#this is also life advice in general

[askchilchuck]

Sir do you have any tips on how I can get Dandan to settle down with me? You're his best friend I feel you're the best person for advice

In all honesty, if your goal is to settle down, I’d pick a different partner. Dan’s a great guy in a lot of departments, but he’s not interested in long term relationships. You’re better of finding someone with the same life goals as you than wasting your time on someone who prefers to keep things casual.

[spikeface]

Based on (x).

[thatsbelievable]

[mira-likes]

I found the scene of Fan Xian and Fan Jian jumping around with the discipline ruler and putting on the anger/punishment act very entertaining, but I just saw someone’s comment that like “Fan Jian knows he can’t hit him” and that made me pause. Can Fan Jian get away with flogging Fan Xian (the emperor’s biological son) if he wants to? How much of his approach to parenting Fan Xian is down to him being well aware that the emperor is looking over his metaphorical shoulder?

[vibingforjudaism]

I need a therapist who I can argue with and who will give me jewish advice ....a rabbi. I need a rabbi

[forestofsprites]

there's applying for jobs that you're applying for simply bc you physically can and you need a job, but then there's applying for a job you actively want and would enjoy and would genuinely like to have. and that's suffering

[anto-pops]

Can someone with knowledge of anxiety or panic attacks tell me if I dealt with that last night because I have never in my life experienced something like this before and it honestly freaked me the fuck out.

I was getting ready for work at like 3 in the afternoon and my heart started racing. Like, beating insanely fast. I didn't check my heart rate until way later, but basically for the entire time I was getting dressed, doing makeup, etc. I had to continuously sit down cause I felt like I couldn't catch my breath.

I finally got in my car at like 5 to head to work and once I parked, I checked my heart rate on my watch and it was reading at 142 bpm. It had been bouncing between 140 and 130 for over an hour and there was absolutely no reason for it. No caffeine, no exercise, no stress that I could solely blame for any potential 'anxiety' or anything.

I was sweating my fucking brains out for like an hour at work, was super winded for literally no reason, and I only started to feel anxious and worried once I realized just how fast my heart was going. My coworkers told me I looked red in the face even when I was standing completely still not moving. It stopped around like 7:30 give or take, but that was still roughly 5 hours of dealing with everything. I have never experienced anything like this before, and everyone I spoke to last night was on my ass about going to the ER, but I wasn't about to leave work for that.

I don't know. Should I make an appointment to see a doctor ?? I'm at a loss for what to do cause this was a one time instance as far as I'm concerned, but it was super scary and it lasted such a long time. I thought I was going to have a heart attack and my one thought was that I didn't wanna croak at my job LMAO

[happybunnykat]

Always throw your knife out the window at every available opportunity.

[quaalussy]

hi beautiful ppl on tumblr dot com do u have any advice about navigating life after college when u are soso scared

[that-one-dark-smiley]

Not wearing my binder s u c k s but i took a break from binding today (mainly because i desperately needed to wash my binders) and I just gotta say

Take days off from binding for your own good guys. Remember it'll be worth it in the long run even if it sucks now

[twpsyn-who]

Lowkey need a fic with the Young Avengers in which Spider-Man is not part of it, but more like a guardian to them. Which is funny because they're the same age, but each time someone points that out Spider-Man's like "I'll let you know I was in the Civil War. And during the fight against Thanos- twice!!! I'm an Avengers thank you very much" and everyone groans in annoyance because they heard that multiple times already.

Ten times funnier when Spider-Man drops some of his lore randomly and leaves everyone with lots of questions. One time he casually mentioned that he was stuck under a whole building during his own prom and couldn't actually attend and everyone felt like their life was a fucking joke.

[poisoned-pearls]

you know, Idk if I have to say it, but, cut off those people who drain you. You shouldn’t always have to text first, your friendship shouldn’t end because you stopped talking.

And I know it sucks, that feeling of crippling loneliness. But when shit was absolutely the worst for me, when everything had fucking crashed and burned, I met a few people who finally reminded me what it meant to have someone care, and you’ll get it soon

[flikkerij]

erm are u not boycotting eurovision... come on now

...i am? i've only reblogged posts about the boycott too?

either this is bait or you gravely misread this post

[babytarttdoodoo]

Gentle reminder that disagreeing with a headcanon is not a reason to send anon hate :)

[adore-gregor]

study smart not hard (altough both is best actually) this saying is so true