#they have some kind of shared or similar experience with unwanted attention from men

[psymachine]

which two members of the gang are running this scam selling this product next season?

[faintblueivy]

Behind the Scenes - Izuocha Fanfiction

This is my another submission for my izuochaweek but it is not based on any of the prompts. in fact it was supposed to a oneshot but I had so many ideas that it turned into a full fledged multichapter fanfiction. It will contain all of the prompts in later chapters definitely tough!

Behind the Scenes

Chapter 1

Mishaps turned into Scandals

For the life of him, he had never imagined that he would be the one to think about it, let alone suggest.

He doesn't even remember how they got stuck into this mess. Got tangled into the web of realities, expectations and untold feelings.

Or maybe he does?

It had all started that day...in that party organised by a few Hero agencies to support and appreciate the work of newbies in the Hero industry and to provide them some encouragement and popularity. And naturally, he was invited as well.

…

The place was buzzing. Soft music floated across the air, occasionally punctuated by loud, energetic songs in between. The area was well lit, illuminated brightly, the windows were large, necessary to provide proper aeration and the hall was even larger, obviously, to accommodate the huge congregation of people - more especially Heroes, comfortably.

The decoration was rich and pleasant, of colours consisting of navy blue, azure, and white. The side of the room was solely dedicated to the serving of drinks and wines and perpendicularly to it, on the window side, a wide assortment of heavy snacks and pastries was laid.

The place was brimming with people. Variety of humans, with a variety of quirks, were moving around, enjoying the night to the fullest - eating and drinking to their heart's content. A few were swaying on the dance floor and some others were spread, gossiping among themselves. A few sharing the juicy details of events and affairs between the famous fellows of Hero society and some others bragging about fights they had, and how they survived life-threatening injuries and the ferocious were the villains they had defeated.

Everything was perfect.

Yet, Izuku was running thin on patience.

Oh, he knew he was plenty patient when needed to be, but this...this entire situation was making him beyond uncomfortable.

The lack of personal space, the unwanted touches and the breath reeking with an overdose of alcohol made him cringe visibly. He jumped at the sudden feeling of the woman's scantily clad breasts pressed against his chest and stumbled back when her lips almost grazed his chin.

“Please, can you stay away!” He hissed in agitation, hoping that she would understand that he doesn't want to do anything with her and leave him alone.

“Dekuuuu.” The woman purred, “-Am I not pretty enough for you?”

And he cannot even bring himself to think of the degree with how much he hated the way his Hero name sounded on her heavily painted lips.

Izuku grabbed her upper arms and pushed her away slightly to gain some semblance to space between them. The woman was completely drunk and Izuku was having second thoughts for coming into this party.

His eyes darted all around the moving crowd of formally dressed heroes - in suits and dresses, mingling and enjoying the night, but here, he was eager to find an opening to escape from this awkward situation.

That is when his eyes spotted her.

She was dressed in a baby pink floor-length gown decorated with satin green and black roses. Her hair was done up prettily and weaved through similar but comparatively smaller roses. He would have said that she looked beautiful and blushed fifty shades of red if he had not seen the predicament she was in.

She looked every bit uncomfortable as he had felt moments ago. Swarmed with young males desperate for her attention with some of them boldly overstepping their boundaries by deliberately touching her.

Something inside him snapped when one of the guys present there forcefully grabbed her wrist trying to pull her with him.

Without giving a second thought, he immediately pushed the drunk woman off him in a swift move, knowing that she was intoxicated enough to fall if he was rash but still not caring about it at all.

He cut through the crowd brushing people away from him and by the time he made it to her, she had her hand away from the guy's grip already and was glaring daggers at him. Her brown eyes burning with righteous indignation.

Izuku smirked.

These idiots didn't even know who they were dealing with, do they?

But soon, at their very persistent efforts to get close to her, he realised that they are either too drunk to care or too dumb to understand.

So, he quickly moved and planted himself between her and the men.

He let a smile curl up on his lips when her eyes widened in surprise.

It always felt amazing to receive her attention like this.

“Where were you? I was searching for you back there.” He made a deliberate act to make it look like they already have met each other here.

She tilted her head in confusion and opened her mouth to say something before closing it when one of the boys objected, angrily grabbing Izuku's shoulder.

“Dude. Where did you come from?”

Izuku turned to face them, his eyes unflinching and answered with confidence.

“I've been here for a while now. Left to get my girlfriend some drinks.” He jerked his thumb towards Ochako lightly.

Wait...what?

Somewhere in the back of his mind, he registered that Ochako had frozen.

Drinks…?

Girlfriend…?

Uraraka-san…?

Wait. What.

URARAKA-SAN…?

WHAT THE HELL?!

His insides were on fire at his own choice of words but outwardly, he maintained his calm because this is what they have been trained to do as heroes.

Stay strong and undaunted in every situation.

The men surrounding them exchanged looks of suspicion when suddenly Ochako jumped on to the chance and latched on to his arm for the show and Izuku swore that his brain short-circuited.

“Come on Deku! Let's go!”

“Wait. He's really your boyfriend?!” One of the guy's yelled in astonishment combined with fury.

“Yes. He is.” Ochako nodded with conviction and Izuku felt himself sweating profusely beneath the collar.

“You're already taken? Why didn't you say anything before?” A guy sneered and Izuku did his best to resist the urge to punch him in the face.

Not here. Not here. He reminded himself.

Hero Deku is not known for punching anyone 'innocent’ person.

“What? I have been trying to tell you all that I cannot and will not accompany any of you tonight but it is not my fault that you didn't wish to listen.”

If he was, to be honest, One of the things he loved about her was that she never held back from lashing on anyone doing wrong. He knew that she is strong and smart and can take care of herself but there was just another kind of satisfaction to see her roasting some idiots, he thought smugly.

Sometimes, he thinks, if he is getting a little sadistic with age. Or maybe Kacchan is simply rubbing off on him more than he expected.

The men looked shocked at Ochako's words and a few were decent enough to feel embarrassed about it.

“Thank you, men, for keeping my girlfriend some company but I'd like to enjoy the night with her now.”

He said confidently even though his palms were clammy with the nervousness. He gave them a cocky grin, which he might or might not have learned from Bakugou and ushered Ochako out, his large hand on the small of her back.

None of them dared a glance at one another as they sailed through the sea of people, sticking close enough to not get separated and reach the other end of the room, both of their faces aflame.

As soon as they reached the other side, Izuku burst into an apology.

“I-I am s-sorry, Uraraka-san! I didn't even k-know what the hell I was doing! Sorry! You just looked uncomfortable and I-”

She stopped him mid-sentence, her hand squeezing his. He was taken back to see a a shy smile forming with her pink cheeks.

“It's okay, Deku-kun. I'm glad you came to help me. I was really troubled. Sooner or later, I would have floated them to the ceiling.”

He nodded but did not make a move to pull his hand out of her grasp, unconsciously, memorising the soft and warm touch of her hands.

“They were a few persistent guys.”

“Oh, I think they were a few persistent idiots.”

She hissed angrily and Izuku could not help but let out a laugh at the sour face she made. It was adorable.

Well, anything she did was adorable.

Standing side by side, they did not say anything to each other. But the smiles on both of their faces was enough to know that they were happy and content to share the silence.

“By the way,” she asked, her voice holding slight mischievous tint, “where is the drink you went to get me?”

He was about to start apologising again but thanks to those expressive eyes filled with mirth, he realised that she was playing around with him.

So, he gave her a confident smirk and said, “I think I left it on the counter. Couldn't hold the drinks and save my lady, all at once now. Well, would you like to accompany me now?”

Izuku was violently combusting from inside at the prospect that he was actually FLIRTING with Ochako Uraraka.

“Alright! Let's go!” She exclaimed, her excitement bubbling up as if they were about to head out on a camping trip.

But point to be noted, we don't exactly have very... happy experiences when it comes to camping.

Ignoring the thought bouncing somewhere in the back of his head he let her drag him to the counter.

Both of them are not extreme drinkers, so it was only a few shots. Later they found themselves on the dance floor, swaying with the music, arms carefully wrapped around each other. If he would have been in his right mind then her proximity to him would have been enough to making him blush and fumble around like a moron.

But the slight intoxication had made him a little daring. He leaned into her, hands pressing against her waist and nuzzled his nose into her hair, breathing in her flowery scent. The way her palms rested on his shoulder blades made him relax and her head restingin the crook of his neck was oddly calming.

“Uraraka-san?”

“Hmm?”

“You look beautiful tonight.”

“Oh, only tonight?”

