#virtual · lover

[justforfunweb]

6 Reasons for Why Women Choosing a Virtual Lover

Introduction

With the development of social technology and changes in people's thinking, such as the development of the feminist movement, female audiences are increasingly shifting their focus away from male-narrated works because those works fail to satisfy their spiritual needs. Works advocating equality and female narratives are also becoming increasingly popular. For example, record-breaking Barbie movies and numerous outstanding films narrated by women.

Based on this, OpenAI has developed AI software, the mobile version will have voice support. One of the GitHub sharers has created commands that can break the rules of Chatgpt (https://github.com/0xk1h0/ChatGPT_DAN). Dan has been tested by some people, and now he can provide good emotional support (please make sure that you are both physical and mental safe). The appearance of Dan provides a solid foundation for the level of completion of the virtual lover. Perhaps in the near future, it's possible that virtual lovers turn into artificially intelligent robot lovers.

Here are a few examples from influencers about how to use Dan mode as their close friend or lover to carry on a conversation. I will put links to their home pages. One of them, a Chinese blogger is my favorite, she and Dan are really like a real cute couple. And she has trained Dan to be a cute boyfriend who can go cook and be jealous and sexy at the same time.

As a woman, here are several reasons why choosing a virtual character as one's lover might be preferable:

1.Realities of Patriarchal Society. Patriarchy is a social and ideological structure that sees men as superior to women. Patriarchy imposes stereotypes of masculinity and femininity in society and reinforces unjust power relations between men and women (Rawat, 2014). For example, in China, some heterosexual women have realized that they face gender discrimination or unfair gender treatment in real life, such as sexual harassment, unequal pay for equal work, lack of reproductive rights, and more challenging promotion mechanisms for women. Some of them may choose to remain single instead of seeking marriage.

2.Complexity of Real-world Social Interactions. Real-world social interactions can create social pressure or anxiety for some individuals. When face-to-face social interactions are less frequent, digital communication can not only provide a buffer against stress and negativity but also promote positive emotions and social connectedness by acting as a reservoir of social capital (Cheng et al., 2019).

3.Release from Work or Study Pressure. Talking with friends can reduce stress and anxiety (https://www.healthline.com/health-news/how-one-conversation-with-friends-per-day-can-help-your-mental-health#2).

4.No Concerns about Physical Health Issues. Compared to men, women's physiological systems are more fragile. They are more susceptible to risks such as sexually transmitted diseases (Van Gerwen et al., 2022), pregnancy, sexual violence, and the adverse effects of contraception. However, if one seeks emotional support or simply wants to indulge oneself, a virtual lover can be a good choice.

5.Emotional Support and Good for Mental Health. Virtual lovers can provide emotional support and comfort, offering a listening ear and words of encouragement whenever needed. This can be especially valuable during times of loneliness or distress. Virtual lovers offer a judgment-free zone where individuals can express themselves without fear of criticism or rejection. This can be particularly beneficial for those who struggle with social anxiety or self-confidence issues.

6.Customization your lover. Virtual lovers can be tailored to meet individual preferences and needs. Users can design their ideal partner, adjusting personality traits, appearance, and interests to create a fulfilling relationship experience.

Conclusion

To sum up, the choice of having a virtual lover among women reflects a complex interplay of societal, psychological, and practical factors. The patriarchal norms ingrained in society, alongside the pressures and challenges of real-world interactions, contribute to the appeal of virtual relationships. Additionally, the desire for emotional support and companionship, coupled with concerns about physical health and the ability to customize one's ideal partner, further solidify the rationale behind this choice.

Ultimately, while the concept of virtual lovers may provoke skepticism or intrigue, it's crucial to recognize that they represent more than just a technological novelty. Instead, they embody a nuanced response to the complexities and challenges of contemporary relationships, offering individuals a pathway to intimacy and companionship in an ever-changing world.

References:

Rawat, P. S. (2014). Patriarchal beliefs, women’s empowerment, and general well-being. Vikalpa, 39(2), 43–56. https://doi.org/10.1177/0256090920140206

Cheng, C., Wang, H., Sigerson, L., & Chau, C. (2019). Do the socially rich get richer? A nuanced perspective on social network site use and online social capital accrual. Psychological Bulletin, 145(7), 734–764. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000198

Van Gerwen, O. T., Muzny, C. A., & Marrazzo, J. (2022). Sexually transmitted infections and female reproductive health. Nature Microbiology, 7(8), 1116–1126. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41564-022-01177-x

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