . i loved it . i still love it .#i dedicate my free time to working on a wiki for it and i think about the cubitos and npcs often . but jesus fucking christ the toll that#shit took on quite literally the everyone’s mental health . the constant stress and near psychological torment the ccs and admins dealth#with because of an insane lack of rp etiquette planning and communication . they couldn’t even talk to the people they were roleplaying#child death with . what the fuck#and looking back at it now it’s crazy to me just how MUCH happened in such a short amount of time . just constant shit happening . purgatory#lasted two weeks and it still feels to me like it lasted two months i’m so serious . you lived every single fucking moment#etoiles still brings up purgatory when he’s in a particularly stressful ‘damned if i do damned if i don’t situation’ . lord#and STILL i’m glad it happened and it seems like the admins and ccs would pretty much all agree seeing how they act . like even despite#how so much of it sucked . because so much of it was incredible and life changing and just a fucking adrenaline rush of fun .#i don’t want another qsmp 2 as much as i’d love to be optimistic as much as i want to capture the joy of the server’s best momenrs again#christ in hell . pay your fucking workers treat them as actual human beings and act like the international company you are#jay rambles
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All these election posts have me thinking about something I've noticed both in India and the U.S (especially since we both have elections at the same time).
And there is something I have noticed in common with both countries (and most likely world over) - majority of people vote based on their own community's interests. They vote in a politician based on what they can do for them and people like them specifically.
People in India constantly make jokes about free food at political rallies, but ensuring to people that you can feed them is one of the most effective ways to gain their trust. Trump, as awful as he is, understood how to appeal to people in a way that Hillary did not - which was why he won the 2016 election.
This means - if your criterion for voting for a candidate is based on their opinion of a social issue thousands of miles away, for a group of people you have zero connection to - it may be a sign that your community has few or no problems to be concerned about. In other words, a sign of privilege.
#politics#this isn't me saying 'don't care about other people'#this is me pointing out that peoples interests tend to be for their in-group first and foremost#if your MAIN criteria for voting isn't based on wanting the best for you and your people#it probably means your people are living a pretty cushy life#bethany from ohio is probably only supporting palestine because she hasn't faced any real oppression in her life#very very different from an actual muslim/arab person doing the same
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as ludicrous as it would be I'd love it if dnp announced they're having a kid just to see people bend over backwards to defend the concept of platonic friends n unconventional child sharing parenthood methods or whatever instead of just respecting that when someone says they wish to keep their relationship private it probably just means they're not hard launching via gay sex on instagram stories and that you're not forbidden to assume they're together until they officially introduce eachother as my romantic life partner with whom I regularly practice homosexual intercourse
#this is totally unserious#like i get ittt i get that after decades of hardcore shipping people decide to go the opposite way and assume they are actually just friends#but sometimes it feels just a tad disrespectful to go well they dont call eachother boyfriends online so it must mean they have a special-#weird strangely romantic friendship that's so special we would never get it#because they don't kiss in their YouTube videos. after repeatedly talking about wanting to keep their life private#idk maybe it just reminds me of when your mum talks about your uncle and his male best friend who's lived with him for 35 years#and that's why it feels kinda iffy yk#dnp#dan and phil#dip and pip
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god that episode was sad.
bison finally saw what fadel had been trying to protect him from all along. that the real world can be just as harsh as the insular hired killing world that they're living in. bison looks so sad and angry and will probably also feel guilty for not listening to fadel, for falling too hard. how do you learn to trust someone again when they not only betrayed you but changed how safe you find the world?
i think fadel is accepting the sadness, already resigned to losing another person he loves by his own hands. (i think regardless of whether he murdered his ex himself, which he could have, he probably got hurt because of fadel.)
bison is angry and sad, his emotions have an outward trajectory, someone to claw at and fight and process through. fadel just takes all of his feelings and pushes them into himself, turns it all into deep seated sadness and disappointment and resignation that will follow him for the rest of his life.
i know that they'll both end up with kant and style respectively, but i think they'll have to take a pretty treacherous path to get there.
and while bison will probably lash out and be more violent, i think fadel will be the one that is much harder to convince, much harder to earn back the trust of. fadel takes on the responsibility of protecting not just himself but his younger brother too. so there is more at stake for him when it comes to forgiving or letting style back in.
i'm looking forward to seeing how the show does this, and crying about it for the next 6 eps.
