#trans positivit

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i NEED to follow more trans men on this site bc bro

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[marvelousmultigenders]

An agender stimboard for anon!

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[lizzy-frizzle]

I am very cute today!! My hair is almost naturally long enough for me to feel comfortable going out without a wig. Not quite there yet but its close!

[doppelnatur]

Mermaid Pride!

Hey! So I made a book out of my mermaid pride illustrations!

It is a brief educational illustrated softcover book with 48 colored pages, 15 big illustrations and a few small ones. I wrote all the texts, did the layout and created the graphics (flags, a font, the gender symbols), I made a german and an english version and I will be printing them soon hopefully.

Here is a picture of the cover and the content section:

I am thinking about pricing it at about 8 to 10 euros, but you have to consider shipping as I am in germany and shipping to the US will be expensive. If you want a nice, pretty book about diffrent queer/LGBT+ identities with mermaid illustrations, please consider reblogging this and tagging it with the language you want it in! (English and german really are the only options right now) Payments will be made over paypal

Also it comes with a sticker of the rainbow mermaid pictured above! If you want to only buy a sticker that will be about 2 euros depending on how many people are interested (please tag as sticker if that’s the case).

Boosts are very much appreshiated, but please do not tag as english/german if you don't actually want to buy this, or are unsure, as I need to oder them accordingly and plainly, I can't afford to make too many books.

[messybouquetoflilies]

Some about me! Pretty please read this before you message me! including the "keep reading" button. Thank you! ❤️

So first things first, this is a very nsfw blog, so if you're under 18 or anyone who thinks the age of consent is arbitrary, please gtfo. (also please please put your age in your bio if you're going to interact with me)

My old blog is @decadentbouquetoflillies. I’ll probably keep updating it. i just want this one for more customization, and to try to not get flagged again.. we’ll see. But if i really want to post something risque, it’ll be on there. 

Terfs, swerfs, racists, homophobes, transphobes, haters of pronouns in bios, and chasers, please dni. i'm an anti-capitalist, progressive, intersectional sex positivite feminist, gender abolitionist, and i will annoy you greatly.

Second, my posts range from innocent, amazing, wonderful romantic things, to harder kinks such as somno, and cnc. If those things can be triggering to you, please block me cause i don't always tag my posts. Mostly due to tumblr nuking any post that has useful tags such as those... sigh. If there's anything else anyone thinks i should add to that list, please let me know.

Third, i'm trans, but please please pretty fucking please don't sexualize me in that way. Chasers, i'm talking to you. i'm not a hentai character, and i have awful bottom dysphoria. This is also a super limit for me in general. Right now my brain can't handle being touched, or even thinking about being touched anywhere below the waist. i just shut down and feel horrible.

Fourth, feel free to ask me anything! As long as you follow rules one and three. i'm even fine talking about trans stuff, as long as it's educational, and not sexual. i've had to debate my existence my whole life, so i've been come quite knowledgeable about the topic. Most other trans people don't want to answer questions, (which is fine. it's not their job to, and they shouldn't be expected to) but i enjoy it, so ask away. My asks and DMs are open, and i enjoy being flirty, just as long as it doesn't become too sexual.

With that out of the way, some about me:

i'm a 22 y/o pan girl living in the US just outside of Salt Lake City. Pronouns are she/her. i play a lot of video games.. like a lot of video games, and i love love love music. i play the piano, and i have awful trust issues with myself and other people, so i'm keeping myself single for now.

understand that nearly all of the things i post about require a large amount of trust before i'm okay doing them, or even talk about specifically doing them for you. Talk to me like a person before you ask me to do awful horrible things for you please ☺️

my kinks include and may or may not be featured on my blog:

big big oral fixation

Denial (4 years bb)

cnc

tpe

somno

knife play

i just hate decisions tbh, so anything that takes that from me

and i really like being good

(some) degradation

(some) praise

very machoistic

bondage

tbh, just anything that makes other people happy at my expense

and makes it so i don't have to think

(some) pet play. i like collars, some cages, and leashes in some contexts.. uhh yeah..

i don't have a lot of experience exploring kinks, i just know the things i definitely wanna try.

