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My favorite interpretation of the myth of Persephone is that it's not a story of abuse nor romance. Is the story of a woman that made her choices and had to face the concequences of them.
In my version she wasn't escaping from an evil mother, nor was she kidnapped from an horrible man.
She was a young woman who loved her mother but wished to be seen by her as as the grown adult she was and not the girl her mother wish to keep her as (hence her name being Kore wich means "Girl"). Her mother isn't suffocating her or mistreating her. But like parents often do, they wish to hold on to their babies a little longer and ignore that they are adults.
So when she meets Hades, she finds herself desired in a different way, a way that she didn't experience before since in her family. Finally she feels herself being treated her age, finally she feels like she is allowed to explore her desires and wants.
But she didn't tell her mother. Mind you she shouldn't have to ask for permission but at least give a warning could have been a good idea. But she had other things on her mind and she just didn't want to deal with her mother potentially telling her no and again forget that Persephone could make her decision. Maybe Demeter would have been like "Oh alright have fun dear!" but instead she never got to know that her daughter willingly left and like any good mother she freaked out.
When Zeus came down to tell his brother to give back the girl, Hades may have been completely compliant, maybe he was feeling bad about the whole misunderstanding, maybe he even planned to directly apologize to Demeter and then start to properly court Persephone and ask for her hand.
But again Persephone didn't talk to Hades about how she felt probably patronized by her mother making this whole big problem the SECOND she gets out of her side and feels embarrassed and upset. So out of spite she goes and eat the pomegranates. Personally the pomegranet id a symbol of sex, aka her and Hades hadn't even consumed the whole time that she had been down there. He doesn't give it to her, he doesn't shoves the seed in her mouth. She makes the choice or eating it, and she makes sure that it will be just enough to tie herself to him but enough to leave space to be able to come back (aka not get pregnant).
So now she is tied to a man that she doesn't know that well for half a year and the other half she can only be with her mother when in the surface. Because i know that Demeter will not let her out of her sight again. The trust between them is broken.
And in all of this Persephone get to taste freedom just for a little bit. Her and Hades will grow to love each other but maybe it could have been much more genuine and tender if they weren't forced to be together by a choice made on a wim.
She was not stupid or egoistic or a victim. She was a woman that wanted to make her own choices she made them and like the adult she is she faces the concequences.
#persephone#hades and persephone#persephone and hades#The myth of Persephone#pomegranate#pomegranate symbolism#Making Hades the villan or Demeter is not the feminist take that you think it is#It can be a story of abuse#Or it can be a story of choices and consequences#My favorite thing about the greek gods is that they are not perfect#They make mistakes#I want to give Persephone her agency#Even if it brings her sorrow
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something feels....off.
#ml#miraculous ladybug#mlb#the girls who get it get it#don't worry darling#can you imagine an adrienette blow up argument à la dwd#marinette is jack obv#Mar: You were miserable—you were so unhappy! You hated your life!#Adrien: It was MY life#the angst#meme#in all seriousness marinette is a teen who was manipulated#they make mistakes#ml spoilers#miraculous ladybug spoilers#ml recreation#ml recreation spoilers
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Learning very important stuff about your disabilities online that you should have been taught by your parents as is kid is wild.
I wasn’t taught shit, just told “Munsty, you have ADD, Asperger’s and OCD, you can’t insert long list of things I ‘can’t’ aka ‘parents won’t even let me try so we don’t actually know if I can or not’ do”
Anytime anyone, your parents included, say you can’t judge them for their parenting decisions tell them to zip it.
You have every right in the world to judge and be critical of the decisions made that affected and still affect you.
#munstysmind#I’m so tired#adhd#actually adhd#autism#autistic#actually autistic#ocd#actually ocd#disabled#healing hurts#judge your parents#they’re not perfect#they make mistakes#you’re allowed to verbalise that#I wonder why the relationship with my mum isn’t as good as it was before I started therapy#the therapy she demanded I get because I have issues
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i think that one person is commenting again but under a different name (again 💀) because like… who else recently constantly misgenders Reader and can barely say a single good thing abt the fic LOL
#also just as a reminder#there are certain chapters where reader is MEANT to frustrate you#like i’m sorry mental illness is not constantly sunshine and rainbows#they make mistakes#they get into arguments#etc etc#but anyway
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I need to put my thoughts somewhere so here goes.
I'm currently watching this show on netflix and I have thoughts. I am super intrigued with it so spoilers ahead for the people who might happen to be watching it.