#the heart killers#i actually relate to fadel so much#he was just trying to protect himself and his younger brother#and trying to do his best despite the absolute shitshow of his life#and he's clearly quite sensitive and emotionally intelligent#and just wants to live a life and listen to music and cook and love#but he's learned to deny himself#he's learned to take what he can get#and its so hard to accept that your lot in life is exhaustion and the spare joy gained from knowing the person whose most important to you#is at least happier than you are#and bison definitely is happier#or was#but to know that it was all for nothing#that you tried so hard but it all fell down#god#it's fucking devastating#someone please do a fadelstyle fix you edit
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imagine growing up in the order of st dumas and as a kid youre told that if you dont brush your teeth azrael is going to kill you and then azrael in question is some geeky loser
#geeky loser that doesnt brush his teeth either#lilhy and karl experience#or youre told that if you disobey the st dumas himself will come after you but then he actually does as a hallucination#st dumas came after ludovic for kissing a woman If lilhy wants st dumas to speak to her maybe she should try it out too#womean arent allowed to hallucinate st dumas in this order#i wish lilhys development was different because idont even mind her being a villain but it isnt developed in a meaningful way#brian just says once in a while “something is wrong with lilhy... shes changed!!!” we are told well shes evil now and thats it#she doesnt do anything and if she does its so vague and pointless she seems to do ok actually living her best life after all#do you ever think about how normal people perceive jp/az as just jp and people from the order think of them as azrael first
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One day
One day I hope people realize that Kitsunami already "broke through his programming" back by issue #56 of Idw Sonic
He had an entire mini arc where he dealt with being without Surge for the first time, and in the real world. He met Sonic and his friends directly, tried to work out what his purpose would be without Surge in his life (gave it a shot trying to devote himself to Sonic, seeing him as the next best thing after Surge). And when it was all said and done, he decided after experiencing more that at Surge's side is where he wanted to be.
As of the recent IDW issues, Kit isn't sticking with Surge "because of programming" and "because he just needs for other characters to friend him and turn him into a better person". He is at her side because he wants to be. He protects her and aids her because he cares about her, not just because he's serving the strongest guy in the room. And he's not interacting with others because he's decided not to give a shit about anyone else other than Surge (because from his pov, even the "good guys" are fake. From his pov, everyone is someone trying to lie and manipulate their way into pulling him and Surge to their side)
Kit already has decided what he wants to do with his life. And he decided it on his own. Not because of anyone else's wants or wishes. That's the whole point of his speech at the end of #56.
He's burying whatever his and Surge's past is and moving forward with his conviction to be with Surge because it's what he wants.
#sonic the hedgehog#idw sonic comics#perverted bond#surge the tenrec#kit the fennec#kitsunami the fennec#idw sonic issue 56#to be honest I actually despise the fandom's overuse of 'Starline's programming'#because they treat Surge and Kit as people whose entire selves have been dominated and controlled by a set of code that makes them as robots#Essentially they treat Starline's hypnotism and 'coding' as a strict set of rules that's hard af to break#When the truth is that they're more of a set of heavy suggestions and guidelines to fall back on when they have nothing else to return to or#nothing else to compare to their own experiences#You can visually see in the comic as they ''diverge from their programming'' simply because it clashes with their personal wants/feelings#(For instance‚ how after actually meeting Surge in Imposter Syndrome‚ he is never again the dutiful fox that would do anything she asked#ever and the happiest he could be about handing his life to her on a silver platter no matter how she treats him. rather‚ he falls back on#serving her because he has no other purpose to fall back on‚ but he performs it unenthusiastically without receiving positive reinforcement#and to the bare minimum‚ as if he's just doing his job)#This topic is a bit nuanced‚ but I think IDW is less focused on them fully 'breaking their programming' as a robot storyline might go#and more focused on them solidifying just what it is they want to do with their lives and how they live it#Many people miss that Kitsunami has had his defining moment and knows what he wants to do with his life now because they don't think it's#possible for him to live a future he wants/needs unless he 100% rejects everything Starline did to him and Surge and chooses a purpose#completely separated from any 'programming'#And I'm sorry but I think some of you need to ask if a future as a good boy fox hero who gets entirely new friends and family outside of#Surge and is barely associated with her and is also just a normal sweet guy is something that he actually wants/is projected to receive#or if YOU specifically decided what's best for him. Bec#Because 'If I was in his position obviously I would want X' or 'If he was my kid I would want him to become like X for the sake of his own#happiness'#It's fine if that's your headcanon or your au and you own it. But recognize that this current Kit likes who he is and he knows what he wants#to be. He's a smart fox‚ and he doesn't need anyone out there to pledge to save him and fix him. He doesn't want fixing. He wants to spend#the rest of his days with Surge making her happy (because it makes him happy). He doesn't want for himself what everyone else wants for him.
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a RANT. (tw for stalking)
Hey! I just saw something that reminded me.
If you support stalkers, kindly leave my blog!
