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femsolid · 2 years ago
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TW: Trans activists
For more than a decade now, trans activists have been harassing those who belong to a feminist philosphy we call radical feminism or the women’s liberation movement.
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Radical feminists, like most feminists, believe that men use sex to oppress women. Meaning they oppress women through sexual exploitation and by perpetuating sexist discrimination towards those who belong to the female sex. They were the first to research and expose violence against women as endemic and traumatizing, and to create shelters for rape and domestic violence victims. Those shelters are now being vandalized and defunded by trans activists.
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Because radical feminists don’t believe in gender identities, gendered souls, gender roles or any form of innate personality based on sexist stereotypes, they have been receiving rape and death threats on a daily basis. The acronym “terf” was soon invented and is now used to describe any person who doesn’t support the trans movement, even if they’re not feminists, just as long as they're women, though lesbians and feminists tend to be the primary targets.
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As a whole, the trans movement claims that its biggest enemy and threat, its most pressing matter, its most dangerous opponent is the women’s liberation movement or what they call “radfems” or “terfs”. This is where their energy and anger is directed, typically in the form of sexist and sexual harassment, intimidation techniques, violence, censorship and social isolation. So let’s talk about that.
From the book Hate Crimes in Cyberspace:
Cyber harassment involves threats of violence, privacy invasions, reputation-harming lies, calls for strangers to physically harm victims, and technological attacks.
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Victims’ in-boxes are inundated with threatening e-mails. Their employers receive anonymous e-mails accusing them of misdeeds. Even if some abuse is taken down from a site, it quickly reappears on others. Victims’ sites are forced offline with distributed-denial-of-service attacks.
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While some attackers confine abuse to networked technologies, others use all available tools to harass victims, including real-space contact. Offline harassment or stalking often includes abusive phone calls, vandalism, threatening mail, and physical assault.
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The Internet extends the life of destructive posts. Harassing letters are eventually thrown away, and memories fade in time. The web, however, can make it impossible to forget about malicious posts. And posts that go viral attract hundreds of thousands of readers.
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Online harassment can quickly become a team sport, with posters trying to outdo each other. Posters compete to be the most offensive, the most abusive. An accurate name for such online groups is cyber mobs. The term captures both the destructive potential of online groups and the shaming dynamic at the heart of the abuse.
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Cyber harassment disproportionately impacts women. The U.S. National Violence Against Women Survey reports that 60 percent of cyber stalking victims are women, and the National Center for Victims of Crimes estimates that the rate is 70 percent. Of the 3,393 individuals reporting cyber harass-ment to WHOA from 2000 to 2011, 72.5 percent were female. The most recent Bureau of Justice Statistics report found that 74 percent of individuals who were stalked on or offline were female, and 26 percent were male.
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Researchers found that users with female names received on average one hundred “malicious private messages,” which the study defined as “sexually explicit or threatening language,” for every four received by male users.
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According to the study, “Male human users specifically targeted female users.” By contrast, men are more often attacked for their ideas and actions. John Scalzi, a science fiction author and popular blogger, has found online invective typically situational. When he writes something that annoys people, they tell him so. People do not make a “hobby” out of attacking his appearance and existence as they do female bloggers.
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The nature of the attacks similarly attests to bigotry’s presence. Hate expresses something uniquely damaging. It labels members of a group as inhuman “others” who do not possess equal worth. It says that group members are inferior and damaged. Bigotry conveys the message that group members are objects that can be destroyed because they have no shared humanity to consider.
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Cyber harassment exploits these features by exposing victims’ sexuality in humiliating ways. Victims are equated with their sexual organs, often described as diseased.
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Once cyber harassment victims are sexually exposed, posters penetrate them virtually with messages that say “I will fuck your ass to death you filthy fucking whore, your only worth on this planet is as a warm hole to stick my cock in.” 
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Rape threats profoundly impact women: over 86 percent of rape victims are female. Virtual elimination may follow the imagined penetration: “First I’ll rape you, then I’ll kill you.”
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One woman who faced online abuse noted, “Someone who writes ‘You’re just a cunt’ is not trying to convince me of anything but my own worthlessness.” Despite the gravity of their predicaments, cyber harassment victims are often told that nothing can or should be done about online abuse. Journalists, bloggers, lay observers, and law enforcement officials urge them to ignore it. Victims are called “whiny baby girl[s]” who are overreacting to “a few text messages.” Often victims are blamed for the abuse. They are scolded for sharing their nude images with loved ones or for blogging about controversial topics. They are told that they could have avoided the abuse had they been more careful.
