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Fun story. When I was actively being stalked (both online and IRL), I contacted the police exactly one time. I showed them the physical notes that had been left under the wiper blade on my car after I blocked the man on social media. I showed them the previous Facebook messages this man had sent me that described, in detail, what he wanted to do to me.

The police said they couldn’t help me because the man had not actually physically done any of those things to me. He’d just talked about his desires. They even made excuses for him. He’s awkward. He’s lonely. You’re pretty. It’s a compliment.

So friendly reminder that when a man with a record and weapons makes verbal/written threats against a woman, there’s nothing police can do.

But when a frustrated woman being denied medical coverage with no record and no weapons makes a “verbal threat” against a corporation, she’s arrested immediately.

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As some of you know, I broke my leg last month. Because of this I have been unable to work. The most ironic part is that I had just gotten off of medical leave due to my ehlers-danlos syndrome. It was literally my first day fully back to work, and that evening I fell down some metal stairs and broke my leg in two different places.

Despite being unable to work and working with the state to get on medical leave, my bosses are trying to talk to me about when I will be going back to work. My job is too emotionally and physically demanding for me to be able to do it in my current state. For reference, I work at the daytime engagement center for youth experiencing homelessness that I went to back when I was 19 & 20. I can't be there for my clients in my condition. They deserve better than what I would be able to give. Plus, this job has already destroyed my body, and that was before I broke my leg.

I'm uncertain what the future holds. I won't be too surprised if my work finds a way to let me go. They've been talking to me about it for a while because my chronic condition already drained my PTO, and I have none to use for flare-ups, much less a broken leg. The state could deny an extension of my medical leave, meaning I won't get any sort of back leave for the last month.

I'm terrified that I'm going to face homelessness for a third time. I don't know if I will be able to survive that.

If you have anything to donate, please do so at the GoFundMe linked here. (If you would prefer another method like PayPal or Venmo, please DM me.)

Currently at $1,360/$5,000 for rent, utilities, and medical bills.

As a present to you all, here is a picture from the last time my kitty, Martin, visited me.

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idk who needs to hear this but if you have been putting something off bc it doesn't need to be done until the end of the month. we are almost done with the teens we are approaching the big numbers (the twenties). that date shall dawn upon you swiftly and without mercy before you know it. psa for everyone except me i got plany off time

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happy 10 years korrasami <3

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Post is set for a week, let's see how it goes...

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I’m just gonna keep being me and everything else will fall into place

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happy ten year anniversary of my favorite tumblr post of all time!!!

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merry yurimas

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Today, 10y ago, something really funny was abt to happen

I will never not laugh at this, I fear. 😭

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December 19th, 2018 - Four years since Korrasami is canon Thank you, Bryke. This will forever hold a very special place in our hearts.

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I don't like posts, I love them

and if I don't love them...

I don't reblog.

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another late submission for @korrasamiweek2024, this time for Day 2: Bi Pride!

it's not as clean as I would have liked but I'm already behind so I figured I'd just color it and call it a day lol

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Stay awhile, It's Out of Touch Thursday!!!

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why did he say this