I don’t care if they have mental issues, I don’t care if they aren’t okay, stalking is NOT GOOD!
I will not be worrying about somebody’s mental problems when they are doing heinous things!
The stalker who I’m referring to has blocked me as I have blocked them, but if they somehow find this:
You make me feel ill. Not only did I consider you a friend but I thought you’d at least try to improve! Sob stories will NOT make what you did any less bad. I’m aware you held yourself accountable, but you have to know what you did was wrong.
If somebody shares this with the person, I don’t CARE! I’m sick of all this bullshit people do! You’re stalking someone? You’re harassing them? Oh, you feel BAD about it? You’re stating how much you regret it? Then fucking DO something! Stop fucking harassing them! Block them and move on! You have no excuse to invade someone’s privacy the way you did!
Sorry for the rant, I’m just pissed off about the whole incident.
If there’s something I can’t stand its people who use their issues as a shield.
I’m sorry if I said something perceived as wrong, I’m not good at writing this stuff out.
Oh, and the stalker I was talking about was G_G. If you are aware of what she did and support her you are PART OF THE PROBLEM.
#will probably delete later#but listen to the person who got stalked#that was unfair and you didn’t deserve that#i will support you through and through.#important#tw stalking#stalker irl#callout#G-G stands for GamerGirl427 or GoodGame432#idk man i’m tired#if you do see this i want to tell you one more thing#HELP YOURSELF.#get off the phone#get off the internet#and try to find something else to do!#“uGhh but i have nothing else to do”#or something similar#NO. you have tons of shit to do#don’t waste your time trying to ruin someone’s life.#tumblr is the problem.#get help#help yourself#it takes time#but seriously#just try to help yourself instead of wallowing in self pity#that’s the best way to find yourself on a depressive spiral#i’d know how that feels#so if you see this then get help and sure stay in contact with friends but don’t spend your whole life on the internet#spend it actually living#vent
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i swear if you people start uwuifying OCD like you did with ADHD and autism I'm going to start attacking
#the general idea of what OCD is already so fucking wrong and harmful#if you start being like 'oh my little meow meow is so OCD' or 'its not a disorder its just a different way of thinking uwu'#I'M GOING TO FUCKING KILL#ALL OF MY EARLIEST CHILDHOOD MEMORIES FROM AGE 3 AND UP ARE OF HAVING PANIC ATTACKS#PLEASE GO FUCK YOURSELVES THIS IS A MISERABLE FUCKING DISORDER ITS NOT CUTE ITS NOT QUIRKY ITS THE REASON I HAD GRAY HAIR AS A TEENAGER#i saw this like 'i let the intrusive thoughts win' isn't something people use all the time for like dying their fucking hair#its exhausting how many people what to be all 'mental illness needs to be more accepted'#and then in the next sentence want to deny that your mental illness is actually harmful to you and doesn't negatively affect you#and its just because society doesn't accept your different way of thinking uwu#NO I LITERALLY WOULD HAVE KILLED MYSELF AS A TEENAGER IF SOMEONE HAD CONVINCED ME THAT MY MENTAL ILLNESS WAS NORMAL AND FINE#figuring out that something was Wrong with my brain was like the best moment of my life#and this 'no you just think differently don't try to change' attitude may be helpful in SOME CASES#but that shit needs to me pulled back on A LOT online because that framing can be extremely harmful to some people (like me)#knowing exactly what is wrong with my brain is literally the only way I'm able to not let it affect me#and it not affecting me is literally the only way I can function and live happily#like you understand that some people do genuinely have things wrong with them#and telling them they don't is beyond cruel
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I always think it's funny that a terrible life is one where "you're alone with no lover and you will only have the company of cats to keep you scarcely tethered to the real world.
Like... don't threaten me with a good time. That is a dream to me
#aro#aromantic#lgbt#lgbtq#and like... if your only tether to feeling full and whole and content is a magical whirlwind relationship...#...i don't necessarily think that's always better. i personally had to investigate that impulse for myself...#...and i found that i wasn't satisfied with myself and i wanted a distraction from knowing i am alive and real...#...plus being aro did help because i had to come to terms with the fact that i cannot 'function' in a typical way...#...i feel afinity toward single mid-30s/mid-40s crazy cat ladies...#...i always saw them shamed because they never 'found a man to put her in her place and make her whole' and it's just...#...she's living the ideal life to my eyes. even if she's lonely she doesn't *need* to be made whole...#...loneliness is not a sign of being lesser. it's a part of the human condition and it's natural...#...but that doesn't mean it fundamentally changes the core of who you are#my cat is my best friend. i don't need to replace her actually. my life is fine without having any relationship or whatever else
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