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Them: stop posting butch and femme Anthony Bourdain

Me:

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Back in the office/ back on my bullshit

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shut up about how "bad" she did at a sport, a woman is being told she can't do something because of the way she was born, she just happens to be trans so yall think misogyny and bioessentialism is suddenly ok

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if tumblr shuts down we should all develop car crash fetishes and form an underground community that reenacts famous car crashes for sexual pleasure

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my beautiful daughter named paranoia. shes right behind me isnt she

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hooked up w this grindr guy last night and he had a pet parrot in his apartment and the parrot mimicked all my sex noises

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Max Wolf Valerio in Transgender Warriors by Leslie Fienberg (read his book The Testosterone Files here for free!)

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Lee Jaeseok — The Instructions with the Body (acrylic, canvas, 2018)

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do i just have IBS now or what

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relapsed on buying books today

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the house md promo pic of house in a wedding dress with the sloppiest smeared makeup look. Literally what was the point of that

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why do i completely lose my appetite for days at a time when i get stressed or anxious for any reason

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for whoever needs to hear this, if you refuse to communicate your relationship problems with someone and instead choose to let those feelings simmer until they eventually boil over, while providing absolutely no room for that person to show growth, you're just a fucking coward and are a generally unsafe person for others to be around. part of life is fucking up. if nobody in your life has any room to make mistakes, you are going to eventually fracture every connection available to you. nobody is infallible. everyone will make an error eventually. everyone will cause hurt. and while you don't have to accept everyone's apology, the absolute least you can do for someone you claim to care for is give them time to rectify their actions. i've seen a rising trend in the trans community of ex-communicating those that are deemed "unsafe", no matter the context, severity, or origin of accusation. do you realize how damning that is? do you understand how weaponized accusations against members of the trans community can be a death sentence? we MUST do better. so many of us have become so sensitive to the traumas the world has inflicted upon us that we look for them at every turn and in an attempt to cauterize the wounds that have formed, doom those with good intent just the same as we do truly malevolent perpetrators. bad people don't condemn their past actions. bad people don't internalize the labels you've thrust upon them. bad people don't spend every waking moment in agony for the pain they inflicted. provide your trans siblings with the same understanding you hope to receive when you eventually find yourself on the other side of the accusation. you have a lot of life to live. be kind to each other.

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went back to campus for a lecture, got to talk to my fav academic writer abt gross horror books and sheep eyeball dissection

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