Hard Limits:

Age play (i'll call you mommy/daddy if you reeeeeeeeeally want me to, and only if i really really like you, but that's as far as it goes)

anything related to rule 4

tickling

nothing below the waist. nothing below the waist. NOTHING BELOW THE WAIST.

detransition

degradation related to appearance

food control? (this might be a soft limit, i just have a history of eating disorders so it would have to be done with great care)

beastiality

scat

RP (idk why it's so hard for me but every time i try in even vanilla settings i have mental breakdowns. i literally cannot find an explanation as to why)

and i'm sure there are other things buuut, eh, i'm lazy.

Everything i write, i try to keep as gender neutral as possible, because i really don’t believe the way people physically present matters at all, and i literally don’t care. i just wanna kiss everyone, but also no one at the same time, so hopefully my blog will be inclusive to everyone! Though reblogs are a different story 

anything with me or about me will be tagged #me and or #personal. You will find many dog pictures in those tags. (some) of my posts will be tagged #mine when i'm not lazy about it. Other than that, this blog is mostly just a diary i use to cope. Nothing less and nothing more. :)

[mithliya]

I’ve highkey become so disillusioned with radical feminism. Ik at best I was an orbiter, but the community here really makes me feel like there’s no hope for women. Homophobia is okay to ignore for so many people as long as the source says smth mildly correct like “woman not bleeding person”. Concerns for racism is always brushed aside if it fucks over trans activism some how. And misogyny is a-okay as long as it makes fun of men and their “handmaidens”. If you bring it up you’re the bad guy for “derailing” with your concerns, because racism/homophobia/misogyny is a derail if it’s not agreeing with the narrative, if you ignore it you’re the bad guy from some outsider because you blindly agreed. It makes me want to go back to libfem spaces so bad with the faux positivit bs because at least if you bring up that smth was homophobic/racist/misogynistic then most of the time they’ll apologize instead of saying, “what does that have to do with anything?”

yeah i feel u anon. it’s obvious this community has been overtaken by conservatives and pseudo-conservatives who care about nothing but Owning The Troonz or whatever bc a common argument point now is that calling out misogyny, homophobia, or racism is “cancel culture” and “TRA culty behaviour” as if those things aren’t legitimate things to take issue with…

[pansydivisionn]

the boi is blonde now

[ticked-off-trans-for-positivity]

Meet the peeved pride family!!

Inspired by @angry-asexual-for-positivity, there’s now an entire family of blogs devoted to LGBTQ+ positivity!! I’ve done my best to compile them all in a list here: (i can’t tag some of these blogs so instead i’ve just linked to them)

Lesbian:

@livid-lesbian-for-positivity

Bisexual:

@bitterbisexualforpositivity

@bratty-bi-ace-for-positivity

@bitter-bi-for-positivity

Pansexual:

@pissed-panace-for-positivity

@depressedpanaceforpositivity

Transgender:

@ticked-off-trans-for-positivity

@cross-closeted-for-positivity

Nonbinary:

@nothappy-nonbinary-forpositivity

@nonplussed-nb-for-positivity

Genderfluid/genderflux:

@galled-genderfluidfor-positivity

@furious-fluidflux-for-positivity

Greygender:

@grumpygreygenderforpositivity

Bigender:

@ballisticbigenderforpositivity

Asexual/Acespec:

@angry-asexual-for-positivity

@bratty-bi-ace-for-positivity

@gravelymadgrayspecforpositivity

@pissed-panace-for-positivity

@outraged-oriented-for-positivity

@antagonizedaroaceforpositivity

@anguished-asexual-for-positivity

@annoyed-aroace-for-positivity

@depressedpanaceforpositivity

@anxious-aroace-for-positivity

@antipathetic-ace-for-positivity

@depressed-demi-for-positivity

@aggravated-ace-for-positivity

Oriented/Angled:

@outraged-oriented-for-positivity

@ornery-oriented-for-positivity

@angryangledforpositivity

Aromantic/Arospec:

@acerbic-aro-for-positivity

@annoyed-arospecs-for-positvity

@outraged-oriented-for-positivity

@antagonizedaroaceforpositivity

@annoyed-aroace-for-positivity

@anxious-aroace-for-positivity

@disgruntleddemiro-for-positivity

@gloomy-grayro-for-positivity

Frayromantic:

@feral-frayromantic4positivity

Cupioromantic:

@crabby-cupio-for-positivity

Queer/LGBT:

@quarrelsome-queer-for-positivity

@livelylgbtforpositivity

Questioning:

@quippishquestioningforpositivity

It makes me so happy to see all these positivity blogs, and I hope other people benefit from having them!! I can’t speak for the other blogs, but I’ll tag our posts as #peeved pride and #peeved pride family so they’re easier to find!

