#uncoditional

[groovyfrog420]

tiny cookie obsessed with giant girlfriend who's 4 times his size

When your evil plan backfires because you didn't predict some guy could genuinely be so full of uncoditional love

meme ref for the title (and what gave me an idea for this drawing lol)

[uneeorchidee]

🌸 some of my favourite flowers and their meaning 🌸

cherry blossom - spring, a new beggining, beauty, ephemerality, love

orchid - beauty, femininity, elegance, admiration, wealth, power, thoughtfulness, charm

jasmine - love, romance, sensuality, purity

hoya carnosa - devotion, fulfillment, fate, good luck, protection, wealth

bleeding hearts - uncoditional love, compassion, purity, kindness, unrequited love, expressing your emotions openly

pink rose - gratitude, admiration, elegance, first love, success, confidence, sweetness, joy

lilac rose - eternity, longevity, happiness, enchantment, royalty, health, love at first sight

[eclaireparlalune]

first I wanted to write this in the tags or as a reply to this post, but figured that I don't want to highjack it and that I really need to express something important.

also inspired by this post.

for me endgame buddie is not only what would make sense... them becoming canon would be groundbreaking in terms of what they represent.

a slow burn/not planned QUEER ship.

I've never seen a queer slow burn ship in mainstream media. queerness has to be announced first and shown to the audience - like a warning. or a cautionary message for the straights as to what to look out for. or to advertise something as queer from the start to attract a certain type of audience.

and as someone who most closely identifies as demi/bi/queer, this is something that I've been yearning for for a long time.

I keep hearning how unrealistic slow burns are. how contrived enemies to lovers are. how unreal such pining in real life is.

at the same time, the same people will keep pressing me about not being in a relationship, unhappy that I don't want to date in a traditional sense, constantly questioning why I don't want to date, implying that something is wrong with me because I've not been in a real relationship when I'm 25 years old already.

bringing up the subject of kids and marriage and saying that I'll mature enough one day for the concept. having to spend years of my time and money on therapy trying to unwind my trauma from my sexuality and wondering what is what while having to endure the constant yearning for friendship and uncoditional connection with someone without the pressure of having to perform sexually in the same way all the other people seem to do.

people telling me to find that someone, because if I won't, then I'll always be lonely, because friendship will never equal a romantic relationship. nor will there be a place for me amongst other people with romantic partners because I will never be enough on my own.

buddie has revealed for me a small yet bright light at the end of a very long tunnel this past week.

and no matter what happens, I think it's worth talking about the importance of such a relationship being represented in mainstream media.

[baby-girl-aaron-dessner]

I'm going to be honest that I wouldn't be surprised if the reason Taylor stopped being an "activist" it's because she didn't get to "win" at it.

She made a whole political song, made some posts and she got a ton of people to vote but her candidate still lost the election.

She made a video/song for the LGBT+ community but was still criticized for downplaying systemic oppression to just "haters". She made a "feminist" song and still got backlash for making a white feminist song that lack understanding of the intersectionality between class, race and gender.

She's said she wants to be well liked and be considered good. The reality is that when you're speaking up about issues you have to be ok with being uncomfortable, you have to be ok with people telling you 'you did it wrong', you have to be ok with people telling you 'it's not enough', you have to be ok with listening to people without being defensive and you can't expect eternal uncoditional gratitude in exchange for allyship. If she expected people to celebrate her for doing the bare minimum, that was never going to happen.

She did say that before Trump everything was perfect, she thinks it's feminist to become a billionaire. Her overall views on the world lack intersectionality and she would need to do some deep research to unlearn it.

It's very frustrating that she just stopped without any explanation. We didn't even get a tweet for Roe v Wade. Which was the most basic feminist topic she could have commented on.

I agree, I don't even think she knows what intersectionality is. She didn't even know what white privilege was until 2019. Her level of ignorance is astounding for someone who prides herself on being "smart".

For reference, she admitted in a 2019 Rolling Stone interview that she didn't know what "white privilege" was and she didn't even know she had it until that year where she disavowed her adoption by the far right. It's shocking that it took her until the age of 29 to learn about something so basic.

At this point, her lack of care to educate herself has become glaringly obvious. In today's world, information is readily accessible so there's no excuse to not know about simple concepts like this.

The question comes down to: Do you care enough to know?

