#this is so fucking adorable

[milk-ducts]

oops! there goes my wrists 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[vroom-vrooms]

I can almost hear the “ok ok now put Leo on top of Roscoe”

“You know what would be cute? Put him on top of Roscoe it’s gonna be great trust me”

[bluegiragi]

soap puts hairclips on konig before missions so they wouldnt get into his eyes

im going to start sobbing actually

[kalibabysworld]

Omg this is just 🥰🥰🥰

[tangerisms]

🥹🥹🥹

[raccoonfallsharder]

So, F!Reader always finds poor Rocket sleeping in the most unusual places--and in the most painful-looking contorted positions aboard the ship. No matter where he is, she always takes the time to carefully extract the poor raccoon from wherever he ends up (he's a heavy sleeper but it don't seem to be doing much good, ouch!) and she carries him like the precious bebe he is to the couches in the Milano Commons (he unconsciously wraps his li'l paws around her neck as she does!). In the commons, - being extremely gentle - she sits down on one of the couches with him, carefully de-contorts and straightens Rocket out, soothing and massaging, li'l pain filled whimpers turning to unthinking sleepy moans and purring. And... she just stays there with him on her lap/in her arms, watching over the raccoon, petting him so softly, so very, very gently (he's all snuggly and cuddling in...) as at last he gets proper sleep.

...this is....so lovely....i'm tearing up....thank you for sharing this with me (╥ᆺ╥) thank you...

[drowninginthoughts27]

Kitty Loaf Picrew

Tysm @messymoony for the tag <33

No pressure tags to @spacexcowgirl @regscupid @kwiwrites @weirdtinkerbellversion and anyone else who wants to join!!! (Sry if you’ve already been tagged)

[thousand-winters]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

[arcielee]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ARCIE 🎂 🎉 Thank you so much for being such a lovely and welcoming person. Hope you enjoy this day and that you have a another wonderful year ahead of you 💙

Pls accept my silly little aem doodle as my token of appreciation 😭🤲🏻

I accept, adore, and cherish this doodle.

Thank you so much. 😭💜

[t0ast-ghost]

Can’t explain it but they’re really cunty in this photo

[ilovemesomevincentprice]

Vincent Price guest stars on The Muppet Show (1977)

[writingnotes520]

OLD WOMEN YURIIII

Just Like the First Time.

[lotus-pear]

ok gayboy

[lelianasbong]

every time the wardens do something fucked up i like them even more. this isn't about any game specifically but all of them. i fucking love the knockoff night's watch, i love that they guzzle nasty ichorous darkspawn blood that you'll die from 1) now or 2) in thirty years and how they don't tell their recruits until it's too late and the damage is done. i love their secrets and corruption and their heroism in the face of primordial darkness. i love warden leaders and warden recruits trying their best and the infighting that inevitably happens when they disagree.

[randygrim]

@uzibrainrot

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

[plain-text version of this post can be found under the cut]

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

Plain-text version:

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

P.S. Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.