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All the years of my life I never had negative side effects from vaccines, aside from totally reasonable soreness (and in the case of tetanus, more intense soreness for several days) and yet specifically the COVID vaccine hits me like varying levels of a truck crash. I am so amazed at how this goes. Nothing else ever makes me feel actually sick after g vaccinations but COVID ones absolutely whack me. The worst time I was lying on the floor crying with ice packs over my joints while I ran a fever overnight. I’m so glad this time it’s just a huge amount of shoulder pain and tightness and the overall flu feeling and spine joint aches, not all the joints in my body yelling or me getting conked out by a fever on the kitchen floor. Meanwhile my flu shot spot isn’t even sore 😂
#COVID shots are basically the only thing besides burns that get me to willingly use an ice pack#thank you immune system for doing a good job learning and practicing#and thank you scientists who made the vaccines#health#this is just conversational complaining#im too sore and flu like to do much besides lie still and breathe and scroll tumblr#but i did get cleaning done before he effects hit#so I got part of what I needed to get done knocked out at least#hopefully within a few more hours it’ll start to slowly ease and I can do laundry#edit: nvmd I do have a fever
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if you want people to get into the canon comics and lead everyone away from fanon misinterpretation (which is a losing battle because there will ALWAYS be this) then why not be helpful instead of being a dick about it 🤨
the comics are hard to get into because it's hard to know where to start, and there's so much content that people are able to fill themselves in by reading fanfic or watching something on tiktok or seeing posts about it on here. perhaps instead of telling people they're stupid for not realizing your favorite character is being mishandled by others, you could write up a list of your favorite comics and/or how, if you could read them for the first time again, you would order your favorite comics to get the best reading experience. and also write your own fanfiction and draw your own fanart or make a passionate post, answer questions politely
#this is based on that one tiktok user who is actually doing some good#where they are fighting misinterpretation of batfam characters by making informational slideshows#i forgot their username so if someone knows who i'm talking about would be really cool and awesome if you could remind me :3#i saw their posts and was like “wow someone who can talk about canon and their opinions without just complaining”#proactive and i like it#on the other hand sometimes there is a healthy medium and it won't kill canon lovers to let people have some fun#it's not hard to be nice guys you just don't call people stupid and you ask questions#and i don't mean passive aggressive questions#i mean a genuine conversation without getting butthurt#i'm looking at BOTH sides when i say that#anyways if you want to#use this post to list your favorite comics and/or how you would advise someone to read your favorite character#etc etc#ik there are lists online#but this could also be a place to find it#dc#dc comics#batman#batfam#batman comics#batman and robin#ao3#ao3 fanfic#fandom#dc fandom#comic book#comics order#dc reading list#batman reading list#canon vs fanon
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When he cares about your health❤️

#cherik#james mcavoy#michael fassbender#erik lehnsherr#x men#charles xavier#x men first class#x men days of future past#x men apocalypse#x men dark phoenix#they’ve had this conversation before#charles for sure just forgets to eat whenever he’s working and complains about to erik#erik is so sick of him#crashes out every time whenever charles complains of a headache#drink some water girl!!! hydrate!!!!!!
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“Right now, I’d prefer revenge,” Dorian said with a smile.
I think, in that exact moment, we saw the end of any possible Orym corruption arc.
Orym is above all things a protector. He failed to protect his father, his husband, and now a dear friend. He was so prepared for an era of blood and rage as the rest of the Hells learned to apologize and to forgive. We saw hints of this with Lilliana Temult.
But watching someone else tip into darkness? Someone whom he cares for so deeply? That will not be acceptable to him. And so he will leap 20 ft into Dorian's arms and guide him, as best he can, back to the light—only to find himself out of the shadows as well.
#dorym#orym of the air ashari#dorian storm#cr spoilers#critical role#CONVERSELY. THEY BOTH GO SO SO DARK AND ARE SO SO HOT. I WOULD NOT COMPLAIN.#I'm just saying. i think orym is all for the darkness#until the moment he sees someone he perceives as 'worthy' of the light leaving its warmth#cr meta
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“Who are you, and what are you doing here?”
“Okay, calm down. I’ll preface this explanation with one thing: unbelievable scenarios sound more real if there’s something to complain about. Also, I have not touched a thing in here, and I am literally lost.”
“Lost in my house.”
“Apparently so. An inconvenience for us both.”
“So what’s your explanation before I beat you about the head with this and call the cops?”
“Right. Do you know what teleporters are?”
