#vardan⚓️

[many-but-one]

I have always been under the impression that if these people try to solve problems with another adult the way they solve problems with their children, that would not work out very well.

If another adult is behaving in a way that upsets you, yelling at them/hitting them/lashing out not only rarely solves the problem, but you will be labeled an abuser at the least and catch an assault charge at worst. It depends who you are engaging in this behavior with, of course.

Hitting and screaming at other adults who upset you is considered immature and disrespectful. Why is it so revolutionary when we replace the second adult with a child?

the longer I’m parenting-aged the more I realize how disciplinary oriented parenting styles are significantly more deranged than initially assumed