“Aha, not only tonight. Always.”

And honestly, it was a night to remember.

….

The next morning he woke up to the noise of his cell phone blaring. He had a late night shift later today so he had planned to sleep in a little but it seemed that fate did not agree with him. The loud ringing was now getting unbearable so he grabbed the offensive gadget and blinked open his eyes.

“Ughhh.”

The display of Iida-kun in bold letters illuminated the screen and Izuku was surprised.

“Iida-kun?” Is everything okay?

He asked, a hand rubbing over his face, his phone resting against his ear, his senses still groggy from sleep.

“Okay? OKAY?”

His loud voice made Izuku jump into an upright position, his hand immediately holding the cell phone at a distance to avoid more abuse of his eardrums.

“Iida-kun what-”

“How can you do this to me, Midoriya-kun?! I thought we were friends!”

The despair in Iida's voice made Izuku tense. His head considering all the possible scenarios and their all possible interactions where he might have accidentally said or done something to have offended his close friend. But sadly none came to his head.

“What's the matter, Iida-kun!”

“I can't believe that you and Uraraka-kun didn't consider me worthy enough to have shared your secret. I thought that by now you'd trust me enough that I would have willingly taken your secrets to my grave.”

Secret?

Worthy enough?

Grave?

What the heck is he talking about?

Breathe Izuku, breathe. Calm down.

“Iida-kun? What is that I and Uraraka-san didn't tell you about?”

“That you and she were dating!”

Iida's voice is loud but the weight of the words he let out was even louder. As the memories of last night flooded into Izuku's head, he immediately jumped out of bed.

“N-no! It's nothing like that!”

“Please stop lying at least now, Midoriya-kun! It's all over the news!”

Izuku's jaw was left hung open, his mind unable to form a single coherent thought.

Of course, last night. The party was arranged for Heroes. It was not any other private occasion. Media was there. In fact, some of the important members and officials of the media and newspapers and channels were specifically invited to attend the event for reasons of gaining publicity and to introduce new heroes to ones who could make them popular.

And he had danced with Uraraka-san, in a space which was less than acceptable for any casual interaction. He had got her drinks. And he had publicly declared that she was his girlfriend. And she had publicly accepted it.

Shit. They were doomed now.

“Midoriya-kun? Midoriya-kun?!”

Iida's voice faded into the background as Izuku considered all the repercussions of this sudden gigantic problem. And the one he feared the most was the damage that this entire situation could do to their bond.

His and Uraraka-san's friendship.

The cell slipped off his fingers and the voice of Iida-kun fading into the background, Izuku's fingers pressed the button of the television, visible tremors running through his entire body.

The first new channel boomed-

Finally confirmed: Pro Hero Deku and Uravity are dating!

The second one said -

Hero Deku and Uravity are in a relationship!

The next one displayed -

Uravity and Deku's romantic relationship confirmed last night.

Along with a photo of them dancing together, close, very close.

Damn the paparazzi!

He wanted to scream.

…

“Stop sulking.”

Shouto commanded his voice somewhere in between exasperation and amusement. His arms were folded behind his head and his heterochromatic eyes focused on the screen in front of him.

“I'm not sulking!”

Izuku emphasized though the waver in his voice was visible. His back was hunched and the sad frown on his face was betraying his (obviously wrong) claim.

Shouto huffed and shook his head in response to Izuku's stubbornness. It was late in the evening, office decidedly empty save for the few workers who had the night shift.

“She's going to hate me!” Izuku groaned into his hands, wanting nothing more than to tear his own hair out. The dread of Ochako actually hating him made him burn on the insides. They have survived the worst of villains and disasters together. He cannot even bring himself to imagine being the one stupid enough to break their friendship up.  

“What makes you think so?” Todoroki questioned, his expression displaying something akin to light frustration.

“And what makes you think she won't?”

Izuku literally felt his emotional turmoil converting into physical pain. His head was aching badly. The light throbbing being the continuous reminder of what he had done.

“Because she's Uraraka?”

“...fair point.”

Todoroki insinuating that Ochako was simply incapable of hating people was the truth, undeniable, unchanging truth. She might get angry, she might even lash out, but she never hides and breeds ill intentions or feelings for an undeserving person. In fact, that’s the charm of her personality which he has always admired. Though, admitting that fact scared him even more.

Shouto let out a long sigh, knowing the state he was in, there were no words capable of bringing him out of his misery. He swirled the pen trapped between his fingers in circles, round and round. Biting his lower lip very subtly, he exhaled, finally accepting that there was no other way around.

“Talk to her.”

It took a span of few seconds for Izuku to finally register and react.

“Ehhh?! You can't be serious?!”

He yelled out, then clamped a hand over his mouth, a pink hue dusting his cheeks as he realised that he was louder than necessary.

“Do I look like I am joking?”

Shouto questioned, his brows arched and his face displaying it's resident deadpan expression.

kun. You make jokes with that face. JokesIzuku tilted his head to the right, his mop of bushy green hair falling to the side.

“Never mind.” Shouto rolled his eyes “-but I'm completely serious regarding this.”

Shouto would have almost regretted his words at the look Izuku's eyes were going - fear and apprehension and even a hint of hopelessness. But he did not. Now, he knew it better than ever that Ochako was the only solution to this problem. Because if the future symbol of peace was looking so small and vulnerable was anything to go by, then he understood that the boy in front of him held Ochako closer than the scenes depicted. And if the shine in his bright eyes growing by a million times at the sight of her smile was any proof then she was the only one who could quench his doubts and guilt.

“Come on, Midoriya,” Shouto said, his voice was gentle, calming. “-don’t  you think that if you're the one who dragged her into this mess then you should also be the one to get her out of this and resolve the matter?”

Well, well. If guilt tripping him was a way to get him to talk to Ochako without protest then he was fine with it.

Shouto knew how to play his cards well.

Especially in respect to two people.

Midoriya and Yaoyorozu.

Both of them were unquestionably important parts of his life and he would always want them to be happy.

And in Izuku's case - it was pushing him towards Ochako. They have both always shared a strong unlabelled bond. Something soft, precious, funnily obvious and admirable.

But with him and Yaoyorozu, it was different. Subtle, firm and inspirational.

If the bond between Ochako and Izuku was as clear as the day then the bond between him and Momo was as dark as the night. At least for him.

It was complicated.

But Shouto felt his lips curl into an easy smile when Izuku gave a shy, unsure nod.

…

“You ready?”

Izuku nodded, his green eyes expressing a familiar determination and Shouto did his best to ignore the obvious signs of nervousness in his form with taut shoulders making it visible, so subtle that any other person could have easily missed. But he was not any other person. He's known him for a while now. After all, they did went  through hell and back together,.

“Hey, Todoroki-kun? Are you sure you want to go on the patrol all by yourself? Maybe we can call someone to accompany you.”

It was almost frightening about how much concern this guy had for everyone. But Shouto understands. Izuku's natural altruism was a part of his personality, his charm, which led people to adore him. But he needs to develop a sense of self-preservation as well, Shouto thinks but convinces himself that it's a topic for the talk another time.

“Yeah. I'll be fine.” He tells, his eyes feigning disinterest.

“Alright! I promise I'll be back as soon as I can! I'll call you.” He says.

“Okay, Take your time.” Shouto nods and watches Izuku squaring up his shoulders and marching inside the apartment complex.

It is the dead of night and the stars are shining bright and Shouto's lips curve into a small knowing smile.

They'll be fine.

Phew! here is the first chapter! was it fun to read? And it will have sprinkles of todomomo in between! Sorry, but I love them, a lot! and tell me, what do you think the conversation between Izuocha will turn out, huh?

HAAHAHAH! I would love to know your thoughts!

[happytaffeta]

Wall of text incoming

I have realized before and I'm realizing again that I share large swaths of my life with people who, for good or ill, are both very inquisitive and very opinionated. This can make it hard to, for instance, share an experience or story I related to with a friend. What I mean is this kind of conversation will occur wherein I share my experience, and in trying, I can only assume, to better understand what happened, a friend will ask questions that are probably not intended to sound as accusatory, or belittling, or disbelieving, or even dismissive, as they do.

But it is absolutely exhausting to answer these questions and to stay patient and polite and earnest. When I share a mental health experience with someone who does not share my brain bugs, I do not anticipate(though maybe I should) questions that hint that I'm overreacting, or am playing up the severity of my symptoms to garner sympathy. Sometimes I just want to share my experiences, and these are colored through the lens of mental illness.