“I know they’re made up, from movies and—”
“And this one is the worst crock of compost I have ever had the misfortune of pressing buttons on. It’s a scam; look, even the straps are coming loose. It could have fallen off completely and stranded me between worlds, or come halfway loose and scraped my face across the edges of the realities. If I ever get back to the anus leech who sold this to me, I’m going to do thorough and creative violence to him. There will be duct tape, a sockful of batteries, and several Andromedan firewhips involved. I can borrow those from my neighbor if I ever get back home. She owes me for helping fix the antigravity in her apartment after the cat stepped on the buttons.”
“Okay. I’m willing to listen, and not beat you about the head just yet. Is it supposed to blink like that?”
“What the sweet and salty afterlife — Oh no, I’ve seen this before. Stupid straps! Fine, breaking is better than unfastening. Quick, which thing in this room do you hate most?”
“Lamp.”
“Got it.”
KatchewwwPOP
“Okay. I believe you now.”
“Sorry about the lamp. Here, I’ve got a light.”
“And of course it’s a magical floating one. Why would I expect anything else? Or probably a high-tech one, not magic.”
“Right.”
“Do people eat ramen where you’re from? I’ll make us something while we talk. I’d like to hear all of the everything, please, and I imagine you need to figure out how you’re going to get home.”
“Ah, yes. To all of the above, thank you.”
#conversations between no one#my writing#February Fiction Fight#teleportation#no elaborate backstory for this one#except I wanted to do something sci-fi instead of fantasy today#and I just read a thing about wizards in less stereotypically glamorous career paths#and I remembered the thing about making fantastical stuff relatable by having characters complain about it#ta-da: someone complaining about their tech#for good reason#mayhaps this is the story they'll tell their grandkids#or maybe it's the start of some other grand adventure#full of complaining no doubt
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while on the topic of iron posting. a very small very insignificant thing that i really enjoy is that nobody really harasses it for not speaking. and like. we don't know precisely why it doesn't speak. it could be because it's mute, it could be due to an unseen injury, it could just be a selective choice, it could be that it never bothered to learn human language to begin with, etc etc. but there's never been a scene (at least as far as i can recall) where mr iron is specifically called out or pressured or anything of the sort. not even by its own haters 4 haters coworkers. and yeah this is realistically probably because its an ESPECIALLY deadly space bat that could kill you six ways from sunday if you pissed it off, but also, y'know, sometimes it's really nice just having a mute character that's treated Normally for once
#mr iron doesnt talk and that's just. A Fact Nobody Questions. it's just what it does.#nobody's like ugh stop using that stupid blackboard. they're just reading and responding bc that's just its method of conversation#and again! we don't actually know why it does that! for all we know its always been mute. or it chose that for a very specific reason#but. yknow. idk. in an incredibly weird halfway backwards sorta way. it's just really nice to have it treated as nbd#idk maybe this post is incoherent and im just going insane bc today is. A Trainwreck lmao#yin-thoughts#fallen london#a lot of nonspeaking characters (and real life people) usually get overlooked or dehumanized on some level#bc they (supposedly) cant communicate for themselves (at least on a level people understand)#idk. it's like. suddenly if u cant verbally express urself ur just not on the same level as people#i like that iron is different. i like how nobody really complains or draws that much attention to it.#and yes. this is almost definitely just because it's a giant evil space bat in a position of Significant Power#that can and Will kill you in an instant#but. it's still nice nonetheless.
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kicking the hornets nest but all the responses from people on tumblr of "everybody needs to whisper and be as quiet and invisible as possible on public transit" have really crystallized how and why white people call the cops on black women talking to each other on the train
#similar thing happened in my workplace where people complained about a group of chinese employees who were - brace for it -#talking during their lunch break#like just having conversation in the lunch area on their paid and legal lunch break#and the white researchers got them moved off the floor. it was insane
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CS Lewis's beautifully written, moving chapter on philia in The Four Loves marred terribly for me by his diving into the question: can men and women be friends
#and also: are men who are friends sometimes secretly gay for each other#(but he spends less time on that so w/e)#rambl#also you know that post 'stop complaining about [gender] and just talk about what your ex did'?#cs lewis. stop complaining about the women and just talk about your friend's annoying wife who kept ruining conversations & caused drama
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I’ll go ahead and say it so others don’t have to - the real reason some people complain or dislike Rook is cause they’re not the Inquisitor/Lavellan.
Hope now we can all stop waltzing around it, let people have different opinions, and accept they are just opinions and not The One and Only Truth or ground-breaking criticism they often pretend to be.