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A related message sent to victims is that the benefits of online opportunities are available only to those who are willing to face the Internet’s risks. They are advised not to expect anything different if they want to make a name for themselves online. The choice is theirs: they can toughen up or go offline.
The Internet is governed by society’s rules. Life online bleeds into life offline and vice versa. The notion that more aggression should be tolerated in cyberspace than in real space presumes that virtual spaces are cordoned off from physical ones.
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Most victims do not report cyber harassment to the police because they assume that nothing will be done about it. Sadly, they are right. Law enforcement frequently fails to act on victims’ complaints even though criminal law would punish some of the behavior. Victims are told to turn off their computers because “boys will be boys.” Online harassment victims are told that nothing can be done; they are advised to ignore rape and death threats. During the summer of 2013, high-profile women were subjected to a torrent of online threats. The feminist activist Caroline Criado Perez received hundreds of graphic rape threats via Twitter after her successful campaign to feature more female images on British banknotes.
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Members of Parliament and female writers who publicly supported Criado-Perez faced the same, including bomb threats. One tweet featured a picture of a masked man holding a knife with the message, “I’m gonna be the first thing u see when u wake up.”
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Because the Internet serves as people’s workspaces, professional networks, rĂ©sumĂ©s, social clubs, and zones of public conversation, it deserves the same protection as offline speech. No more, no less.
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Without doubt, the free speech interests at stake are weighty. Free expression is crucial to our ability to govern ourselves, to express our thoughts, and to discover truths. For that reason, government cannot censor ideas because society finds them offensive. Truthful speech must not be banned just because it makes people uncomfortable.
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But credible threats, certain defamatory falsehoods, social security numbers, and nude images posted without consent contribute little to discourse essential for citizens to govern themselves and discover truths. Their net effect is the silencing of victims. Victims could blog, post videos, and engage on social networks without fear of destructive cyber harassment. They could raise money using networked tools unencumbered by rape threats, reputation-harming lies, and distributed- denial- of- service attacks. They could take advantage of all of the expressive opportunities available online. Protecting against online harassment would secure the necessary preconditions for victims’ free expression.
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With the help of law and the voluntary efforts of Internet intermediaries, parents, and teachers, we might someday achieve a free and equal Internet. We need to take action before cyber harassment becomes a normal feature of online interactions. A hostile online environment is neither inevitable nor desirable. We should not squander this chance to combat discriminatory online abuse; it is early enough in our use of networked tools to introduce equality of opportunity as a baseline norm of interaction.
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cherrybombfangirlwrites · 3 years ago
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Hii, happy blorbo blursday!! Also, I saw you’d be travelling so safe travels!!
Anyway, I’m here to ask about Jason from The City Is Ours. I know he’s just here to be bashed, which is amazing, so go off on him and why he sucks :)
Happy Blorbosday! Ask and you shall receive.... Here's a bulleted list of all the reasons off the top of my head why Jason sucks and doesn't deserve jack shit :)
He thinks he's special and is entitled to everything he wants because he's a textbook straight white good looking guy and his daddy has a lot of money
he only uses his powers for attention and to get what he wants
he's actually good looking to a lot of people and he knows this and uses it to exploit anyone who may be attracted to him
Bulldozes through people's boundaries without a care in the world, "boundaries are for sissies"
bigoted piece of shit in all of the departments. he acts like an ally and says all of the right things, but he's not going to back up any queer, poor, POC, disabled, etc person ever and will ghost them at the slightest hint of conflict
objectifies girls to hell and back (and then throws a hissy fit when women capitalize on that and use it to their advantage)
he also calls all girls pick-me girls. doesn't matter what the girl does or who she is, he will find something about her to "call out" and say she's attention seeking
(Gabby drags him and calls him out on multiple occasions for this specifically)
he's that dude who will tell people that he's bi for attention, but in the same breath says he would never date a guy because that's gross
knows full well what capitalism does and fully supports it
can and will call you any and all of the slurs when there's no cameras or reporters in earshot
a really toxic atheist who frequently shoves it in everyone's face and thinks anyone who is part of a religion is stupid for believing that
doesn't care about anyone except for himself. if he's being nice to you, it's because you have something he wants or he's using you
really good at acting nice and well meaning so that everyone loves him. deceptively charismatic and charming
will say and do anything for attention
passive aggressive in the most annoying way possible
expects everyone to like him and when they don't he says they're toxic
projects all of his problems onto everyone around him
total asshole to everyone that's not exactly like him (rich, white, straight, etc)
uses the "I'm having a really hard time plz be nice to me it's not my fault đŸ„ș" excuse for everything
he's just like tony stark (tony stans do us both a favor and block me now)
Thanks for the ask @friendlyneighborhood-writer !