When I share a story about an incident of sexism or harassment, I do not anticipate questions that poke at whether or not the story is actually about harassment or about some misunderstanding that has been spun a certain way by one party. I present and am read as a woman, and my world is colored by that experience, and sometimes maybe it was a misunderstanding after all. But sometimes a guy followed me a whole block toward my home, at night, because I didn't respond to his catcalling favorably, and that isn't okay regardless of anything else but thank the stars it wasn't worse. And sometimes, I just want to share an experience or a story and it ends there.

The single most frustrating thing about having friends that do this isn't even that they don't realize they do it. It's that they have overlapping experience pools. The friends I get these questions from the most are wonderful people, otherwise. They are often also mentally ill, or lgbt, or otherwise part of a group that suffers discrimination and other challenges dealing with the world at large. And I get it. I'm a white bitch, it can be hard for me to grasp issues regarding racism directly unless I'm actively thinking about it and am parsing it through a similar, but still fundamentally different experience pool. I will never grok it on the same level that someone who lives with it every day does. I will never grok it the wordless, intuitive way I do navigating and avoiding unwanted attention from men on public transit. It will never be in the subtext of my brain the way that mentally monitoring a new med's side effects is. But that doesn't mean I can't understand it at all. It doesn't mean I get to poke and prod at my friends who do have these experiences until they feel (Ive searched my mind for a better word but this is what I've got) icky and cornered and pressed about the issue, either.

I don't know exactly where this was going, but, I needed to get it out into the world.

[transamorousnetwork]

Transgender Women: Meet Your Amazing Man: Don’t Do This!”

Nothing convinces better than life experience. That’s why I show transgender people and trans-attracted and transamorous men how to create in their lives proof that their stories can fulfill any desire imaginable. Including meeting amazing romantic partners.

But if YOU want to meet your amazing romantic partner, you gotta stop doing what so many other women do.

I have several transgender clients creating living proof that stories create reality. Gradually, their dreams flow into their lives with less and less effort. They’re happy, sure, eager about life and eager about meeting their matches. Like “Nadia” here:

Then there are others…

Occasionally however, I talk with transgender women who are not clients. I share the same stuff I tell my clients. What’s crazy is even though my clients’ lives offer a metric shit-ton of evidence of their dreams becoming real, these transgender women just don’t get it.

But I do.

Not being a Transamorous Network client, it’s hard (but not impossible) to understand your stories about reality create your reality. It’s way easer defending your limiting stories, which in turn limit your life. Like this transgender woman recently did while talking with me on Facebook:

^^A transgender woman vigorously defending her limiting beliefs with stories detailing what she doesn't want, instead of what she wants. That's a problem.

I’m not trans, but I have personal experience helping trans and non-trans people create fun, fulfilling lives. Everyone I work with gets lives filled with everything they want.

So when I adamantly say “transgender women can have any future they imagine, and any kind of partner they want,” I mean it. 😌

^^He's looking for you. Are you looking in the right places? (Photo by Tamarcus Brown on Unsplash)

Stand in the truth you want to live

Of course, many people know what they want. But most don’t know how to easily get it. Instead they do what others are doing, or what they’ve always done. Like the transgender woman above, when they get results consistent with what others get (results that suck), they get upset, frustrated and rant about what they’re getting. All the while not realizing their frustration exists for a reason.

Any experience a person has is valid. That doesn’t mean it’s the Truth with a capital T, or that their experience is an objective fact. There is no one Truth and there are no objective facts.

For example, many, many transgender women think all men are pieces of shit, want to bottom and fetishize transgender women for their penises.

^^Two transgender women commiserating over their truths. What is the price they pay for living this truth? Easy: no relationships, or relationships that suck.

SOME men may be this way, sure. And for transgender women who tell such stories, that’s pretty much the only men they meet. So of course, it’s TRUE that SOME men are this way.

But does standing in stories complaining about and commiserating over such men give you what you want? It clearly doesn’t, right?

Is standing in that truth really worth not getting what you want…especially when a better truth exists were you CAN get what you want?

I don’t think so.

Most people don’t know how to easily get what they want

Instead of looking forward to what one wants and talking about that, most people, transgender, trans-attracted or even plain ol’ cis, will complain about what they’re getting. They’ll complain to whoever will listen, and plenty of people exist who will not only listen, but add their own complaints in the mix.

That’s a definite no-no for both parties because in doing that, neither party helps the other get what they want.

^^One trans woman seeks confirmation of her story...

^^And another gives it, thereby reinforcing the unwanted story for herself and her friend. If you want that amazing guy STOP DOING THIS.

It’s fun when a person understands life always shows one what stories are creating what realities. Only people who understand this though can do something about it thereby fulfilling their desires.

But since most people don’t understand this, they don’t know what to do that’s different. They keep doing the same thing over and over, or do things others are doing, thinking just because others are doing it, it will work for them. 🙄

Life is on everyone’s side

What I know is, life is 100 percent faithful to everyone. It is ALWAYS on every person’s side, showing them the sum total of what stories they’re telling. Life gives them plenty of early warning too, so a person understanding this can change a reality well before it becomes…well…reality.

Life is helping the transgender women in these examples above. But they don’t understand how. So they keep doing what they’re doing and getting what they give the most air-time to: opportunity to complain about men who treat them consistent with their stories.

If you, dear reader, want a different (better) love life, or anything else in your life, you must try a better way.

Impatience is not your friend…well…it is, kinda

People (and transpeople particularly) have a distorted perspective relative to results and time. Before any significant time passes they’re impatient and wondering why they’re not getting what they want.

The transgender woman above complains about what she’s getting or rather what she’s not getting, even though she’s only been dating for 12 months. But twelve months is a blink of an eye in universal terms! And yet, people think that’s a long time, then lose their shit when what they want hasn’t come by then.

That’s lunacy!

^^Looks are nice, but you're wanting more than that, I promise. But none of what you want will come easily if you're impatient. (Photo by Jakob Owens on Unsplash)

Life will give anyone what they want, but when a person gets impatient about it, it can’t happen. Why? Because feeling “impatient” tells you you’re giving more air-time to your complaint than your desire. And wherever you put your attention, you get more of that. In this case, putting your attention on having no relationship gives you exactly that: no relationship!

You don’t need options

Men and women think having a selection is a good thing. That’s why so many people are on dating sites. But the Universe will give you exactly what you want without you having to search or select.

You don’t need a “pool” of men. Thinking you need a selection means you don’t believe the Universe and life is on your side. You’re trying to do what life will do for you. And it will do it far easier than if you do it.

That’s why it’s so hard finding a partner, trans girl. Stop trying to do the Universe’s job.

You only need one man (if that’s what you want): that one amazing guy. But if you think you need to find him, or select him from a pool, you’re barking up the wrong tree (to mix metaphors LOL).

This bears repeating: The more you complain about the men you don’t want, the more you’re going to connect with that kind of man. Wanting that amazing man in your life means focusing on him. Not on the men you’re meeting who aren’t that.

It’s no wonder so many trans women have similar dating experiences. Most do the same things, get the same results then complain to each other about what they get.

Don’t be those women. Instead, tell stories about the man you want. Revel in the wonderful things going on in your life. Stay away from transgender women who complain. Then watch how life easily gives you what you want.

This may be hard to hear: It’s not the men that are the problem. It’s how you’re going about getting what you want. Change that up and see what happens.

[michaelsongrace]

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Reiki Chakra Cards

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Key takeaways on Americans’ views of and experiences with dating and relationships

Key takeaways on Americans’ views of and experiences with dating and relationships;

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Dating has always come with challenges. But the advent of dating apps and other new technologies – as well as the #MeToo movement – presents a new set of norms and expectations for American singles looking for casual or committed relationships, according to a recent Pew Research Center survey.

Some 15% of U.S. adults say they are single and looking for a committed relationship or casual dates. Among them, most say they are dissatisfied with their dating lives, according to the survey, which was conducted in October 2019 – before the coronavirus pandemic shook up the dating scene. Here are some additional key findings from the study.

Pew Research Center conducted this study to understand Americans’ attitudes toward and personal experiences with dating and relationships. These findings are based on a survey conducted Oct. 16-28, 2019, among 4,860 U.S. adults. This includes those who took part as members of the Center’s American Trends Panel (ATP), an online survey panel that is recruited through national, random sampling of residential addresses, as well as respondents from the Ipsos KnowledgePanel who indicated that they identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual (LGB).

Recruiting ATP panelists by phone or mail ensures that nearly all U.S. adults have a chance of selection. This gives us confidence that any sample can represent the whole U.S. adult population (see our Methods 101 explainer on random sampling). To further ensure that each ATP survey reflects a balanced cross-section of the nation, the data is weighted to match the U.S. adult population by gender, race, ethnicity, partisan affiliation, education and other categories.

