#ugh its so annoying

[nabaath-areng]

I think the worst part about being disabled is just how MANY issues you get in one go. Like a 9-for-1 type of deal but for shit you'd rather not deal with but now you're stuck with it. And on one hand I'd love for that to not become my entire personality! Yet at the same time every little thing decides how I'm interacting with the world as a whole and everything and everyone around me, you cannot remove those things from the equation and so there's nothing to do but to try and quell the shame and embarrassment in favour of actually growing a psychological spine that's built better than my physical one. The mourning for all the hopes and ambitions you had to give up in order to survive is an ongoing process of mourning but the time will pass anyway and so all one can do is keep going and keep surviving.

[oceanwithouthermoon]

people who say that theyre "the only one right about this character" and then u open their page and its the most horrendous, twisted, far-fetched mischaracterization youve ever seen

[jinnie-ret]

feel like I have a love hate relationship with Tumblr at this point 😭

Went to look at the old requests I had in my drafts, and they're gone :(

So I'm rly sorry if your ask never got answered...

There's a chance in the future I can write it once I do normal requests again, or if you think your ask wasn't answered then you can always send it in with a song for my future event which I'm still taking in ideas for

Sorry again guys :( wish they didn't disappear

[yooniivrse]

bro there's 2 asks in my inbox but whenever i click it i can't see anything 😭😭 idk if it's just a random glitch or not but if anyone sent me an ask, im so sorry for not replying ���🙏

[quietgamelover]

Its THE most annoying thing ever when I see a ship and they’re so cute. Like omg adorable.

But then I find out its the most popular ship in the fandom. Or someone has told me to engage with the media that ship is from too many times and my PDA is like “WELP I can never like this ship now”

Like nooooo

Let me enjoy the popular ship of cute characters plsssss -_-

[jessiesjaded]

I want to do a painting but I don't want to go buy new paints since presumably my old paints are here Somewhere in the house. Presumably.

[shortstack-21]

It's so inconvenient. I cry when I'm frustrated, sad, happy, and most of all angry. I hate being angry so it makes me cry.

Everyone is so weird about people who cry easily. Fellas, is it evil and manipulative to *checks notes* have an involuntary stress response?

[sitizelter]

i havent had a proper crush in so long omg this feels so weird

[puppyypawsss]

There's a puss filled bump the size of a fucking boulder on my chin and it's been sitting there for a year

[koszmarnybudyn]

Yes i did find the opera delightful.

[numberonecodwomenfan]

imo we need more well adjusted ghost x completely emotionally unstable soap. like this guy goes on leave and is basically just in a depressive episode the whole time. his apartment is a disaster, he barely leaves the house, because he doesnt know how to function outside of the military.

meanwhile ghost has houseplants that his sweet middle aged neighbor waters for him when he's gone, and sometimes he watches her kids for her when he's on leave so she can go like be a person without them. ghost has friends (none of them are super crazy close, but they hang out when they can) and hobbies (he's fond of birdwatching and gardening when he can). he doesn't wear his mask on leave, because why would he? he's not ghost at home, just simon.

one day he invites soap over. soap freaks, because he's gross, he feels like shit, and he's probably been wearing the same t-shirt for a week. he showers and tries to make himself presentable but he's just... off. simon ends up inviting him to stay at his place for the remainder of leave because he just can't bear to see his friend in this state. blah blah blah they get closer blah blah blah they smooch blah blah simon teaches soap how to be a person instead of a weapon blah blah

[lemongogo]

they should get to kill each other at least twice .i think

[god-of-this-new-blog]

What if the two worst guys in the whole world were madly in love with each other?

[crow-caller]

I am p convinced most of those posts complaining about books where characters constantly introduce themselves by their microlabels are popular mainly with people who have never read or seen a book like that. Same with the complaints over "poly lesbian barbarians in space" marketing

Look. Guys. Listen.

1. Marketing books by labels shouldn't be the sole detail given, obviously

2. The reason people do it is because it actually works far better than marketing based on plot. People do, in fact, care about seeing repsentation because many identities still have very little representation out there. Advertising based on this Does Better. People ignore books they haven't heard of, indie books, all the time— authors need to advertise instead to those communities looking for representation. As an author who has tried various appeals back in the day. I can promise you this is why. Most authors I've spoken to about this agree reducing your book down to tropes and rep feels Ugh, but unfortunately, it works.

3. The discussion around it, and the writing of marginalised identities, so often turns hostile and exclusion based. "I hate when a character says they're asexual it should only be hinted at" do you know how long it could only ever BE hinted at?

4. Obviously the execution varies and should make sense. Of course it's off if a very historical novel suddenly uses modern slang. Of course it can be cringe. Of course it can suck. Okay.

5. But how much are you actually encountering stuff like this in your reading, versus seeing people complain and agreeing "that sounds like shit"? It's... a vastly overstated problem.

6. You guys need to read more indie books, where you can find all kinds of representation, subtle or explicit.

7. Every post on the topic is full of notes just talking about Hell Followed With Us. I agree that book was pretty silly with its post-apocalyptic cast fighting over identity politics but also if any group was going to fight over labels in the angel apocalypse it's pretty realistic for it to be 16 year olds living in a LGBTQ community center. Like tbh. Checks out

[anonymouscheeses]

They are everything to me.

[swaymarked]

this is so upsetting. anyway who wants to kill don sweeney with me