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i think something about the “being looked down upon, abused, and cast out for not being able to do things right and speaking up too much and spending years trying to prove yourself to those people until you realise that they’re the problem and not you” and “finding strength and capability in an entirely different way to everyone else that you have to seek out and discover on your own” aspects of zuko's character that managed to appeal to all the queer and disabled kids in the audience no wonder he’s so popular lol
#i say this as a queer and disabled adult who still finds so much comfort in him#in a lot of ways zuko's story reminds me of my own tbh#as a neurodivergent and physically disabled openly queer kid in schooling i was physically and mentally abused#i blamed myself from it as I was kicked from school to school#I thought I was evil and went down a bad path for a while as a sort of self punishment#but i realised what happened to me wasn’t okay I was a child!!! and I learnt to cope and get through life even if it was in a different way#to eve everyone else#zuko is kinda just? how i was at sixteen. but able to throw fire and with a shit family instead of a shit everything else
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You’re not a burden in your f/os eyes even if you need comfort or reassurance frequently. Your f/o loves taking care of you whether that be by listening to you, talking to you, spending time with you, helping you out, or simply reassuring you that everything is going to be okay. It puts them at ease to know they can make you feel even just a bit better in any way they can. ❤️🩹
#self ship#self shipping#self ship community#self shipping community#f/o community#selfship#selfshipping#eve’s reminders#as someone who needs comfort a lot (for a multitude of reasons)#sometimes i feel bad for imagining my f/os comforting me all the time just bc of how often i feel like i need it ;_;#but!! i shouldn't feel bad!! bc my f/os WANT to comfort me!! and take joy in comforting me and making me feel safe and happy!!#so hopefully this post will remind everyone else of that too <3
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I think the reason Orym returns to the Ludinus point is that we are discussing the destruction of the gods because Ludinus is making an active plan to kill them now. He is the reason they are having this discussion in the first place, and until he is taken care of, the gods discussion will always exist within the context of Ludinus and the Vanguard, and their plan sucks! it will almost surely cause destruction far far greater than anything the gods can do behind the divine gate. Orym isn’t pro-gods (or even pro-status quo) so much as he is anti-calamity II.
#my orym post has been garnering some discussion on twitter and it helped me get this thought into words#I don’t like the sentiment that orym is using his trauma as a ‘weapon to shut down the god convo’ bc his trauma IS relevant#everyone else’s trauma is too! but what does it matter if we should kill/dethrone the gods if the only way of doing that rn—#—is letting Ludinus do it.#and orym isn’t weaponizing his trauma; he’s using it to make a strong argument AND it happens to be quite emotionally heavy#but the emotional toll Ludinus is inflicting is a valid reason to stop him. that’s why it’s being made#critical role#orym of the air ashari#eve talks
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yes i'm rooting for m*leven breakup because byler is neat but mostly? i'm rooting for m*leven breakup for the sake of el and mike.
to me, their romance was always a puppy love born out of a combination of social pressures, naïve curiosity, and a lack of true understanding regarding intimacy and romantic love and what it really is. it was real in that they do truly, deeply care about each other and they are close friends, maybe even shared an attraction, but a maturing romance is so much more than that. they've grown up and out of being boyfriend/girlfriend, and that's okay! i think television/film needs to show more often that most of us don't have definite "soulmates" or first childhood loves that we spend our whole lives with. it doesn't mean these relationships meant nothing and didn't impact us, it just means they've run their course and that something else is in the cards, and this is part of life!
i've always felt el was at her best and most confident self when broken up with mike, discovering who she was and what she liked alongside another girl her age instead of just relying on mike for mentorship on how to live in the real world. she deserves more of an opportunity to find herself, her autonomy, and her independence, and to love who she is, and she's made it clear she's felt insecure in the relationship with mike because she isn't being loved and understood the way she wants, needs, and deserves from someone who is her partner.
also, it's okay if mike doesn't love her in "the way he should". he is not obligated to love her romantically and stay in a relationship with her just because she's a girl, because she "needed someone", or because he cares about her a lot. he shouldn't be pressured into a romance if it's not truly coming from his heart. he deserves freedom to find out and honour who he is, too, instead of just staying in his non-functional first relationship — one he got into as a child, essentially — and defining himself that way because it's what's expected when a boy and a girl are close. he loves her in some way, yes, but it's okay if he doesn't feel comfortable or secure being her boyfriend anymore, for whatever reason that is. he's felt insecure too, and that's valid and it matters.
they are their own people and are steadily growing and changing every day. they need time to figure out who those people are, and it's become clear (at least in my opinion) that those people aren't meant to be a couple at this stage.
they deserve freedom. they deserve to grow up and be authentic to themselves and not feel like they need to lie for the sake of a relationship. they deserve to move on from this version of their relationship that isn't making them happy and rekindle the best part of their bond: their strong, beautiful friendship. they don't have to be a couple if it doesn't make them stronger and better and happier people.
i think it would be healthy and wonderful for a show, especially one consumed frequently by young adults, to show a relationship starting, progressing, and ending on good terms in this way. sometimes things don't work out, and that is okay.