Also, she has had a few activism wins. "The Man" was a successful song despite its extremely narrow understanding of feminism. She even included it into the Era's Set list. And when she posted links for voter registration, thousands of people listened and registered. She has had a few wins but you're 100% right about needing to be ok with discomfort when speaking up about issues.

When it comes to speaking out about what's right, there's two main reasons why someone chooses not to:

lack of education

lack of care

These two reasons also reinforce each other. I think we all know where Taylor Swift stands.

[cat-eye-nebula]

Ignoring an infant's / child's needs repeatedly, putting them in unsupervised, dangerous situations (also dangerous behaviour from angry or drugged parents), or making them feel worthless or stupid are forms of child abuse and neglect—and they can leave deep, lasting scars on kids. Regardless of the type of abuse, the result is serious emotional harm.

What babies and children need: attentiveness (a need for emotional closeness, physical needs/affection), safety (also emotionally safe parents), playfulness, empathy, praise, sense of personal control & choice, support, respect, being provided with physical soothing and comfort from parents (nervous system co-regulation) and uncoditional love. This will shape their whole self perseption and how they interact with others as adults. (1) (2) (3)

[alwaysshallow]

Hi Isabelle🖤

Do you write for Alejandro Vargas & Alex Keller as well??

Is writing in brief body description and gender something you do as well or no??

hi baby!! i DO write for them, of course!! sadly i haven't found a good idea for alejandro, but he got me into fandom - and my love for him is uncoditional practically!!

alex is interesting character to write, so just like for alejandro, i'm waiting for a good moment HAHAHSH

if it's about body description, i rarely do it; mostly i'm writing for a f!reader, sometimes for gn!reader, but i try to avoid body description so everyone will feel included!!

[zerzurianspy]

but would that be right if i suppose that alexander might feel unconditional parental love for daniel? maybe it is not an actual love i mean that may be because alexander did care for him and he never wanted to hurt danny he was really sorry for not taking him to the other world and when daniel tried to stop him from going into the portal he didn't kill him or he didn't make his servants kill him actually alexander only was telling them to imprison daniel because he was also worrying for his boy and wanted to keep him there not only to stop dan from distracting but to keep him safe until the shadow makes it's work YOU UNDERSTAND ME. he wasn't actually mad at him he felt sadness for him because the shadow was going to consume this innocent dummy he tried to convice daniel not to ruin his work and even told him his real story YOU SEE HE WAS ABSOLUTELY OK WITH HIM HE CARED FOR HIM he still wanted daniel to be safe and to know all the things i think we can compare this with uncoditional parental love and care-

[theascendedpath]

I

By being a Being of Light, 

You radiate love

You are divine love

Divinity is encoded into your DNA // As God,

AM

By Being a Being of Light, 

You have uncoditional love and compassion

For Yourself

And

For others // others are simply Divine expressions of yourself, as Source.

[bluecoolr]

I was just watching Friday the 13th 2009 and I remember Clays sister getting kidnapped by Jason. And I was wondering of a house of wax au where instead of Wade being with the rest of the group Wade was just kidnapped from his old friends by Vincent due to his resemblance to Trudy Vincent kept him hidden beneath the house of wax before Carly and Nick found him and him beating the shit out of Vincent for kidnapping him

I haven't watched Friday the 13th 2009 since I was like 13-14 and I completely forgot that Jared Padalecki was also there 😅

I think Wade/Clay resembles the way I picture Victor Sinclair more than Trudy. Complete coincidence by the way lol

And I know in my heart the twins won't want anything to do with anyone resembling their father, I think they'll kill him off quickly, if not brutally. I doubt they'll even put him on display after.

BUT IF HE HAD RESEMBLED TRUDY LIKE YOU SAID - I think the person who would most likely keep him is Bo. The twin with the apparent mommy issues.

I headcanon Vincent has very mixed feelings about Trudy. On one hand she loved him, but it wasn't uncoditional. He had to be the better son, the better twin. She suffocated him with that twisted love that Vincent sometimes hates the very thought of her. I think he's glad she's dead, but has also put her on a pedestal. Nobody can ever replicate her and at the same time he doesn't really look for her/what she gave him in other people.

Bo is the opposite.

Anyway, it's easier for me to imagine the Trudy lookalike beating the shit out of Bo.

