#tw mspecphobia

[profecional-dreamer]

Literally FUCK OFF OH MY GOD. You are so so wrong and hateful and it is heartbreaking. You can be a boy or a girl or whatever you think and like men or women or whatever, you can think that your one thing and be another.

LABELS ARE JUST THINGS WE MADE UP!!! THEY DONT MEAN SHIT. ANYONE CAN BE A LESBIAN IF THEY FEEL SILLY ENOUGH :3333

why are we shaming lesbians for their comphet that’s like the opposite of a loving accepting community

why are we shaming wlw who thought they were one type of sapphic and turned out to be another or use different terms for their sapphicness that’s literally so dumb and redundant

“gold star lesbians” just admit you’re all transphobic biphobic lesbophobic exclusive whiny little bastards who get mad when you can’t fit everybody in the world into tiny neat little boxes because spoiler alert! everyone is fucking different even in their similarities

[tailss]

so anyway youtuber izzzyzzz has been liking anti-mspec content on twt AND engaging w/ terf adjacent people so like. maybe just block folks?

[nat-stimmy]

mspec like the so called "mspec lesbians" and "mspec gays" not bi/pan

im literally a bisexual gay man. fuck off with this bullshit. mspec lesbians and mspec gays are valid and genuine identities that should be respected. this blog is and will always be a safe, supportive space for people with good-faith identities, including ones you may not understand! all you have to do is not be an asshole to people with identities you don't get, and you couldn't even do that. obsessed with the fact you were too cowardly to come off anon for this. obsessed with the fact you thought you could get away with this on a blog that has clearly expressed support for mspec gays and lesbians on multiple occasions. obsessed with the fact that you said this to a bisexual gay man. get the hell off of my blog. i dont want bigots here.

[pansapphicpositivity]

M-spec people are always caught in the middle. Both sides say the same thing,"Pick one already,you're just being greedy." "You're jus straight and want attention." "Um,actually, he's gay,so don't be surprised when he leaves you." "I would never date you cause you'll miss *insert gender here* and leave me."

Trans and non-binary folks are always caught in the middle. "You just want to be trendy." "You're actually just a lesbian."" That's not a real gender." "Trans lesbians are just straight men invading women's spaces."

A-spec people are always caught in the middle."You don't belong here, you just want attention." "Their actually straight." "Aro people are predatory." "It's ok to not want sex, but don't call an orientation." "Demisexuals and demiromantics are just " regular" people. "

God, love the hypocrisy.

[mx-t4t0]

hello gamers, did you know that @/cishetlessfashion is a closet mspecphobe who just doesn't mind battleaxe bisexuals at all? 🥰

yes, the person who claims to "make trendercore fashion" said fuck to radical inclusivity and understanding the importance of overlapping labels for many people, what trendercore was about to begin with yes, someone who took multiple requests from pan people apparently then turns their back on us because "uUuUuH i don't care what people identify as bUt [panphobic bullshit]"

first let's set down the clear, inclusive, modern definition for bisexuality and pansexuality:

bisexuality: sexual attraction to two or more genders. number depends on the person, may be regardless of gender or not. pansexuality: sexually attraction to all genders, regardless of gender. generally very little to no preference.

generally speaking, pansexuality is just a more specific label that's there for those who want it.

now onto the meat

see, cishetlessfashion reblogged from pinkvampyr, a known mspecphobe (just go look at their carrd for proof), so like i usually do i sent him a message to tell him "hey this person is weirdchamp"

to which this mans gets the audacity to just

and then he linked a google doc made by a known battleaxe bi that only proves that bisexuality and pansexuality overlap which like,,,, no shit sherlock??

so like. he's not a battleaxe bi but. he's using battleaxe bi arguments.

anyways stay safe and block his ass

[guiltyidealist]

Pan flag shit masterpost

https://www.one-tab.com/page/BT4kUPq3SfyzLbdtPPga1A

[genderfluidlucifer]

Block posbitivity. On the pinned post she admits that she’s anti mspec labels. If you’re pro mspec labels it’s better to just block her and move on.