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build-a-buddy · 3 years ago
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Is there anything people can do to support you and/or your family?
Not really, just be a little extra gentle for a bit. Grief is hard and I don't need people being jerks-- but y'all are usually lovely people so I'm not worried.
I am probably going to be sad for a while. The worst parts are that this was unexpected and it was a COVID death. So I just. It's still a fresh shock to me.
He was doing so well. He had gotten a new car. He didn't get to enjoy the car. He was a man of simple pleasures and he didn't fucking get to enjoy the car. He was vaccinated, wearing a mask, social distancing, and staying inside and he still caught it and he died and it's not fair. He was my uncle but more he was my friend and just. It's not fair.
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ssadists · 5 years ago
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U know how when school shootings were talked abt and people advocated against guns, pro-gun bitches were fighting us by saying "guns protect people." Saying that if cops dont have guns who will protect us.
N now cops are being protested against for gun violence, and racial discrimination. Funny how those who are made to "protect us" are using their guns to- shocker- kill innocent people.
It's almost like, idk, guns are bad?
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devilsympcthy · 5 years ago
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KILL COUNT
one. her on-again, off-again boyfriend. the one who put his hands on her, the one who had been far too old to be dating a nineteen year old. the man who introduced her to cocaine just happened to die from it, too. the authorities found him,  his coke laced with cyanide and magda’s lipstick on his collar.
two. zack buckley. in high school he had slipped a roofie in blaire windsor’s cup at a party in her own home, dragging his classmate up the stairs to her room and pushing her back on the bed. he was interrupted before anything more insidious could take place, but as soon as magda heard the story from her MUA? a week after her tour stopped in michigan, his body was found in grand traverse bay, GHB in his system and wearing a MAGDA LOURDES tour t-shirt.
three. an ex. a blast from the past walked back into her life. he missed her, he said. he loved her, he said. but then more and more things missing from her bags. money. drugs. her switchblade. he wouldn’t leave when she asked him to, only stepping further and further into her space. they found him with an album of the year statuette rammed into the side of his head, blood splattered across her face and chest. as she stood frozen beside his dead body.
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littlebabycrybtch · 6 years ago
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literally though what happened to the whole “if a group tells you that they’re struggling or that you’re hurting them, you don’t have a fucking right to say otherwise and refusing to listen or trying to belittle that pain is denial and not just a stance” concept like how come yall really looked at the entire aspec community and said “i think every single one of these people is compulsively lying about how bad their struggle is in an attempt to gain attention”. ah yes the group whos. Identity is not having sex. who deals with rape culture directly bc of this identity. and remains vocal about rape culture being our largest danger and issue. That group, specifically, is liars. the ppl who just dont have sex. and suffer under rape culture. Those ones. all liars. at the same time. inherently. hm. hmm,
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no-empathy-culture-is · 2 years ago
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Tw: discrimination ment(?), sui bait ment(?)
Low empathy culture is "empaths" calling you evil and abusive while also saying they're the Ultimate Good and you're the Ultimate Bad and that you should die.
low empathy culture is
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eliographics · 3 years ago
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//abuse tw, suicide tw, addiction tw
Hi! I'm Lux and I'm an 19-year-old non-binary transmasc person.
Due to the problems listed below, I'm opening writing commissions.
For years, I've been stuck in a toxic household with an emotionally and psychologically abusive mother that frequently indulges in neglect and/or gaslighting.
I need to absolutely escape this because as a result of this bullcrap - I have been developing different mental health issues: I struggling with anxiety attacks, depressive episodes, problems focusing/memorizing/staying motivated, as well as social anxiety.
(I have also happen to have a crippling tech addiction since I was 6)
I have been getting cognitive behavioral therapy for these but recovery is being a bit rockier than anticipated as I can only contact my therapist exclusively online, as well as in secrecy because for my mom has some weird gripe with mental health experts that I have to frustratingly dance around.