[j-amir-09]

Ketika melahirkan anak bagi seorang wanita itu segalanya akan berubah, fokus dan prioritas di dalam hidupnya akan beralih pada anaknya, tak ada yang mampu menandingi rasa sayang luar biasa yang dimilikinya. Mengalahkan sayangnya pada pasangan, orang tua, saudara (kakak adik) bahkan nyawanya pun menjadi prioritas kedua setelah sang anak dalam hidupnya. Oleh karena itu ada pepatah mengatakan bahwa seorang Ibu bersedia bertukar nyawa demi hidup sang anak. Namun yang terjadi pada kenyataannya dan tak semua Ibu tau, paham akan hal tsb, adalah cinta uncoditional yang dimilikinya terhadap anaknya benar2 hanya memberi tak harap kembali, anak belum tentu akan memiliki rasa yang sama pada Ibunya. Bukan karena anak itu jahat, tidak dapat menghargai apa yang telah Ibunya berikan serta lakukan... namun memang seperti itulah realita yang ada, akan ada sosok lain yang merupakan segalanya, prioritas utama dalam kehidupan si anak yang bukanlah Ibunya. Semacam bertepuk sebelah tangan kira2 cinta Ibu pada anak2nya & itu hal yang wajar, kelak anak2nya pun bakalan mengalami hal yang sama ketika telah memiliki anak.

[christopher-bryant]

You can also see how it becomes his hubris. Loyalty, despite it being posed as a bad thing, is because of Sally raising him right. His love makes him stronger, not weaker. Sally Jackson's character is a driving force for what truly makes him powerful. Its not his godhood, its uncoditional love.

idk man.......something about Percy feeling more proud of his similarities with his mother than his similarities with his father, who is a literal Olympian god....... young Percy boldly declaring that Sally Jackson is better, more important than the will of the gods, and that she should be seen and remembered....... Percy praying to his human mother because she is the only one he truly believes in even after realizing great forces exist in the world....... something about Sally Jackson representing humanity, and Percy, despite being offered greatness and divinity and having all the cool powers and glory to his name, choosing to stay mortal– not only that, he takes pride in his humanness, in the fact that he is his mother's son....... yeah.

[chopstickasian]

uncoditional love

[tunasmelangit]

Just followed the track, send the application by riset on the google maps randomly, became a little brave cub on almost six hours unexpectedly adventure, got surprised they hired me besides I havnt any preparation, tried always look happier even I just through storm made from my tears night before... then I realized some scars hasnt heal enough

but it wasnt my point. The big problem here is...maybe I ever set aside Omnipotent there after uncoditional loving me, never letting me live lonely, stay there watching me

but it wasnt my point. The big problem here is...maybe I ever set aside Omnipotent there after uncoditional loving me, never letting me live lonely, stay there watching me

So, Why the memories continues to bind me and excitedly invites me to celebrate the wound even I always yell at them and say its really too much?

Poor me. Still waiting for her confession and apology!

[dunamos-eternal]

Uncoditional Love. 1 Corinthians 13:13 https://www.instagram.com/p/Coqy8qSOh__/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[consult-sherlockholmes]

Anyway, counting days of sobriety is very counterproductive, as it just shows how much you are controlled by it and how much you still yearn for it if you have to count every day without it. It just further focusses your thoughts on it, making you obsess over days, which in turn makes you still obsess over substances, thus being still addicted. If you were serious about it, you wouldn't need to count anything. And it's really heartwarming how everyone is showering her with support and praise, meanwhile other people just received scorn, hate and threats of being abandoned when they used any substances. Anyone care to explain why the sentiment towards it suddenly changed? Why it's suddenly uncoditional support instead of the 'though love' approach and forcing people to comply with threats? Where are the threats now of "if you ever do anything like that again I will leave and never turn back"? Doesn't that all seem a bit unfair? I never received any praise, support, kind words or positive comments before or after my forced rehab stay which wasn't even necessary anyway, but just for the record my time has been much much longer than some measly ridiculous 133 days, but I don't have the need to count anything or make posts about it trying to garner attention and praise to stroke my own ego. I don't need any of that, just pointing out the hypocrisy. Or is this here simple prejudice, drugs vs alcohol, because alcohol is legal so it's less of an evil? Alcohol is still the most harmful drug of all, causing the most damage. You are all hypocrites.

i've been sober for 133 days. that's more than 4 months.

i know it's not much and that i have a long way to go, still. but things are finally looking up for the first time in ages.

i couldn't have done it without the support of @consultjohnwatson @twireneadler @mrs-hudsons-blog @topsyturvy-turtely @a-victorian-girl thanks guys, it means a lot. and ugh, why am i getting emotional now...

[everynowndthen]

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