#eve text#elmike#stranger things#byler#only tagging byler because i feel like yall will like this take lol#tagging tagging tagging WHAT ARE EVERYONE ELSE'S THOUGHTS#god i can't believe i'm making a post about stranger things. this feels like poking a bear#i'm not particularly anti m*leven but like... they'd have to do something pretty special at this point for me to feel like it's viable#i'm seeing the bts of s5 and it's got me Having Thoughts#elmike friendship is something i am so passionate about#even before i ever liked byler (didn't ship at all until s4 even though i knew it was a thing before) i've felt this way about elmike#i always believed they were close friends at heart and needed to break up#the romance part of them felt very distinctly young and very much “he was a boy she was a girl” to me#and it hasn't deepened into anything more mature and i don't see how it could based on the current state of the writing...#the fact that lumax exists — a young relationship that is actively maturing and is healthy — makes that clear to me#and the “love confession” in s4 and how disingenuous and miserable it felt was just the nail in the coffin#also the fact that will (who is IN LOVE with mike) was instrumental in making it happen? ... uh... okay... interesting choice…#fucked up and reductive if they make it another queer unrequited love sacrifice for the sake of pushing the heterosexual agenda YUCK#so i really hope the speculation about a m*leven breakup is real!! i think it just makes sense for their characters but who knows#i don't believe in the notion of love at first sight or one true love and i think the writers don't too???#love to me is an accumulation of experiences and we inevitably choose it at some point rather than fall into it... but idk#tv is so fixated on keeping couples together... sometimes it's just not reality guys especially with young people... LET IT GO...#like i said though i'm not 100% sold that they're going to give up their “golden couple” LMAO#stranger things hasn't historically subverted too many tropes if i'm being honest#anyway i seriously need this season to come out quickly... i'm so bored and getting my master's is crushing my soul#i need frivolity#ALSO btw i won't respond to hateful messages about this so please don't bother. it's not that serious. this is a netflix show
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It's the 5th anniversary of the last episode of Symphogear, have some Xtreme Vibes
#senki zesshou symphogear xv#symphogear xv#senki zesshou symphogear#symphogear#symphogear spoilers#hibiki tachibana#miku kohinata#tsubasa kazanari#chris yukine#maria cadenzavna eve#shirabe tsukuyomi#kirika akatsuki#and uh...everyone else#video
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Trying to keep track of who calls who what in the Librarians is such a pain in the butt!
#Like Jenkins almost always calls everyone by a proper title and their last name like Miss Cillian or Col. Baird.#But everyone else is kind inconsistent with how they address each other#everyone else always just calls Cassandra Cassandra#most of them usually also just use Flynn's first name#but it gets a little more confusing when you start trying to keep track of what Eve jake and Ezekiel call each other#and what Cassandra calls them#like sometimes they use first names but other times they use last names and it makes writing fanfics very difficult!#someone should make a chart or something#the librarians
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drew my ocs as riptide characters :3
#my post#my art#jrwi riptide#why does everyone have a Doomed Sister. my ocs only have 1 doomed sister that they have to share. everin cant be edyn lizzie AND ayva#i put ev as lizzie bcus. leading when you dont know what youre doing but feeling like you need to do it anyways because no one else will#also bcus i put kiet as chip and ev is closest to kiet#speaking of which kiet is chip bcus its just a little guy just a funny little guy#idunno man.#so nekaia also has some Chosen shit going on. not too clear on that i havent really expanded on religion in this story yet#yeag. and then theres nyota and stars jay bcus they both have Immesurable Guilt <3#oh andoras is caspian bcus hes bffs with everin <333#fun fact nyota kills her dad. maybe jay can follow in stars footprints ^_^#oh also nekaias coral looks like that bcus she has horns normally!!#kiets a bird and nyotas a moth and andoras is an elf. ev is also an elf but i dont think lizzie being human is plot relevant so she stayed#the same lol#anyways yaaaaay !!!!#i heart riptide. and also my funny ocs
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dude can you just stop using the wenclair tag? like its annoying seeing these kind of posts. some of us are just here to see the fun dynamics, other’s interpretation, arts etc. and i get that you’re against it or whatever, so maybe like leave these tags alone? stop abusing the tags if you don’t like it
The last anon I just answered didn't even have the Wenclair tag even though the anon mentioned it. But thanks for reminding me to go back and remedy that. 🥹
Look, I get it, you don't read anything that goes against your little echo chamber, so you missed what I fucking said in the next to last one that WAS tagged Wenclair:
It's not my fault that you can't stand criticism of the novel or the ship within the constraints of the novel and fandom. I had never had a problem with any Wenclair fanon until y'all creamed yourselves over this novelization. I read it (slowly, for me, so I could catalog each instance of fuckery with canon in my brain that I could), and that is what I have a problem with.