My body also doesn't really co-operate either, with scoliosis and scoliosis-related symptoms (muscle/nerve weakness and headaches) giving me hell everyday and physicaltherapy being expensive makes matters worse.
Even though I frequently breakdown thinking about the situation I currently have to live in and on rare occasions even think of suicide but I do know full well that my problems largely pale in comparison to others who have it much worse, so I have decided to offer some service in exchange for money, putting my writing skills to use to put your ideas out there and help scratch any creative itches you may have, so to speak.
I humbly request you to be gentle and reasonable with your orders as I happen to be terribly out of practice at the moment and this is my first time opening writing and translation commissions.
--WRITING COMMISSIONS--
PRICE:
-€1 per every 100 words, all the way up to €10 for 1000 words
GENRES:
They're more like "flavors", to be quite honest.
- Fantasy
- Romance (I prefer LGBTQIA+)
- Comedy
- Slice Of Life
Or any combination of the four
PLEASE PROVIDE:
- Characters and characterization
- Plot/Plotpoints
WILL DO:
//nsfw and kink ment
- Fluff, Hurt/Comfort, Domestic.
- Slice of life
- Familial, Platonic, Romantic
Sex and NSFW are allowed as well!
Just DM me and:
1. Give me adequate age verification in DMs.
2. Describe all the kinks and fetishes you'd like. I'll let you know immediately if there are any I feel uncomfortable with.
- OCs
- school/college settings
WON'T DO:
//incest ment, pedophilia ment, abuse ment
× Incestous, pedophilic, abusive/toxic relationships and sex scenes (includes paraphilias)
I'm also gonna have to ask you to not ever interact with me or any human being ever if you support any of these things in any way shape or form, fictional or not.
× Heavy quantities of bigotry and discrimination.
They are very important but I'm not comfortable consistently unpacking such themes in every single order.
× Grimdark
× Dystopia/Bad endings
× Huge amounts of worldbuilding and lore
EXTRA TERMS:
1 commission/week, with frequent communication on status any possible updates
- Personal use allowed, just give credit
--TRANSLATION COMMISSIONS--
PRICING:
- 1€ every 100 words, up to 10€ for 1000 words
TERMS:
- Please provide the source material you want me to translate
All the commission info is on my ko-fi:
PayPal and Ko-Fi:
(COMPLETELY OPTIONAL, think of it as a tip jar)
Emergency/Relief" MoneyPool:
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fieldsofbone · 7 years ago
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this requires much more exposition than i am providing here but with which i won’t bore you all (unless you’re interested, then feel free to message me), but i came across this study that found that in the 1300s when the black death was spreading through germany and the masses were searching for an explanation, the majority of them blamed the jewish population for the plague, arguing they had “poisoned the wells”
this scapegoating/fear-mongering led to mass killings of jews in those areas, and the researchers discovered that the areas which witnessed these killings were also the areas that--600 YEARS LATER--had the highest number of votes for the n/a/z/i party in the 1920s relative to that of other regions, as well as higher deportation rates in the 1930s
i hope this isn’t upsetting to anyone to read (i’ll tag it accordingly, but please let me know if you need it tagged more comprehensively) but this was so FUCKING INSANE to me. it’s one of those things that makes sense but once you see statistical evidence to corroborate it it’s difficult to fathom
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crowfeets · 4 years ago
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guys reading this freaking kind of Not Great article from 1997 i found a historical guy who sounds A LOT LIKE MY CHARACTER AMAL??? 
!!! pregnancy ment tw !!!
“Architecture, belles lettres, and scholarship flourished in Cordoba under 'Abd al-Rahman's son al-Hakam II, who was their eager and discriminating patron. In his youth his loves seem to have been entirely homosexual. This exclusivity was a problem when he succeeded to the throne, since it was incumbent upon the new caliph to produce a  male heir. The impasse was resolved by his coupling with a concubine who dressed in boy's clothes and was given the masculine name of "Jafar" (Levi-Provencal 1950:173n4). “
bolding mine and i fixed some letters that got borked...
i want so badly to believe this jafar was genders, i do not feel optimistic, but i really want to believe with my heart this medieval person was trans.
