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xx-meat-clown-xx · 5 months ago

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i see posts between binary trans folks and other folks like

"please don't call me dude, it's a gendered term."

which gets pushback in the form of, "It's not gendered to me!"

and the thing is both of these people are technically correct but the second person is missing the fucking point.

whether something is gendered or not if someone asks you to not call them something do not react defensively. it's not about you and your perception of the word, it's about theirs. If a woman asks to not be called a guy don't call her it!

don't call people things they don't like regardless of you own perception of the gendering of the word!

If an enby tells you to not call them a 'girl' in the queer community way, don't call them a girl! hell, if a woman asks you to not call her a 'girl' because she's a woman then don't call her one either.

#im not sure why this is hard #stop calling trans femmes things they don't like!#if you fuck up say “whoops my bad!” and move on #don't stomp your feet and whine that it's “not gendered”#to HER it is #be polite #damn #i see this a lot with enbies too where we ask to please not be called things #but no worry it's not gendered to them so it's fine #like sigh #please just. be nice #trans femmes get this way worse ime tho... some people REALLY want to call women guys... idk...#the thing is cis women get annoyed by that too a lot #but we only bitch when it's trans femmes...#idk just be cool and nice to women #i think the overall point of my bitching on this blog #it usually comes down to just be cool to women #women are cool let's be cool back #thanks

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lrndvs · 4 months ago

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compliments from girls go hard

#comic #the girly girls are girling girling #this one popped off on twitter and there are SOOOO many wonderful positive comments about shared experiences omg #anyway lmao this happened at a friends birthday and we spent so long trying to find out who this was #all i remembered was “petite/shorter than me / nice hair / one could define her style as ”pinterest coquette“ lmao

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muttmoxley · 9 months ago

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sometimes im like "wow holy shit im being really fucking annoying. i should stop talking" and then i pull out my magic 8 ball and it says "youve always been annoying and your friends chose to talk you anyways. youll be fine" and im like wow thanks magic 8 ball. and then the ogre attacks me

#found this beautiful gem in my drafts and couldnt let her go to waste #frog rambles #idk whay this is about. or if its anything. but i think its funny

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cherrygirlfriend · 2 months ago

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lili reinhart they could never make me hate you or even slightly dislike you 🤍

#in fact i love her #lili reinhart #us politics #us elections #kamala harris

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everythingwasnormalhere · 8 months ago

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pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out

#like im asexual its def not gonna be like that for me #but she still thinks it is soo #but like. cuddling can totally be platonic there doesnt gotta be such a fuss abt it 😭#i get her pov but c'mon #asexual #aromantic #<- for reach #edit: ...its censored because i want to btw #like. ik im in the horniest social media but i wanna censor it so i do #ik i wont get shadowbanned like in tiktok lmao #im not even in tiktok......😭#so yup i censored it for my own comfort 💯 hope this answered your questions pls shut up now lmaooo

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ivyblooms · 4 months ago

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The funniest homophobia I ever experienced was a Mormon lady at my work telling me she would accept me being gay because we have to get along as coworkers but I really should consider not being gay because gay people have sex like animals (especially gay men) and she just couldn't stop thinking about it and how gross we are. She started really getting distressed, near tears, and saying 'I can't stop thinking about it. I can't stop." over and over and miming some kind of sex acts with her hands and I was like ?????? What is happening???? One of the other Mormon ladies had to come over and pat her on the back and help her sit down to help her calm down and our boss gave her the afternoon off due to being too upset to work.

#I worked with her for 5 years and I never got over this moment it was like she was in some kind of gay sex trance?????

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shobiolovechild · 11 months ago

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there are 2 kinds of mangaka when drawing: the ones that hate woman and the ones that love woman

And, guys...

i think ryoko kui really loves woman.

#dunmeshi #dungeon meshi #ryoko kui #look all these body types #and they all beautifull #gotta love her for that

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lettuccine · 8 months ago

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i cant stop thinking about a post by @possamble so i made this

inspired by this

based on a fanart by BugsGay on twitter

#help i cant stop unintentionally butchifying falin #im not sorry but #i just want you guys to know that it's unintentional #or is it???#wet hair makes her look more masc okay i cant help it #farcille #falin touden #marcille donato #dungeon meshi

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theriverbeyond · 2 months ago

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how does hard drive never fucking miss

#THIS IS SO FUNNY HELP #arcane spoilers #arcane #spoilers #caitlyn kiramman #media blogging #can she take me to her dungeons. unethically.

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agnesandhilda · 9 months ago

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shoutout to the woman from my high school martial arts class who liked to get me in joint locks and then joke about how I was easy to catch. you cannot comprehend how psychosexually formative that was for me

#bolo speaks #I genuinely still think about her all the time. mrs. [REDACTED] I apologize for being inappropriately excited for you to choke me

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sermna · 11 months ago

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Experienced several previously undiscovered emotions today because my (conservative) mom said being gay is a choice because SHE likes women too but she simply chooses not to acknowledge it