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[charliexpin-blog]

Bridget Jones need a therapy.

Hello again. Recently i was suddenly in the mood to watch all three Bridget Jones films. The last time I watched them was when the last one came out, that is, about seven years ago. A lot of my self-perception has changed and this has significantly changed the perception of the film. Overall, I still like the entire trilogy, if I may say so.

I'm less enchanted by the second film than before, but also less disappointed by the third now. I didn’t like the topic of pregnancy, as it seemed then because of my own beliefs on this matter, but now it seems to me that it’s not just that. Bridget clearly has huge problems with self-esteem and self-love. She is immature in this regard for 30+ years old. She is looking for support in the relationship and it fails (in the case of Daniel, it is not only her fault, but mainly hers, but it was not worth starting them out of flirting at work). At the beginning of the relationship she is happy and this gives her confidence for a short time, but then inevitably not everything goes smoothly and Bridget panics, listens to not-specialists rather than talking to her partner, draws conclusions out of nothing and ultimately ruins everything even more. I have a strong feeling that the problem"Mark worked a lot - was not voiced to him while they were together. Mark has a very healthy type of attachment - he is supportive, caring and does not run away from talking about problems, but rather starts them himself. And when she eventually says that this was the case, Mark takes this into account so much that in an impulse throws away the phone at the wrong moment. Bridget, although quite smart, is impulsive and, coupled with uncertainty and the inability to talk about problems, this greatly harms her. It doesn’t allow her to be happy in life and leads to the situation “who is the father of my child?”.

And one more bad detail - she doesn’t even know if she wants this child and children in general, but she decides because she is many years old, all her friends have them and this is like a marker that she has succeeded. Probably, her mother decided to have her in much the same way, but she was much stupider and much happier and therefore never understood that this complex should not be passed on to her daughter. Bridget's dad is like a softiest version of Mark and it's weird and not at the same time.

I’m glad that in the end the mother realized some of her mistakes through her daughter’s experience and changed a little, and that Bridget herself understood something, but it would have been much wiser to go to a psychologist and talk through her traumas and problems at least between the second and third film. And perhaps a woman named Camilla would not have suffered and the kind and rather caring Jack would not have suffered (besides probably his friendship is nothing but suffering). And besides, it would have been much better for Bridget and Mark themselfs. I feel a little sorry for him here too. He might not have gone through so much emotional trauma and carrying a pregnant woman for a kilometer in his arms (in general, a powerful person, heroic) if she had gone to therapy at the age of 35.

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

For those who needed to hear it today

[lady-ofmischief]

Everyone is fighting a tough battle so reblog to give previous a sword 🗡️

[magnus-rhymes-with-swagness]

hey reminder that connecting humanity is extremely low on esims rn and desperately needs esim donations and also that there are a lot of cool things you can get in exchange for a donation

[yardsards]

but i stay silly! *←said in the most world-weary voice you ever did hear*

[gemsandjunk]

the two types of billford content

[fuckingshutup]

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[solreefs]

“oh I’m too old for stuffed animals” skill issue. sorry you can’t appreciate little creatures made to hang out with you, I on the other hand am full of joyous whimsy and therefore vastly superior.

[varilien]

am i blanchin?

girl we blanchin!!

HI HIII happy birthday to everyone's favorite mystery twins!! how did they grow up so fast!!!!

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[swan2swan]

Whoever conceived and animated this moment, I hope they're doing well and thriving. This is S-rank romance stuff here.

[thatboreddrake]

So y’all know the classic edge trope of “my blade cannot be sheathed until it has tasted blood”? What if a magic sword that has that requirement, except it’s sort of inverted. A sword that, instead of being inhabited by an evil spirit which once awakened cannot be lulled back to sleep except by blood sacrifice, was inhabited by a benevolent spirit who would not allow the sword to be drawn unless bloodshed were the only possible solution. A sword whose power could never be misused because it would only allow itself to be used in situations where it was justified. What about a Paladin who spends their entire journey fighting with a sheathed sword, incapacitating but never killing or maiming. The party believes that the Paladin has taken an oath of no killing, until they face the big villain. And it is in that moment, and that moment alone, that the sword will allow itself to be drawn.

Idk, this image set my mindwheels a-turning.

But do y’all see the vision?

[chongoblog]

So a lot of political scandals just dropped in the last 24 hours

-NC Governor Candidate Mark Robinson's online posts were found, including some VERY graphic descriptions (like seriously, do not read if you're not 18) of him cheating on his wife, calling himself a black Nazi, and expressing support for reinstituting slavery. His email address was also found on Ashley Madison

-Robert F Kennedy Jr was revealed to be cheating on his wife with a reporter (and that isn't even the weirdest thing since federal law enforcement opened an investigation into him allegedly cutting off the head of a whale and taking it home with him less than 24 hours ago)

-GOP Senate candidate who is the CEO of a bank has been found accepting millions of dollars from what seem to allegedly be Mexican drug cartels.

-Finally, probably the biggest bombshell, according to multiple eyewitness testimonies within sealed sworn affadavits, Congressman Matt Gaetz allegedly invited a 17-year-old girl to a drug-fueld sex party

And we haven't even hit October, folks. Again, these are all still breaking news stories, so things are subject to change, but oh man oh man.

[muffinlance]

My baby daughter got her adorable puffin-print dress absolutely CAKED in mud crawling around the yard and my first thought was "oh no her beautiful dress"

And my second thought was "oh huh it really WOULD be easy to unconsciously steer her away from playing in the dirt. Unlike my son, whose outfits are usually some kind of solid dark easily washed pants plus a shirt that doesn't trail in the dirt like a dress does."

Anyway something something gender roles start getting shoved on kids from literal birth, but with a little time to think about things, YOU TOO can let your children of any gender absolutely destroy their clothes in the dirt pit they're digging in your garden

[s0up1ta]

toxic yaoi or something idk i haven't watched gravity falls

[shadow-queens-blog]

hey does this make sense? am i reaching?

[bookwyrminspiration]

I can behave normally around books