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ok yea i need to put pro kink back in my pinned.. its a pain i even need to but anti kink people following me is annoying LOL
#wishy speaks#its like#u would Hate me if i was more open abt certain things#and i know i cant expect all my followers to be people id get along with but itd be nice to not suddenly get a dm saying like#hey i cant trust you to not be a complete fucking freak anymore. bye#actually happened when i changed my url btw#like cool man. i do not care#just unfollow and block quietly go away!!#sheesh#ok rant ova#actually adding more tags#i kinda forget sometimes that not everyone is based#far from it actually. on this hellsite#like i step outside of my mutual circle and WOW i cannot stand literally any of you people!#and i Hate saying discourse words i hate shipping discourse especially#but i am ok with saying pro kink. bc kink comes with the whole risk aware consenting adults assumption#and anyone trying to imply kink is anything But risk aware consenting adults is in bad faith#still..annoying that i even have to#tumblr users have a little faith in other people's autonomy challenge?#and yes i Am hoping the person i just blocked sees this. i can be a petty little bitch as a treat. i have a headache i am allowed a treat
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Hi!! Its the anon who sent in the chan car ride hard thought with the insta reel, if u remember me. But i have came to give u a new hard thought. First off, HAVE YOU SEEN THE VID OF CHAN DOING THAT LIL FINGER MOVE IN HALL OF FAME?!? i feel dizzy. 😵💫 anyways, onto my hard thought, picture this, y/n is scrolling on twt and that tweet that says imagine chan fingering you till you cry (or sum like that i hope you know what tweet im talking abt) and it has the chan vid attached to it, THEN BANGCHAN COMES INTO THE ROOM AND CATCHES Y/N AND FINGERS HEER OMGGGG (also i jus noticed that i used twt and tweet instead of X, sorry lol)
of course i remember you! hi, love! and YES, of course i saw that tweet, and i feel totally not normal about it! i would link them but i can't remember which accounts they're from sigh. also i hate calling it "x" bc cause wtf is that. LMAO
but onto this gem of a thought. honestly, he'd tease you so much if he caught you gushing over those tweets, he'd be so sweet about it though. if you don't mind i wanna add some more to this under the cut cause it just came to mind hehe (it's so long and i didn't proof read. help).
he caught you trying to finger yourself in his dorm room after spending almost hours scrolling through your timeline. you weren't really expecting to see anything interesting, but the only thing that popped up was the clips of him and that finger movement that caught your attention and immediately drove you insane. you couldn't help but keep watching the same clip over and over again in awe. it was just so attractive, especially when he made that certain expression and looked right straight at the camera, almost as if he were looking right at you.
so here you were now, desperately bucking your hips up against your hand, sticking your fingers as far inside your cunt as you could, palming your clit to gain some extra friction. you whined exasperatedly as you failed miserably yet again, not being able to get that stimulation you so desperately wanted.
chan got home a few minutes ago, so he's already been watching you, chuckling to himself softly cause you just look so cute like that—legs spread, face flushed a bright red, fucking your fingers in and out of your sopping hole. you keep going for a few more minutes, until you finally toss your head back to groan in frustration because it's just not enough.
his cock is already twitching, straining in his pants at the sight of you, so he can't help but open the door, and he finds it cute how you immediately close your legs and draw your hand back, the surprise of having been caught in the act showing on your face. he laughs softly and sits next to you on the bed. "what's wrong, love? you upset?" he asks, his tone teasing, yet sweet, and you can tell it's because he knows exactly what you were doing.
you nod and sigh, trying your best to come up with a reasonable explanation as to why you were naked on your boyfriend's bed, alone, when you knew he'd always expected you to wait for him whenever you needed to get off. "i was scrolling through twitter, and i saw these tweets about you... i got curious so i spent a while looking at them, and then..." you trail off with a gasp as he suddenly grabs your phone from where you'd put it next to you on the bed. you try to snatch it back, but he's a lot quicker than you. he scrolls a little bit, his expression serious, and then a smug smile plays at the corner of his lips as he looks at you again.
"aw baby, is this why you were so hot and bothered?" he asks, as he shows you one of the clips he was looking at, the same one from earlier, and your face turns an even darker shade of red as you nod. "that why you were using your cute little fingers, even though you know they're not good enough? you've got me right here. you could've asked me instead of just watching videos of me. i'll do whatever you want as long as i can make you feel good."
you feel like you're melting at the way condescension practically drips off his tongue, and you let him spread your legs for you again, this time using his own fingers to tease your swollen bud. he's such a dream come true. "'m sorry i couldn't wait for you," you start, but he shushes you softly. "that's okay, baby. i'm here now. i can help you," he says, and you want to thank him, but your words are cut short by the almost embarrassingly loud squeal that escapes your throat when he suddenly sticks his pointer and middle fingers in without warning, curling them just right, just like in that clip, finally giving you that pleasure you'd been chasing for hours now.
he watches you intently, from the way your back arches, to the way you clench around his fingers, but his expression stays blank. it doesn't take you that long to cum, and when you do, he doesn't stop. you look at him with furrowed brows, whining from the overstimulation, and he simply chuckles at your expression, not saying anything as he keeps torturing your walls with his fingers mercilessly. he's pushing you close to the edge all over again surprisingly quickly, and once you reach your second orgasm, you're already asking him to slow down, stop for a minute, so you can catch your breath. still, he doesn't. by the time you reach your fourth orgasm, you're already a sobbing stuttering mess as he makes you even more dumb on his fingers, begging him to stop, but that only makes him go much faster, his palm smacking your clit as he does so.
"this how needy you are for me? wanting to get yourself off without me cause of some video? you poor thing, thinking your fingers alone would satisfy you. you know you can't do it without me. guess i just have to remind you, hmm?"
#solieverse: planet anon#heavy deep breaths#when will it be my turn#skz smut#stray kids smut#bang chan smut#chan smut#stray kids hard thoughts#skz hard thoughts#skz hard hours#bang chan hard thoughts#bang chan hard hours#stray kids hard hours#bangchan smut#solieverse: planet reverie
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⋆⋅introduction⋅⋆
hii im chai i am a submaker who is 17 and i have been in the manifesting community since i was very young (i use she/her pronouns only)
"what is this blog for?"
well i never planned to make alot of posts for this account it was just gonna be a repost blog for loa/law of assumption but sometimes ill make posts abt my success stories or helpful posts and asks
what is your preferred ways to manifest?
i really like affirming and listening to subliminals any method works but those 2 are the ones i do often
are your asks/dms open?
honestly answering asks and dms are kinda stressful i want to help but sometimes i dont know how to respond and it makes me feel bad... so 50/50? if u want to be friends or have a subliminal request u want me to make ofc u can send a ask/dm but if u need advice for something like the void for example itd probably be best to ask another acc :)
what is your channel called?
my main channel is called chai and there's the link :)
what are ur personal beliefs?
