sureguardpest

[genderqueerdykes]

So im transmasc and the word I like best to describe my gender and sexuality is boydyke. but sometimes feel like I don’t deserve to use it because the labels lesbian, sapphic, and even butch don’t really feel like they fit me. Especially butch, like my gender is mostly Masc, but I present and express myself in a kind of more feminine way. I want most people who look at me to see that I’m a guy, but I still feel such a strong connection to lesbian culture in a way that I feel like people won’t understand. I’m kind of scared to be myself, especially around other queer people

im here to say it's okay to let go of that fear because there are so many other people just like you

i get a lot of asks from people who identify in ways very similarly to you. the thing about the slur dyke is it affects transmascs who arent lesbians, sapphic, etc. it affects trans men who aren't lesbians, transmascs, non binary people, gnc people, genderfluid people, and many others who are not lesbians. dyke also heavily affects transfems and trans women who aren't lesbians too. its targeted against a lot of people. it really heavily affects transmascs & men and transfemmes & women

you're not in the wrong for using that term! boydyke is a very popular label that a lot of people use, transmascs especially! you're right at home where you belong. you don't have to feel afraid to step on anyone's toes, you've got plenty of family right nearby. there's a reason you found the term boydyke, and it's not only because it's a good one, but it's a popular one. a lot of queer people identify as dykes for a variety of reasons. if that word fits you, if that's the community and the history that you like and feel you belong to, you don't have to be afraid.

good luck, if you need any help feel free to send another ask! you're on the right track

[thislifewasneverours]

It's been a minute since I posted anything but I was so happy to hear that dorian and orym actually fessed up lmao. Here's my homage to them!! <3

[keeps-ache]

happy pride !! <3

[beanghostprincess]

Saw this on twt and felt the sudden need to do it!!! It's pretty much obvious just seeing my account but here you go

[nerdyqueerr]

sometimes i think a little bit about how the Wyrm's ultimate Evil Ploy on Elora was to grant her heterosexual marriage and then not only does she turn that down but she and two lesbian knights defeat the evil AND THEN the Power Of Love comes in to save the heterosexual marriage guy but its literally just the power of his sister saying hey come back i miss you. and, dear readers, i find myself going insane a little

[kumakuma-circus]

i think my favorite part of my p4 playthrough is that i somehow never got pixie and had to go back to get her when trying to fuse black frost for the shadow mitsuo fight. i still don't know how that happened i was in the castle for so fucking long sfldkjskfjfdksfdkjfd-

[chilpilled]

chil + merci besties agenda is real! i need them to have sleepovers and paint their nails and talk about their toudan siblings. marcille gushes over falin while chilchuck fondly complains over the other. this happens i read it in the adventure bible

ur so right anon i read it too. i know chil puts all his hair braiding knowledge into action to give marcille different hairstyles and she tries to convince him to read the daltian clan…..they compare bite marks too i think. because i think both touden siblings bite. and i think they cuddle but like platonically….idk i think marcille is a cuddler. she convinces chil to share a bed so it can be a real sleepover and then hes wracked by mana nightmares like izutsumi and the next morning marcille is like hope u slept well!! :D and chil is like. yeah. haha. and then he makes her eat a healthy breakfast while she convinces him to eat some sweets too <3 my sillies…..

[captainjonnitkessler]

I don't have a problem with people who exclusively like "cozy horror" and the like. But I do have a problem with people who act like it's somehow morally better than "regular" horror (because what kind of degenerate would want something ACTUALLY fucked up to happen in their fiction?!), that it's more capable of speaking to the human condition (because a story that ends up being about Love and Friendship and Hope is much deeper than all that, ugh, pointless grimdark edginess regular horror has, of course), or who act like it's still a brand-new concept as though every third popular Tumblr comic isn't about a scary monster who turns out to be a chill lesbian in the end

[aroaessidhe]

2024 reads / storygraph

Welcome, Caller

a cute small town m/m romance

a 20-something trans man whose routine and comfortable life with his friends starts getting disrupted when a guy he had a vague rivalry with in uni keeps running into him

he finds some stability by regularly calling in to a late-night radio show, which becomes a strangely comforting relationship, despite the anonymity

explores mental health (adhd, autism) & friendship

[phagodyke]

weekend melancholy is starting to kick in >~<

[motherforthefamicom]

trying to find some oldass drawings of one of my first sonas i havent been able to find em yet but instead ive just been unearthing all these old notes an ex friend and i would pass to each other back in middle school

[obeymeow]

being neurodivergent is all fun and games until you remember those hourly quote bots on twitter and think well maybe I can't make a bot anymore but I could schedule a few quotes a day, that shouldn't be hard. it sounds fun to have a bunch of quotes of my favorite character Thirteen from hit mobile game Obey Me! and its sequel Obey Me! Nightbringer. and then you think about how arduous collecting the quotes is going to be but she's only been in the games for maybe a year and a half with little screentime and you love collecting things so you start but then you remember that you love collecting things so naturally you have ALL of her screentime in the game and suddenly you have 45k characters of quotes and are several lessons into season 4 (which is truly a trial in and of itself) but not nearly close enough to the end but you refuse to just stop collecting the quotes and make the account with the EXCESS of what you have already because you literally only have season 4 to get through and if you don't do it just seeing the bot (because now you've been informed you can make tumblr bots instead) will haunt you with that knowledge even if nobody else would ever know. this is a general anecdote of a situation that could easily happen to anyone though and not in any way related to my life

[youji-burgers]

lesbians put me in their purses like a little dog

[harmonybarmy]

the problem is I watched buffy the vampire slayer during my formative years and now buffy summers makes up for 90% of my personality.