#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#dragon age rook#solas#there is room actually for a conversation on rook with what’s missing#or constructive criticism on tonality and reactivity#but 90% of the ‘criticism’ i see online is just complaining and mind gymnastics#that people use because they don’t have the courage to jusr admit its a preference#veilguard#textpost#datv
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last reblog reminded me that there are people on tiktok who are CONVINCED that make some noise isn't actually improv, especially the songs and it makes me so. do you know what improv is?? and these are professionals.
the idea that they're doing this on the fly is not only the entire premise of the show but also perfectly believable? just because you can't do it doesn't mean no one can
#AND ALSO one person used whose line is it anyway to say it was scripted#that was ALSO improv#things that make me irrationally angry for 800#...do i maintag this?#i dont want this to be a conversation i just wanted to complain#make some noise#dropout
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Not to sound pretentious but I think at this point if you’re unwilling to engage with the gods debate in good faith and only engage with it based on stated biased information (Matt pointing out the gods stuff was written by the victors and the cleric’s relationship is not everyone’s ect ect) then you’re just being blatantly anti intellectual 😭 like they’re literally colonizers lol there’s a real reason why the campaign is dedicated to having tough conversations about them like. No one is saying we all should hate the wildmother 😭 but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a reason in universe many of the mortals hate the gods
#everytime I go into the cr tag people are complaining about the gods discussion like I’m sorry if you think having an#intellectual conversation and debate about something that effects everyone and everyone has a different relationship to is#ruining the campaign?? mayhaps you’re just stupid and incapable of engaging in good faith with media that makes you uncomfortable and or#self reflect like 😭#also. as an indigenous person it’s v weird seeing everyone brushing over them being colonizers like..#cr#critical role#I babble#discourse#cr3
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something that has been happening 2 me frequently for like years now and i have no clue why b/c irl i look like the most normal person on this earth
#spacie scribbles#CAN I COMPLAIN FOR A SEC#WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN#THERES NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT ME I LITERALLY JUST COME TO CLASS AND GO HOME#WHATS GOING ON????#WHY DO YOU LOOK LIKE U WANT TO SHIT YOURSELF????#is this one of those things were i give off a ''mysterious'' aura b/c i dont talk. is that what it is.#i have been told b4 this is the case. i hate to break the fantasy#but im actually like. a normal guy who does their homework whn they go home. im just like. a little autistic also.#baffling being on the receiving end of this treatment (i usually get nervous around and avoid ppl b/c i have social anxiety)#this also ONLY happens to me when someone has a crush on me#which like#kind of lowkey wish wouldnt happen beecuz it gets in the way of me making friendships/conversating#(but also kind of boosts my ego i wont lie. it happens often which. is once again strange to me b/c i dont think im particularly attractive#(i mean i know im physically ''beautiful.'' i just dont know how you can crush on me when u dont know me)#it triggers my ptsd and makes me think i did something wrong idk 😭#you know how it is w/the disorder than makes u heinously aware of any and all minute facial details and body language#we gotta fix that❗❗#crush be gone❗❗#sprays u#most of the time i dont wanna be friends w/ppl but i would just like to have a conversation w/out the other person being So Scared
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There's something about like. A certain genre of posts / Online Opinions about insecurity/depression/misery/complaints that are so unhelpful that they wrap right around to being straight up hilarious. and it's the ones that are more or less written to the tone of "Feeling bad? That's gross!" Like, just so you know, don't voice your insecurities/ have low self esteem, because that's offputting! You're gross and weird. Don't be insecure about that, though. That would be stupid if you felt insecure about people disliking you for being insecure. Not attractive. You should be thinking about being as attractive as possible. You shouldn't make comments about suicide, even if you're suicidal! Keep those thoughts entirely to yourself. Make sure nobody around you knows you're thinking about this. It would Make Them Uncomfortable. It's better to keep these thoughts in your head where they can fester. Don't post OR talk to friends with complaints about you feeling miserable or depressed. Tbh people who are sad/upset a lot? Kinda a red flag! You are probably miserable because you're a bad person and you've brought this on yourself. If you don't have friends, it's because you're awful to be around. Easy! Solved the problem for you. And no, there is no nuance to this, got it? So, make sure to feel bad about feeling bad, but don't feel bad about it, because, well, that's just gross. And annoying! You might've wanted your brain rotted thoughts to be Peer Reviewed, you might have just needed to vent- you might've been hoping for some comfort, to get things off your chest. Well, don't! Don't talk about thoughts or feelings that are negative with your friends, you'd be burdening them and that's only meant for THERAPY. #SponsoredbyBetterHelp #MentalHealth like, DAMN. that's so helpful. you're so good at helping. I um really liked the part where these are all hard and fast rules that encourage keeping feelings bottled up and keeping your friends at arm's length. That's really funny of you.