I believe we create everything from our thoughts, state and assumptions and that anything is possible.. even if u have been told something your whole life it could literally change in a millisecond nothing is set in stone (besides the fact that u can have anything u want) things don't just happen out of nowhere everything has a cause and effect and the cause is always u
more info abt the asks
what u can send in my asks! ♡
any type of question u have
requests for a certain subliminal or affirmations
questions abt me (ex. what my favorite color is)
any info u would like to share abt ur loa journey
what u CANT send in my asks ♡
any type of hate towards me
limiting beliefs
trauma dumping/vents!! (this is most important one i just feel like i wouldn't be any help and i would HATE to be like “just manifest”)
any type of racism/homophobia
i think this is all i have to say byeeee
sincerely chai <3
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I recently found yours Hels to Pay AU and I love it so much that I'm going to rant about things that I find really neat in no particular order
Helsmits names:
Dr. Clear - MumboJumbo. It took me a while to get it but wow it makes sense seeing as the phrase "mumbo-jumbo" means nonsense and clear is the opposite of that. Also funny considering the coherentness of each one
BadTimesWithScar - GoodTimesWithScar. Classic
AnimosityGaming/Timmy - SolidarityGaming/Jimmy. Wonderful. Animosity and Solidarity are opposites as well so that's cool
bXMiner - XbCrafted. It's the two halves of MineCraft. Also reverses the letters of his name
Bravo - Tango. Derived off the phonetic alphabet I would assume
Dbubs - Bdubs. Reverses the letters of his name
Patho(s? I'm not sure) Lair - Etho's Lab. Ethos and Pathos are Greek words meaning character and emotions respectively. Lair and Lab are similar to each other. And they have similar nickames taken from misreading their names (Etho Slab and Patho Stair). Genuinely my favourite name of yours.
You have other helsmits but I can’t think of more words for them so moving on
Dr. Clear is Alister's spy. He told Bravo about Tango indirectly just before they opened the portal, and also managed to get Atlas to slap him in front of Bravo. He's also incoherent enough (faking?) that Atlas wouldn't consider it
Dbubs pathologic lying? How sometimes he doesn't even realise it? How when he did and said something he didn't mean (I hate your stupid face) he felt bad?
Pathos feeling at home in the crimson jungle. Feeling absolutely horrible for ignoring Dbubs whispers whenever he leaves.
Pathbubs is my new favourite ship but god they're about as healthy as that Panera Lemonade
I'm not saying Tango's theory about confusing the universe is wrong, but where was Tango's Portal meant to go if that was the case? It was an actual Universe Portal, so it's not like someone figured out how to make one and then left it there. I think the Universe made the id display to Bravo as Hermitcraft so he would enter it, because Hels just sounds like a bad place. In my head this means the Universe looked at Tango and Bravo and said, "my bad, you need to switch places"
Now that Tango and Jimmy are in Hels, once the Portal is broken, they will be unable to escape back to Double Life by themselves, as their coordinates will still send them to Hels. They will need to meet up with someone else's doppelganger to get back to Double Life.
Thank you for writing an amazing AU
thank you, i’m glad u like my hels names! it’s something i always spend a lot of time thinking abt, deciding where i wanna pull the name from, whether it’s an opposite thing, helsification, name scramble, or some other significance. clear’s full name is actually clear cut, which is even more of a contrast to mumbo jumbo, and it is technically pathoslair but he goes by patho the same way ethoslab goes by etho, dropping the ‘s’.
ah, pathbubs… i love them sm… man i really need to write more of them sometime 😂 absolutely unhealthy but DAMN they compel me…
as for your questions about the universe portals… i’ll just say that no player has figured out the real explanation for the swap yet. they’re working off what they know and certain assumptions they’ve made; in tango’s case, the assumption that he’s an evil creature who would never have purposefully been brought to hermitcraft. in bravo’s case, the assumption that tango’s mere existence resulted in a massive mistake (even tho plenty of other players have joined hermitcraft without being swapped with their hels counterparts…). they’re silly gooses <3
anyway thanks so much for sharing ur thoughts, i LOVE to hear what y’all are thinking and theorizing about with regards to the fic. it’s like enrichment for me.
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THE CHRONICALLY ONLINE ROME FAN’S BLOG
HELLO! WELCOME TO MY LITTLE CORNER OF THE INTERNET!
I’m Jojo! Here’s some stuff you should know about me before deciding to interact (byi list):
I AM UNDER 18! Under 12 and over 28 I would prefer not to interact with.
I use she/her pronouns and feminine terms but I guess I don’t mind masc and neutral pronouns and terms (link to my pronouns page)
I’m Hispanic (🇨🇺🇵🇪 RAHHHH) and I can speak English and Spanish just fine, though my Spanish isn’t the best 😞
I LOVE ROME SOKSSOSOOSOSSOSOSOS MUCH HES MY FAVOURITE EVER!!!!!!!! AND THE ANCIENTS!!!!!! And the rest yeah whatever
Hetalia is my main hyperfixation but I also like C*untryhumans. Please don’t block me I SWEAR IM COOL I LITERALLY DONT INTERACT WITH THE FANDOM AT ALL
IF WE’RE CLOSE I WILL USE MILDLY SEXUAL HUMOUR AND KMS JOKES (never kys). IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH WHAT I SAY PLEASE LET ME KNOW
I tend to be very straightforward with people who suddenly dm me, but I promise I’m not trying to be mean! :(
NOW, FOR SOME OF MY INTERESTS, FAVOURITE CHARACTERS AND ETC!
(In order from most hyperfixed to least, will also include my fave characters from each fandom and other thoughts)
HETALIA
Rome and literally all the ancients. I’m sorry I don’t care for the main cast but I like PruHun too
C*UNTRYHUMANS
IM SORRY OK IVE BEEN IN THIS FANDOM FOR FOUR YEARS I CAN’T
Anyways I like ch America but only in my head. Please don’t block me please please please I want friends
SPY X FAMILY
I’m rewatching the anime rn lol, in the future I might post about this more
LOID FORGER I NEED A LOID FORGER IN MY LIFE
EPIC THE MUSICAL
To be completely honest I’m not very invested in epic (it’s just for a friend). I just think the music is cool. Vengeance saga was okay I guess but thunder saga literally peak (and the saga with Suffering I forgot the name
I like Athena
Less intense interests (that I might repost but not talk about) include:
Octonauts
Wild Kratts
Carmen Sandiego (2019 Netflix ver)
JJK
This list may change
IF YOU CAN’T TELL I LOVE TALKING. BUT THERE’S SOME PEOPLE THAT LIKE CERTAIN THINGS THAT I DON’T WANT TO TALK TO!