I've always supported Wednesday and Enid the same way M&G support it, since accepting and building friendship was what Morticia had stated in the beginning in the limo she'd hoped for her daughter/what Wednesday had stated she was extremely resistant to throughout ("I like being an island...a well fortified one surrounded by sharks."). Seems like no one cares to comprehend how wild a jump from a strict antisocial loner who hates people to Spanish-spewing yandere "Willa" in the span of four weeks actually is, and that's how fanon can be*...only now Mejia's injected 100% fanon [see the defiling of "Woe What a Night" for the worst of it] into the canon that millions of people around the world saw and y'all are calling it canon (when it is not, despite being published through the studio). In my last real fandom I participated in there was a screenplay "tie up" in lieu of a fourth season published by Showtime and written by Neil Jordan himself that was roundly rejected by fans as canon because it was so out of character for our main characters from what we had seen for three seasons. Same goes for the Jack Thorne's Cursed Child nonsense in Potter (even Potter actors have called it fan fiction).
TLDR: It's not abusing a tag if the tag is relevant to the post's discussion. Grow some skin and learn how to deal ("cope" like you kids love to say) with reasonable criticisms.
#anon#anon ask#anon answered#wenclair#look i “abused” the tag again#wait no i didn't#because i'm fucking talking about it#what the fuck is wrong with you kids these days#i wasn't even against it until y'all started being SUPER obnoxious about it and sucking on this teat of fanon that shits on canon#wednesday novelization#wednesday novel#wednesday#wednesday addams#wednesday netflix#netflix wednesday#shipheads#shippers vs. shipheads#writing wednesday#*eta: i do use a similar idea w afterburn wednesday...however the difference is is that abw has been on the hunt for an older guy for year#(cont'd) so her leap isn't as big of one as it seems ... plus she still remains a right psycho towards everyone else except donovan and eve#(cont'd) then he's not immune to her coldness or standoffishness. still her softness is reserved for him and thing...and some for enid and b
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i have been condemned to work on christmas fucking eve despite working an office job and literally none of our clients being here can u guys send asks so i can be distracted out of seething about it all day
#frankly my job as a whole has been pissing me off lately#ppl are putting in 'complaints' abt me that are genuinely literally baseless#like as in someone complained abt me being 'not attentive' and when i asked for more details it turned out the guy#assumed i was going to do a bad job w smth and preemptively complained that i fucked it up. even tho i didnt and my boss agrees i didnt#but my boss just hates getting complaints abt me at all so i feel like hes gonna keep 'having talks' with me as long as this guy complains#which he will bc he's already decided he doesnt like me. clearly#i got tomorrow off and then im back to work the next day. i get the 1st off but not new years eve#id take time off but i cant bc im not a full time employee on a technicality so i dont get the same pto rates as everyone else#or any employee benefits at all. and ive tried to ask to become full time and gotten a firm no#so fuck me i guess . and fuck my job i guess#im ANNOYED. talk to me about robots im begging you its the only way#juno.txt
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#on new year's eve my best friends and i went through all monsterfucker uquizzes so i thought i make one too#specifically tailored to my friends but obviously free to take for everyone else too (-:#uquiz#p
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:)c
#vent#who else alone on christmas eve and christmas#I got no one gifts#no dinner#no family to celebrate with because everyone is too far away#everyone seems to have someone there and I just...#I love my roommate don't get me wrong. But there's so little we can do.#I'll figure it out.#I always do#It still hurts.#I wanna see my mom.#She just moved and I don't have any days off to go see her because my company is dogshit#ugh#I was saving up for a new car too.#Didn't end up working out#so I was left with net 0 for Christmas#Everything just fell apart this year#I have people but it's so lonely losing everything in one year.#I gained a bunch don't get me wrong#but I've lost a lot with myself too#I'm healing though. I am. I'm going to get better.#It's just one of those damned rough patches.#I'll be alright.#Merry Christmas everyone.
