#trans people are valid btw
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you'll forever be a cringey immature straight girl no matter if you call yourself a he or a xim or a identify as a table leg, no matter how many bone-eroding cross-sex hormones you take or whether you amputate or boobs or not. biologicallly you will always be a female heterosexual since that's what you were born as. neuroscience proves that heteros aka opposite-sex attracted people have distinct brain phenotypes from gay people, regardless of if they identify as trans or not. heterosexual aka male-attracted 'transmen' have the same brain chemistry as any normie het woman, proving both that sexuality is only determined by sex and that transness isn't innate the way homosexuality is. you can larp as whatever, call neuroscience and basic knowledge on sexuality 'stinky doo doo opinions' like a petulant child who just realized santa isn't real. the only thing you're doing is embarrassing yourselves in front of anyone with the slightest cerebral functionality because you're mad we're calling out your gay-fetishizing homophobic anti-scientific bs for what it is unlike the tras who pretend to see you as 'gay' 'men' because they feel sorry for your mentally ill ass and your internalized misogyny. sure you het women will never be in an equal relationship with a male because straight men see you as throwaway sex toys and free domestic servants but this isn't an excuse for you to fetishize gay men and pretend to be them, certainly not an excuse to expect them to go along with the charade and put up with you het weirdos preying on them. het males aren't dumb when it comes to manipulating women for easy p*ssy which is why they're already on grindr with your het ass, pretending to be QWeEr and non-binary to get that mentally ill gullible cooch. no actual gay male will look at you and have any other emotion aside from anger and pitiful laughter. even if you 'pass' completely, they'll be disgusted after learning you have female genitalia and lose any attraction they may have had because het sex is abnormal and undesirable to gay people, not falling for and not wanting to fuck the opposite sex is the literal essence of our sexuality which you are diametrically opposed to. you'll just rub your nub away to yaoi like any other fujo who is either an ugly woman or understandably disillusioned with men but the only outcome is that you'll be a bitter p0rn sick lonely coomer just like those crusty basement-dwelling straight men who can't get laid. the worst part is that nearly any het woman like yoy can get laid, that's no achievement, het men will even pretend to be bi or gay to use you as a fleshlight but no gay male will ever want your musty homophobic vag, they want none at all and deep down you know it. that you'll never be loved and wanted by a gay man, that you'll never be seen as gay or male by anyone. you'll never know the ultimate compatibility and sublime equality that only exists in same-sex love. and now that you've ruined your straight woman privilege, only the most abusive and weird straight men will go after you, whose only purpose is to take advantage of you. what a sad existence, foaming at the mouth at gay people for standing up for ourselves when you fake progressive breeders try to brainwash your fellow homophobes into your heteronormative bioessentialist homophobia, insisting gay people could be bisexually attracted as long as you wear 'boy clothes' and cut your hair off. congrats on alienating the very people you pretend to be, most of us were 'trans allies' just a few years ago before you went full crackhead and started pretending sexuality is based on a made-up gender not biological sex. enjoy withering away in your early menopause knowing no gay person will ever love or desire you, knowing you'll never be us and should be grateful since you couldn’t stand a day of real oppression. choke on as much d*ck as you'd like, it only proves what a wanton female hetero you are and that straight males would stick their d*ck in anyone female
DAYUM dude, that's a whole PARAGRAPH of hate, are you ok??💧 There is no way i'm reading all of that, i've better things to do in my life, since I do have a good one! I hope you have a good one too :3
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It’s been said I know but sometimes I get so angry that so much is socially tied to gender like why does it matter what someone’s gender is why do you change all your assumptions about someone based on their gender why do things have to be masculine coded or feminine coded why can’t we all just live
#maybe it’s just the agender in me but I fantasise about a world we’re someone’s gender is as noteworthy as their shoe size#and not something that lays a (often unconscious) framework for how you think of and interact with people#agender#transgender#this is NOT saying that trans gender dysphoria and euphoria isn’t valid btw#begging that there are no poor faith interpretations
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'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.
I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.