[nomaishuttle]

sometimes you watch a show from anytime before like 2016 and its like woo this is awesome and then somethjng happens in it and youre likenog thus is from before 2016.

[jrueships]

Anything for Jordan Clarkson

i think there is something to be had between a man who bears a slightly unnerving beauty and a man who bears a vastly unnerving boil

jordan and collin remind me of the pretty wide-eyed girl and her ugly friend that follows her around and keeps gross guys at bay. An almost sad one-sided love from the ugly girl but a mandatory relationship for survival. Ugly girl gets a friend (who leaves her everychance she gets to spend time with some shitty guy that hates the ugly friend, but a friend nonetheless). Pretty wide-eyed girl keeps from being in the newspapers.

i think collin has always had a little crush on clarkson and clarkson has either noticed or not noticed... if he noticed then he's either stringing sexton along sometimes for the fun of it or the supportive self esteem it brings whenever he tosses collin his breadcrumbs of affection... OR he could be nicer and just be ignorant to it. See it as some bro thing maybe? Doesn't notice how collin seems so fascinated by his fashion or his painted nails. Likes his awe because it's better than the regular 'ew girly' guy reaction he gets from most. A little surprised by mister 'stay on the grind, feel no pain, eat the pain, bite the pain, get those gains' macho man Maniac himself being not only so 'cool' with it but wanting it almost as well. Clarkson paints collin's nails slumberparty hangout when???

their relationship feels very hmmm slowburn switch between ignorance and want? like collin is constantly intrigued by Jordan's kind of intangible warmth that's akin to that one high guy at a party you end up talking to in a corner the whole night because he's just so laid back and willing to chat without being pushy, judgemental, or annoying. a surprisingly great listener who laughs at your jokes and plays off them or calls back to them when you least expect it. and collin values that more than he thinks he does because he can be his usual in your face but also kind of awkward when he can't be sexton who gets judged for being too 'much' sometimes. so he really secretly not so secretly admires Jordan and constantly wants to be around him and his 'approval' because it makes him feel like he's right in his way of acting/just being. Doesn't know if he wants Jordan or just wants to be Jordan

And Jordan is always surprised, when he notices it, by collin's attention. Because he's just being himself tbh, nothing he does is particularly special or different to him. He's just him! Sure some might think it weird, but that's because they're not used to him. But collin is, he should be anyways. They were teammates on the cavs before. Collin seems to think about that more positively than jordan..

There was an interview of Jordan's trade from the cavs and kpj was very business about it but collin was more emotional. Kept on commenting about how great jordan is not only as a player but as a person. 'He always played some music, always danced, had a good time'

I think hmmm collin is one of those super athletes who's a super athlete because they're not well-rounded. They're called a super athlete not only for being a great athlete, but an obsessive one. They spend more time practicing than not only a normal player would but even a varsity player. They put all their eggs in one basket when they Could put maybe just one into another but that would require a shift of focus and They Can't Have That. They're Obsessed. Even at like five or whatever age he was when he asked for an alarm clock for Christmas instead of a toy like most kids would, sexton was Obsessed. His nickname 'Young Bull' basically describes him to a T. He keeps working, he's a gym rat. He runs to the narrow red and doesn't stop.

Because hes tied to a scope, he's very interested in those beyond it who are literally just regular people but not to him. But because he's tied to such a scope, it's harder for him to relate and be related to. Maybe that's why he clings to clarkson? Clarkson is supposed to be 'the weird one'.. he wears unique fashion, styles himself uniquely, has big unique eyes. He's a unique person and player. He's rounded yet not bland. He's still Different but.. relatable? Collin likes that a lot. Wants that a lot. Secretly not so secretly.

But Collin is actually... a lot weirder than clarkson. Hate to phrase it that way but it's literally like... collin just admiring clarkson for being a normal human being. 'woah... he loves to dance and sing thats so cool!!' ....he has ..hobbies? outside basketball? ..omg. no way. WHAT 🙀⁉️⁉️ HOW?????? IMPOSSIBLE‼️‼️ collin. Baby. Sweaty. Honey. People can... people can do that. They like to. It's. It's common.

I like them... i think they're a little ill and that's OK 😭 we love them

Hes a little head over heels for him a tad unnaturally.. jordan might be a little ignorant to the fact or a little entertained... who knows. Eitherway... gay