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#transphobes dni#all the ninja are trans i don’t make the rules#ninjago#196#saw this post on the subreddit and fell back into the ninjago fandom a while back#btw if anyone here’s interested in ninjago there’s a new soft reboot call dragon’s rising that does a good job for new comers!#keeping this post pinned so i have a free blocklist for the people I removed for being phobic in comments#shinigami eyes extension working wonders
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Hi. One of my friends is transphobic and very rude, and appropriates LGBT and pretends to be bisexual. I'm in her homeroom though, so I can't just not be friends with her. she's very popular so I'm very scared that she'll spread rumours about me. I really don't feel comfortable around her anymore, but I'm scared to tell her so. Recently she's been telling me I'm her "best friend" and I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I don't like her at all. I told one of my other friends about her transphobic comments and they made a group chat about how much they hate her. I really don't think that making a groupchat about it is the right thing to do, but I'm not sure what I should do.
Hey there,
It can be really hard when a group of people do something that you don’t agree with. Is it at all possible that you can chat to your other friends about making that group chat and how you disagree with how they are managing the situation with that other friend. Perhaps let them know that you feel it’s not the best way to go about things and brainstorm together ways that you all agree with in regards to the best way handle your other friend who has been making those transphobic comments. Maybe all getting together can be a good thing to do something you all agree with. What do you think?
In regards to not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings, it’s so important that you try to stick to your values as much as possible. I know that you are scared that if you are honest with that friend then they will spread rumours about you, so maybe this is something you can talk to your other group of friends about and ask them that if making the rumours were to happen then if they would have your back? Rumours can only go so far and if a majority of people are there for you then the possibility of the rumours doing/ meaning anything of value is very slim and especially if people know how she is like.
I am not in anyway suggesting that rumours being spread about you is fun in anyway, but if you have a plan in place then you are more equipped to handle things. So therefore if you feel as though you want to be honest with this friend and no longer wanting to be her friend then this is completely OK, you shouldn’t feel tied down and made to be friends with someone you don’t want to be with. And in regards to her being in your homeroom, it doesn’t mean you have to be good or close friends with her, but you can still be friendly when you are needing to be if that makes sense?
I really hope that this has helped a bit and please do let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!
I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going well!
Take care,
Lauren
#mha-lauren#advice#advice blog#mental health advice#anonymous#friends#group chats#transphobic comments#sticking to own values#possible rumours being made
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we truly regressed when people started buying into the genderbending is inherently transphobic thing. yeah that twelve year old being inquisitive and having fun on deviantart was your enemy all along.
#how did that even have a leg to stand on. when so many emerging trans folk literally began exploring gender because of it#ill never forget seeing a lone korean comment on fc2 under genderbend art talking about how they visit that picture every day after work#because it makes them feel understood#to even think of being beyond what you were born. in korea. my god i feel it in my spine just how lonely that ought to be#every time i see that rhetoric make rounds im reminded and equal amounts astounded#by how determined people are at making trans folk a monolith#and how there must be a Correct way to explore gender#if the discussion had stuck to the concept’s Capacity to be transphobic and not about inherently being so we’d have been better off.#& at the end of the day art shouldn’t always have to need such a disclaimer on selfhood to be worthy#in the same vein actors should not need to relinquish themselves to the public to act as a gay or trans character#I don’t know !#saw hatsune mikuo art in the year 2024 and the soul near jumped it’s been so long king 🙀#putting this in here because it’s sooort of art related no?#and people know where I stand on this so perhaps if anybody finds it uncomfortable they can gracefully disengage with me
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One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".
Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.
That's the TL;DR version of this post.
ANYWAY here is the long version
Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".
One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.
Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.
It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.
This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.
People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.
I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.
Anyway if you want to read more:
- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info
-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos
-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.
-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa
- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.
-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge
#Also I don't mean that you can always tell if someone is a transphobe or a TERF based on a couple of things they have said.#My point is that sometimes ok people can have very regressive ideas too.#This is not a call out post about how we should go around accusing anti-fujoshi people#todd in the shadows#hbomberguy#sarasade text#even I've got those “Fandom is mostly straight women fetishizing gay men” comments once and it begins to sound kind of passive-aggressive#when you're a bi woman. Lot of fandom stats at AO3 show that fandoms are montly bi women. who are these people calling straight exactly hmm#also straight women are completely ok leave them alone. I know I know Yes I'm so brave for saying this#cw: transphobia
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people calling me a boy to try and be mean to me is so funny. have you seen my username.
#the ONE weird transphobic comment isnt going to get to me but it's#rlly fucking funny#like yea. yes.#you can't misgender me but thanks for trying baby girl#moo.txt
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it is absurd how blatant people are irl. like why is transphobia your idea of smalltalk with a store employee
then they just move on. like boom ! its there and then its gone. theyll spend the next 5 mins asking you about dog food without picking up on ur name tag. swindled by the left again idk we're so sneaky ig
#this post is brought to you by meeting my dentist's wife and having her throw out a horribly transphobic sideways comment#while i prayed she wouldnt look down and see the big ass 'thomas' on my name tag & pass it on to my family#objectively rly funny that ppl do this though#lighthearted post in the way that its no surprise it just leaves u bemused#with a vague sense of dread but thats perpetual at this point so. im sure u guys get it
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POV: you block antisemites on this site
#jumblr#meme#personal thoughts tag#actually new guessing game!#did i block them because: they are rabidly transphobic; antisemitic; misogynistic; or Actual N@zis? find out next time!#i really wish you had the chance to unhide comments in the same way you can still view blogs you have blocked#i just think this is funny becuase i've really only been blocking people who are vitriolically opposed to the fact that i am breathing#thank g-d there are pockets on this site where i don't need to be On Edge every time i see a new blog though
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I got this comment on a post that I made about being a trans man and noticing how we’re perceived by others. This person is blocked now because I don’t want some transphobe on my blog, but I want to talk a little bit about this.