My DNI list:
General criteria
BIGOTS. HOMOPHOBES, TRANSPHOBES, RACISTS, MISOGYNISTS, TRUMP SUPPORTERS DNI.
PROSHIPPERS AND JUST PPL WHO SHIP PROBLEMATIC SHIT I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH 😭😭😭😭
(This includes, but not limited to: USUK, Itacest, Germancest, SPAMANO, CANAME/FRANADA/CANUK, SovReich. To be completely honest I GUESS I can talk with proshitters BUT DON’T FUCKING BRING THIS SHIT UP AROUND ME I HATE IT SO MUCH I DONT WANT TO HEAR PEOPLE DEFEND THESE SHIPS)
People who use brainrot humour 24/7 and are generally just annoying. Get a life.
PEOPLE WHO DON’T RESPECT OTHERS OPINION, KEYBOARD WARRIORS, ETC.
Artists who twinkify Poland more than he is 😭
May add more to this later since I’m forgetting a few things
YAY! You’ve almost made it through my intro post! Here’s just a last few tidbits about myself and then I can shut up 🫶
I HAVE A BAJILLION ANCIENTS HETALIA OCS (like 15 💀) AND I LOVE LOVE LOVE TALKING ABOUT THEM PLEASE ASK ME ABT THEM AND I ALSO WOULD LOVE TO HEAR ABT UR ANCIENTLIA OCS IF U HAVE ANY!!!
I have another blog for said ocs, @rometalia ,,, it’s a bit dead rn bc I’ve been busy with school :(
I’m open to all asks!!! But please nothing inappropriate I am a minor AND NO POLITICS 😭😭
My favourite hetalia ships are gerrome (OTP but it’s different in a way in my head. Talk to me about them I dare you), PruHun, SwissAus and amepan! I also like spaus and FrUK. Some ships I’m kind of on the fence about are rusame, rochu, generally any russia ship and most America ships but I consume and repost fanart of these ships just because I like the art!
My favourite YouTubers are Uncle Roger, Nick DiGiovanni and Guga. I love food and I kinda wanna become a chef in the future ☺️
Trying to beat the art block allegations day 37273627
MY BESTEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD IS @fertaine !!!! I LOVE YOU MY POOKIE WOOKIE BEAR!!!!! FERTAINE HATERS DNI DNI DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT APPROACHING ME I AM THEIR NO.1 FAN AND DEFENDER
My gerrome side blog is @j0jorocityisntokay
If you see me reblogging from a proshipper (USUK and Spamano especially in this case), please let me know! I most likely didn’t know they supported these ships.
Almost forgot to mention, but here are my tags!
#jojo reblogs -> self explanatory
#jojo rambles -> me yapping or answering to asks, idk
#aph jojo rambles -> anything related to hetalia, so probably headcanons or whatever lol
#rome posting -> self explanatory
#flippity fart farmland posting tag -> me talking to Fern ☺️
#jojo’s art -> updated once in a blue moon I hate my art
Will add more as I see fit
THAT IS ALL, MY FRIENDS! I HOPE TO HAVE A WONDERFUL TIME ON THIS WEBSITE! 🫶
(The dividers that aren’t red roses belong to @kostevysen )
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Okok pls tell me more abt dasher and soarrow. Also u said u could get more into the group with the deer names??
ACTUALLY GIGGLING RN
I'm not too sure what to describe as more so I'm just going to go with some general stuff off the top of my head (not all of it will be cannon but I will specify)
Sparrow was one of Spot's birdies (specifically mentioned from 92sies) Birdies were younger newsies who (in my hcs) communicated through whistles and calls. Canonically they were spies all over the city -nobody suspects the kid. They would deliver the news to Spot and he would use it (not all of it was helpful but he was happy to let them twitter on about the seamstresses new fabrics or whatever they had heard or seen)
Dasher and Sparrow were friends as kids, the type to get married under the slides. While the two did have a certain dislike for one another they really only fought for a few minutes before getting distracted. As they got older they grew distant, both gaining more power in their respective burough. The two began a rivalry instead.
Dasher would daily hear the phrase "a little birdie told me -insert insult-", Sparrow was getting hit by paper planes made out of newspapers wherever he went. But despite their hate for one another they refused to be apart.
Eventually they got over it when Sparrow left Manhattan without his bag accidentally and Dasher returned it. The two ended up dating later on.
Both are incredibly competitive and fighting is their love language. Dasher has unruly brown hair and Sparrow has light brown fluffy hair that is always longer than it probably should be. He's the frailer of the birdies and was the one who assigned each birdie a bird. He has buckteeth and a tooth gap, similar to how Dasher is that kid who was always missing a tooth.
Despite looking like a strong breeze could kill him, Sparrow is reckless and impulsive: a perfect match for Dasher who is all of those things but in a different way.
(I couldn't fit the deer littles in without it being super long but here is Dasher and Sparrow, aka my fave underrated newsies) If anyone has any questions about the birdies or deer or just any hc's in general then my asks are always open
#newsies#newsies fandom#dasher (newsies)#sparrow (newsies)#fansies#brooklyn littles#brooklyn birdies#manhattan deer#racetrack higgins
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hello <3 i finally started reading triage and i laughed too hard reading the first chap :'D i loved the chemistry jokes sm (im still finding a time to read the rest but unfortunately it's almost time for school again) you're actually my fav author here in blr !!! your writing is just so well-written and that might be an understatement bcs it's just so good ??? i think no simple words can explain how amazing of an author you are <3 like the way you deliver the words and how you let readers imagine the little scenarios you make like it's so cool <3
(sorry if this is too long but) i also came here to ask you for advice hehe. im kind of a newbie here in blr and im currently working on my upcoming series.. and im unsatisfied with my progress and found myself deleting my drafts (for abt two times already ??) and i want to know how to be more confident in my writings and how not to overthink too much yk ?? would really love to hear your thoughts on this. you're not only a good author but a good advisor too !!! thank u sm <33
hi lexine (nice to meet u !!), stopppp YOU ARE TOOOO nice thank you sooo much for taking the time out to write this??? 😭💖 firstly, thank you for reading triage and plsss nawt the bitchless chemistry jokes 😭 kidding I also giggled while writing those parts smh
and secondly, ur fav author??? STOP LYINGGG i consider that such a high honour so thank you so much 🥹💞 to have your support is one thing and to read such positive words is another, so again thank you for taking the time out of your day to leave this message because it just made my day :(
aaa please don't apologise because I love long asks the most, and yes ofc my asks are always open! I have a tendency to ramble so beware a long message is below the cut — nevertheless I really hope this helps! 🥹💞
I firstly just want to preface that I obviously do not know everything about writing and this is all truly just one opinion, so only take what resonates 🫶
I can only really speak from personal experience, but I think it's actually a really good thing that you're going back to your drafts, revising your writing, which may or may not include the process of deleting/restarting things. obviously it's a really gruelling experience to go through (bc there's nothing worse than deleting all ur hard work), but I think it's really admirable that you're thinking about your writing and putting in the effort to make it better with each draft !! personally, I am constantly writing and re-writing my drafts and as much as it literally HURTS MY SOUL to delete words/paragraphs/sometimes entire chapters, I genuinely enjoy this process — to me, that's what writing is kind of all about? I know to most people ff is really not that deep (they're not wrong, it doesn't have to be) but I think the fact you're practising deliberation, reflection and thought in your writing, word choice, characters, plot etc. etc. is really really amazing !!