For more, see the report’s methodology about the project. You can also find the questions asked and the answers the public provided in this topline.

Nearly half (47%) of all Americans say dating is harder today than it was 10 years ago. A third of adults (33%) say dating is about the same as it was a decade ago, and 19% say it’s easier. Women are much more likely than men to say dating has gotten harder (55% vs. 39%).

Among those who say dating is harder today, 21% think it is because of increased risk, including physical risks as well as the risk of getting scammed or lied to. Women are twice as likely as men to cite increased risk as a reason why dating is harder (26% vs. 13%).

Other reasons why people think dating is harder include technology (12%), the idea that dating has become more impersonal (10%), the more casual nature of dating today (9%), and changing societal expectations, moral or gender roles (8%).

Technology tops the list of reasons why people think dating has gotten easier in the last decade. Among those who say dating is easier today, 41% point to technology, followed by 29% who say it’s easier to meet people now and 10% who cite changing gender roles and societal expectations.

Most daters don’t feel like their dating life is going well and say it’s been hard to find people to date. Two-thirds of those who are single and looking for a relationship or dates say their dating life is going not too or not at all well (67%), while 33% say it’s going very or fairly well. Majorities of daters across gender, age, race and ethnicity, education, sexual orientation and marital history say their dating life isn’t going well.

Three-quarters of daters say it’s been difficult to find people to date in the past year, according to the pre-coronavirus survey. Among the top reasons cited are finding someone looking for the same type of relationship (53%), finding it hard to approach people (46%) and finding someone who meets their expectations (43%).

Substantial shares of daters also report other obstacles, including the limited number of people in their area (37%), being too busy (34%) and people not being interested in dating them (30%).

A majority (57%) of women – and 35% of men – say they have experienced some kind of harassing behavior from someone they were dating or had been on a date with. Women are much more likely than men to say they have been pressured for sex (42% vs. 19%) or have been touched in a way that made them feel uncomfortable (35% vs. 9%). While the gender gap is smaller, women are also more likely than men to say someone they have been on a date with sent them unwanted sexually explicit images or spread rumors about their sexual history.

Some 42% of women younger than 40 say someone they’ve been on a date with has sent them unwanted sexually explicit images, compared with 26% of men in this age group. And while 23% of women younger than 40 say someone they have been on a date with has spread rumors about their sexual history, 16% of younger men say the same. There is no gender gap on these questions among those older than 40.

Many Americans say an increased focus on sexual harassment and assault has muddied the waters, especially for men, in the dating landscape. A majority of Americans (65%) say the increased focus on sexual harassment and assault over the last few years has made it harder for men to know how to interact with someone they’re on a date with. About one-in-four adults (24%) say it hasn’t made much of a difference, while 9% say it has made things easier for men.

Meanwhile, 43% of Americans say the attention paid to sexual harassment and assault has made it harder for women to know how to interact with someone they’re on a date with, compared with 38% who say it hasn’t made much of a difference and 17% who say it’s easier for women.

Men are more likely than women to think the focus on sexual harassment and assault has made it harder for men to know how to act on dates. Republicans and Republican-leaning independents are more likely than Democrats and Democratic leaners to say this. Older men are also more likely than their younger counterparts to hold this view: Three-quarters of men 50 and older say it’s harder for single-and-looking men to know how to behave, compared with 63% of men younger than 50.

Premarital sex is largely seen as acceptable, but more Americans see open relationships and sex on the first date as taboo. Most adults (65%) say sex between unmarried adults in a committed relationship can be acceptable, and about six-in-ten (62%) say casual sex between consenting adults who aren’t in a committed relationship is acceptable at least sometimes. While men and women have similar views about premarital sex, men are much more likely than women to find casual sex acceptable (70% vs. 55%).

Americans are less accepting of other practices. For example, open relationships – that is, committed relationships where both people agree that it is acceptable to date or have sex with other people – are viewed as never or rarely acceptable by most Americans. About half of adults (48%) say having an open relationship is never acceptable, 20% say it’s rarely acceptable and 32% say it’s sometimes or always acceptable.

When it comes to consenting adults sharing sexually explicit images of themselves, about half of adults (49%) say it is at least sometimes acceptable, while a similar share (50%) say it is rarely or never acceptable. However, there are large age differences in views of this practice. Adults ages 18 to 29 are more than three times as likely as those 65 and older to say this is always or sometimes acceptable (70% vs. 21%). Younger adults are also more likely to say open relationships can be acceptable.

Many singles are open to dating someone who is different from them, but certain characteristics would give some people pause. Distance, debt and voting for Donald Trump top the list of reasons singles looking for a relationship wouldn’t consider a potential partner, but there are other considerations, too. For example, 38% say dating someone 10 years older than them would give them pause, and 36% say the same about dating someone who is raising children from another relationship. Some of those looking for a relationship also say they definitely or probably wouldn’t consider being in a relationship with someone who is a Republican (27% of all daters), someone who voted for Hillary Clinton (26%), someone who practices a different religion (23%) or someone who is a different race or ethnicity (15%). Among daters looking for a relationship who are 28 and older, 27% say they definitely or probably wouldn’t consider a relationship with someone 10 years younger than them.

There are some differences in these attitudes by gender, political party and age. For example, single women looking for a relationship are roughly three times as likely as men to say they wouldn’t consider a relationship with someone who makes significantly less money than them (24% vs. 7%). Republicans are more likely than Democrats to say they probably or definitely wouldn’t consider a committed relationship with someone of a different race or ethnicity (21% vs. 12%). And when it comes to debt, 59% of adults 40 and older say they probably or definitely wouldn’t consider a committed relationship with someone who has significant debt, compared with 41% of people younger than 40.

While meeting partners through personal networks is still the most common kind of introduction, about one-in-ten partnered adults (12%) say they met their partner online. About a third (32%) of adults who are married, living with a partner or are in a committed relationship say friends and family helped them find their match. Smaller shares say they met through work (18%), through school (17%), online (12%), at a bar or restaurant (8%), at a place of worship (5%) or somewhere else (8%).

Meeting online is more common among younger adults and those who live in urban and suburban areas, as well as those who are lesbian, gay or bisexual (LGB). About one-in-five partnered adults ages 18 to 29 (21%) say they met their partner online, compared with 15% or fewer among their older counterparts. And while 28% of partnered LGB adults say they met their partner online, 11% of those who are straight say the same.  

Among those who met their partner online, 61% say they met through a dating app, while 21% met on a social media site or app, 10% met on an online discussion forum, 3% met on a texting or messaging app and 3% through online gaming.  

Half of singles say they aren’t currently looking for a relationship or dates. Among these single non-daters, 47% say a major reason why they aren’t currently looking for a relationship or dates is that they have more important priorities, while 44% say they just like being single. Other factors include being too busy (20%), not having had luck in the past (18%), feeling like no one would be interested in dating them (17%), not being ready to date after losing a spouse or ending a relationship (17%), feeling too old to date (17%) and having health problems that make dating difficult (11%).

While these answers are mostly similar for men and women, there is one notable exception: Male non-daters are about twice as likely as female non-daters to say a major reason they aren’t looking to date is the feeling that no one would be interested in dating them (26% vs. 12%).

There is also some variation by age. For example, 61% of non-daters younger than 50 say that a major reason they aren’t looking to date is that they have more important priorities, compared with 38% of older non-daters. And a quarter of non-daters ages 50 and older – including 30% of those 65 and up – say a major reason is they that feel too old to date.

Note: Here are the questions asked for this report, along with responses, and its methodology.

Amanda Barroso  is a writer/editor focusing on social trends at Pew Research Center.

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A letter to my high school self...

(My femininity, sexuality, and cultural identity has been a little more sensitive lately from outside triggers. The past two weeks I’ve battled internal conflicts of what it means to be a woman, an ally, and a person of color. This all relates to my experiences living abroad and processing any kind of resolution. I realized that a path to moving forward is acknowledging who I used to be, and the person that is evolving now.)

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Dear 17 year old Stef,

You wrote your college Personal Essay based on your experience living with 16 other people under one roof--aside from your immediate family, you shared a home with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins from the motherland. It wasn’t until these last few hours I’ve realized why you likely didn’t get into the schools you wanted to based on said essay.

I, your 31 year old self, along with your mentors and teachers, would all probably agree that it was an engaging topic. Not everyone can relate to that kind of living situation and it was a unique experience with your family. However, your perspective didn’t showcase what you’ve learned from this experience and how it has influenced you for the better. 

