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gothteddiesdotcom · 5 months ago

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part of me wonders if like. the whole “threesomes always get so messy!” “throuples never last!” shit is at least partially self fulfilling because people only do one or two and stop and write off the entire idea. like. do you still talk to the first person you dated? do you still talk to the first person you fucked? did your relationship with everyone you ever fucked stay perfect for forever or did it get messy and end? this idea that threesomes and throuples inevitably end in lost friendships and hurt feelings is kind of weird to me because so do 90% of monogamous relationship and flings. humans are messy. fucking someone and absolutely nothing changing about your friendship or relationship is pretty abnormal. I don’t know dude I’m just thinkin aloud here

#unimportant thoughts #like.#‘oh i dont do threesomes they always end badly’#oh okay and how did fucking your roommates sibling go for you??#everything normal and zero weird vibes between you and the coworker you hooked up with once???#you still talk to your ex partners right??? zero resentment still hanging in the air for you guys????#fuckin weird to me tbh #probably has something to do with how no one does threesomes with randoms so threesomes are always with people you know and interact with #so the fallout feels a little more intense between three people you know then with a guy from tinder or your coworker you see once a week #but still #considering the ‘Fuck and Fight’ relationship pattern of everyone who dates #¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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nothing-nothing454545 · 4 months ago

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no, i dont think im obligated to still small talk an hour into my meet up with a friend group ive been a part of for 2 years, and i dont think im overreacting or showing a lack of loyalty when im unsatisfied with such a conversation. As someone who hates small talk, that friend group isn't for me, and i get nothing from it, and i will choose not to feel like a weirdo (derogatory) or a traitor (..because we didn't promise each other we'd be together forever afaik), for being unsatisfied and leaving. ive shown them affection (that i didnt fully feel) for as long as i could

#switching to small talk bc i dont vibe with them is something my mom suggested #i know they feel the same but even then i think it feels bad to suddenly end it.#probably bc i dont want them to see how bad id treat them if we werent friends. i dont want them to hate me even more #but also i have to come to terms with the fact i will have no friend group if things go this way #because i dont talk to ppl and better ppl wont magically materialise in my dms #or on the lone forest bench i sit on when biking or at the rpg sessions i go to. bc people there are never my type #ppl on the bench are too rich and sporty and ppl on the rpg are too sigma male #im pretty much only hoping ill meet people in college or at art classes irl. or a convention but i didnt even have time to go this year #i should start meeting ppl online but if i dont show my face (online games) it usually doesnt go anywhere #and if i do show my face (tinder) and i mess up (like you do on tinder which is a risky place)#im losing the limited queer people in my city forever. im using up a very finite resource #i could go to meet ppl on tumblr but we will never go to voice call bc its not what you do here #conclusion: what i should do is join more random fandom discords thru tumblr and wait til theyre on call #(<- option A.)#or wait til im in some classes and join a discord with people from my school but not my class #(<- option B.)#however i dont even want to talk to people #fuck people. im tired of people #theres a number of ways i could make friends but i hate everyone i meet and am constantly pissed off and dissatisfied #i may just be aplatonic #its hard to come to terms with

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heyitslapis · 6 months ago

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realized im being catfished wtf 😭😭😭

#been talking to this girl on tinder the last few days. profile seems legit pics dont look stolen or edited she gave me music recs #we talked about tv shows & such. i was feeling so much good energy that i asked if she'd like to hang out & she dodged the question #then she asked if we could exchange numbers & we were vibing so much i said yeah. she sent me hers & i texted her #when she texted back my phones caller i.d let me know that 'richard james' texted me & is not in my contact list #(not her name btw. she's not trans according to her profile & what we've talked about)#he tried to call me today when i didnt respond to this text #i wanna call him out but i feel like he'll just block me & try someone else #i took screenshots though im gonna report him #are you fucking kidding me dude like fuck all the way offfffffffff #the one time in 2.5 years that im actually feeling excited to talk to/meet a girl & its a fucking man trying to trick random queer girls #fuck my stupid baka life #emma rambles #personal #dating tag

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veronicathegoddess · 2 years ago

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coming out of a longterm relationship and back into the dating world is realizing how much it's changed since you were last there and not of a single one of those changes were good. idc if i didn't notice it before or if my standards have just gotten higher but it is horrific and i'm just resigning myself to being single for the rest of my life

#i feel like my standards are higher #and i respect myself more now #so im not accepting the bare minimum from men #and 90% of guys are mediocre #and unwilling to do more than that #honestly they cant even hold a conversation #how is your first message to me on tinder why did you swipe right on me #idk maybe because that's the purpose of this fucking app #im genuinely realizing that im not cut out for this and staying single is probably the vibe #because there's no way that im going to just be randomly hooking up and having talking stages that go nowhere for the rest of my life #rants and ramblings

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lipstickontheglass1985 · 1 year ago

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previously bitchthemed ☆ letterboxd is @/grrrlguts ☆ go there:

#im not making a real abt me sry this isnt tinder xx but if u wanna get an idea of what the vibe is around here check out this tag ->#core #thots #Spotify

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miabrown007 · 2 years ago

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"Looking for love in the trash; if I hadn't, I wouldn't know how to keep it."