also, i did not expect to see my own fictional ideas so closely mirrored in print about real life people
the source is https://digitalcommons.unl.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer=https://www.google.com/&httpsredir=1&article=1060&context=englishfacpubs
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dormats-town · 4 years ago
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PLs I must know more about Cowenby
YOU HAVE CHOSEN WISELY
tw for alcoholism/addiction mention (ill let yall know which part you can skip over)
harlow is one of my characters who, to be honest, dont have a concrete backstory yet due to me stalling/waiting until im more equipped with black/indigenous rep (aka i dont want to accidentally portray anything offensive /srs)
in Harlow's timeline, it's very much based on the old west (though, that doesn't necessarily mean it is the old west. because fuck america /hj) discrimination relating to sexuality and race isn't much of a thing either since yeah this is just me wanting to making cowboys and there are other problems
in this timeline, magic is more. like, less uhh fucking,, inherited? like you can't have powers. HOWEVER, you can have magic items.
this is because magic comes in the form of stars. stars that have fallen on the earth. theres a lot of old stars everywhere because before, no one bothered to dig them up. meteors (which here are also considered as stars. basically assume anything that falls from space is magic) contain the most pure form of magic but can only be used for one thing. then there's other related stuff like stars that have been in the water for a long time which ties into memory stuff. remember this one.
anyways lets talk about harlow themself lol (he/they)
harlow is a local outlaw who uses a regular revolver. boring, right? WRONG, their bullets are what's magic and have the magic powder in them.
(alcohol ment)
so i actually forgot about this part because in the place where i rp them they got rehab but basically uhh glug glug you get the idea. during that long period in time, they rely on their luck more since the bullets they made have NO indication on what specific one they are. also they sadly do not care as much.
(alcohol ment done)
so later on in the story harlow does put small carvings on the shell to help them know what bullet they're using. regardless, they're still pretty lucky a lot. they rely on having a general goal / outline then making up the rest of their plans on the fly
their bullets i have so far are the following
teleportation bullets - think of portal guns except with a revolver. also with really cool magic circles. for these, harlow can shoot one bullet in one place and then the other bullet in another place. then anything that gets on top of the magic circle will end up where the other one is at.
portal bullet (non canon) - actual portals that lead to designated places.
' camera ' bullets - remember the water powder star thing? yeah that's what's used for this. basically, another one that uses two bullets. basically, harlow puts a magic circle in one room. puts one in the other. harlow can watch what's going on ' live ' in the other room while the magic circle that's showing him whats going on in that room is hidden (though is someone were to touch the area, the magic circle will reveal itself.)
light bullets - shoot out big big light.
there's more but i realized i should talk more about personality shit
so harlow is pretty chill. he doesn't ever plan to kill and only does it in self defense (doesn't tend to regret it afterwards) and mainly steals files from the rich (aka very much corrupt.) they either use it as blackmail or to honest be a nuisance.
they're not good at hand to hand combat BUT they're very good at dodging. they fast.
they also like value protecting innocents if they were like. being held captive. also kids, they care about children a lot. they're pretty good with kids but more in the silent type way/protecting way.
their love language is acts of service. so they'll probably give the person they care about something if they notice like.. anything is off/wrong if they feel like they shouldn't ask. they can be very silently loving but due to the type of love language it is- it can very easily go unnoticed
i think thats all???? anyways ty for asking! if you have any questions i will GLADLY answer (also harlow may or may not be the only canon character that exists in this timeline atm KAJSJSJ)
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nonbinarykai · 3 years ago
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Tw:// transphobia, whump ment, t*rture ment
Okay now onto the dark stuff
One really big problem with the ninjago community and the main reason I don’t like wh*mp at all is because there seems to be a constant trend of cishet people writing fics about lgbt people be hurt or tortured for the fun of it and then joking about it
And the amount of fics about jay being harassed for being trans by cishets is absolutely astounding, its somehow a trend for people to just make Jays life filled with misery for being trans
Now the fic im going to be using for an example is pretty much long gone at this point, I’ve personally spoken to the writer before and they’ve recognized there mistakes and have rewritten the book. I’m just personally using because it’s a great example of this trend im talking about while not criticizing or tearing downs anyone’s current work.