personally, I would say the thing to keep in mind is that everything needs to be in moderation — I've had chapters that have literally taken me a fuckload of re-writes (I'm a big overthinker / slight perfectionist), and while I did initially enjoy the whole process of editing / re-writing / discovering how to change certain scenes etc, it was really really mentally draining and I ended up losing passion for the story in the end. just be careful that this might happen to you? to avoid this, maybe every time you've reached a block (where no matter how much you re-write something, you always seem to hate how it turns out) you should try find a different source of inspiration — whether that means thinking about your story/characters with a different song playing, or moving wherever you tend to write, or having someone brainstorm ideas with you / beta-read your fic, or take a few days off !!
out of curiosity, what don't you like about your first drafts? is it the writing or the pacing or the characters? or is it something you can't quite put a finger on? let me know and we can try think about it together !!! im also the biggest overthinker when it comes to writing (💀) but what kind of comforts me and brings my feet back to the ground is reminding myself that 1) my fics are for MYSELF (i.e. you should be writing things you would want to read yourself, not what others might want to read - bc once you make it all about other people, that's when you really start to overthink) and 2) if im gna be fr, 90% of people on tumblr, especially enhablr, only really care about ff bc they want to read about their bias (if they wanted to read well-written literature, they would probably read a published book or smth yk). in saying that, it's totally okay for your fics to be imperfect (who cares! it's fanfiction!). I think just reminding yourself that ff is just a silly little thing u do in ur spare time (for which has 0 tie to your self-value) will keep you from overthinking things and raging when things get really hard !! when it comes to confidence, I think that comes gradually in small doses (the more you write, the more confident you become in your personal style / writing likes and dislikes), but maybe some ways to feel more confident is by getting a beta reader that you trust (and will give you effective advice — one that doesn't just shower you with compliments but can give you constructive criticism in a nice way), by reading other people's work (just to see if you're on the right track; if you read other people who have written similar tropes to you, it might make you feel less scared / in the dark bc you can see how they've executed it), or by changing the font on your google doc(?) to try reset your brain and re-read your work with fresh eyes.
I hope hope hope this helped in some way, please don't hesitate to reach out again if anything needs clarification or if I didn't quite answer your question (I'm sorry if I didn't 😭) !! <333 you're welcome anytime around here hehe so best of luck with ur series AND WELCOME TO BLRRRR <3333 it sounds like you're on the right track w ur writing if you're being conscious of all these things so I wouldn't fret at all!!! <33
if it helps, I've written other writing tips here, here and here! 🫶
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I just saw your posts about gender for that Clu person, and based on their responses, I think this is someone who is dealing with a lot of uncertainty and they were hoping for a certain answer for their question. Maybe not a permanent one, but a springboard or starting point. They are probably looking for a starting point that's a little more specific than 'whatever u want' because I think they might've said (or suggested) they aren't sure what they want.
Your answers are correct, of course, but speaking from personal experience on other topics, it can be frustrating asking for a simple yet specific answer (in this case, that would be an answer like 'cis male' or 'transfem') and getting only broad generalities. Might I suggest supplying them with some terms that seem to be a pretty close fit to what they described? You wouldn't be labeling them, you'd just be giving them some things to Google so they can see if it fits them. A place to start their gender identity journey from (because some people do feel more secure when they have that 'label' and this person might be one of those. And that's completely okay if they need that.)
Hope this helps you and them!
i Absolutely agree w u anon! but (and i am speaking as sm1 whose early exploration was almost entirely based off of discussions w highschool friends— all 2nd hand information. which is its own can of worms hsdfjkjs) i do think its important to like. do that initial footwork yourself?
bc (n im glad u agree!) there is just no neat answer!! esp not w nonbinary genders!! I (a man who has a very weird gender itself) am still constantly learning!! and i did edit one of my rbs but idk if Hal saw, but i think a very good place to start is less "what is upsetting me abt my gender" but rather "what is making me happy" — this is just generally a less painful jumping-off point too, bc its usually easier to work through when you're confused (its a lot to unpack upset/pain/confusion at the SAME TIME!!! not fun)
i will stick by honestly wikipedia as a genuinely useful surface level resource. install shinigami eyes so u dont wind up on transphobic sites and it has a solid rundown of both your "basic" terms and the history of the community, especially bc it is very hard if impossible to get an answer when youre asking sm1 else "heres what i feel now what am i." skhsdhf
and no hate!!! genuinely!!! thats a very easy place to wind up in, where u just WANT a clear-cut answer from sm1 else, but like i said b4: nobody knows you better than YOU!! i think theres like. this idea that we all just Knew and the truth is no, i promise we did not. we have all googled "nonbinary definition" "demigender definition" "neopronouns definition" i went thru 2 whole entire genders b4 i settled on Man and MORE AFTER THAT before settling on Man But Weird
AND ALSO. i am open to questions!!!!!!! but i am A WEIRD DUDE W AUTISM AND I AM NOT BUILT FOR MAKING SENSE!!!!! i promise i AM trying!!! and will continue to try!!! but it is abt to be June and pride is this month and wholeheartedly go to your local pride events if you are confused!!!!!! take to queer ppl who are both prepared to answer questions AND can provide much more relevant, local(!!!) resources — and talk to queer elders!!!! meet the coolest people in the world forever!!!!
but yea to circle back 2 th point i was like. Trying to make. doing that initial footwork yrself is the easiest i think bc you know you. i promise even tho it seems daunting it WILL ultimately be less confusing than trying 2 play 2nd hand telephone even if yr playing w friends (like i did. not ideal — wasnt safe for me to research myself but still Not Ideal)
#SPEAKING OF THO DEMIGENDER MIGHT BE A GOOD TERM#GENDER BUT TO THE LEFT#PARTIALLY BUT NOT ENTIRELY GENDER!