Ok so, I just watched the most recent episode and I am a little sad they decided to have Kang Ho get back his memories like this. One of the things that I liked about this show is that despite having the typical corruption storyline they seemed to be going/exploring a different outcome when they had Kang Ho's mom burn all the evidence. Which I was intrigued by. The kdramas are all about vengeance and justice, however this show is about good intentioned people making bad choices in the name of revenge or pursuing justice. Kang Ho's mom wanting to save Kang Ho from this revenge plot he's put himself into (that has cost him his life and happiness). Trying to correct the mistake she made when she forced him on the path of becoming a prosecutor.
It seemed to me like they might explore another way out, by letting the past be in the past and learning to move on with Kang Ho's current condition. There's enough to unpack there, and also the whole exploration of living with someone with a disability. How much Kang Ho and his mother have hurt each other, how much they love each other, and how to find happiness in such a complex family situation.
I would have loved for Kang Ho to get his memories slowly. I still hope he does, and doesn't revert back to being who he was a 100%. Hopefully he gets them back gradually and, combined with his most recent memories he can learn from his past mistakes and learn to understand his mother more. I hope they end up having a few heart to hearts by the end of the show.
I really love how they show how even with the best intention mother can be bad. We see it in how Mi-joo doesn't tell the truth to her kids about their dad. In Mijoo's mom who wants to save her from a fate similar to hers, but doesn't listen to her daughters wishes. In Samsik's mom too.
Anyway, all this to say that for me this show is about healing. And Kang Ho getting his memories back implies we're gonna spend more time with the revenge/corruption plot line. Which is intriguing and all but I hope it doesn't eclipse the main part of the story. Which is about learning from our past mistakes, stop thinking we know better than others (and hurt them I the process) and enjoying the present in whichever shape it comes.
I hope this show sticks the landing because it could easily become one of my faves. So fingers crossed! 🤞
#should I tag this?#because I feel like a lot of the commentary on the tag is hating on the mother#like the bad mother does bad mother things#its in the title she is a bad mother#she's well intended but she hasn't realized yet that the part she does wrong is in the method not in the result#the problem is forcing your son to do things he doesnt want not if you want him to be a prosecutor or get married#but I think she's going to learn eventually#i love how all the characyers have good intentions and are so filled with live and care for each other#but they're human#they make mistakes#and they have pride and shame and anger#and they dont handle it well#most people on earth dont know wahy they do the things they do#and thats ok#nobody is perfect#it's making mistakes#it happens#the important thing is to be held accountable for the pain you cause#if you cause any#its being doing those things that we learn to live together on the planet#this show makes me feel things and think things#i love it#tgbm netflix
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That infamous prison escape.
#atla#zuko#avatar the last airbender#atla fanart#atla art#prince zuko#sokka#atla sokka#atla suki#suki#sukka#boiling rock#atla zuko#zuko art#zuko fanart#sokka art#sokka fanart#suki fanart#suki art#the gaang#the boiling rock#AKA the Cleavage for Everyone ep#I made the terrible terrible mistake of listening to Måneskin while drawing this#What was I THINKING#Anyway they're my dream team#The bestest team ever#Sokka makes plans that never work until they do#Zuko sacrifices himself for Honor™ and said idiotic plans#Suki gets shit done#(And does about 90% of the work because let's be honest those two are a mess)
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every time i make a mistake im like theyre going to put me down like a sick dog
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Jake Sully is a good father, y'all are just mean.
#james cameron's avatar#the way of water#jake sully#no thoughts space himbo whom I adore#what a man#I love him so damn much#say it louder for the people in the back#Jake Sully is a GOOD dad#is he perfect? no#but that doesn't mean he doesn't love them with his whole entire heart#he is scared he is stressed he is in the middle of a WAR#that makes him respond in a way he didn't in the first 14 years#it's like people purposefully ignore all the evidence in the movie#he checks his children EVERY SINGLE TIME to make sure they're okay#Lo'ak does something stupid and the FIRST THING Jake does is ask if he's okay#THE FIRST THING#parents are people too#they aren't perfect#they make mistakes#I have a whole post about this actually#there is nothing but love for Jake in this house#he is a complicated character who makes mistakes and then learns from them#he loves his kids so damn much#he would die for them without hesitation#this movie is so insanely gorgeous that sometimes my brain stops working#like how is none of this real?!#blows my freaking mind#watching this in theaters was one of the best movie experiences of my life#I've seen Way of Water three times in theaters#and I am still not emotionally recovered thanks for asking
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I, a hearing person who likes subtitles just as a preference, shouldn't have to read a subtitle that's obvious nonsense, go back a couple seconds, and listen again in order to figure out what's going on. An accessibility feature should not be the most half-assed part of a professionally made production. Scripted media has absolutely no excuse for not having subtitles or having subtitles that aren't perfectly verbatim. Professional captioning services should be ashamed of the shoddy work that they put out. Captions should be treated as a part of the production, just like filming, editing, audio balancing, etc - and anything that releases with missing or bad captions should be seen as unfinished
#the subtitle mistakes i've seen are absolutely fucking embarrassing#subtitles should make something easier to understand not harder#and i can hear just fine so i'm lucky!#i've seen the kind of mistakes that would make an entire video unintelligible to someone who doesn't have the audio for any reason#it's unacceptable
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He. He really kissed all of their hands.