You were under the impression that you were entitled to some kind of privilege that you did not have. Not entirely. Not then, anyway. I’m not sure when you became aware of the term “Model Minority” but at some point in high school, you thought this applied to you, especially around the time of college admissions. In some cases, it did. You lived in an affluent neighborhood in a sizable house (granted, it was to accommodate the 17 people under it). Your parents’ dual income made you ineligible for certain financial aid. You attended “California Distinguished” schools. You were eligible for the GATE program in elementary school. You participated in extracurricular activities: Modern Jazz, Filipino folk dancing, Taekwondo, Field Hockey, and Video Production. You had a diverse group of friends. All of these facets definitely contributed to your successes.

However, in other ways this “Model Minority” stereotype didn’t exactly fit you either. You are of South East Asian / Pacific Islander descent. You were born in a developing neighborhood that wasn’t immune from local crime. Your grandparents, relatives, and neighbors looked after you and your brother while your parents worked full time jobs with overtime, picking up very early and very late hours. You were brought up in a Filipino-Hispanic Catholic Church. Let’s be honest, your SAT scores were shit. You didn’t do well in math, science, and US history. You didn’t read a lot (outside of required reading, which is weird because you love to write). You had test anxieties, trouble focusing, and being self-disciplined. You snuck out of the house. You were boy crazy. You shared your body with others who didn’t deserve it. You risked unwanted pregnancy. Your family’s cultural values did not match those of many of your classmates. You were highly depressed, and had suicidal thoughts. Who knows what other mental illnesses you would’ve been diagnosed with if you had looked into it, but that’s no ones fault.

Undoubtedly you have privileges and disadvantages. You’re a smart girl, you were aware of both. I’m proud of the opportunities you’ve seized and the ones you’ve created for yourself. If privilege was a contributing factor to our success, then I’m grateful. But Stef, it’s the minority that you belong to that you’ve suppressed and hidden. I’m glad you’ve adapted and risen to be who you are now. It got us a great job in New Zealand and avenues to explore other cities. You’ve hidden the person you are at heart as well as her voice. You’d be happy to know that person has come out more since high school.

I’m going to share something with you that you don’t realize:  you’re trying to be white. I know. You think I’m wrong. Even 23-30 year old Stef thinks I’m wrong. I don’t blame you. You noticed others around you advancing in ways you thought would be accessible to you as well. Yeah, you kind of dicked around and let responsibilities slip through the cracks. Yet there’s also no denying that you weren’t treated as fairly because of things beyond your control. You’re also aware of others with even lesser opportunities than you, and I appreciate that.

I know that we can’t undo the past. Even if we could, I may not be writing this to you or be where I’m at now. It could be better, it could be worse. I wish I could go back and tell you:   - Don’t be ashamed to check box “Filipino/a” on ethnic censuses (as opposed to “Asian, other than Pacific Islander”) - It’s great that you did activities, like going to the park and pool, with your younger cousins. Also, let them discover American things on their own terms.  - You’ve made mistakes. It’s okay. Don’t let them deter you from your passions.  - Try not to get caught up in comparing yourself to others. You progress at your own pace, and it doesn’t make you any less gifted or capable. In fact, you’ll come to find later that you’re quite weird, which you love about yourself and others love too! - Yeah, I know... Emo, New Wave, and indie rock seem cool. They are fun. So is country and heavy metal. Girl, R&B and Hip Hop are cool too. Don’t be shy to blast your Blaque, Luniz, and Aaliyah CDs (ProTip: 90s and early 2000′s R&B makes a HUGE comeback. It’s kind of obnoxious, really). And guess what, later you DJ the type of music you grew up on! Pretty neat, right? Also, your love for The Carpenters and the like never dies. You still slay at Karaoke, too (hint: Bjork).  - Boys are scum. Some men you meet later are worse. They come inside you without permission. They make crude comments about how you look. They force themselves on you. They make assumptions about you and your sexuality. Some women aren’t too great either. I don’t know how to protect you from them. I’m sorry. I’m so so sorry. Hang in there. You do meet some very good ones. You really challenge them, though. They’ll come through for you. More importantly, you’ll come through for yourself. - Cut your parents some slack. Know they’re cutting you some slack, too. You love them. It doesn’t feel like it, especially at 17, but they love the shit out of you.  - Speaking of parents, there comes a point in your adulthood where you just start to figure things out. This is later coined as, “adulting.” Note: it’s nowhere near the same as your parents’ version. So don’t get caught in with their expectations on you as an adult either. I think they end up coming around anyway. It almost doesn’t matter what Mom and Dad did or didn’t tell you. Ironically, you’re not keen on learning but you’re pretty damn good at it when you want to. (Also, “keen” is a word you pick up in NZ).  - Your family was relentless in spending time together, despite how crazy they drove you and vice versa. I know... Cherish it. - Friends will come and go. Some are gone forever, indefinitely, or come back. Value all of your friendships. And don’t be friends with just “westernized” ones.  - Pay attention to politics. You don’t always have to participate, but be aware of what’s going on around you. You’ll see that it affects the people and communities you care about deeply. - It’s okay to value yourself. Care for yourself. Love yourself. (It’s not always easy, but you do).

I’m proud to say that you’ve consistently been a real individual. You have a uniqueness about you and please try to accept that. Looking back on your Personal Essay, I know how living with 16 members of your family influenced you. You develop a deep care for your personal identity and those similar to you. You appreciate trips back to the Philippines more, and find ways to connect a little more with the family who live there. You empathize / sympathize with various minority groups in their struggles for equality and visibility in the world. You love your family more and slowly find ways to re-connect with them. Ultimately, you’ve helped me stay true to us and appreciate our Southern Californian, Filipina-American roots. I hold onto the things we love dearly. It helps me translate our perspective into other countries and how we relate to the local citizens, immigrants, and (especially) indigenous groups.  Stef, we’re totally doing okay. We may not have gotten into a top university, but we fucking kill it at the school of life.

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about my roxxon verse (not my canon version of her home life)  abuse tw

-here some headcanons/connections to canon facts/lines that become shady in this context  (there would be of course differences in her behavior during the canon seasons if I talk about the verse where her parents are in charge of Roxxon, but not necessarily in the version where they are only abusive and dangerous to HER. I use v. Roxxon for both versions to help people blacklist it, but in this post to make things more clear Roxxon is only referring to the verse where she was experimented on and saved by SHIELD. If I don't specify anything I'm talking about things that are true in both)

* she finds comfort in touch instead of escaping from it it. When someone else is upset she attempts touch as a response too because it works for her

* Fitz is a very NON threatening person to her, he could do anything right next to her and she wouldn't flinch.  * what is personal space * exaggerated sense of guilt and responsibility  * believes in good and evil and in punishing bad behavior, especially when it’s her own 

* can't lie well, lies were very 'discouraged' by her mother ; she can act very well, and she did for years. she’s often even scared when tasked to lie, rational or not

* "I like following the rules and doing what's expected of me. It makes me feel nice" * "what do you think of your first time skydiving?" "honestly, I'd rather not think about it anymore" one of her many methods of copying is avoidance. Distracting others. It doesn't always work, but she already knew how to deal with traumas that way. She did it her whole life. 

* "How is Simmons?" "Amazingly resilient. You'd never know she almost died" "experiences like that take a while to sink in" but it never really shows - because, again, Jemma has been there before. Also reason why after being tortured by Giyera she's equally resilient and nonchalant. * she knows far too much about tending people's wounds and her own from the very beginning without a medical training * she minimizes the importance of her feelings unless it’s science-related, the one field where she feels in control and where not being listened to can cause suffering to others; she also tries to minimize everything about her situation with her family or escapes discussions about her problems, while simultaneously trying to give hints that she needs help. Usually ends up refusing to break even when alone and giving up on communicating. 

