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In the shadow of a narcissistic mother, overthinking becomes a relentless companion. Our minds, entangled in a web of doubt and self-criticism, analyze every word, every action, endlessly seeking validation and approval. The weight of constant scrutiny burdens our spirits, as we second-guess ourselves, afraid to make mistakes. Overthinking becomes a survival mechanism, but it also becomes a prison. Yet, within us lies the strength to break free. Let us quiet the noise, embrace self-compassion, and reclaim our worth beyond the judgments. Together, we rewrite the narrative, transforming overthinking into empowered self-reflection. 💪💛
#NarcissisticMother#ShadowOfDoubt#ValidationSeeking#SelfCriticism#BreakingFree#EmbracingSelfCompassion#ReclaimingWorth#QuietTheNoise#EmpoweredReflection#TransformingThoughts#BreakingTheCycle#InnerStrength#HealingJourney#EmotionalWellbeing#RebuildingSelf#RedefiningSelfImage#FindingPeaceWithin#UnburdeningTheMind#SelfLove#EmbraceAuthenticity#EmpoweredRecovery#ThrivingAfterNarcissism#InspiringChange#ReleaseAndLetGo#ReclaimingIdentity#SelfAcceptance#TransformingPain#BreakingTheChains#overthinking
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It is not often I can stay away from sharing the joy of music and songwriting at an open mic event - today was one of those nights unfortunately...
#i felt so out of place and awkward there#maybe it wasnt the right time#it seemed like everybody knew one another and i was the odd one out#listening to the person starting out the evening by playing and talking about his songs made me feel so insignificant#i felt so tiny so useless and so utterly alone#like what i would share would not be worth anything#so i went home#the self hate cloud overtook me and i am still feeling the boiling anger but directed at myself#i am glad i went there in a way but yeah it wasnt meant to be#hopefully i will calm down soon so i can go to bed without hating myself too much#that would be nice#could be now i should actually respond to inbox messages for forever ago#hopefully that wont make me look attention/validationseeking#sometimes i wish i had a partner if only to have somebody to hold when i feel shitty#in such moments i feel extra touchstarved#i needed the pressure to get myself out of my head somehow#so i bore my nails into my neck#a hug would have been better and less hurtful#but nobody is around and i only have myself to blame for that#stop it micah nothing good comes out of these thoughts#sorry about that#micahs thoughts
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#peopleaser #reliable #motivated #helpful #organized #loyal #polite #productive #caring #attentive #understanding #selfcritical #lost #validationseeker #boundarylack #selfnegativetalk #burntout #lonely #resentful #anxious #lowselfesteem #disconnected #pleaser #peoplepleasing #infographic #psychology #fluidSenses #interpersonal #socialskills https://www.instagram.com/p/CnDJ3B8szif/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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… here’s a few more random selfies, because: reasons.
#rebloggingforvanity#orbloggingthefirsttimeeven#becausereasons#forvanity#thereasonisvanity#validateme#validationseeking#yesiamthatdesperate#selfie#sds#selfies#it me lol#posted#me#reallytho#notevenkidding#appreciatetheinteraction#thanksforthenotes#goober#hisnameischarlie#charlie#catposts#charliecat#mahpeepers#mahbeard#mahface
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me, tossing mediocre content that im very passionate about into the internet void: Validate Me #validationwhore #validationseeking #internetvoid #voidcycling #internetofthings #internetfriendships (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYnMjSSlR3HWbjNWYKQDDQXIox2q40nyvBggrE0/?utm_medium=tumblr
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Sometimes it's better to release the idea of having control over what other people will say, think or do. No matter how much arguing or attempts at convincing or trying to prove yourself... Humans only see what they're ABLE to see in the given moment. The real issue here is validation. Most people don't have control over their OWN thoughts... Why struggle for a puppet's approval? Convince YOURSELF of your value, and strive to continually prove it to YOURSELF! Most others change their minds constantly, depending on emotional spikes and timing. So don't worry about another person's opinion about you. It can easily be changed. The only perspective that matters is your own. NOT in a delusional close-minded way... But in a way that you understand that life is what you make it. Not what someone else makes of it for you. #walkaway #validation #validated #worthy #value #selfrespect #argument #debate #peoplepleaser #validationseeking https://www.instagram.com/p/B9KFRRKAHbV/?igshid=1430xfyr1l170
#walkaway#validation#validated#worthy#value#selfrespect#argument#debate#peoplepleaser#validationseeking
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they call me GunFuck “PistolSex” ValidationSeeker because, you guessed it, I seek Validation
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In the shadow of a narcissistic mother, overthinking becomes a relentless companion. Our minds, entangled in a web of doubt and self-criticism, analyze every word, every action, endlessly seeking validation and approval. The weight of constant scrutiny burdens our spirits, as we second-guess ourselves, afraid to make mistakes. Overthinking becomes a survival mechanism, but it also becomes a prison. Yet, within us lies the strength to break free. Let us quiet the noise, embrace self-compassion, and reclaim our worth beyond the judgments. Together, we rewrite the narrative, transforming overthinking into empowered self-reflection. #Overthinking #NarcissisticMother #ShadowOfDoubt #ValidationSeeking #SelfCriticism #BreakingFree #EmbracingSelfCompassion #ReclaimingWorth #QuietTheNoise #EmpoweredReflection #TransformingThoughts #BreakingTheCycle #InnerStrength #HealingJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #RebuildingSelf #RedefiningSelfImage #FindingPeaceWithin #UnburdeningTheMind #SelfLove #EmbraceAuthenticity #EmpoweredRecovery #ThrivingAfterNarcissism #InspiringChange #ReleaseAndLetGo #ReclaimingIdentity #SelfAcceptance #TransformingPain #BreakingTheChains
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