#turns your yaoi into evil women yuri

[artchixs]

would you look at that. new fixation.

[iwantmasterkohga]

ok this shitpost got so much more attention than i planned, so i wanna get more in depth about my opinion on this

If you hate burningcheese, shadowvanilla, or any toxic ship, PLEASE read this, id love to hear your perspective

Its no mistake to think that burning spice x golden cheese is toxic, i think everyone can see that. Their entire plot is about burning spice tormenting golden cheese until he eventually pushes her to a breaking point, and she defeats him. He shows an odd obsession with her, wanting to savor every moment he has "hunting" her. Calling her a "little bird" and wanting to watch her submit to the tides of change

But…..how is that any different from shadowmilk x pure vanilla? Shadowmilk and pure vanillas entire episode is about shadowmilk committing borderline psychological warfare against pure vanilla, using his memories, his dreams, his own sanity to mess with him. Shadowmilk wants nothing more than to have pure vanilla all to himself. He has fun watching him suffer, just like Burning spice enjoys Golden cheese.

Does this mean you shouldnt ship both of them?

The reason why we have such a morbid curiosity regarding abusive dynamics in characters, is because unlike if we saw this behavior taking place in real life, this is a controlled setting, where we can simply turn off our device if we are uncomfortable. Its just a simple fact that sometimes, traumatized people cope with their trauma by revisiting what happened to them in a controlled setting. I obviously don't support proshippers, but this is why they use the argument "its how i cope!!" So much, because to an extent, it actually IS a way to cope with trauma to consume content of a character being abused in a similar way you were.

Obviously i don't condone proshippers enjoying minors being hurt, nor do i condone them spreading that online. There is a fine line between the complexities of toxicity between adults and just objectifying a child. Im just making a connection to the excuse they use not fully being bullshit. You are not "romanticizing" abuse because you like a ship involving it, because to romanticize something is to say its good to do in real life, which simply isn't what the majority of pureshadow and burningcheese shippers are doing. People are allowed to experiment with situations that might be terrible in real life in a controlled environment, and they aren't evil for doing so.

Also, i think a large reason why burningcheese is so hated is because it isnt toxic yaoi or yuri, its a ship between a man and a woman. Fandom culture just has a habit of seeing toxicity between queer people more like a trope, and only a real problem between a man and a woman. My theory as to why is that subconsciously i think many people dont really take abuse between two men or between two women seriously.

Yet another small pointer as to why is many people see golden cheese as a helpless victim as if she isnt a grown woman who defeated him in the end. She suffered just as much as pv, but we all act like he persevered and is perfectly fine now, so why is it that so many people see golden cheese as a poor girl who barely survived a monster? The short answer is a wonderful blend of misogyny AND misandry (as in not thinking men can be abuse victims) but this post is already so long i’ll leave it at that.

id genuinely love to hear your thoughts and have a conversation about this topic.

TLDR burning spice x golden cheese is toxic and thats okay

Crk tiktok logic

Btw this is absolutely zero hate to shadowvanilla I fw it heavy

I just wish burningcheese got the attention it did💔

[batmanshole]

ok its literally not that deep actually but. i dont think we need yaoi of the background male characters. i think that we have a TON of awesome and well-developed female characters with all sorts of dynamics (yuri, evil yuri, sibling/cousins, besties, etc.) but some of you would rather die than interact with a female character so you turn to male characters with literally 0 info about them because you NEED your yaoi twink fix.

"ohh but characters with no lore are more interesting" there are female background characters too 👍 and yet you never engage with them.

like you COULD go for cuttletavio (and you should) but that would require you to engage with characters who are old and not your twinks so likeeee.

i dont see this a lot on here thank god so this is specifically about a lot of people on twt like. we have one (1) franchise where a majority of the leads are women and youhave to run off to the sides to make your attractive twink yaoi.

i have an extremely controversial splatoon opinion that will get me a lot of hate from certain people if i share it