[angel-archivist]

i fucking hate exclusionists so much <3 

[arovaricious]

yeah if you haven't blocked this piece of stinking shit already do so now @/bullterrierz

and if I see anyone knowingly reblog from them don't expect me to be nice and polite to you.

[nat-stimmy]

i was bout to throw my hands and unfollow you as i thought you was fine with mspecs lool

i am mspec? i'm bi??? im bi gay???? i just made a pan kirby stimboard like a few hours ago? i have made multiple mspec stimboards? if you're against bi / pan / ply / omni people please unfollow me and don't come back because my blog is the furthest thing from safe for you

[pansapphicpositivity]

Butch/femme are lesbian only terms. Make your own and stop speaking over us lesbians ♡

First of all, no. They aren't just lesbian terms. Butch and femme are for anyone of any gender and sexuality to use if they chose. Second of all, have you seen the terms people are trying to make people other than lesbians use instead of butch/femme? They are awful. Finally, we don't talk over lesbians? If anything, you're talking over us because of your fucking gatekeeping.

[mx-t4t0]

@rittz speak where everyone can see u don't be shy <3

clowing on this post about allos being able to have being sexual and romantic outside of attraction and being aphobic too (no you dumb fuck, enjoying sex or romance doesn't equal attraction -signed, the entire aspec community)

and on this one he apparently thinks panphobia is "juwst an opwinion 🥺"

sorry exclusies you don't deserve to feel safe 😘 everyone else do with this information what you will i do not care he made his bed now he lays in it

[artsyshitshow]

Yeah i hear your concerns and i see you. But id like ya to get your head outta your ass for a sec. We can have a civil conversation about this when you feel like being mature.

but to answer your question, let's look at This, this, and this just for the sake of looking at both sides.

Yes i know it's a fandom wiki article but it has good wording for the definition. Anywho, if you can read, you'll find the definition saying

"Pansexuality, is sexual attraction, romantic love (also referred to as Panromantic), or emotional attraction toward people of either sex or any gender identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others."

and lets look at the bisexuality definition, yeah?

"Bisexuality, often shortened as Bi, is a fluid identity that encompasses the sexual attraction between two genders and all genders, with or without preferences to gender. Bisexuality is often seen as an umbrella term because its attractions are also well known with labels like pansexuality, polysexuality, and omnisexuality, but all four of these labels are their own sexualities. Bisexuals can be attracted to two, three or more, multiple, or all genders, it's up to the person. However, bisexuality could be considered "too broad" or "too general" because of this, so many may prefer the aforementioned labels instead. Regardless of how one identifies, bisexuality is historically known to include more than two genders, despite its prefix. Many activists have been known to express inclusion beyond two genders in their attraction, most notably Lani Ka'ahumanu. They've also made it known that it is possible to be bisexual and experience attraction regardless of gender"

case and point.

now, for the last two sources. I dunno bout you, but for most people, people could not give less of a shit about what something used to mean. because it does not mean that anymore. No one's saying bisexuality doesn't include all genders (If they do they're wrong). They just got more specific labels. They like the more specific label. die mad about it.

In conclusion, shush. They aren't hurting you. Take something from the prize box on your way out, if ya want! :)

Bisexuality, pansexuality, omnisexuality, and polysexuality are valid, actually. They are not biphobic or transphobic in any way, shape, or form.

Stop being a baby about it.

[guiltyidealist]

... bRuh..

[mx-t4t0]

hey uhhh i see that @/pinkvampyr's post about the "my kid can work a grill meme" has been making rounds but i think this might interest y'all to know that he is, in fact, a battleaxe bi

these are all taken from his carrd so he doesn't even hide it 😬 (linked so you can check for yourself)

inclusionists stay safe, block and report his ass, you're welcome

[guiltyidealist]

HmmmmMmmmmmmmmmmm it's almost like anti- mspec gay rhetoric comes directly from exclus rhetoric (which need i remind you comes directly from T3RF rhetoric)???? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