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hi my interview has been rescheduled once again because of course it is ^_^ nothing wants me to be interviewed ig ^_^ anyways 🥺😈🛒🎢✨💋🎶⛔🍦🌞💖💌❌🧐🦅👀🤗💞🧠🤩🤯💔🤭 for the fanfic writer asks or wtevr they're called??? didn't realize until just now u even rbed an ask game so apologies 🫡 side note the 💥 emoji is so fun . its just like 💥💥💥💥💥 yk??? also feel free to skip any of those i just threw down the ones i think would be most interesting but as usual there r many
i am manifesting an interview AND a job for u, get that bag king!!!
also waough ty for giving me an excuse to talk abt my blorbos 🥺🥺🥺
and ya 💥 feels like ur comboing someone really well in a fighting game, like 💥💥💥 K.O. yanno?
this is def gonna be a long one tho soooo the rest underneath the cut this goes lmao
🥺 Is there a certain type of moment or common interaction between your characters that never fails to put you in your feels?
Anything having to do with touch. I'm a sucker for physical gestures, so anything that involves details like brushing someone's hair out of their eyes, hooking a tentative pinky around someone else's hand, it doesn't need to be overt to get me in my feels every single time.
😈 Has there been a point in a story where you did something just to be playfully mean to your readers?
Yes! I threatened a major character death in [though I've closed my eyes, I know who you pretend I am] late in the final (12th) chapter lmao
I knew that being that late into the fic most people would've forgotten what the specific tags were and even less would be willing to scrolling all the way back up to check lol
🛒 What are some common things you incorporate in your fics? Themes, feels, scenes, imagery, etc.
Like I said in the first Q, touch is a big thing for me. Eyes and anything having to do with vision also tends to be a big one, if you read a fic with both of those elements there's a decent chance I wrote it.
As far as overarching things, I prefer to write scenery over dialogue, and put a heavy emphasis on describing what the characters are feeling/thinking over having them verbally express it.
🎢 Which of your fics would you call your wildest ride?
I wanna say my [detroit become human au] has shit hit the fan pretty quickly. The fic opens with the conflict and it takes a few chapters for the reader to get any context, but once you've got it, going back to the start just makes your heart break.
✨ Give you and your writing a compliment. Go on now. You know you deserve it. 😉
booo hiss grrr
no but actually uhhhhhh... I will say that when I've got a good idea rattling around in my head, I can churn out a fic for that premise very quickly. to the point that i accidentally wrote three chapters for one of my fics all within a day, because I'm unhinged like that
💋 First kiss fics. Love em or hate em?
LOVE but only if they're done right. I appreciate first kiss fics that aren't perfect or a little clumsy, but also i'm a sucker for those picture perfect moments too
🎶 Do you listen to music while you write? What song have you been playing on loop lately?
YA i do my best writing with some music on. I've been listening to a mix of things lately (Love from the Other Side by FOB, that new Shakira collab, and Flowers by Miley Cyrus) but i've also been looping my 14+ hour long exo playlist
⛔ Do you have a fic you started, but scrapped?
I had a sculk!Grian fic from like, I wanna say October last year that I was 1k words into that just. Disappeared. No clue where it went or how I lost but, but in hindsight, it wasn't my best work.
I'm still a bit sad to have lost it, but considerably more proud of the things I've written since.
🍦 What’s the sweetest fic you’ve created so far?
I have come to the realization that I am horrible at writing fluff without some level of conflict within the fic. Whoops! Closest I've got is a [scarian sick fic] that I wrote recently lmao
🌞 Do you have a preferred time of day to write?
Either while I'm at work when it's dead during the day time, or frantically at like, 11 o'clock p.m., there is no in between.
💖 What made you start writing?
Wayyyyy back when I was 12/13 I used to be big into rp, and I came into the realization that the rps I was doing could just as easily be formatting into fics.
None of those fics were ever published, but getting to learn how to edit and rewrite scenes that had been planned out with another person made me want to start creating stories of my own.
💌 How do you feel about comments and feedback?
Love love LOVE comments and feedback. Literally getting a comment is like a serotonin boost directly into my veins to write more, esp comments that'll point out specific scenes or moments/lines they liked.
someone pointed out that they liked the way I described fresh hickeys like blooming violets and I haven't been able to stop thinking about that comment ever since.
❌ What’s a trope you will never write?
That's a good question.... I'm trying to think of one that isn't like, a blatantly obvious icky trope.
I'm not sure if it counts as a trope, but Y/N fics. Not only are their primary function to act as fan service, they end up coming off very RPF to me which I'm not a fan of.
Oh, also RPF. Any fic i write has to do 100% with the characters those people portray, not the real person.
🧐 Do you spend much time researching for your stories?
Depends on the fic! For my [actor au] I've just been kinda flying by the seat of my pants, doing the occasional googling but not much. The opposite of this would be my [detroit become human au] where I literally rewatched jacksepticeye's d:bh playthrough and scoured wikis to make sure i'm describing androids correctly.
tl;dr: generally no, only as needed unless I get fixated on it.
🦅 Do you outline fics or fly by the seat of your pants?
Fly by the seat of my pants, but i'm trying to change this! For my multi-chaptered fics I've started actually planning out future events, and even for this one big one shot im working on, i've got an outline in the works.
...though generally, i don't plan. it's a bad habit.
👀 Tell me about an up and coming wip please!
GLADLY so speaking of that big one shot, it's going to be a boatem superhero au, i've started outlining it and getting my concepts together, i'm very excited for it!
here's a snippet:
It was fairly obvious that the Mayor had pulled some strings to get Scar to this stage; once a nobody vigilante who seemed more preoccupied with dazzling the camera over saving lives, Scar's public image had taken a hard left turn during the past few campaigning months.
The situation was more of an open secret— it was all too convenient for Scar, who practically lived in the Mayor's pocket, to be joining the city's most elite crime-fighting team.
it's VERY early in development so don't expect this one for a while tho
🤗 What advice would you give to new fanfic writers that are just getting started?
I'd say figure out your character's voice is a big one. It's easy to fall into fanon tropes and while they're fun, they can cause lots of warping in the way you write your own fics, which might make them sound off.
So look out for fanon tropes! Personally I've run into people who make Scar very sweet and innocent, to the point of dusting his hands clean of blame. It's an easy hole to fall into, and no one should fault a writer for falling into tropes.