#Skully J. Graves#Twisted Wonderland#Twst#twst spoilers#twst halloween#pretend you didnt see me make the mistake AKJSDGHASD
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Welcome to the “whoops! I accidentally started got manipulated into starting the apocalypse!” Club. Members being Jonathan Sims and Mable Pines. They’re both ✨traumatised✨
Bonus comic
#whoops!#they got manipulated into starting the apocalypse#everyone makes mistakes :)#Jon: your like 5 you have an excuse for this#Mable: fist of all I’m twelve second you literally got possessed#wait she’s thirteen#oh well#anyway#spoilers#lol#gravity falls#fanart#art#gravity falls spoilers#mable pines#tma podcast#the magnus archives#tma spoilers#the mangas archives spoilers#tma fanart#jonathan sims#tma Jon#whoops I accidentally started the apocalypse club#Have a good day#✨
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MODERN AU ACESAN !!!! first impressions with a guy who barely passes the No Shoes No Shirt No Service rule
#acesan#one piece#portgas d ace#sanji#monkey d luffy#comic#ive been meaning to make this comic for like a year Btw. and it got stunted for 6 months cuz I couldn't get past a part that was like#Slightly too ooc for my liking without fuckin up the whole thing even tho its already stupid as is ANYWAY. SOLVED IT OBVIOUSLY so yaaay#i spent so long on it and it still had mistakes. but gues what I Fucking Ball#also initially posting this on twitter was such a headache because the alt text limit is so Small so i was like ok Fuck My Life i guess#anyway. blow s a kiss to the crowd. Enjoy my insanity
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they missed and only shot him in the ear
#liz blogs#breaking news#donald trump#saddest attempt since reagan. cant believe he fucking missed.#i should have used this template for the tf2 7th comic news but i will not make the same mistake twice
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Zepotha will never be Goncharov because when it comes down to it, tumblr culture is collaborative, while tiktok culture is merely iterative, and those are not the same thing.
#also because tumblr has a very specific way that it interacts with the media it loves#like make no mistake; when we made Goncharov we were a little bit making fun of ourselves#and the way we project high emotion and significance onto even the smallest details#(also the way we want everything to be gay)#tiktok isn’t doing that. they think the joke is the fake movie itself. but the fake movie isn't really the point.#the point is the fake FANDOM#goncharov
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Titans: ...what do you have there, Roy?
Roy: oh! This is my daughter, Lian! Say hi Lian!
Titans: She doesn't much look like you...
Roy: oh yeah she takes after her mom more
Titans: and who is she?
Roy: Chessire
Titans: ......the assassin who has tried to kill us so many times?
Roy: Yep!
Titans: ......okay, warn us next time when you get into a relationship, please-
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Roy: Hey! I know it's been a while, but I thought I should tell you, I'm dating someone!
Titans: oh, we're happy for you! Who is it?
Roy: Red Hood
Titans:
Roy:
Titans:
Roy:
Titans: .....the same Red Hood who cut off people's heads and put them in a bag, attacked the Tower and has tried to kill or maim Batman and everybody else in Gotham multiple times?
Roy: Yep! 🥰
Titans: .......we are sensing a pattern here and it's a worrying one-
#roy harper the certified villain fucker#he has a very specific taste#dark haired criminals with a traumatic past whose names start with a j#everyone: roy blink twice if you are in danger#roy: awww guys he isn't like that anymore-#everyone: he shot someone in live tv last week!#roy: everyone makes mistakes! and the guy didn't even die!#everyone: THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT ANY BETTER#roy: YES IT DOES#dc#jayroy#roy harper#jason todd#arsenal#red hood
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Beautiful from Ordinary Days
#EDIT: I added links to the post’s caption go click them.#I did this because people were mistaking the words as a poem. I love poems. it’s not a poem.#it’s a song from a musical that deserves more attention. go listen to the song. if you like it go listen to the musical. it’s fantastic#it’ll make you laugh and it’ll make you cry. could not recommend enough.#okay edit over. back to my og tags#long post#and I'm talking LONG like do you love the color of the sky long#today I am a nuisance to your dash#but it's in the name of art and beauty#ordinary days#musicals#paintings#art museum#post i made#i love lyrics#greatest hits
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