#victimblame

[faerune]

mystra's abuse of gale is harder for people to see because unlike astarion and where he is in his journey gale romanticizes mystra and glorifies their time together. he's not at the point where he can admit what his relationship with her was even to himself sometimes. especially because mystra is implied to be one of his few or his only romantic relationship in his life

[levshany]

ah yes, my favorite TOH au

the Hammer

[octoberistheonlymonthifeelalive]

my favourite revival myspace deathcore band

[egket]

I might be going insane but!!! Hear me out!!

[abyssalzones]

sometimes people make very off color jokes/remarks about ford pines in the tags of my art (expected) in a way that circles back around to Somehow managing to be misogynistic about a fictional man (utterly bizarre)

[cupidpony]

because (hopefully) someone needed to hear this:

♡ your f/os would not at all blame you for your abuse.

♡ your f/os would never say that you "allowed" for the abuse to happen or that you were "spineless" and "in need of a backbone".

♡ your f/os would make sure that you feel safe and sound away from your abuser and would never do anything that will make you feel unsafe.

♡ your f/os would never ridicule you, shame you, or question you for speaking out for your abuse at all. they will listen with their full attention and will give you all the love and care in the world.

♡ no matter if you were groomed, abused physically/mentally/emotionally, if you escaped the abuse early or later on, your f/os will protect you. even if you were scared to speak up. even if you fought back against your abuser.

♡ you are not at fault for your abuse; you never will be and to those who say otherwise are nothing but vicitmblamers. your f/os love you to the moon and back and will do anything to keep you away from harm.

[lemurchick]

There is a myth that hurts victim of abuse and rape and that I've come across many times on Twitter. It's the idea that a man has to have multiple victims speaking out for them to be believed.

That's terribly far from reality, because violence is not uncontrollable impulsive behavior, it's not pathological; it's a conscious decision made by the man in question. And at some point, with some particular woman, that man decides that he is allowed to beat her, abuse her or rape her. It often goes hand in hand with alcohol and drug consumption, which weakens the control over himself; sometimes after that happens the man comes to his senses and tries to stop the addiction; sometimes he thinks “ufff it's all right, she didn't go to the police” and behaves more carefully in the future. It also happens sometimes that men don't consider what happened as violence at all, or their other partners don't see what he does to them as abuse. Maybe he rapes prostituted women, for example, and behaves acceptably with his official partners. There's a lot of different scenarios.

Oh right, and also a second, third, tenth woman with a similar experience may simply not want to enter into the scandal, seeing how other victims are treated. And that's understandable.

So I'm always sad to see women who have been in a relationship with an accused abuser enter into discussions with claims of “I know him, I dated him, he wouldn't have done such a thing”. How on earth would you know? What McGregor's wife is posting now on insta.... I'm tearing up thinking how a woman can be so brainwashed.

And of course, the number of victims does not really affect the “credibility” of the accusations for the public in a good way. See Manson accusation for example.

[angelbambisworld]

I once saw in a comments section of a KISS video(Can't remember what one)and someone said that Gene's hair looks like black cotton candy. I know they probably meant that as an insult but ngl he do be looking hella chewy sometimes

[trashbag-usa]

how do i say that i think the humor in the BoB is justified and that it doesn't throw off the insidious tone of the abuse narrative (in fact it enhanced it in some cases) but also that i think the humor may be what is leading yall with less than great media literacy to throw the horrific abuse that makes up 99% of billford out of the window and boil everything down to "lol silly old men got divorced #toxicyaoi"

[vincord]

"Maybe my native milgram fandom isn't so bad.. Maybe i should give them a chance." opens the laptop ___

"Hinako's problem is about absolutely nothing. She's just a stupid and hysterical woman. Killing herself was her own conscious choice. I would also be offended if i was cheated on, but I would cry and forget. And she.. Is everything all right with your head, woman? You could have just filed for divorce and left. She is to blame for everything that is happening." ___

"No. Definitely not today" closing the laptop

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

People "blaming their parents for their trauma" are fucking right and I am so fucking angry that the dismissal of that is a thing that exists.

[simppersonquotes]

I'm rewatching house and I'm on the worst episode ever (s2 e13 "Skin Deep"). It's the one with the drugged, sexually abused (by her father), fifteen-year-old model who turned out to be intersex. Between the social worker they called said that there was nothing they could do, the daughter argued that she "seduced" the dad, the misgendering, and the daughter ripping off her hospital gown in front of a glass door with house (and a few random background men) watching to prove she's a girl... Why did they treat this shit like a joke? I love house but this episode is so disgusting.

[foolbo]

had a person in my dms telling me quackity should have "made a fanbase that wouldnt doxx him" and then blocked me when i didnt respond to them lmaoooooo

[stuffedsand]

Wahey milgram oc time my silly guya

013 - Shiratori Masaki

My boy

- 20

- prisoner number 013 (I slapped them into base milgram cuz I don't wanna make a whole new cast)

- to quote my own character notes: cringefail specimen of a man.

-- fun name thing! His first name means "true, hope" hehe

UNDERCOVER

"Under, oh so aware of all that you say

This makes me sick, so please, go away"

Votes (fabricated lmao)

T1 - INNOCENT

T2 - GUILTY

Songs of Prisoners

+T1 – what…what are you talking about?

