#they say not to listen to your anxiety

[gleeksfreaksandwannabes]

Isn’t it hilarious (in the most sarcastic fuckin way possible) when your anxiety brain tells you all your friends hate you and they’ve had enough of your shit and then you look back years later and you realize it ended up being true and they all left you because they didn’t want to put up with you anymore?

[toddtakefive]

btw todd’s reluctance to join the dps because he doesn’t want to read (which is then accommodated for) and is scared to put himself out there (which is also worked through) being read as todd not wanting to go AT ALL, and thus neil making the proper accommodations (“todd anderson, who prefers not to read, will keep the minutes of the meetings”) and encouraging him to step out of the box that stifles him being seen as ‘forceful’ or like he can’t take no for an answer makes me insane with rage

[galwithalibrarycard]

Tell me why every fictional character who has an anxiety disorder also has at least one love interest (except for the one character who’s asexual, love you Beth March from March Family Letters). For that matter tell me why everyone I know IRL who has anxiety issues also has a partner or at least an ex. Tell me why the DSM says women with social anxiety are likely to be married but not to have a job, and I’m the reverse. Tell me why it’s only me whose self-isolation has been so bad that I’m about to be 30 and never been kissed. What is it about me specifically? What’s it take, huh?!

[honestlyvan]

Let me be absolutely clear -- the problems with Tumblr will keep getting worse if the disabled minority and the trans people and the people frothing at the mouth at the opportunity to yell at a transphobe, keep @’ing staff and the developers on this site, tell them to kys, because in the meanwhile the transphobes and racists and white supremacists will keep using the actual tools Tumblr provides for blocking and reporting, further poisoning the datasets used for moderation, and encouraging the idea that using the official tools does nothing to basically ensure the only statistically meaningful data available to Automattic is poisoned, poisoned all the way down, poisoned beyond usability.

Hatespeech and bias needs to be reported for it to be considered statstically significant to act on from a developer point of view. Suicide baiting and spamming any of the official means of communication will get you eliminated as a spammer, even if you’re peppering legitimate criticism within your ventpost about how you hate the new thing. You are playing the TE/RFs game.

[wyxan]

On a small involuntary hiatus from drawing as this muppet accidentally got their drawing hand in the way of Newton’s first law.

[crybaby-bkg]

am I the only one who gets scared to shit talk certain characters bc what if they manifest themselves into the real world and yolk my ass up for shit talking them?????? does that make sense omg????

like cussing Dabi out for beating hero ass while watching the show, and then falling asleep, only to wake up in the middle of the night bc you feel someone watching you. and lo and behold he’s standing at the end of your bed, his eyes damn near glowing in the dark as he drags your ankles down until you’re pressed against him???? and he promises to make you eat your words by the time he goes back to his own world???? pls tell me this doesn’t sound crazy 🧍🏽‍♀️

[i3utterflyeffect]

BY THE WAY FOREVER REMEMBER. if you are thinking abt going off your meds that is the devil speaking!!!!!

[bottom-slut-unionizer]

Manipulating twinks into being a Good Boy for you seems like it would do more good for them than most therapy techniques

[antimony-ore]

Next year my birthday is going to be about me, fuck this

[radgeorgie]

had an amazing interview yesterday.... was told I'd know by Monday.... but it's alleged they DRUG TEST and I just bought 6 packs of weed edibles 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[phagodyke]

sometimes I wish I was a more interesting + charismatic person just so I could keep conversations going bc I like sharing space with other ppl but they routinely lose all interest and leave once I run out of things to say/start talking abt things that don't concern them :-(

[sodaspringz]

thinking abt tallulah and the "lag monster" oh...... that girl has anxiety but she also has demons

[partiallypearl]

listening to baptized (deluxe version) by daughtry to ignore the feeling of impending doom

[ghcstcd]

but like you must understand i don't think anyone expects you to HAVE answers and designs and stuff? it's just questions! are you maybe not comfortable being asked things like that? do questions like that make you feel under pressure and maybe it's better if me & others don't ask things like that?

I'll be very honest with you, your message came across as very distressed to me. Full of anxiety and over explaining. Like I was doing something wrong by working slowly through what little material I've already made, and the fact that I hadn't gone further in depth, or perhaps thinking as you have, is wrong.

I love lore questions, I love discussions, but I won't lie to your face and say the way you presented them didn't make me feel as if I was doing something wrong and not catering to you specifically. Also, you were messaging me to reply because I hadn't replied to your other ask within 24 hours adds to that stress I feel. I don't know you. We're both strangers to each other online. Saying things akin to "no pressure but" does apply pressure.

[bugmistake]

every time i call my mom the first words out of my mouth are hi! i'm fine!

[crabussy]

some people huh