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love my bad mental health, love being suicidal all the time
#abc shut it#im tired of fighting it and trying to participate in life when it feels like i dont exist#love being lonely and then being told its due to my bad mental health so i pretend it doesnt affect me and i try and be myself#and no one likes me and i dont exist unless i remind people im a person so its kinda like#at a point where its not just suicidal ideation#its just a situation of /when/ and not if haha#ive been alive for 26 years and 20 of those have been exhausting as hell im ready to be done#exhausting and lonely and isolating im sick of it#i try and i try and my life doesnt get better or anymore worth living#and when i vent abt it i get told i need to try harder and im not trying at all and i need to stop being so depressed#its hard to not be depressed when the universe gives everyone around me a better experiences than me#i feel like im screaming that im here please pay attention#and nothing#i talk and my voice gets ignored or i get talked over#i post online to try and start conversations or make friends and i just get ignored#like do i exist at all to anyone else but myself#im trying to reach out and make friends but none of the ppl i wanna make friends with seem interested in having a conversation with me#i add all these people to discord and message them all the time#but nothing gets passed me sending them messages no one ever fucking messages me first#it feels like no one thinks about me and i dont matter#literally no one gives a fuck what i have to say#or anytime i talked im corrected on SOMETHING i say or i get a belittled in response#i cant do this shit anymore i cant#no one gives a shit about what i have to say and its really coming across that no one likes me#bc if my friends cant text me first or respond to my messages at all#why am i in the wrong feeling like im alone and have no friends when im the only one reaching out ever if i wanna have a conversation#and when i do feel like im allowed to talk i just talk and talk and talk and know the people dont give a shit abt what i have to say#i jsut feel like im here to be talked at and do things for other people and nothing more#that whenever i have an emotion its wrong and i need to bottle it up#and i dont eve get a chance to learn how to manage my emotions bc it feels like im going to get scolded or belittled for feeling things
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2 am and my npmd rotted brain is even more incoherent than usual but like... max explicitly saying that he views grace as "forbidden fruit", and while not said out loud, that is clearly also how grace views max... in christian doctrine, adam and eve ate the forbidden fruit and became sinful and unintentionally doomed the rest of humanity with original sin... grace having sex with max, tasting her forbidden fruit and becoming sinful and taking it upon herself to doom the rest of sinful humanity (well, dirty dudes, but she clearly doesn't have extreme qualifications for who could deserve that title)
#is this anything? fuck it. send post.#grace chasity#npmd#nerdy prudes must die#insert 'ive connected the dots' 'u didnt connect shit' 'ive connected them' meme#has grace still not abandoned her god even as she works for the lords in black???#does she view herself as a main part of god's plan? as the start of the next age? as part of the rapture?#as part of the fire that will cleanse the world of sin?#does she see herself like eve?#a woman made in god's image and was in his direct light who succumbed to sin so hard she doomed everyone else?#but ultimately vital to the story. to humanity? a suffering but major chess piece in god's plan?#do any of these thoughts make any fucking sense or even connect that well??? almost definitely not!!!!#it's 3:04 in the morning now. goodness.#what is my brain if not a microwave that spins grace chasity around and cooks weird thoughts and half baked so-called analyses about her#she's just so fascinating to me okay#my posts
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THE TEST S01E08 - A NEW LEGACY
#happy season 3 of the test eve!#shame we wont get a scene like this again this season i kinda like when they are friends :/#do you think we'll find out what happened between lyon and root.....#nathan lyon#joe root#peter siddle#matthew wade#jofra archer#ben stokes#steve smith#everyone else is pretty much auxiliary reckon#im not tagging them ALL thats for sure#my gifs#the test#cricket australia#england cricket
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Snowy Waltz - Final Waltz For the Christmas Eve for the Undead - Seosane 2023 Event!
#cell of empireo#細胞神曲#세포신곡#seosane#sanemitsu isoi#seodore riddle#Christmas Eve for the Undead#coe spoilers#未亡人圣诞夜#se实#과부조#my art#aria draws#MERRY SEOSANEMAS#representing eng speakers its me and vran and silas#mmmostly everyone else participating is chinese#go check out everyone else's pieces!!! theyre posted on the hour every hour!
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