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The thought of sloppy seconds anon sending asks to bylers only to get blocked, and then having to keep making new tumblr accounts solely to keep harassing ppl is kind of sad ngl 🤣😭
#byler#this is why the best thing to do it just block and ignore#we shouldn���t share their creepy homophobic takes for everyone in the tag to see#block and move on#it’s gonna get to a point where they realize what they’re doing is a serious waste of time#or maybe not#but it’s also funny to imagine them having to make new emails and tumblr accounts over and over#to harass strangers…#over a fictional ship…#like you could not make it more obvious how desperate and miserable you are#if byler was such a silly impossibility to you#you’d be focusing on your ship and what gives you joy#not fixating on a ship that clearly makes you insecure#if it didn’t you wouldn’t be so belligerent over it
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Lord I see what you have done for others. Get me out of this state !
Me and my boyfriend (butch) are finally leaving Texas for Washington in June, we have everything planned out but we desperately need funding to secure housing once we get up there, and money for the 3000 mile drive from here to there
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#chats#im so ready to be free. someone spraypainted kill all gay people on the side of the liquor store down the street on Saturday#we got verbally harassed outside of a bucees#but when we were in Seattle we talked to strangers about the move and they like. understood immediately why we were leaving TX
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I have to talk about Chester Arthur. His story makes me go crazy. A mediocre president from the 1880s who's completely forgotten today has one of the best redemption stories I've ever heard and I need to make people understand just how cool his story is.
So, like, he starts out as this idealist, okay? He's the son of an abolitionist minister and becomes famous as a New York lawyer who defends the North's version of Rosa Parks whose story desegregates New York City's trolley system.
Then he starts getting pulled into politics and becomes one of the grimiest pieces of the political machine. He wants money, power, prestige, and he gets it. He becomes the right-hand man of Roscoe Conkling, the most feared political boss in the nation, a guy who will throw his weight around and do the most ruthless things imaginable to keep his friends in power and destroy his enemies.
Because Arthur's this guy's top lackey, he gets to be Controller of the Port of New York--the best-paying political appointment in the country, because that port brings in, like, 70% of the federal government's funds in tariffs. He gets a huge salary plus a percentage of all the fines they levy on lawbreakers, and because he's not afraid to make up infractions to fine people over, he is absolutely raking in the dough. Making the rough equivalent of $1.3 million a year--absolutely insane amounts of money for a government position. He's spending ridiculous sums on clothes, buying huge amounts of alcohol and cigars to share with people as part of his job recruiting supporters to the party, going out nearly every night to wine and dine people as part of his work in the political machine. He's living the high life. Even when President Hayes pulls him from his position on suspicions of fraud, he's still living a great life of wealth, power, and prestige.
Then in 1880, his beloved wife dies. While he's out of town working for a political campaign. And he can't get back in time to say goodbye before she dies. Because he's a guy who has big emotions, it absolutely tears him up inside, especially because Nell resented how much his political work kept him away from home. He has huge regrets, but he just moves in with Roscoe Conkling and keeps working for the political machine.
And then he gets a chance to be vice president. The Republican Party has nominated James Garfield, a dark horse candidate who wants to reform the spoils system that has given Conking his power and gave Arthur his position as Port Controller. Conkling is pissed, and he controls New York, and since the party's not going to win the election without New York, they think that appointing Conkling's top lackey as vice-president will pacify him.
They're wrong--Conkling orders Arthur to refuse--but Arthur thinks this sounds like a great opportunity. The only political position he's ever held is Port Controller--a job he wasn't elected to and that he was pulled from in disgrace. Vice President is way more than he could ever have hoped for. It's a position with a lot of political pull and zero actual responsibilities. He'll get to spend four years living in up in Washington high society. It's the perfect job! Of course he accepts, and Conkling comes around when he figures out that he can use this to his advantage.
When Garfield becomes president, Arthur does everything he can to undermine him. He uses every dirty political trick he can think of to block everything that Garfield wants to do. He refuses to let the Senate elect a president pro tempore so he can stay there and influence every bill that comes through. He all but openly boasts of buying votes in the election. He's so much Conkling's lackey that he may as well be the henchman of a cartoon supervillain. On Conkling's orders, he drags one of Garfield's Cabinet members out of bed in the middle of the night--while the guy is ill--to drag him to Conkling's house so he can be forced to resign. He's just absolutely a thorn in the president's side, a henchman doing everything he can to maintain the corrupt spoils system.