About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'
-Casey Plett, Consciousness
#this quote always moves me almost to tears when i remember it#i'm not a trans woman and i don't share the author's specific experiences with transition#but it really moves me that she frame transition as joyfully giving yourself permission to approach your body#not as something that has to be disciplined and deprived and made small in all these various ways#but as a means for experiencing pleasure and joy and delight and for insisting that our feelings and desires are worth#valuing and exploring and treasuring#i always used to think of prioritizing those things for myself as selfish and irresponsible#but who does it harm to want to experience pleasure in your own body?#it's such a beautifully simple and powerful switch to have flip in your head#and equally why are we forced to deny our own pleasure in transition and anything else related to our bodies in the name of moral rectitude#this is why i get so confused and pissed off when other trans people are fatphobic for example#like why are you so invested in politics of shame and disgust that never had any purpose other than#violently disciplining people as if they've violated moral codes by existing in a body#to say nothing of white people being racist in gay and trans communities#like again this system of violence is foundational to homophobia and transphobia#so why are you acting like it has nothing to do with you#even if you are unmoved by the urgency of other people's suffering which btw you should be moved by#what do you hope to gain by acting a collaborator and handmaiden to those systems#Casey Plett#she really is one of my favorite authors i wish more non-canadians read her#this quote is from a series of columns she did ont transition and every single one is a banger#i love when she talks about the people-pleasing elements of dysphoria and transition denial#she's so sharp about noting how many of us deny our own dysphoria on the grounds that others like and validate our bodies#that's how i always felt during my cis conventionally feminine era#it pleased other people so much and also that reception felt so hollow and joyless to me because i hated it#i get less of that positive feedback but that feels so unimportant next to the joy and pleasure i get to experience#said with the understanding that i'm very privileged in being able to prioritize those things without fear. but it was a switch flip#personal nonsense
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i know we joke about mirabelle being the beloved token cis because of her quest, but tbh there’s something there maybe about a trans person who doesnt wish to get surgery and feels like they have to to be taken seriously as a trans person…. idk is this anything
#tangentially related but eve’s posts about potential intersexism in vaugarde have me liking intersex mira….#im not trying to distract from the aroace focus of her storyline btw#like thats still the main takeaway altogether#but idk… something to be said about the pressure a trans person feels to ‘’validate’’ their identity in the eyes of other people#maybe a bit tmi but i see a bit of myself in that bc i felt like i had to want top surgery to be a good nonbinary person#(even tho i didnt hold other people to that standard at all (hey mira also does that lol)#but it was something i always felt anxious about and didnt really want to do. and i stressed bc i thought it made me a fake trans person#because if i dont want the surgery then am i even valid in my identity?#to be clear: thats not an issue for me anymore ive moved past it#nor do i think its like. a trans issue to ‘’pressure’’ people into getting surgery bc thats dumb#i feel like that pressure comes more from cis people who dont consider you ‘’really trans’’ til you have surgery#except theyll also get pissed if you have surgery bc trans people cant win with these idiots#its not a 1:1 allegory or anything and i dont think it was intended or anything the same way the aroace stuff is#but idk. theres something there i think#echoed voice#isat spoilers
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I love you non-binary people that aren’t androgynous I love you trans people that don’t look like the gender they are I love you people who just change their pronouns I love you fem and masc presenting non-binary people I love you trans women with big muscles and beards I love you trans men with boobs and curves I love you trans people who don’t “look” trans I love you
Reminder you don’t have to change yourself for others if you don’t want to. You’re just as valid as the next nonbinary person if you stay feminine or masculine rather than androgynous. You are valid and I love you.
#woosh quotes themself#nonbinary#trans swag#non-binary swag#self affirmation#look As someone who is a fem presenting enby I needed this#and I wanted to share that love with others#ALL TRANS AND NON-BINARY PEOPLE ARE VALID BTW#FUCK OFF IF YOU THINK THIS IS AN EXCUSE TO SHIT ON PEOPLE WHO DO FOLLOW TRADITIONAL TRANS AND ENBY TRAJECTORIES
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you are trans if you change your gender identity. thats it! thats all you have to do. you dont have to conform to some binary box, nor do you have to do anything you dont want to. you dont have to dress differently, you dont have to alter your body, you dont have to change your pronouns nor your name if you dont want to. the most important thing you can do is be yourself and present yourself in the way that *you* want of course, it's perfectly fine if you want surgeries or hrt or to change everything about yourself. thats amazing that you can bloom into yourself through those things. i'm just saying that not everyone has the same experience in those regards, and sometimes it can be isolating when all you hear is praise for people who transitioned in that way change as much as you want about yourself as long as it is what *you* want!! it's your body, your being, your canvas to express how you feel on the inside. you are wonderful!!! exclusionists suck!!