I like how this person’s trying to convince me that I’m wrong while saying that the only people who would be attracted to us are lesbians who are into butch women. But they can’t use those exact words or else we’ll all KNOW that they’re misgendering us. It’s interesting. Let’s play a game! TERF or transandrophobe. (I’m not scrolling through their blog long enough to find out.)
Okay. Let’s pretend that we live in their world, where trans men are not also a porn category (as someone pointed out in a response comment), and get to the deep cuts!
Now maybe this person defines oversexualization in a different way, and frequently commenting on our bodies—especially our chests—is totally cool and normal to them, because I literally have a post talking about the Tik Tok trend of “oh trans man wants me to respect his pronouns but he has HUGE BOOBS!!! haha this is so funny, guys!” You may notice that in this example here, she claims to feel bad, but then immediately turns around and makes a joke about it. Is describing transmascs essentially as our chests not sexualization? Not to mention dehumanizing considering they refer to this person as “a he/they,” instead of a transmasc or a nonbinary person or anything else.
But if that’s not enough sexualization for you, or you think that it isn’t valid to be upset over that, you can look under the cuts for the disgusting descriptions of our bodies from some transphobes. From some of those “ladies who just like butch,” since they’re innocent and aren’t oversexualizing us because “nobody oversexualizes ftm trans folks,” as the person in the screenshot said confidently.
I wanna say trigger warning for disgusting oversexualization of trans men (including trans men who are in their teens!) under the cut, but huh… the commenter said that nobody oversexualizes trans men, so this can’t be right. (On a serious note, please do heed the trigger warning before deciding to open the rest of the post.)
#not even mentioning how gay trans men are treated (as only transitioning to be a yaoi boy!!!) or any similar stuff#but I might add on something about that later#inb4 someone is like ‘waaah how can you respond to someone’s comment and also block them???’ idc about transphobes that’s how <3#transphobia#trans#anti transmasculinity#transmisandry#tw transandrophobia#transandrophobia#transgender#trans men#trans man#oppression
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*squints*
Beware, arachnophobes.
Extra beware, arachnophiles.
#i know what they mean you dont need to comment it#blah blah blah they mean zoophiles and transphobes SHUT UP I KNOW LET ME BE FUNNY FOR A FEW#dni hall of shame#proshippers against censorship#jackal barks#proship please interact#proship positivity#proship#proshipping#proshipper#proshippers please interact#proshipper safe#anti anti#account is stealer-of-gimmicks btw
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Raeda smut writers: *Flips coin* Cock it is
Transphobes: If you're short you have a vagina
#one again for people who didn't see the other post#the other commenter this transphobe mentioned polietly explained raine has no canon agab#and the the transphobe went on a transphobic rant#honestly my experience politely trying to explain things to people online
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Every time I see something transphobic I’m transing one more hermits gender.
Starting with-
Cleo. Cleo already uses she/they and they are an icon.
#next time I see a transphobic post or a comment I’m adding a new hermit#stiff talk#tw transphobia#mentioned but just to be sure#transphobia mention
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i think the thing abt terf idealogy is that its so Sad. imagine calling urself a feminist and saying what makes a woman inherently a woman is her uterus. her ability to produce children. is that what women are? is that what women need to be?
#no reason for this post lmao im just. so tired.#india has come so far in stem but remains so backward in thinking. heard one too many transphobic comments from uni classmates#anti terf#anti radfem#trans
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was feeling myself today and i think other fat queers should too, and so i do hereby announce this month
Fat Fag February
#lgbt#queer#lesbian#gay#nonbinary#fat people#no fatphobes or transphobes get away from here#skinny ppl can like and reblog but you are not allowed to comment
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Well guys we’ve finally reached the point where the “transmasc specific transphobia doesn’t exist” crowd has gotten to the point where they say that someone calling a trans man dramatic, slurs, or straight up being told to kill themselves for being trans men is “just being rude”, not transphobia at all because “actually transphobia can only be transphobia if it’s directed at trans women because of the patriarchy”. Fucking crazy
#per the comments on my last post#I would add a screenshot but tumblrs not letting me see the comments anymore#thanks tumblr#trans#transmasc#trans man#ftm#trans ftm#transphobic#trans issues#transphobia#transsexual#anti transmasculinity
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#saw it on tl and RUSHED to do it#it just fits so well#wanted to just qrt the original at first but the comments are filled with transphobes so#disco elysium#jean vicquemare#harry du bois#kim kitsuragi
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making a d20 tiktok is fun and all until the taylor swift crossover fans get a hold of it?? how do they balance being a fan of taylor swift and also brennan "no good billionaires" anticapitalist king lee mulligan?? idk but i just posted a comment asking just that so heres hoping i dont get doxxed about it 🤞🤞
#dimension 20#d20#d20 fhjy#fantasy high junior year#someone also talked about being a harry potter fan on my post???#deleted that comment QUICK.#what about being a d20 fan makes swifties and transphobes think im receptive to any of that#get BACK 🤺🤺#percy speaks
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