#I FEEL LIKE COMPLAINING RN in the context of this alternate universe these posts live in. that makes me evil rn. I may not even keep#the post up. but I Needed to complain about these bc I hate seeing them#really funny and good because it very much feeds into that part of the brain where you go wait am I stupid? am I horrible? am I annoying?#before you express any kind of personal feelings. from feeling insecure alll the way down the spectrum to feeling like your life is over#before anyone How Dare You Say We Piss On The Poor-s at me YES there is a nuanced version of this#which is. you can make someone feel like shit (A Fellow Sufferer Of The Mental Eelnesses) by using them as your dumping ground#in excess and usually with no regard for how they feel and without Regular conversations inbetween#and in a one-sided way where they can't do the same and complain with you as a sounding board in return#don't tell new friends you hardly know abt THE MOST personal shit you can possibly think of. there are steps being skipped here#right? we know this. we all know it. setting a boundary is a thing. overwhelming a person is a thing#on the other hand there is such a thing as a friend who IS okay to listen and wants to help. and friends who relate.#maybe talking abt personal stuff makes ppl feel closer sometimes. just a thought! maybe not everything is Emotional Labor. maybe just maybe#but like come on. these are almost intentionally unhelpful posts#long post
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Another reason that Stansas hate the idea of Arya and Dany being friends (outside of them wanting to demonize Dany) is that they've convinced themselves that Dany and Sansa are the only main female characters, so if a Stark sister is going to have a significant relationship with Dany it has to be Sansa. Arya being constantly downplayed and treated like an accessory to Sansa has generally led to the consensus that her relationship with Dany will be defined by whatever Sansa's relationship (positive or negative) with her is. That's why Arya is always being left out of the "we were robbed of [x] female character friendship" conversations and why theories about Dany/Arya getting along are treated as Sansa hate; Arya, as a character, is seen as secondary to Sansa by a lot of people
#arya stark#anti sansa stans#Don't get me wrong I'm happy whenever people discuss Sansa/Dany parallels instead of pitting them against each other#but the difference in how their potential relationship gets discussed vs. Dany and Arya's is very obvious#and the root of it is that people don't want to perceive Arya as being her own important character outside of her relationship with Sansa#(but also that some people simple don't view Arya as an actual female character because they're misogynistic)#even though Dany/Arya have many parallels shared experiences + values and tons of foreshadowing#Show!Arya was the exact opposite of Book!Arya to justify her disliking Dany but somehow that never gets acknowledged#and people complain about Sansa and Dany not getting along in the show but Arya is ALWAYS being left out of the conversation ����#just made a post about this with receipts so they can't even pretend this is something I made up 😭#cause they sure do love to gaslight us about the shit they try to pull like we can't see them#this is why I need TWOW to come out so we can get Arya's Braavos arc and finally be free of the show's terrible writing#fandom nonsense
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i wish fandom confessions blogs didn’t post into the main tags. it is so very rare that i want to see an anonymous opinion the length of a strongly worded email talking poorly about other people in their community. i get that that’s how these kind of blogs get engagement but omfgggg
#complaining about fandom. sorry#and like. ok there’s more nuance to this tumblr post obviously#i do like seeing fandom ask blogs as a platform for just anonymous collab stuff. that’s fun and why i don’t block them#however when they’re used asa platform for someone to loudly be like ‘i don’t like this group of fans in our community’ it’s like Come On#where’s that one post. This could’ve been a conversation with a group of understanding friends
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by far the worst take i've seen so far post-ep19 of Junior Year is that having a week-by-week live play would have allowed fans to essentially influence the direction of the story in the way they want it to go and that would have resulted in the cast being more sympathetic to the Ratgrinders (ie getting them a redemption arc)
why do you feel the need to try and control this story? YOU ARE NOT THE ONE TELLING IT. if you want to tell a story please go write your own, or go write fanfiction to cope or whatever but you don't get to say that the players are telling the story wrong when it's their story they are telling
#not only would this actively make the story worse#but i truly don't understand why people think that this would then force the players to do what the audience wants#like i'm gonna assume that the people who want this are the same people who complain too much about bits (or at least there's heavy overlap#who's to say they wouldn't double down on their decisions and then you'd just have a whole new reason to be mad#also as stated earlier in really no way do i believe that audience influence would really benefit the story#like there is something about how attached the audience gets to certain things that the cast/crew couldn't predict because it is recorded#but i truly don't think there's many instances where fan influences to the author(s) has been in service to the story#because the second you do that you are controlled by the audience and any time you go against that then you've “betrayed” them#it just goes back to a lot of the conversations about audience and specifically fandom entitlement and the way that people consume “content#also to be clear i saw this take on d20 twitter which i do think has a whole different flavor of toxicity than d20 tumblr#fantasy high junior year#fantasy high#dimension 20
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