Then in July 1881, when Arthur's in New York helping Conkling's campaign, the president gets shot. By a guy who shouts, "Now Arthur will be president!" just after he fires the gun. Arthur has just spent the past four months fighting the president tooth and nail. Everyone thinks he's behind the assassination. There are lynch mobs looking to take out him and Conkling. The papers are tearing him apart.
Arthur is absolutely distraught. He rushes to Washington to speak with the president and assure him of his innocence, but the doctors won't let him in the room. He gets choked up when talking to the First Lady. Reporters find him weeping in his house in Washington. Once again, death has torn his world apart and he's not getting a chance to make amends.
Arthur goes to New York while the president is getting medical treatment, and he refuses to come to Washington and take charge because he doesn't dare to give the impression that he's looking to take over. No one wants Arthur to be president and he doesn't want to be president, and the possibility that this corrupt political lackey is about to ascend to the highest office in the land is absolutely terrifying to everyone.
Then in August, when it's becoming clear that the president is unlikely to recover, he gets a letter. From a 31-year-old invalid from New York named Julia Sand. A woman from a very politically-minded family who has been following Arthur's career for years. And she writes him this astounding letter that takes him to task for his corrupt, conniving ways, and the obsession with worldly power and prestige that has brought him wealth and fame at the cost of his own soul--and she tells him that he can do better. In the midst of a nationwide press that's tearing him apart, this one woman writes to tell him that she believes he has the capacity to be a good president and a good man if he changes his ways.
And then he does. After Garfield dies, people come to Arthur's house and find servants who tell them that Arthur is in his room weeping like a child (I told you he had big emotions), but he takes the oath of office and ascends to the presidency. And he becomes a completely different man. His first speech as president mentions that one of his top priorities is reforming the spoils system so that people will be appointed based on merit rather than getting appointed as political favors with each change in the administration. Even though this system made him president. When Conkling comes to Arthur's office telling him to appoint his people to important government positions, Arthur calls his demands outrageous, throws him out, and keeps Garfield's appointees in the positions. "He's not Chet Arthur anymore," one of his former political friends laments. "He's the president."
He loses all his former political friends. He's never trusted by the other side. Yet he sticks to his guns and continues to support spoils system reform. He prosecutes a postal service corruption case that everyone thought he would drop. He's the one who signs into law the first civil service reform bill, even though presidents have been trying to do this for more than ten years, and he's the person who's gained all his power through the spoils system. He immediately takes action to enforce this bill when he could have just dropped it. He becomes a champion of this issue even though it's the last thing anyone would have expected of him.
He oversees naval reform. He oversees a renovation of the White House. He still prefers the social duties of the presidency, but he's respectable in a way that no one expected. Possibly because Julia Sand keeps sending him letters of encouragement and advice over the next two years. But also because he's dying.
Not long after ascending to the presidency, he learns he's suffering from a terminal kidney disease. And he tells no one. He keeps going about his daily life, fulfilling his duties as president, and keeps his health problems hidden. Once again, death is upending his life, and this time it's his own death. He's lived a life he's ashamed of, and he doesn't have much time left to change. He enters the presidency as an example of the absolute worst of the political system, and leaves it as a respectable man.
He makes a token effort to seek re-election, but because of his health problems, he doesn't mind at all when someone else gets the nomination. He dies a couple of years after leaving office. The day before his death, he orders most of his papers burned, because he's ashamed of his old life--but among the things that are saved are the letters from Julia Sand, the woman who encouraged him to change his ways.
This is an astounding story full of so many twists and turns and dramatic moments. A man who falls from idealism into the worst kind of corruption and then claws his way back up to decency because of a series of devastating personal losses and unexpected opportunities to do more than he could have ever hoped to do. I just go crazy thinking about it and I need you all to understand just how amazing this story is.
#history is awesome#presidential talk#i thought about his story again this morning#and was once again struck by the desire to chase people down and make them understand just how amazing this story is#and instead of harassing random strangers i decided to inflict it on tumblr again#my original essay was rather too long and dry and tangled up in too many other details#and didn't quite capture the 'i want to chase you down and look you in the eye and make you freak out about this with me' vibe of this stor#this still doesn't quite capture it but at least it's shorter#and prevents me from rambling to unsuspecting family members#sorry for inflicting this on you again but what else am i supposed to do?