There's a line to walk, and I find that watching content relating to that character really helps shaping that "inner voice".
Also, get someone to proof read your work who is willing to point out your mistakes. Editing/betaing is never meant to be a personal attack, but rather to make sure that the fic you present to the rest of the world is cohesive and clear.
💞 Who’s your comfort character?
Scar! He just gets me fr. He's one of my favorite guys to write because of how versatile and how much variety he has. He could be a silly salesman one minute, and a quietly scary assassin the next. Whatever the bit or joke is, he fully commits to it, often to the detriment of himself, but god does it make for good content.
Also he has a really good narration voice ok
🧠 Pick a character, and I’ll tell you my favorite headcanon for them.
(ty for the speedy discord reply lol)
Grian! my darling baby boy who has every mental illness ever
no but actually, i'd say my favorite grian head canon is anything having to do with him being an alchemist. i want that man brewing potions, getting blown up, and curing all his friends ailments with the most illegal looking brew you've ever seen in your life.
🤩 Who is your favorite character to write?
Grian, mostly because he comes easiest to me! There's such a sense of endless potential when I get ready to write him, and like, idk what it is, but longing too?
We've been getting it pretty heavy w/ his whole "I Miss Mumbo" campaign but like, grian to me feels like someone who's always thinking about reaching a hand out, and pulls it back at the last second. It's very relatable.
🤯 What’s a genre you struggle with as a writer (ex. romance, action, etc.)?
Weirdly enough, it's fluff. I always feel compelled to write stories with some level of conflict or it's not "satisfying" to me. I love reading the genre, but for whatever reason when I write it, I get in my head about if it's "good enough" or not without conflict. I'm working on that lol
💔 Is there a fic of yours that broke your heart?
EDIT: so i misread this, you get fic recs as a bonus. my proper answer is: [my bad ending fae two shot], it will shatter you as it did me </3
i'm going to give two because i do what i want. the first being [It's Only Logical by TSTrashCaptain] which is a sanders sides fic that to this day, i can only dream of writing something so good. tw for themes of abuse and nsfw at times, but god. just reading the title again puts a knot in my heart in the best way possible.
now, this fic. [your heart rots in my hands by thepigeoncat]. this fic slaughtered me the first time i read it. i left a long ass comment on it. tw for major character death, but this is the perfect last life scarian fic.
it's beautiful, and tragic, and it makes me feel as though the world has truly ended /pos. please go read it.
🤭 Do you have a favorite tag to use when posting your works?
my favorite tag for when i post unbetaed work is "no beta we die like scar to the boatem hole"
as far as a REAL tag, hurt/comfort >:))
and my favorite one off funny tag is "i cannot emphasis to you enough how much blood is in this fic"
[fanfic writer emoji asks!]
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do tarot readers actuslly connect with the energy themselves of the idold they are reading on or is it the idols spirit guides?
some idols seem so chatty in many readings that ppk have done on them so they seem to like reaching out to tarot readers or those who have the ability to connect, id have thought some of them would be more into having their privacy and not being so open to strangers but i guess some genuinely seem to like those outside if their environment which is interesting and a lot of them do have foreign fs as their ideal type. its obvious if the idol is foreign themselves but if i was bts fs id get lawyered up and maybe a therapist too
the other thing im concerned abt is i dont want my fsves to be harmed in anyway i dont want them to be another liam payne or anything like that :c i just get a bit concerned with these groups obsession with desperately wanting to come to the west bc quite often i still think the media and obvi hollywood is literal hell. even the shit with seunghoon and how knetz acted like rampant bullies towards him its just so horrid to witness honestly. then even other instances where they are essily jealous or hateful of the idol being in sniffing distance of a female :(
again it must genuinely suck some of the times. also bc im certain a lot of them do sleep around and i dont just mean with fans but like escorts and other things maybe perverted grown adults too idk its just the vibe some give off that theyd easily fall for not so great ppl or they themselves are a bit on the greedy side in terms of the benefit they want with being an idol
so i also wanted to ask how would u know when u have actually connected with the energy of said idol? is it just feeling or how is it done exactly?
For me, I usually connect with the idols. I don't know how to really explain it but I can pick up on their energy and stuff like that. Like with Hanni, her energy is very welcoming. Lisa is quite friendly as well. Wonyoung is nice but at a distance, and so on. It's usually like a feeling and stuff like that.
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1: Still very much figuring myself out :3 2: Romance: Always somewhat of a performance, but one I enjoy doing so my partner knows I care about them. I think I felt romantic love once??? maybe??? but that was like 4 years ago so idek. I still care/cared abt all my other partners immensely but just in a different way idk Touching: With permission totally fine! I'm naturally very physically affectionate but I don't show it much. Hugging: My preferred method of physical affection Kissing: Also fun! but I'll only kiss certain ppl, not just anyone, it's more "charged" than hugging if ykwim Sex: A fun way to spend an afternoon with someone but not something I actively desire, more just a fun thing you can do. On top of that it's risky and complicated, once you fuck someone u cant unfuck them and it can make stuff rly messy. Love: Great! I love a lot of people! Idk who I'd be if I didn't love people the way I do :333 Queer Platonic Relationship: Still not 100% on how these work but from what I've heard they sound like kind of the ideal for me, insofar as it's a connection deeper than friends but without the rigid expectations of a traditional relationship. Would be interested in trying it out. A significant Other: I'd have one kinda by process of elimination more than anything else. I don't rly vibe w the way most ppl date but sometimes you meet someone and have some fun while you can idk. Not rly my preferred way of doing things, feels very final. One Night Stands: Awesome in theory but kind of a waste of time in practice. Most of the fun of intimacy is kinda dead in the water if it's a total stranger you don't intend on seeing again imo Porn(Video): Industry is so rife with abuse I can't consume in good conscious. Also libido is super low so not much use for it anyways Smut(Written): Low libido again lmao Dates/Dating: Very fun in theory but most of the time leads to expectations being placed on me/assumptions on how I feel being made and I rly don't like that, I imagine if I find someone who is understanding of my particular style/wants/needs it'd be amazing but I'm not holding my breath lmao
3: I am very open about the kinds of connection I want. I hate to be a bitch but when I say I don't rly feel romantic attraction I mean it, if i'm having sex with you that means I probably care about you a whole lot but I just do not rly do the whole "dating, meet the parents, his&hers" thing, doesn't mean I don't care about you I just find those dynamics rly trapping. If you cannot accept that then just don't get with me because last thing I'd wanna do is hurt anyone's feelings.