#trans#transgender#nonbinary#lgbtq#btw im saying this as someone who “looks like a woman” and is fine with it but am still nonbinary#i use they/fae and i changed my name#i think we need to stop being so binary with how we view people#nobody owes you anything about their body#also if you dont want to identify as trans thats also okay but just know that no matter what youre valid
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Idk what precisely to call it since honorifics aren't Pronouns but vertin using she/her while routinely being addressed as Lord, sir, etc is soooooooo 🥰 it's like mixed pronouns but not.
#beeep#i love reverse 1999#like shes not a he him lesbian but like yknow !!!#theres not a quick and easy shortcut for it but shes definitely sapphic and im leaning more lesbian hc than bi tbh !!!!#(which btw bi women can also be gnc and use he him in a wlw way)#(i just think vertin lesbian)#(but i KNOW shes sapphic)#AND HOW SHES USUALLY a my lord SPECIFICALLY when addressed by the girl so down bad for her???? gay as fuck#<- this isnt spoilers bc all the women wont her#well okay thats not precisely true. but a great deal of them do#anyway. i just hope that it isnt a translation error bc goes crazy ahhhh#shes a gentleman.....#and also i think vertin needs to meet a guy who isnt evil bc (possibly nb) lesbian and trans guy bestie duo is one of my favorite tropes#but so far she only interacts with evil people and or girls that wont her 😔😔😔#which is so valid but also 😔😔😔 vertin u need platonic friends too. friends that arent desperately hoping you will push them out of danger#and land on top of them and gaze into their eyes#(or just hoping to make out)#(there are both types of wonts her in this game)#(along with a secret third kind)#anyway#rhvjvdjgdjvbjdbkrbkdjb vertin#i have to. be a person. i have to be a person but instead my brain is just full of WOW GAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#anyway vertin has like. fancy oldtimey gentleman gnc going on#not so gnc by modern standards that it would make Certain People mad but enough that it is making Me very happy#and i just !!!!! cannot get over how genius it is to combine sheher pronouns with traditionally masculine terms of address!!!!!!!#shes so gender. not my gender but she has so much gender#i love vertin and i love regulus and i love druvis and i love the fool and i love tooth fairy who isnt out yet but i saw her in that one vid#eo#i was expecting to play this so casually like stick it on my phone and then i can do it while waiting for class when im there a few minutes#early but i do Not feel casual about this at all!!!!!!!!!!!! <- i think i got hyperfixated lads
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Trans men are NOT a monolith. And every trans man will have different experiences and comfort levels.
Trans men can still be feminine. Trans men don't have to change their body, Trans men don't have to be dysphoric. Trans men don't HAVE to be your typical 'manly man'.
This isn't to denounce trans men who want to be manly, who have extreme dysphoria, or who don't want to be seen as feminine at all. This post is made because people don't seem to realize that transness doesn't come in one shape.
This can also be said for both Nonbinary people & Trans women. No one owes you anything. Trans men don't owe you masculinity, trans women don't owe you femininity, and Enby's don't owe you androgyny
-Signed, a genderqueer person who was/still is heavily in trans spaces.
#transgender#trans men#this is targeted btw#lgbtqia#trans pride#trans lives are valid#In every shape and form#trans women#trans women are valid#nonbinary#nonbinary people are valid#Trans people don't owe you SHIT!!#Also pronouns don't equal gender#Just a tidbit
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While the critical thinking on this hellsite was always low, things like Shinigami Eyes have made it even easier for some of you to turn your brains off. Yeah, sure, I'm gonna let an app with a silly weeb name check if the person I'm speaking to is transphobic and never look into anything myself. This is a solid plan that will never backfire.
#my posts weren't flagged btw#I have just seen too many people#overwhelmingnly trans ppl too#get dismissed bc they were red on SE#ai hating website but “an extension said you're bad uwu” is apparently a valid argument#clown behavior
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this ask has been painted with the xenogender playdohcookieic!