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I accidentally sent this picture to someone on pinterest while I was trying to save it
Whoever you are, user Ace, I'm so sorry for sending you slutty Cillian Murphy. I had to block you for my own sanity
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🩷 part six
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Stevie wraps her arms around herself to fend off the cold as she walks up to her front door. She feels the loss of Eddie’s arms like the loss of a limb.
Only after she’s getting out of the shower does she get the text she’d been waiting on from Robin.
everyone got home ok im spending the night at nancy’s #slumberparty wait is it still a slumber party if there’s only two of us or is that just a sleepover stevie answer me it’s important
Stevie smiles down at her phone and shakes her head in amusement as she replies.
two ppl does not a slumber party make buckley #sleepover
She climbs into bed and her phone pings with another message. This one has a photo attached. It’s a photo of Robin in Nancy’s bed with the girl in question tucked snugly under her chin. Robin’s wearing a goofy smile and Stevie rolls her eyes in fondness at the caption.
#sleepover
Stevie hearts the image and plugs her phone in for the night. She assumes that’ll be the last of the messages and settles herself into bed. She’s just about to slip her glasses off and cut the light when her phone lights up again.
She considers leaving it for the morning but decides against it. She’s never been good about not responding to messages right away.
oh my god i almost forgot look at this loser this is approximately ten seconds after you got out of the car btw
The photo attachment takes a moment to pop up and Stevie curiously waits. When it’s finally revealed, she feels her face heat up. She’s alone in her room so she doesn’t bother trying to tamp down a goofy smile of her own.
The photo is from Robin’s vantage point in the front passenger seat. She has her phone pointed toward the back, where Eddie sits with his arms crossed and his plump lips pulled down at the corners in a pout with his eyes trained at his lap. Stevie clicks on the image to get a closer look and that’s when she realizes it’s a live photo.
She holds her thumb down and the image comes to life. She watches in amusement as Eddie’s head snaps up when the flash goes off. He has this deer in the headlights look on his face and his cheeks turn a pretty shade of pink almost alarmingly fast. Just as he opens his mouth to presumably scold Robin, the moment freezes.
Stevie watches it six more times before shamelessly saving it to her camera roll and swiping back to her and Robin’s messages.
aw leave him alone :(( …also ty for the pic 🩷
Robin responds immediately.
yeah yeah we all know i’m the best best friend ever
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sorry if i missed anyone!
#why the frick can't i align the text to the right this is so unfair#someone harassed me into updating this#it was me#they're such cuties#am i right or am i right#stevie harrington#eddie munson#robin buckley#transfem steve harrington#stranger things#modern au#steddie#nancy wheeler mention#ronance implied
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Not even surprised at the way some people are acting right now with using the death of a celebrity to wish death upon Noah. The fact that it’s by people who consider themselves “humanitarians” is beyond laughable. This is exactly why I don’t take them seriously. The majority of them are fake and performative and don’t even realize how narcissistic, racist, bigoted, antisemitic, etc. they actually are. The people that accuse Noah of being a vile, hateful person who makes jokes out of people dying really need to take a look in the mirror. They won’t, though. They’ll keep living in their hypocrisy and believe that they’re such amazing, moral people when they’re the total opposite. You know what true humanitarians would want? Peace for EVERYONE. Not just certain groups of people, certain countries, certain religions, certain ethnicities, certain races, certain genders, etc.. It seems like that’s a crazy statement to say right now, which is beyond sad. Call me crazy, but I don’t think genuinely good people would harass, bully, threaten, and torment someone in person or online. Celebrity or not. Because believe it or not, celebrities are human beings just like me and you. They can read whatever you put on the internet about them. You don’t like them? Fine. The block button is right there to use. It’s extremely easy to use it, just a click or two. There’s tons of celebrities and people I don’t like. So what do I do about them? Oh yeah, block them! I don’t leave them hate comments, because what is that going to do? Nothing. And even if I don’t like them, part of me still feels guilty for the idea of leaving them a hateful message directly or indirectly. I don’t even truly know them to begin with. Seriously, just block or ignore. You don’t like or agree with what I say or believe in? Do us both a favor and block and ignore me! Because that means I also don’t agree with you. It’s a win for the both of us. I’d rather leave kind, supportive messages to people and celebrities that I like than put my energy and focus into being hateful towards celebrities and people that I don’t like. If someone with mental health issues gets triggered by something that I say about them and does something that they can’t undo, I don’t want to be responsible for them harming themselves or worse. That’s why I just block and ignore. Even if I don’t like them. Shocking to some of you, I know. As someone who struggles with mental illness, I know I wouldn’t be able to handle all the hateful, disgusting, abusive messages that Noah and so many other celebrities get. There’s no way I’d be able to deal with it. If I know I wouldn’t be able to handle it, why would I do it to others? Makes no sense.