If anyone makes/finds more please let me know so I can add them!

~Luno :)

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Cub sides who are trans and body positivite!

Yaaassss

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[viviae]

hey uhhh a lot of transphobes found my blog and are sending me anons so if you are trans why dont you share with me some positivite moments in your life relating to your transistion

[kibou-kins]

Can I get positivity for trans Junko? (I’m so sorry, I’m just so excited to find an active dr-kin blog. They keep shutting down when I message them for some reason

I’m very sorry to hear that Junko…but don’t worry, I’m right here and I can do positivites… but um…I don’t know much about this subject, so I’m very sorry if this isn’t as moving or helpful as you wish it to be, but I’m still trying because sweetie, no one should hafta feel down about themselves.

just saying,, anyway it’s under the keep reading !

Well from seeing how my friend struggles with it, it definitely appears to be annoying having to deal with haters and people don’t understand nor support transgender. So I’m sure it must be difficult to get around and be proud of who you are publicly. And that’s just really unfair, and I must apologize on society’s behave for treating you such a way. Just because one person may not support or enjoy the idea doesn’t make you any less valid or your beliefs any less true.

People should be able to respect your choices and what you believe (whether its the idea of being given the wrong body at birth or something else i’ve only had first hand experience with my irl friend so i’m sorry!)

But even if its not this, it’s still difficult to get around and truly be yourself (especially with transphobic parents) so I assume it must be very difficult in general for you, even in your household. But having friends and people who support you are always very helpful, they can be there for you when you need them and will always have your back, especially when being let in and told about everything that’s been going on. So if you have any significant others or just really close friends you trust, I’d highly recommend letting them know if you haven’t done so already.

But to get on with this, I think you prob’ly want more advise with your heavy feelings of dysphoria?

If so, then let me begin, it’s a difficult thing a lot of kinners go through, when feeling invalid or not totally//completely being in touch with their kins (especially if they’re an ID or literal kin) and it’s hard to wrap your head around and annoying to be reminded of. And in your case I’m sure it’s something that’s been seriously bothering you. It’s completely understandable as well, if Junko is a very strong kin of yours, and being in your current body I’m sure you mustn’t feel very fashion diva worthy.

But in cases like this, it’s completely alright to not look like your canon counterpart. Depending on how many lives you lived as Junko, you’re currently living a life as yourself, but that doesn’t make your connection with her any weaker, no matter how far apart the time period.

It’s unfortunate and rather annoying, but dear, no one can tell you that your connection with her is invalid just because of something as this. A lot of kinners go through this in all kinds of circumstances, so don’t worry, you’re not alone and are joining many who feel this way.

It’s at times like this when you must believe in yourself and your kins! The differences you have in comparison to her do not define you or your connection and lifetime.

But it is completely understandable as to why you feel this way, and I just hope it doesn’t separate the connection you have with Junko. but have hope! In time, you won’t need your parents to give you permission for things such as surgery or accessory choosing. As an adult, you’ll be able to take control of your life and do whatever it is you want…as long as it’s healthy and makes you happy in the end…

Just take care Junko…and i’m sorry if this is awful I don’t know very much on the topic so I’m v sorry!

Mod Himiko ☾

[smileyanie]