+T2 – no…you-you’re lying!

Voice trailer (t1)

Oh uh… Shiratori Masaki, that's my name. 20, uni student. Uhh what else … oh, sorry if I forget anything, i, ah, my memory has never been any good

If I'm being honest…I don't know what the hell you're talking about! No one around me has died recently. At least…not as far as I can recall…

*Takai? Takai! Wake up! This isn't funny..!*

Voice trailer (t2)

Hi, Es-kun, how have you been? Ah, Shiratori Masaki. You didn't forget our deal, right?

*Shut up! I don't want to listen to you and your stupid problems anymore!*

Personality

-- a timid yet stubborn man. It is very difficult to change his opinions on things. Polite, but very quick to turn defensive if blame is turned on him.

He can be a prick at times.

Extra notes

-- a man with really bad memory loss. During T1 interro, he makes a deal that he'll take MILGRAM seriously if Es can tell him who his victim is. And he has to believe it

-- not mentioned but his memory loss is a trauma response. Dead bodies are traumatic I don't think that's a contraversial take

-- the indirect murderer of the pair

Full body:

Please note -- his ugly fucking shoes were not an accident he has a horrible fashion sense

014 - Akabane Kazuko

The She

-23

-prisoner number 014

-based off one of my multifandom ocs (and my favourite of the 2)

--fun name thing! Her name means "gentle/kind/harmonious child". 子 is also(apparantly) male specific. I have fun reasons for that

UNDERCOVER

(pardon the artstyle change this was done on my tablet instead of my computer and was. Rushed💀)

Under, I don't care if I'm in the right or wrong

Songs of prisoners

Full of malice, we will waltz to our doom

Votes (edit)

T1 - guilty

T2 - (?)

+t1 – let's get on with it, shall we?

+T2 – ...you're not very good at this.

T1 – voice trailer

Hello. I am Akabane Kazuko. 24. A pleasure to make your acquaintance, Warden.

I am interested in how all this will play out. But nothing will really change the impact of our actions. Remember that, Warden

* My final act… will take your breath away! *

T2 – voice trailer

Good day, Warden. Kazuko, you remember, yes? Seems your choices have caused quite the ruckus.

* You…You know what you've done! I'll make you pay for it!*

Personality

-- a calm and gentle woman. A showman at heart, she is elegant and loves performing magic tricks.

-- some are unsettled by her, but she does her best to be kind and friendly to those she speaks to

Extra notes:

-- Magician coded :)

-- because I can fabricate fan theories, es assumed they killed 2 people in trial one. They have only killed one.

-- the direct murderer of the pair

Full body: (outdated a lil, I changed her vibe. Design still stands)

Please note -- bowling alley socks

Interro qns (please give me some interro questions tho I'm very bad at thinking any up)

Also note: interros are formatted as

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Question

Kazuko

Masaki

--

Cuz I wrote this when I labelled Kazuko as 001 and Masaki as 002. I'm changing it to reflect their new numbers but editing on Tumblr mobile sucks so I'm not changing the order </3

Q)Tell us your family structure

014 — mother, self, brother,

...it's just me now

013 — parents, me and my twin, Shiratori Takai.

Q)Is there people you hate?

014 — hypocrites.

Don't become one, warden

013 — people who always depend on you

Q)Which prisoner is the most similar to you?

014 – yuzuriha kotoko.

013 – hm...

Probably kayano. He looks like he doesn't know why he's here, too

Q)What was your murder weapon?

014 — what a bold question

It was a bottle.

013 — haha, I'll humour you for this one

Hmmmm...... My words, maybe? I've been told i have quite a sharp tongue

Q)What was your family like?

014 — kind, resilient. They were wonderful. I

loved them

013 — they're ok.

Which prisoner do you get along with the least?

014 — mr mukuhara. Nothing against him, he just reminds me of someone.

013 — …Kusunoki. No reason, but I do wish she'd stop trying to talk to me. It's annoying.

Q)How has your experience been within MILGRAM ?

014 — quite good, considering we're all in here for murder.

013 — uh… good? I still don't believe you saying we're all murderers.

Q)Do you have regrets?

014 — yes. I should have done something sooner

013 — no? I did argue with my brother recently, but it was nothing, really. I'll apologize and everything will be fine

Q)Is there a verdict you hope for?

014) all I hope for is your honest judgement. I want to see how you choose to judge

013) Well, since I don't think I've done anything… I'd hope to be forgiven, of course.

Who was your victim to you?

014) nothing.

013) eh? Warden, I don't know. We made a deal remember? You tell me!

What is your father like?

014) i dont consider him my father.

013) uh…he’s my dad. What more do you want me to say, really...

What do you think of the prisoner paired with you?

014) Shiratori? Not much opinion. I do wonder what he's done to be here, though.

013) Ms Kazuko..? Shes intimidating, if I'm being honest. Not scary, just...intimidating

[icedsodapop]

Wish more people would confront Pamela Anderson about her defending Julian Assange, her dodgy comments about metoo and third-wave feminism (that she very much benefits from) and victim-blaming Harvey Winstein's victims, instead of infantilizing and treating her like some uwu victim (as so many White wealthy conventionally attractive women tend to be treated). 🙄🙄🙄

Fuck her honestly.

[marcelinebass]