~ my ESL ass, apparently, listening to As Good As It Gets by Little Hurt

#miaing #the most savage pop punk lyrics I ever heard is apparently made up by my faulty sound processing. sobering.#my brain might just be fried but I find this so funny actually #I'm just imagining someone using this as a tinder bio. and like.#that would be one of those things that says much more about the person saying it than anyone else. and functions #with the effectivity of a DNI list. it makes anyone who isn't even addressed by it not want to interact with you #coincidentally this has the same vibe as when my boss said the other day that it's very hard to find people for my position #because people who are qualified usually have enough ambition not to take it.#and I know they were just being honest and I can also agree on the truth of that statement but also fuck you

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heavenknowsffs · 1 year ago

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#ngl i saw my 'boss' 's gf and thought wow she's cute #but also “im cuter”💀#WHYYYYY #cuz like they are dating for 5 years #i am not going to ruin that #ever #and also he's not really my vibe #in terms of looks and how he dresses etc #but idkw we have a flirty vibe and I JUST WANT THAT WITH SOMEONE #WHERE IS MY CRUSH THAT I CAN HAVE A CRUSH ON AT #she's very cute actually #i don't want to ruin their relationship i swear #i just want that little 'omg he looked at me' vibe #it might seem like i'm trying to be a bitch but i'm not i just feel lonely i even installed tinder #didn't work i uninstalled but i matched with this cute guy #thing is he barelt answers me at all :(#like of he did i'd have a new 'obsession'

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m0tel6mxzzy · 1 year ago

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thinking…..wanna casually date a really pretty girl like just a fling whatever happens happens but we care for and respect each other even if we’re not romantically into each other

#i’d have to download tinder ugh 😭😭😭😭#after dating both guys and girls i feel im a lesbian but possibly aromantic like im just not feeling the vibe everyone says they get #like def into women def not into romantic feelings which explains why i’ve been w guys i didn’t like

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stinkrascal · 2 years ago

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i need to find a plug NOW but im so scared to meet new people. how do u ask people heyyy you smoke weed? without sounding like a narc HOW

#im too autistic for this. my offputting aura will give the onlookers narc vibes #ive heard of using grindr/tinder to find plugs but like WHAT DO YOU EVEN SAY #is making an account where im like ‘just here for 🍃’ SUSPICIOUS? HELP ME #if i dont smoke weed in the next month i’ll die #we’re moving into a house in march and i want to smoke weed on my porch so badly #we’re just renting the house but still!!! so excited to be in a house instead of an apartment!!!

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maggotwithanf · 1 year ago

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Quietly muttering to myself that I am Kenough while sleeping thru this entire wedding brunch

#im not going #i adore my friends but im just not in the vibe #i s2g i feel like a 10 at wasteland and on tinder and at conventions #but lately ive been taking it as a personal slight if im not being treated like a 10 everywhere ;)#i used to be a Conventionally Attractive Chick and im just some guy now #which is nice 99% of the time #except when im trying to get laid #but anyway #maybe i AM kenough #i mean during the ceremony instead of thinking about romance i thought about how fulfilling my job is rn #which is NOT LIKE ME #this Ken runs his own [redacted] and is so proud of it #I'm Not Stereotypically Pretty Any More and thats ok #maggotposts

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comfortableinthesilence · 2 years ago

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The desire to buy one or them cuddle pillows is high tonight! Im blaming the lonely vibe but unless someone wants to take one for the team and cuddle this chubby soft teddy bear body of mine, it's just going to be me and my pillow vs the world 😂😂😂

#need me a cuddle buddy #someone needs to invent a Tinder but for cuddles and not hook ups #hopless romantic shit #lonely vibe #cuddle buddy

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fanficsforheartandsoul · 10 months ago

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Let's be real, I would but not because he got me with that pic or line, like hell no. I'd make a funny comment and then forget I ever sent him a message because realistically if that was his only pic, nope...