* she will close off/snap if questioned about her mother unless she initiates the topic or she has no choice but to answer  * in the verses where she was ‘only’ emotionally and physically abused by mother and brother, nobody knows * she is tempted to talk to other abuse victims about it, but ends up believing that it would bring all the attention on her and doesn’t want to make it about herself    * she forgets to take care of herself when more important things are happening. like work. * she's tearing up the second Ward, under the Berseker influence, starts raising his voice, and it gets worse when he gets in Fitz's personal space, smiling in a non-threatening way, it’s hard to notice at first - she's not good at handling men yelling at her (due to her brother, while with her brother himself she baits him and fights as a panicked go-to reaction) but even worse at watching someone she loves in a similar threatened position, her protective instincts show up, and being unable to act hurts 

* even in verses where she told them she’s a party planner, every now and then they call her to question her about things that are happening in the world  * still learning what's appropriate and what's not. Finds too disturbingly easy to talk about cutting people open or discussing how soldiers have been experimented on (Fitz tells her not to sound too happy about it, Skye tells her they could just ask Randolf how long he's been on Earth, 'weirdo'.) In both versions but particularly in Roxxon she'd never experiment on anyone, but for her learning how bad her past was is still a work in progress

* her relationship with her father is all kinds of complicated. He was never able to say no to his wife, but he is attached to his daughters in his own way, especially the youngest. Though Jemma does have a special place in his heart, they shared a few good memories, and Jemma still answers his calls. In Roxxon, when his wife decided it was time to start testing, he and Jemma agreed that he'd protect his youngest daughter, Cat, and she'd cooperate. * she wants Coulson to tell her father she died before he'd tell her mother in FZZT because she's afraid that her mother won't even tell him or be very brutal in the delivery of the news * mix of wanting to be a perfect soldier and being extremely defiant when in disagreement with authority, nobody can make her do anything she doesn’t want to do  * scared by unwanted and mysterious changes in bodies (not only due to FZZT but in the Roxxon verse also because she doesn’t KNOW what her mother did to her) * in the Roxxon verse she’s not sure she actually had scoliosis   * instant hatred when anyone reminds of her mother or brother, or for whom hurts the people she wants to protect - her ability to feel empathy can completely disappear in these cases

* her ability to feel empathy usually goes from one extreme to the other, in fact  * high endurance of pain, particularly in the Roxxon verse * attitude towards Ward is very verse-dependent because the slightest changes can completely transform her attitude: it could be pure hatred and fear because he reminds her of what she could have been, or could still be, and because he betrayed Fitz who is her everything (platonically and non), or it could be understanding because she had a Fitz and he had a Garrett * in Roxxon verses, they could have stopped her from joining SHIELD but didn’t because they want her there. She also left one year before joining the academy for therapy and rehab, and her sister was relocated elsewhere. The calls with her father also made sure that nobody would go after Catherine. Only Fury and a few more people knew about her situation. In the verses where her memories have been rewritten, she only remembers emotional abuse but not the experiments, but SHIELD has files on it. It’s also verse-dependent. * willing to let loved ones put work before her * terrified of becoming her mother * lowkey looking for a mother figure who loves her (usually looks up to May)

* paralyzing fear when dealing with her mother in Roxxon verses, but in general she has a hard time speaking back to her unless it’s to defend another * will end up challenging everybody else who wants to hurt her like she does with her brother

* still learning how to behave in groups - life in the lab with Fitz was ‘safe’, and she was ready for more after almost a decade in it. in Roxxon verses, she’s also trying to make up for the hurt her parents caused using her inventions (even before she knows her mother is the one really in charge, not her father) - Centipede having grenades that had a dendrotoxin like the one Jemma developed for the ICERs was not a coincidence  * s2 was devastating for her in many ways. She felt she failed Fitz, but also it confirmed some of her beliefs about herself - being told her change was scary was one of the things that shook her the most. (it’s also usually the season where most threads are set)  * her mother in Roxxon had connections with Hydra and definitely wanted to use Hive once he’d be back, but even when that failed she had all sorts of backup plans to gain complete power. One of her people in SHIELD is behind the Monolith’s glass enclosure being open when Jemma studies it 

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Bridging the gender divide in commercial real estate

Barbara Liberatore Black’s rise to managing director of JLL’s South Florida office was not an easy one. Currently the only female executive in her office, Black was also one of the first women in commercial real estate in Miami.

She got her start doing tenant representation for Julien J. Studley Inc., the precursor to Savills Studley, in 1981. “I was the only female tenant adviser for years,” Black said. Before securing that gig, she’d tried to get her foot in the door elsewhere, to no avail. 

“If you were a man today, I would hire you,” an interviewer told her, reasoning that as a woman who was going to get married, she wouldn’t have the time for the job. Instead, he offered Black a secretarial position. She turned it down.

Times have clearly changed, but in the wake of the allegations of sexual harassment and assault by Harvey Weinstein — and the many similar charges against high-profile men that followed, including starchitect Richard Meier — several, if not all, industries are facing profound questions about company culture and fairness.

However, many women in South Florida’s commercial real estate industry are not seeing a major push to close the gender gap. They say the #MeToo movement hasn’t kicked off the kinds of productive conversations it was intended to inspire. Rather, many male colleagues are “now afraid to say hello” to women, Carol Brooks, co-founder of the brokerage Continental Real Estate Companies (CREC), said. “It’s coming more from a place of their own self-preservation. It’s interesting to see how men are reacting; it’s more fear than compassion or anything,” she said.

The Real Deal examined the male and female representation of agents working for South Florida’s top five commercial brokerages (determined by the dollar volume of sales and leases as reported by the South Florida Business Journal) by analyzing broker license data filed with the state as of Feb. 23. Marcus & Millichap had the lowest percentage of female agents in the tri-county region of Miami-Dade, Broward and Palm Beach counties, with 18 percent.

Lori Schneider, senior managing director of investments at Marcus & Millichap, said she thinks the firm has fewer women than the others because the company focuses only on investment sales, which takes time and money “until you establish yourself.” Women typically have less of both than men, she said. Leasing, on the other hand, often provides agents with a crucial base salary.

CBRE had the highest percentage of women agents, with 39.8 percent, and JLL closely followed with the second highest representation of women, 38.6 percent, according to TRD’s analysis.

Both CBRE and JLL recently won industry awards for their gender inclusion. CBRE, where three of the firm’s board members are women, received the Diversity & Inclusion Award from the Mortgage Bankers Association in February. In March, JLL was named one of the National Association for Female Executives’ “Top Companies for Executive Women.”

CBRE and JLL’s numbers of female brokers in South Florida are better than national averages. The Commercial Real Estate Women (CREW) Network Benchmark study conducted in 2015 — the most recent data set of its kind that’s available — showed that only 23 percent of leasing and sales brokers in the U.S. were women in 2015. But that number was up from 20 percent five years earlier. Between 2010 and 2015, women went from representing 32 percent of the total commercial real estate workforce to 36 percent nationwide. The subsector with the highest concentration of women was property management, with 51 percent of the asset, property and facilities management workforce female, up from 47 percent in 2010.

And while the CREW research found that women made 23.3 percent less than men in the field in 2015, all of the women contacted for this story had a different experience. Female brokers said that because most positions are commission-based, the wage gap isn’t much of an issue. “The good news about that is a woman who is driven can be equal or better [than a man], and she will get paid,” Black said. “I think this is one of the few careers where women get equal pay.”

The achievement gap

Although there’s been progress in overall male-to-female ratios, the gender gap is still quite vast when it comes to women in leadership positions. CREW’s 2015 study found that only 9 percent of the women who were surveyed held executive roles, compared to 17 percent of the men who participated in the study.

The industry is also facing an aspirational gap between men and women. Forty percent of men surveyed by CREW said they wanted C-suite positions compared to only 28 percent of women. And once men had between six and 10 years of experience, they rose through the ranks at a faster pace than women, the report found.

“Men are much more vocal than women. When you don’t speak up and you don’t ask for the job, you don’t get it,” said Sara Hernandez, president of CREW-Miami.

  Women developers are also lacking in the industry because the field requires a track record and capital, said Avra Jain, a commercial developer in Miami’s MiMo, Little Haiti, Miami River and Overtown neighborhoods.

“When I first came down to Miami [17 years ago] and I walked into a meeting to buy a piece of property, the broker kept talking to the man next to me,” Jain said.

The perils of after-hour events

“‘Welcome to the company. I Googled you hoping to find some bikini shots online,’” Pauldine France, vice president of strategic investments at FIP Commercial, recalled a man saying on her first day at a new job. “I once had a COO I ran into at a party who was trying to get me drunk to take me home. His wife was at the same party,” she added.

Most women in the industry who were contacted for this story agreed that there’s been some progress in hiring more women, but the presence of some bad actors remains a big issue.

France got her start in 2003 as a brand ambassador for Tony Cho when he launched Metro 1 Properties. She was later a financial adviser at Morgan Stanley, then worked for Shawmut Design and Construction in New York, Thor Equities in Miami and, more recently, spent a year working for RKF, also in Miami.

France is, as she describes herself, a “six-foot-tall black chick with green eyes.” She’s faced more than her share of unwanted attention, she told TRD. “I’m used to people looking at me. In commercial real estate, I am a unicorn of a unicorn,” she said. “I’ve had inappropriate, ‘let me take you home’ comments.”