4: I don't know if I've encountered any specific aphobia, most of it could fall under either sexual harassment or poor understanding of my wants/needs, first one is just garden variety disgusting and second is down to poor communication/circumstances most of the time.
5: Not much I wanna add outside of saying that despite me being pretty dour throughout this post, figuring myself out has been a rly beautiful journey and while i'm nowhere near finished (is anyone ever rly?) it's been such a weight off my shoulders to be able to like, put a name to this stuff. :3333333
The Aspec Questionaire
Aspec is such a vast category and one some folks (especially allo folks) tend to treat like a monolith. So I thought it’d be good to do a little questionnaire to demonstrate.
(Skip anything you don’t want to answer.)
1. How do you identify?
2. How do you feel about the following, one word answers are fine if you want:
- - Romance
- - Touching
- - Hugging
- - Kissing
- - Sex
- - Love
- - Queer Platonic Relationships
- - A Significant Other
- - One Night Stands
- - Porn (Video)
- - Smut (Written)
- - Dates/Dating
3. What is the thing you think most people misunderstand about your identity?
4. Have you encountered aphobia in your life?
5. Anything else you’d like to add on the topic?
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Dvmbbgrl
Here’s a little intro post <3
Hiya I’m Dumb girl! I’m a goth bimbo who loves to read n write fics!
A few things abt me! 🖤
I love dilfs 🫶🏻 (will probs be obvious with the fics I post)
I’m a major horror film geek 🦇
I’m studying at college to be a teacher 🔮
My fave colours are black, pink and red 💋
My signs are ���️♏️-🌕♊️-💫♈️ (yes I’m a November scorpio hate me all u want) 💀
I have a proper mixed music taste (I will literally listen to just abt anything) 🕸️
Kuromi is my fave Sanrio character <3 🕷️
And yes requests are currently open!! :D 🪦
My writing rules!!-
Minors DNI!!- listen I get it ur exploring ur interests with reading various things on the internet I was you once BUT I do not feel comfortable if you come across my page and you are underage reading filth that I have written 🥲
I write for both SFW and NSFW - I will write just about anything upon request EXCEPT - bestiality, necrophilia, pedophilia, rape, vore,scat-play and piss play. No thank youuu that’s just yuck also feet I mean I know it isn’t as worse as other things but they make me uncomfortable no thank u 🥲
I’ll write for basically anything! I can’t list all the fandoms cuz I’d be here foreverrr but if people would like a post or if you want a request please do not be afraid to ask if I know of that fandom or not! (Here are a few that I will be writing about though: Marvel, DC, Evil Dead, The Last of Us, The Boys, The Walking Dead, Most Slashers, Youtubers, New Girl (Nick Miller my beloved 🥲), You, COD and many more!)
I write drabbles, I write fluff, I write smut umm I pretty much write anything 😭
Ermmm that’s it really I can’t think of much more as I’m really open minded however if I do feel uncomfy with a certain request I will politely decline :) <3
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i don't know if u mean like famous or just every day success
But
Hi im PlacentaEater999 and i am a trans guy that got/is getting the medical care i want 👍
About me: I'm almost 21, so im kinda an adult ig. I work for my university as a marketing + graphic design lead for their basic needs initiative and have worked for for there for going on 3 years now. I am getting a B.A. in biology and studio arts so i can talk to ppl about science in cool and creative ways (and to do other cool art)! I sell my art at makers markets and have had my work in a couple galleries now (happened this year :3) and i work alongside an lgbt rights advocacy org. I volunteer as a street medic in protests, and in my free time i play/listen to music, take care of my cat, play video games, do fun art, garden, and be silly as fuck. I also used to compete in competitive speed solving for rubiks cubes. I've been out forrrr maybeee 8 years? 9? Idk, i came out at the end of Fifth grade when i was 11-12. I was super fuckin stealth until the end of high school when i started opening up, and now I am a proud openly trans man starting my third year of university.
i just wanted to share some parts of my story bc for a long time I didn't think id really make it past high school (and I almost didnt) and i think its important to see thhat trans youth grow up and CAN Actually get to a happy spot in their transition
That being said
Im here!! And this year im celebrating 5 years post-top surgery in November!!!! And i like the changes t has done for me! And i'm currently trying to get my hysterectomy (hopefully my last step in medically transitioning). Insurance is and has been hell the entire time (literally called abt an insurance issue for my hysterectomy consult today), and it took so long for insurance to cover anything and a lot of disappointment and let downs but also a lot of happy moments of knowing that im moving forward. This doesnt mean that i feel super peppy all the time now, like, lets he real. Shit is scary as Fuck right now and im scared im sad im heartbroke and im angry, but i also feel pride. I think younger me would be in awe of who i am now, and it kind of chokes me up. I look at myself in old photos with so much patience and so much tenderness and think like just
W o w
Like i am ME now
Like i
Am ME
[Name] is ME like wha t
It took so much blood, so many tears and so much time and patience to get where i am in my transition. It's been so fuckin hard. But if i were given the option i would choose this life every single time. There was a while where i would say no to that option. I hated being trans so much for so long and it made me such a bitter little asshole. But over time and like learning my history as a queer chicano and unlearning certain things and working on decolonizing my thinking, ive learned that im so much more than i thought i was. And that goes for you too friend. You're so much more than u think u are and i hope things work out for you
It takes WORK to be you, and you're doing it just fine. The pride that comes from that work is not something anyone can take from you
heyy does anyone have any transgender success stories i want to see trans adults being alive and getting the medical care they want if applicable. i really just want hope tbh
#mr eater speaks#trans#transgender#trans adult#trans man#trans science#trans scientist#transition story#the placenta files#another layer of lore to the placenta files#ur doing great op i love u
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Astro observations pt.11
Saturn Aphrodite people usually have this voice that’s in between deep and high especially if it’s in 2h
Nobody talks abt how petty and toxic Taurus moons can be when they’re underdeveloped. These people can be very manipulative as well.
I feel like people with Saturn-Pluto aspects restrict themselves from certain things and procrastinate. I’ve also seen people with negative aspects be prone to anxiety or can fall into a heavy depression easily. These people tend to dig deeper into things that no one else would do when it comes to taboo things.
Chiron-Mars negative aspects or aspects in general can have issues regarding aggression with others cause of the aggression that other people did to them that wounded them.
Pluto 1h or Pluto dominant people can be prone to having rumors about them and getting gossiped to other people, I feel bad for these people cause they can get hated or talked abt for anything they do.
people with Jupiter as their chart ruler have or tend to have these arched eyebrows esp if they have Pluto influence in they chart. 