But transgender jay : a ninjago story is an absolute perfect representation for how the community just likes to beat lgbt people over the head in there fics, I’ll be breaking down a couple points that I’ve seen pop up
- jay’s life fucking sucks
‱ trans people dont live in complete misery 24/7, while there are a lot of difficulties in being trans, it’s not the fault of trans people. In other words we don’t suffer BECAUSE we’re trans. A lot of these fics spread the idea that trans people don’t get to live happy lives because there trans
- making characters transphobic for no reason other then to make you feel bad for the character
‱ in this fic, Kai was made transphobic and lgbtphobic, and while the reason he is will be clear either. It’s clear from reading the fic that he’s only transphobic to give jay a reason to suffer even more. While transphobic people do exist, there making a character that would other wise be fine with this into someone who wouldn’t to make things even harder.
- very inaccurate portrayals of what it’s like to be trans
‱ outside of depicting Jays life as horrible, they also share very inaccurate depictions of what trans is actually like. Either by exaggerating it to make it seem worse or just flat out sharing really false information that’s actually harmful. In this fic, jay has a “dysphoria diary” where he keeps Track of everything that makes him dysphoric. Which is NOT a good or healthy thing to do when your trans, that would make your dysphoria WORSE.
- lgbtphobic people are only lgbtphobic because they’ve been rejected or hurt by lgbt people
‱ say it with me now it’s not lgbt peoples fault that they’re being discriminated and saying so is implying that lgbt people deserve to be attacked and harassed when they don’t, Kai is only transphobic and homophobic in this book because he was rejected by a trans guy
- jay is forced out of the closet
‱ don’t use something very personal and important to trans people as a plot point or a bad thing. Coming out of the closet is scary and it needs to be treated with the respect it does. Writing it as this horrible terrifying situation is only going to make people become more scared of it. Forcing a character out of the closet is very harmful to trans people in general
I could go on but I’m becoming to angry at this point to be able to explain these things rationally
And this isn’t just ONE fix, there are hundreds of them out there
And it’s not just for trans people either, the most popular whump fics and series in ninjago are about gay people getting hurt and abused ((often which by other gay people)) and are written by cishet people
And it’s a problem because it’s setting up STEREOTYPES for lgbt people
LGBT people are often viewed in media as tragic people who were forced into a life of misery and are often times the punching bags of the media they come from
And as a lgbt person, this fucking sucks! It’s SO discouraging to try to read fics about characters I project my sexuality or gender to only to be meet by dozens of fics about how there suffering
I don’t feel comfortable when I see cishet people go “oh looks like [character portrayed as lgbt] is hurting again đŸ€€đŸ€€đŸ€€â€
If anything it makes me feel like I’m not in a safe space, I feel like these people just want to see me hurt, I don’t feel like a person because they treat people like me as ANIMALS
đŸ”„ hot takes on Jay?
I dislike fanon a lot more then canon jay
Mostly for very petty personal reasons
Notes: don’t read the rest if u like fanon jay bc it might upset ur feelings, these are just my personal opinions and your allowed to headcanon or think of a character anyway you want. this entire post is meant to be /nm and /lh
The first and probably the most obvious reason is that I really don’t like how jay fans immediately jump on any character that even slightly makes fun of him
The biggest example obviously is Kai and how during s14 release people were literally advocating for Kai to die for saying jay was expendable
Completely ignoring that jay himself has made multiple inappropriate or harmful comments to Kai over the entire show and never once got called out for it
Im not one to stick by canon bc it sucks, but if your going to try to make it so that Kai dies in canon for something he did in canon then atleast be a little self aware for what jay did to Kai in canon
This also applies to cole and Nya, because jay fans just really love to turn them into assholes for the sake of making jay seem more likable.
Like I’m going to be real with you guys, even though Nya was the one who technically started the love triangle, jay was the one who blew it WAY out of proportion and caused it into a big fight.
Another thing that’s more of a personal opinion then any real criticism is that I’m not really comfortable is how the fandom kinda infantilize the character that gets headcanoned with having adhd and being trans the most
As both a trans person and w someone w adhd, it’s just really uncomfortable and annoying to me that the character that the fandom associated these things to the most is also the “uwu precious baby” of the fandom aswell
Infantlizing is a big stereotype that both communities have a problem with. And speaking from personal experience more on the adhd side, it’s hard enough to convince even my parents that I can actually take care of myself and I don’t need people to do it all the time. So seeing it be so common with this character is just really annoying
But again, this is my personal opinion, I’m not qualified enough to say if this is a big problem or not, so if you headcanon jay as a uwu soft boy who’s trans and has adhd, while I disagree, I’m not gonna be upset or mad
I have one more thing to say about this but I’m going to put into the reblogs instead because it’s a bit more on the serious and darker side
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