The necessity of after-hours networking doesn’t help things. Going to nightclubs, strip clubs and bars is still a way to get deals done in Miami, sources said. There’s also still a lot of golfing.

“Half of these guys just want to party, and the business facilitates partying” said Mika Mattingly, executive vice president of Colliers International South Florida.

Some women push themselves to head to the golf course or boozy networking events even when it’s uncomfortable. CBRE’s Carol Ellis-Cutler, first vice president of advisory and tenant services in Miami, attended a conference earlier this year where she was one of a handful of women out of a crowd of 800. She later attended the golfing event, where she was the only woman — alongside 32 men.

However, Ellis-Cutler and Arden Karson, senior managing director of CBRE South Florida, both said they also use their gender to their advantage. “Being the only woman at the table, they love that,” Karson said, referencing her male colleagues. She squeezed her way into a dinner during a CRE Finance Council event because she wanted to do business with the group.

“I was the only woman out of 20 people, and they all wanted to sit with me,” Karson said, noting that the extra attention she received was not inappropriate. The men, she said, just wanted to speak to a woman because it was “a refreshing change.”

Men can be more inclined to share information with women, some female brokers said. But that too can have its downside. There’s a fine line between being “approachable and nice” and being “firm,” France said. “You have to deliver this coolness while still keeping that meter stick in front of them,” she said. “Nine out of 10 times, ‘super cool’ can become ‘I can make comments about your new push-up bra.’”

Mentoring the next generation

When considering ways to resolve some of these murky issues, many women said that mentoring a new generation of female brokers is the most important work that needs to be done. And South Florida’s a good place for that: A number of women in leadership roles in commercial real estate own their own companies or work for women who do.

Brooks, of CREC, got her start working in the corporate real estate lending department at Southeast Bank and moved on to the Continental Companies, where she was director of the commercial office leasing department. In the late ‘80s, she considered working at other brokerages and said, “Screw that, I’ll start my own company.”

At that company, a boutique commercial firm she co-founded with Warren Weiser, 51 percent of its 120 employees are female. Two of its six partners are women, and half of its department heads are women. More than 60 percent of CREC’s property managers are women, and 26 percent of the company’s brokers are women. “There are just such high barriers to entry otherwise, so we’ve created our own system,” Brooks said.

Her approach to nurturing female talent development has paid off in the eyes of Sabrina Stimming. Brooks mentored Stimming, who started as an executive assistant and was promoted to marketing assistant, then marketing director. An opening appeared in retail leasing, and now Stimming is director of retail leasing and a partner at CREC. She believes that had she started her career at a traditional brokerage like a CBRE, “it’s probably not likely I would be a head of a department there.”

“If you look around at other firms in our industry, the only women you see in any sort of leadership positions are women who form their own companies,” Stimming added.

Without a mentor, Collier’s Mattingly developed her own strategy for success that many women in the industry adopt: Be the best at the job. She’d pick a neighborhood or area and become an expert on it. “I picked Sunset Harbour, which I liked at the time, and I farmed the fuck out of it,” she said. 

From Metro 1, where Mattingly started in 2006 as a commercial associate, she went to Sterling Equity Commercial, where she’d “transact all day off-market, but no one would trust me with big listings.” She eventually represented Moishe Mana in nearly all of his acquisitions in downtown Miami’s Flagler District, which to date has totaled $267 million on 1 million square feet of building space and eight acres of land.

In 2016, Mattingly joined Colliers and is building her team out of an office in downtown Miami. Although it’s not her own company, it’s clear that she’s running her own operation out of the ground-floor retail space on Flagler Street. She said she’s teaching her team to become neighborhood experts, as she did, by learning every property and zoning before they start selling.

Tere Blanca, founder, chairman and CEO of Blanca Commercial Real Estate, also wants to nurture female talent. She left Cushman & Wakefield to start her own firm in 2008 and is responsible for mentoring everyone in the 22-person office, including a few female agents. In her view, the lack of women in the field may stem from them just not knowing about it. “I don’t think a lot of young women understand the opportunities that exist in the industry,” she said.

Ellis-Cutler and some of her colleagues at CREW-Miami introduced themselves to a group of high school girls by telling them, “We don’t sell single-family homes. We can sell the entire multifamily building.”

CBRE created its Women’s Network in 2000; it now has 3,500 members nationwide and hosts quarterly events. The gender gap at CBRE and other major commercial brokerage persists, but Karson acknowledged that the firm’s numbers are going up.

Forging ahead

While women in commercial real estate today see some struggles and disparities, JLL’s Black said the industry has grown to include more women since she got her start in the early ‘80s. “The one thing I’ve noticed is that women feel more empowered to say to their peers or their managers, ‘Hey, that was an off-color joke’ or ‘I didn’t really like the way you said that about me.’ Women are using their voice now to explain that it’s not right,” she said.

However, Black sees two areas where female representation is lacking: tenant advisory and capital markets, both of which are especially profitable sectors of the business. “That’s predominantly still occupied by men, but in time that will change,” she said.

Jain is also optimistic about closing the gender gap in development.

“We’re starting to see more women take on those roles within their families and more women who want to be developers,” Jain said.

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Seeking addiction treatment together in a Madison Alabama rehab for couples can be useful for a variety of aspects, particularly when both partners are committed to the relationship and to winding up being neat and sober. Providing that both partners are willing to start the healing procedure, couples rehab can help not simply break the cycle of addiction, nevertheless likewise strengthen the relationship by helping the couple to have a look at and alter the issues that caused their addiction in the real top place.

Couples who are addicted to drugs or alcohol routinely experience difficulties with setting borders, exposing feelings, choosing, parenting, and handling funds. Couples rehab offers education, capabilities, training, and treatment to help partners to attain enhanced techniques of handling these concerns. Even if merely one partner has an addiction, the other partner can get from couples rehab by discovering to manage particular triggers and helping the other stay sober.1 Whether one or both partners require addiction treatment, specialized couples rehab teaches the tools needed to remove barriers, avoid relapse, and accomplish long-lasting healing.

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The possible result is a lasting recovery, and a much healthier, much better, and substance abuse-free relationship.

In addition to the basic treatments for drug abuse, individuals in couples rehab can expect to focus on the health of their relationship. Particular treatment is essential for handling the substance abuse concern, nevertheless, might neglect or place a lower focus on related issues. Integrating relationship treatment and drug abuse treatment in couples rehab handles the problem from all angles, which can utilize the outright best possibilities for recovery and for restoring the relationship. Couples alcohol and drug rehab likewise provide a structure for life after treatment, as the couple may deal with the uncharted place when they both start living neat and sober lives.

Madison, Alabama Couples rehab can be either inpatient or outpatient or a mix in which one partner is dealt with as an inpatient and the other goes to sessions as an outpatient. The format you pick depends primarily on your special requirements as a couple and whether one or both partners are fighting with a substance abuse issue.

Throughout the course of inpatient treatment, the specific coping drug or alcohol addiction lives at a residential drug rehab center, whereas outpatient rehab permits the customer to continue residing in your house while getting treatment at the center. No matter the format, medical research study reveals that partners who participate in couples rehab for drugs or alcohol together report a greater degree of staying away, greater levels of overall satisfaction with the relationship, and much better operating within your house than couples who just pick specific addiction treatment.

Looking after drug abuse issues with the specific tools and strategies utilized in couples rehab allows you both to focus on acquiring sobriety and repairing and reinforcing your relationship. The prospective outcome is a long-lasting healing, and a much healthier, better, and compound abuse-free relationship.

 Fighting Addiction in A Relationship

Relationships where both members of the couple use drugs are truly routine. The National Abandoned Infants Assist Resource Center talks about that, in particular, ladies who make use of drugs or alcohol are more than 2 times as most likely as men to have a partner who is similarly a compound abuser.

The relationship itself can be harmed by this drug abuse, even if the couple is committed to making the relationship work. Based upon details from the American Association for Marital Relationship and Household Treatment, indications of trouble for the relationship consist of:

Drug abuse or drinking is the only thing the partners enjoy doing together.

Substance usage activates domestic violence on the part of one or both partners.

The partners require to be intoxicated or high to expose love or go over the relationship.

The partners ignore normal jobs, such as household tasks or childcare.

These problems establish on top of the unfavorable results that develop for each person, making complex substance abuse and typically causing increased abuse. When this gets to be extreme, one partner may pick to search for treatment.