[TRANS] http://bit.ly/2hiOYI3 [SNSD 10TH ANNIVERSARY ②] The Original 'Samchon Fan'...Best Songs Chosen By Professionals, credit ch0sshi With their 10th anniversary, one of SNSD's specialties is that they've surpassed pop culture to having a social impact as well. In particular, last year, SNSD's 'Into the New World' resonated at the site of a protest at Ewha Womans University, spotlighting this, not just in the music industry, but socially as well. This was a moment where it was confirmed that an idol is not just a pop culture icon, but has social influence. Someone called 'Into the New World' the 'morning dew for the young generation'. In her interview in W magazine's August issue, Yuri said, "I watched the video numerous times, I got choked up and even cried. I was really proud as a singer." SM said, "Protest songs were sung in past student protests, we felt pop music being sung was the natural flow of generations. We see it as a positive thing. That representative song being SNSD's 'Into the New World' is very meaningful to us, too." Critic Kim Yoon Ha stated, "The reason 'Into the New World' was brought back into light because of a social phenomenon along with the song's good energy creating a synergy with the worth that comes with the group's name that the members have established the past 10 years. It deserves praise as an idol pop song as is, so its meaning can be fully spread through general society." SNSD's history is currently progressing. Their 6th official album 'Holiday Night', releasing online on the 4th, will also be in light of their 10th anniversary. They will be having a 10th anniversary fan meeting, 'Girls' Generation 10th Anniversary - Holiday to Remember', on their debut anniversary date on the 5th. Critic Lee Dae Hwa said, "SNSD received a broad range of love from people in their teens to samchon (uncle) fans, so that's why they were probably able to go on for a longer time. Succeeding in their overseas advancement in their prime, leading girl groups in Hallyu [advancements], and they gained a status different from other groups. "I think their lasting power is great because they hit a high peak. They've become a great icon whose image doesn't get damaged because they can't do one thing. I think their long lasting existence also comes from that." SM said, "SNSD was composed by SM's planning abilities and producing. They were able to exceed the nation and grab hold of the title of Asia's No.1 girl group through the fandom's full support and general public's love. 'Girls' Generation' is an icon and artist of a generation." -SNSD's Best Songs Chosen by Professionals ▲Critics Kim Yoon Ha-Kim Hak Sun, Reporter Lee Je Hoon ㅡ 'Into the New World' (2007 debut song) Kim Yoon Ha: "Not only is 'Into the New World' SNSD's representative song, but it's Korea's best idol pop debut song. It has the positivitity, dreams, courage, happiness, joy, and other energy that you recall when you think about idols. It doesn't put forth sexuality like other girl group songs, and it's one of few songs that gives a positive, happy energy. I think it will be popular for at least another 10 years." Kim Hak Sun: "'Into the New World' has become an example. Songs from the many different girl groups who appeared after SNSD get compared to 'Into the New World'. Not depending on a hook and the structure slowly building up is worth praising as well. More than anything, it's the melody that isn't too light or heavy. It became a hot topic after being sung at the Ewha Womans University protest, but but it also means that the melody has a strength that everyone can sing together. Even when it's SNSD's 20th anniversary, 'Into the New World' will be their best song." Lee Je Hoon: "SNSD's true value is the feeling soaked in their music and members, and that being met with their performance. The pleasure that comes from 'Into the New World's' particularly emotional melody and hopeful lyrics, and girls' bold kick is incredible." ▲Moon Yong Min 'I Got A Boy' (January 2013, official 4th album title song) "This is a song that had the most of SNSD's power and was like the final result during that time. The stage itself had a shout of concentration in it. Just watching the synchronized choreography is brutal. There were a lot of girl groups trying to push their way up as well as commercial risk, so I want to give them high ratings for showing such an experimental, drastic song despite that. The song has a very dramatic structure, so it's like a musical. The complicated feelings and rushed structure, that even seems nimble, could be the essence of K-POP." ▲Lee Dae Hwa 'Gee' (January 2009, first mini album title song) "This is one of SNSD's best made songs, and it's one that was at the center of hook songs at the time. If you consider the popularity in Korea, I think it's a song that was at the peak of SNSD's career."

[wandererslullabi]

Since most ace and aro people are absolutely amazing, it’s entirely good for us to post positivity for the blanketed group of ace and aro people. Even if, as in all large groups of people, there may be aces and aros who are assholes. If we want to post positivity for trans people, we sure as heck will, even though some trans people are in fact assholes. If we want to post gay positivity, we sure as heck will, even though some gay people are in fact assholes.

The fact that some people within a minority are jerks shouldn’t stop us from posting positivity for them in a blanketed context.

People on the asexual spectrum? They’re amazing.

People on the aromantic spectrum? They’re awesome.

Aspec people in general? They’re aspectacular.

[cadenzo-sama]

y do u transmeds hav 2 ruin trans positivit posts lik this?🌠🌠🌠🌠

some trans and nonbinary positivity cats for you!!