Mercury-Uranus people tend to have scrambled/messy minds and can overthink very easily especially if it’s aspected negatively
Mercury 8h people tend to look at the deeper depths of taboo topics and can study things involved with death, sex, psychology, trauma, etc. These people can be experts at those types of topics.
People with Neptune 11h can have friends that deceive them or betray them easily. These people can use their own friends as an distraction towards their real life issues and problems. I’ve seen also that their friends influence their music taste a lot or have similar taste of music. They could also be drawn to people with Neptune influences. They also may have friends that do drugs or drug related things while as they don’t do drugs themselves.
8h in any planet can make the energy of that planet 1000x more intense
If u have your Aphrodite in 2h you should consider wearing neck jewelry or get piercings in the lower part of your face. You may also have an appealing voice.
Virgo, Capricorn,Scorpio, and Aquarius venuses tend to be picky on who they choose to get with and who they open up to.
If their mars conjuncts yours in synastry, you guys might act similar when it comes to anger, what ur passionate about, and what empowers both of you.
Capricorn Pluto ppl mature and develop earlier cause it’s literally Capricorn in plutooo😭. Oh and I’ve also seen capricorn plutos to be more observant sometimes.
I feel like people with 11h in Jupiter tend to have a lot of friends or meet people that have some type of Jupiter influenced placement
“Three types of ___ sign” no it’s literally decans of their sun signnn
I’ve seen that Scorpio moons usually have some bad luck or go through this negative cycle of the same type of thing depending on the house it’s in for ex: I have a Scorpio moon friend who has it in her 11h and she’s had countless issues when it comes to her friends betraying her and stuff like that. Most of the time they have rlly good intuition.
Neptune aspects in synastry can show the illusions that both partners create on eachother or how magnetic they are towards eachother!!
Sirene in 7h , libra or in a libra degree can mean that you might have secret admirers or people who fantasize about you without even knowing it. People get the wrong ideas and tend to think as these people as love interest or crushes even though these people think as the other person platonically. 
I’ve seen so many 11h venuses get their love interests through mutual friends or from friends, they also usually have friends who have crushes on them sometimes 💀
Gemini and Leo placements radiate bad bunny’s album “un verano sin ti” (tell me if u disagree or suggest other signs to it)
Ik i havent done one of these in a couple weeks but yeah 😇. Oh and I also haven’t had time or felt like answering my asks unless I’m interested nd feel motivated to do it srry😕.
#spotify#art#astrology#astrology observations#music#asteroid astrology#astrology chart#mf doom#playlist#rap
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there’s this big larry acc on twitter that just unlarried, and people make so much fuss abt it. bcz they say someone told them abt “hl personal stuff” that open their eyes. but anyway i was wondering will you ever at certain point “unlarried”, and what’s possibly the reason, could the same reason as this person make u doubt everything?
If I ever came to believe that Larry wasn’t real (even Louis and Harry can’t convince me of it 😅) I would still be very certain that they communicate to Larries in multiple ways and that alone would make me super angry.
Amidst that personal discovery, I can’t imagine sticking around to become a solo stan of either one of them, hating on the other, writing anti-larry posts because I’m lacking the narcissism that makes me think I need to educate people or would go as far as starting some anti blog.
No matter what I would always understand, it’s not the fans that are the issue, it’s these two artists alone who purposely play into the fandom wars and shouldn’t deserve any of my time any longer.
Since I really don’t think Louis and Harry are the assholes, rads, antis or het harries make them to be, the most realistic scenario is me going on a hiatus and being less active if real life needed more of my attention. It wouldn’t un-real Larry just because I focused on other things at times.
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Have H or L ever tolked abt bdsm ??? I’m genuinely confused, no hate … (I’m not exactly new to the fandom, but I don’t know a lot of the stuff 😅) I hope this ask did not make u uncomfortable 😊 sorry if it did
This is called edging.
Hey sweetie, sorry for the late reply, I had to gather some stuff. Also, it doesn't make me uncomfortable at all, it's very interesting. To answer your question, ummm yeah kinda yes. Well, it's a very vague thing. I will link you some stuff, but it's not the complete thing and also my interpretation. Make up your own mind.
To start off, most of this is Harry, because he apparently has a thing for showing off to the public about his sex life, sorry Louis No Control is a little too vanilla.
Louis has talked about BDSM in two or three interviews. But it was, like all of his interviews, completely unbelievable. In this interview(9:45), the interviewer asks if he likes kinky stuff and he basically just denies it, like he doesn't even know what it is. But then you have this interview where Louis probably does have a clue. "Being used" yes yes.
I would say Louis has very dominant energy. "Always the boss." "Anything to add, Harry?" "What else, Harry?" "He told me he was intrigued." Sorry, that's just me, my interpretation, just ignore me. Louis' dominance isn't only with Harry, Louis is just a very... interesting friend. Like he's you know edging Niall, get it... okay moving on.
Harry on the other hand is... a little bit more open. From saying he has been in handcuffs to actually wearing a proper BDSM collar in a photoshoot. He might even have a day collar, even before the blue one. That's a collar so people in your "normal" life don't need to know about your other lifestyle, not that Harry minds. Also his SSC tattoo. Sorry, see the handcuffs... Just for the image I'm trying to show.
Calling people daddy in the most sub way. The chains incident. The other chains and whips incident lately. His SNL skit. Last night... the edging part just hmmm. Going on his knees a lot. Stockholm Syndrome and the beautiful analysis by @bluewinnerangel. Also this beautiful analysis by @swimmingleo . The whole Medicine song.
Larry together is just omfg. Harry is Louis' baby, we know that. We have this handcuffs incident. This interview bit thingy, like nah. They have a thing for... public affection... okay. How they stand or sit, it doesn't really say anything particular, but the way they present themselves is very important. Louis stands wide, demanding space. Harry is always very tiny, taking up as little space as possible.
The thing with BDSM, it's not about chains and whips. It's about power exchange, between two or more people. Because you're new to it I'm not really going to plant any ideas in your head, you have to see for yourself. If you think it's not the case, fine great. I just feel a certain vibe they both give off that just very dom/sub relationship. I know this is a very taboo subject, but why should it be? It's just another part of someone's 'relationship and it's nothing bad or disgusting. Anyway, I hope you had a great time seeing all this stuff.
If you have any other questions, please send them to @fookinlittleshits. This blog isn't supposed to be so serious and I have minor mutuals, so I like to keep it a little clean. There I can talk about anything you want :)
Also thanks @bottomharrykingdom for all the great content. It was much easier to find.
#my post#I spend the whole day making this haha#what I do for my lovely anons#sorry if I made any grammar mistakes
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