#xenopainted#xenogender#not tagging this as a request since the asker didn’t specifically ask for it to be painted#also yes. people who use xenogenders are very valid trans people!! I agree asker :D#playdohcookieic#sorry for the late response btw. Forgot this was in my inbox lol#gimmick blog
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listen if i manage somehow to cement my legacy in this fandom as the "transfem burgertron guy" that'd be enough. like the bare minimum
#botbots tag 🏪#kin tag: burgertron 🍔🤖#botbots#burgertron#feel free to rb and put your unpopular transfem hcs in the tags btw. Please#i wanna be known as the burgertron x bonz-eye guy too but i think hcing burgertron as a transbian is way more out there#because a lot more people hc him as bisexual and cis than trans and a lesbian. and honestly that hc is VERY valid too#me and widely-accepted-fanon burgertron are bi / lesbian solidarity#shockingly i dont see a lot of transMASC burgs headcanoning. are you guys okay /j#as someone who's transfemmasc and obvs uses both labels he has tboy AND tgirl swag and fail simultaneously#and tbh im a bit surprised nobody else has caught onto that idea
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I need to stop looking at twitter. Twitter is the mind killer etc
#homophobia and mostly transphobia in the following tags btw#saw a post that was like 'the same stupid arguments that were being used against gay ppl in the 90s are now being used against trans ppl'#and i was like 'hm basically yeah but sometimes people do still say those about gay people today! but otherwise good post'#and then the comments were all either like 'ummmm but trans people are evil??? so those comments are valid??'#or 'I agree with both comments'#OR 'um? people weren't homophobic in the 90s?? are you insane? everybody was 100% fine with gay people in the 90s 🙄 idiot'#like HELP. HELP ME.#delete twitter right now for your mental health 👍#doddie redet
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It will always be LGBTQIA+
LGB without the T is like chocolate cake without cake : you can't call it that way because a part is missing.
Trans people fought with lesbians, gays and bisexuals, and they deserve to have some representation of who they are and what they fought for all that time.
If trans people aren't part of the LGBTQ community, then who is ? It doesn't make sense.
What happens for trans people in the USA is just disgusting.
But it's my generation and I'll do anything I can to stop this.
Queer people, please spread those messages about the trans genocide. It needs to be stopped.
It's our generation, maybe our friends, our family, and this is OUR fight.
#trans#usa genocide#trans people are valid and no one can say other way#help trans people#sorry if there are errors in my post btw bc english is not my first language
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Hey so I've seen a lot of people headcannoning Peril as trans, but I don't understand why she would be seen that way.
Could someone explain? I'd understand if it's just "vibes" but I'm asking like what vibes make her trans?
#btw this isn't to say your headcannon isn't valid I'm asking because I want to be subtle with writing trans characters#if anything people headcannoning Peril as trans just means trans people need more rep imo#wings of fire#trans peril#wof peril
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so, im a demigirl. which i thought falls under the non-binary umbrella.
which is true.
but also, non-binary falls under the TRANSGENDER UMBRELLA.
AND MY PARENTS ALREADY STATES THAT IF IM TRANS, THEY'RE KICKING ME OUT.
SHIT-
#and im also aroace#but#aroace is the least “problematic” sexuality#and isnt rlly well known so when i came out to my parents#theres a chance theyre ok with that#but trans#i dont mind being trans#but like#shit#in capital bold and italized font#welp back to the closet#no offense to trans people btw#yall valid <3#just scared if my parents found out#transgender#demigirl#aromantic#asexual#mukutalks
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I think as a lesbian other lgbt people owe me like $20 for having to put up with bullshit like “you should just TRY dating/fucking a man!!! Sexuality is fluid!!”
YOUR sexuality might be fluid but Mine sure fucking isn’t. I’m not interested in men at all, cis or trans. I also shouldn’t have to fucking worry about a man LYING TO ME that he’s a woman just to fucking date me?? Bestie you are one fucking moment away from actual sexual assault you need to step off!! If somebody says they don’t like men don’t fucking push it!! Let people live!!
Transphobes fuck off and die btw when I say I like women I mean women. Trans women are women so yes they are included. Stop assuming every lesbian is a fucking transphobe or terf.
#the amount of people saying trans men can be lesbians is baffling bestie that’s a man!!!#he him lesbians are valid because they aren’t men they just have he him pronouns#I’m speaking as a lesbian who uses any pronouns and often doesn’t feel comfortable using she her#btw if you point out I like fictional men you are missing the point that they aren’t real#to me they are flat chested he him lesbians 💖#only half joking
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