Leaving kind messages to people and celebrities I like brings me joy. It makes me happy knowing that something I said can help someone feel better if they’re having a rough time. Leaving a hateful message instead wouldn’t make me feel good at all. I guess that works for some people, not for me, though. Again, the people you leave messages to will see them. Sometimes you might even get a reply. Just remember that when you’re sending a message to someone. Celebrity or not.
#noah schnapp#byler#stranger things#will byers#mental illness#mental health#bullying#hypocrisy#bigotry#racism#antisemitism#hate#performative activism#virtue signaling#harassment#double standards#treat people with kindness#treat people how you want to be treated
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hey! wanted to say i appreciate you talking about how malleus doesn’t appeal to you :,) he doesn’t quite appeal go me either, but i couldn’t find anyone that didn’t either hate or love him, both sides often mischaracterizing him. i felt like i was going mad. but you put my feelings about him into words in a really eloquent and well thought out way, so, yea! thanks for saying your honest opinions on the internet haha
[Please check my pinned post’s FAQ section if you’d like to read about why I personally dislike Malleus!]
Thank you!! It’s not often that you get gratitude for being critical of a character (as opposed to, like, outright praising them) so this ask genuinely took me by surprise.
I find that Malleus is one of those characters that’s quite difficult to talk about. Because he’s so well-liked by English-speaking fans (fandom-run polls consistently show that he is liked by at least 50% of responders), his presence has become almost stifling… which formed a counterculture (ie hate) against him. In any case, whether you think negatively or positively of Malleus (or feel nothing at all for him), that can really color how his words and actions are perceived. But sometimes it feels like you can’t even talk about him without walking on eggshells. People tend to feel so strongly about Malleus and you never know how they’ll react to the thoughts you express.
It should be recognized that both extremes will blindside you. The most ardent Malleus lovers will make everything about him or enable and defend him to the bitter end even when Malleus has done reprehensible things. The most passionate Malleus haters will nitpick what are just normal or innocent actions as The Worst Possible Thing Ever or claim he’s aggressive all the time. Neither truly compasses who he actually is.
As I’ve mentioned in other posts, I’d like to think that even though I dislike the guy, I try and give him a fair shot 😅 Some of the issues I have with him are no fault of his own and result from the narrative’s failure to capitalize on his intrigue or the nature of gacha games and the main story being limited. Other issues I’ll admit are completely my own annoyances and gripes (like how I take issue with OP characters with few setbacks, how I don’t like characters that try to force their views onto others, or how I have had bad Malleus-related fandom experiences). Then there’s just the objective truths, like how Malleus is extremely arrogant but is rarely called out for it or rarely faces consequences for his actions in-universe (or from the fandom). He’s still a complex character, just… not one I enjoy.
Looking back on it 💦 I almost can’t believe I have like… 8 or 9 posts detailing my frustrations with Malleus, and each of them expressing significantly different issues from the last. I’m glad that this blog can be a space for me to discuss my thoughts and opinions without angry fans of X or Y character coming at me 😭 I unfortunately can’t say that this is always the case… But for the most part, it’s pretty peaceful here and I really appreciate that!
I’ll close this post off by shouting out the Malleus fans who don’t take it personally when someone else says they’re not a fan of their blorbo. The Malleus fans who are willing to come to the table and listen, the Malleus fans who acknowledge his imperfections and faults, the Malleus fans who accept that others can choose to dislike him for any reason, whether big or small, and don’t push for “correcting” the “wrong” opinion. I know that it sounds like such a low bar to clear, but trust me when I say I’ve witnessed and experienced much worse behaviors (from a loud minority of Malleus fans) and would not wish that upon anyone.
#long time readers of this blog are well aware of the Horrors I have witnessed + experienced#that one time I said I would kill malleus in a kiss marry kill style question#and then that one malleus fan spammed and harassed me for over a year in an attempt to convince me to change my mind about him#oh yeah and can’t forget about the time I was accused of ‘hate criming’ Malleus#just bc I said I would personally be uncomfortable with any stranger standing outside of my place of residence at night#that was wild and I still sometimes can’t believe this happened#twisted wonderland#twst#disney twisted wonderland#disney twst#Malleus Draconia#notes from the writing raven#feedback for the writing raven
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Robin, running over to Steve and Jonathan: Hey, what'd I miss? Y'all talking about dirty stuff?
Steve, yelling back: Jon said we wouldn't be friends anymore if I didn't show him my porno mags!
Jonathan, beet red: I definitely did not say that!!
#i love the idea of platonic stobin jokingly harassing jonathan any chance they get#source: fruits basket 2019 dub#stranger things#incorrect quotes#jonathan byers#steve harrington#robin buckley#platonic stobin#stonathan#<- target audience#steve and robin you are so kakeru and kimi coded to me
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Pour one out for all the Milkvans who are going to be harassed endlessly after s5 for shipping a canonically gay man with a girl 😔🤙🍺
#Milkvan will be a problematic ship now#it will be so chaotic#I’m genuinely a little scared for them#as someone who’s been#harassed over ships before lol#but then again#it’s kinda karma#for them harassing us lmao#milkvan#anti mileven#anti milkvan#byler#mike wheeler#will byers#mike wheeler is in love with will byers#mike wheeler is not straight#byler is endgame#mike wheeler is a boykisser#mike wheeler is gay#st5#byler brainrot#stranger things#st5 speculation#st5 predictions
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It really sucks the way fandom runs jokes into the ground bc Steve is distinctly not a parental figure to any of the party he is a brother figure and friend but ALSO I know that at least one year the party bought him a mother's card AND a father's day card and all signed both of them because they are annoying little shits
#the party#steve harrington#like please i dont want parentified steve but i do want the party harassing him on holidays bc annoying him is their love language <3#steve#stranger things
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Antis who throw insults and harass others online over fiction really never learn that the more you do that, the more you show you are the problematic ones and that your harassments only fuel us to create more to show our love to our ships that you hate. We're just here loving our own fictional ships with fictional characters and do our own thing and they will be so affected and riled up out of the blue. It's actually really funny how much energy they spend on hating and cursing strangers online but it doesn't do anything to us 🤡🤡🤡
#antis#anti proship#proship means pro shipping in fiction and against harassment... not problematic#proship#choita#goyuu#sukuita#all x yuji#tojiita#when will they learn that their insults and harassments are nothing but empty words and don't affect me in the slightest bcs I'm not the on#being affected by them but my ships are affecting them so much they feel aggresion so it's not#my problem it's their problem bcs they're the ones getting offended by themselves when I didnt even lift a finger so they're the ones losin#antis should actually learn the basic logic of why fiction is different than reality and learned that harassing strangers online is what#anti proshitter#proshippers are valid#proshippers are welcome#proshipper safe#proship positivity#proshippers please interact#op is a proshipper
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THE EX-MORNING SERIES CONCEPT
By now I think many people have heard that KristSingto’s upcoming series is an original script that was written for them. What we also have confirmed is that it was written about them.
[source]
KRIST: This series was written by P'Backaof and directed by P'Lit where they created this script from the start deliberately for the two of us and they got information for the characters etc. from KristSingto directly. In the series, the name for P'Sing is Tamtawan, and my name is Phatapi. And Tamtawan Tamtawan and Phatapi are KristSingto themselves.
INTERVIEWER: Does that mean you play yourself?
KRIST: [laughing] Yes, we act as ourselves, so it's not difficult at all.
Today, Aof elaborated on his part on Twitter:
[source: @backaof]
[translation: @_beinglistener]
And Jojo added:
[source: @jojotichakorn]
[translation: @_beinglistener]
So, two gay men are the leading creative minds behind KristSingto’s comeback series. Time to study up on your KristSingto history, kids. \:D/
Long live sanctioned RPF. 🎉
#krist perawat#singto prachaya#kristsingto#the ex morning#i’ve already seen the same tired ‘guess rent was due’ about krist and#i see on twitter when people link my thread about krist to people still insisting he’s homophobic#man’s rich#he works constantly#he even said it’s something he regrets now that his grandmother who raised him passed away#he worked so much he didn’t have as much time for his family—who he helps support#he is quite literally considered bl royalty#he has more queer people in his circle than straight#waa (gay) is his mentor#aof (gay) wrote this series and jojo (gay) thought up the concept so even professionally he's supported by queer people#you don’t have to like him#and you don’t have to admit to sending death threats to a stranger who doesn’t speak your language based on rumors you didn’t verify#admit quietly to yourself alone in your head that you were wrong and you caused harm to a person who didn’t deserve it#plenty of actors use bl as a stepping stone to bigger jobs#he’s not one of them#he wanted to do bl for years but gmmtv told him he could only work with singto#so literally the only reason kit didn’t do bl until BMF was scheduling issues because singto wanted to study abroad#and singto couldn’t get a fixed date for it and then the pandemic messed with his plans even more#i’m glad to see more and more people are understanding who krist is recently#and even in the series they made pathapi’s controversy an impulsive act of anger#krist has said he used to struggle with being hotheaded#and one of his apologies for the igs was even something like ‘i acted without thinking of how it would look out of context’#he just wanted people to stop harassing him for his sexuality but the context isn’t in the igs#anyway my go-to when i’m too tired to talk about this is always this#if he had ever been homophobic thai people would be the ones leading the charge against him…but it’s interfans#special reporter kiranokira
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Jason, at a Pride parade, his sign reading "Jesus is coming"
Eddie, standing next to him, his sign reading, "on your father's face"
Jonathan and Steve spot them and decide to take pictures with Jonathan's camera. Core memories
#eddie harassing jason when jason is trying to harass him#another case of will they fuck or fight?#too often than not its both#stranger things#eddie munson#jason carver#eddie x jason#jason x eddie#tigerfreak#munver#enemies to lovers#more like enemies to enemies and lovers#and yes jesus is coming on your father's face#steve harrington#jonathan byers#stonathan
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Why. . .
WHY DID YOU DRAW DREAMMARE??? THEY SIBLINGS. WHAT THE FUCK??? LIKE, I DON’T CARE IF THEY’RE FICTIONAL, WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU???
-Starbright
Gonna draw 50 more pgs of them fucking & dedicate it to u
#ask#anon#hate#oooooo someone’s angyyyyy#oh nooooo what are u gonna do?#seems like you should *gasp* block me???#and move on with your life and be healthy and happy?#nope#gonna keep harassing strangers on the internet#sibling incest#drama#drama llama
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A Gentle but Firm Reminder for the Selfshippers who don't share and the Selfshippers who do share: Do whatever you want forever.
If you're uncomfortable over others sharing, that's fine - and if you're comfortable over others sharing, that's also fine.
Just don't be dipshits towards each other. Don't make unnecessary callout posts towards each other. Don't try to psychoanalyze non-sharers or call them "delusional". Don't try to devalue another's art or writing because they share your f/o.
It's not your dynamic, so block and move on. it's more beneficial for you than to revel in resentment. Please treat real people with kindness and basic courtesy.
Proship / Comship / RPF Do Not Interact or Repost Please !
#I've seen this point of discourse every other week since i joined this goddamn community#whatever happened to “not my business” bc unless someone selfships w/ a r4pist; then i don't really care#even if a selfshipper is “delusional” - it should not be the matter of fucking strangers#if they harass someone for sharing (which i have seen) i think thats different#this should not be a hot take#selfship#self ship community#selfshipping#f/o blog#proships dni#ok to rb
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i wish the primary association of wearing a mask was that the WEARER is sick. people shut up real fast when you start coughing with a mask on
#i masked when i was sick way before covid and i only got like. lightly heckled once in passing#but now. ohhh my god. actual harassment. and the people that purposefully cough when they pass you#but if i cough you move away????? you dont stop to think for a single second hey maybe im wearing a mask cos im sick????#ive considered wearing a shirt that says 'i have covid/tuberculosis' but i dont want our equivalent of the cdc called on me 💀#i dont have either to be clear. but the point is a stranger can never know why someone is wearing a mask#maybe they have someone close to them whos immunocompromised like someone is going thru chemo. they shouldnt have to say that#just so they wont be harassed by some asshole#maybe theyre just IN AN ACTIVE PANDEMIC AND DONT WANT TO GET SICK??
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