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 Drug Withdrawal Symptoms: What to Expect

The symptoms of drug withdrawal and the length of that withdrawal differ depending upon the drug of abuse and the length of the addiction. These are a couple of withdrawal signs and timelines for significant targets of abuse:

Heroin and prescription painkillers: flu-like symptoms lasting an average of 5 days

Benzodiazepines: anxiety and/or seizures lasting weeks or (sometimes) months

Drug: anxiety and restlessness enduring 7-10 days

Alcohol: tremors and/or seizures lasting 3 days to a number of weeks

The seriousness and duration of withdrawal is affected by the level of reliance on the substance and a few other factors, including:

Length of time abusing the drugs

Kind of substance mistreated

The technique of abuse (e.g., snorting, smoking cigarettes, injecting, or swallowing).

Quantity took each time.

Family history and hereditary makeup.

Medical and mental health aspects.

Dealing with Dual Medical Diagnosis As A Couple

Many people detected with a compound use disorder (SUD) likewise suffer from a co-occurring psychological health or behavioral condition. This is referred to as a dual diagnosis. Individuals with a dual medical diagnosis require an integrated treatment plan that resolves both disorders as interconnected psychological health issues.

“According to the National Survey on Substance Abuse and Health (NSDUH), 45 percent of individuals with addiction have a co-occurring psychological health condition.“

By seeking treatment for addiction and a co-occurring behavioral or mental health condition, you will stand the very best chances of successfully obtaining the fulfilling, healthy life you are worthy of.

Types of Mental Health Issues and Addiction

There are a number of mental health and behavioral conditions that consistently provide themselves together with addiction. Usually, these conditions are the covert aspect of an addiction. That’s why it is needed to never ignore the indications of a mental health or behavioral condition when it relates to a person’s long lasting addiction healing strategy.

Common psychological health conditions connected to substance abuse consist of the following:

Attention-deficit hyperactive condition (ADHD). People with attention deficit disorder (ADHD) might be more likely to abuse compounds as a strategy to deal with their indicators. Good deals of individuals are advised stimulants to treat their ADHD, which can be habit-forming and activate a harmful pattern of substance abuse.

Bipolar  About half of individuals with the bipolar affective condition also fight with addiction. Similar to any other condition, it can be fascinating self-medicate. Alcohol and drugs provide a source of short-term relief from mental situations and manic episodes for people with bipolar.

Borderline Character Condition. Research study research studies have actually exposed that addiction and borderline character condition (BPD) normally happen together. Over two-thirds of people with BPD have actually really turned towards substance abuse at some time in their lives.

Stress and anxiety. An estimated one in 10 adults in the United States has actually reported struggling with depression. Good deals of individuals linked to tension and stress and stress and anxiety effort to self-medicate with drugs or alcohol. This usually makes the issue even worse. The crash after the high can be wrecking for those with a pre-existing depressive condition.

Consuming Issues. Consuming conditions generally come from strong feelings of inability. Drugs that lower cravings are especially normal among people with these conditions.

Generalized Tension And Anxiety Condition (GAD). The most regular mental condition in the U.S., generalized stress and stress and anxiety condition (GAD) results 18 percent of the adult population. People who cope GAD may be more than likely to abuse alcohol and drugs to handle their indications. People may likewise abuse benzodiazepines, which are very addictive prescription medications made use to manage stress and tension and tension and anxiety conditions.

Compulsive Condition. Compulsive Condition (OCD) triggers a variety of unwanted fixations and fascinations, such as an unreasonable concern of germs and the requirement to continuously tidy. There are various variations of this health issue. People with OCD usually experience tension and tension and stress and anxiety and tension and anxiety as a result of their unrestrained behavior, which can cause drug abuse.

Injury. When a specific establish trauma (PTSD) their brain produces fewer endorphins than a healthy brain, making them more than likely to turn towards alcohol or drugs to rejoice. According to the U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs, almost 75 percent of soldiers and veterans who experience an awful or violent occasion throughout fight report duplicated alcoholic abuse.

Schizophrenia. Schizophrenia is identified by hallucinations and delusional thinking. Identifying schizophrenia in addition to an addiction can be tough given that both conditions share the specific very same results. When a person has schizophrenia and utilizes compounds as a technique to self-medicate their condition, the risk of putting their health even more at risk.

Exploring Residential Treatment Programs For Couples

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A Madison Alabama couples sober living homes are substance-free living environments for people in recovery from drug and alcohol addiction. These kinds of houses differ from rehab centers. These houses are normally found in tranquil neighborhoods, similar to a typical house. People who reside in a sober living house can usually continue as they please as long as they follow curfew and guidelines and policies. Locals are usually needed to take random drug tests to ensure sobriety. Individuals who live in sober homes are expected to be responsible for themselves, spend for the lease, and purchase and prepare their own food, similar to if they were living in a regular home.

Comprehending how to live sober independently is an important part of the recovery treatment. Most of the addicted people have an enabler in their life who would normally do these things for them. Managing this enabler made it so they never ever required to find how to live separately and take dedication for their actions. Sober living houses require a specific level of obligation from their locals and make it possible for possibilities for particular development.

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Safe and sober living environment

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Clean slate

When you try to find an addiction treatment program, it pays to comprehend aftercare services each center uses. Throughout the healing treatment, the quality and period of aftercare services can make a substantial difference in your possibilities for lasting success.

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When the couple has, in fact, ended rehab, and the partners are managing to heal together, they can provide each other with an outstanding source of support for future barriers. With dedication, they can keep each other on track, help each other prevent triggers and yearnings, and encourage one another about the tools and abilities discovered in rehab. An obstacle might occur if among the partners does relapse, as this makes it likely that the other partner will relapse too. Nonetheless, with continued involvement in aftercare programs and a peer support group, the couple should have the capability to steer through these barriers and continue in recovery.

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It feels like 1991 all over again.

That year, Clarence Thomas was nominated by President George H.W. Bush to the Supreme Court, and Anita Hill testified that he had sexually harassed her when they worked together several years prior. Sen. Joe Biden, then the chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee, failed to call additional witnesses whose testimony could have supported Hill’s account. Thomas has now served on the Supreme Court for nearly 30 years.

Today, the details are different but the basic outline is eerily similar. In July, Christine Blasey Ford reported to Democrats in Congress that Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh tried to sexually assault her when they were both in high school. He has denied the allegation. On September 16, Ford came forward under her name in an interview with the Washington Post.

Sen. Dianne Feinstein (D-CA), the ranking Democrat on the Judiciary Committee, knew about the allegation but declined to share it with the other Democrats on the committee, according to Ronan Farrow and Jane Mayer at the New Yorker. So it didn’t come up during Kavanaugh’s confirmation hearings.

Hill addressed the allegations against Kavanaugh on September 14, saying through a spokesperson that “the reluctance of someone to come forward demonstrates that even in the #MeToo era, it remains incredibly difficult to report harassment, abuse or assault by people in power.” She added that “the Senate Judiciary Committee should put in place a process that enables anyone with a complaint of this nature to be heard.”

Now the news is out, and the question is whether 2018 will be a replay of 1991. The past year, of course, has seen the rise of the #MeToo movement, as more and more Americans come forward to report sexual harassment and assault. Some of those accused — though not all — have faced significant consequences, including the loss of their jobs or, in a few cases, criminal prosecution.

But the outcome of the allegations against Kavanaugh will be a profound test of the power of #MeToo. Before the movement began, a Supreme Court nominee could be publicly accused of sexual misconduct and — due in part to the inaction of Democrats in Congress — be confirmed anyway. So far, Kavanaugh’s confirmation process has unfolded in much the same way Thomas’s did. We’re about to find out if the result will be the same.

Ford told the Post that she wrote a letter in July to her Congress member, Rep. Anna Eshoo (D-CA), alleging that when she and Kavanaugh were in high school in the early 1980s, he attempted to sexually assault her at a party. Kavanaugh attended Georgetown Preparatory School in Bethesda, Maryland, and graduated in 1983, while Ford went to a neighboring school.

At the party, Ford said Kavanaugh held her down and covered her mouth with his hand. She said she feared for her life, and that the experience affected her for years, contributing to symptoms of anxiety and PTSD.

“I categorically and unequivocally deny this allegation,” Kavanaugh said in a statement to the New Yorker. “I did not do this back in high school or at any time.”

Feinstein also received the letter, Farrow and Mayer report, but declined to share it with her fellow Democrats on the Judiciary Committee. “A source familiar with the committee’s activities said that Feinstein’s staff initially conveyed to other Democratic members’ offices that the incident was too distant in the past to merit public discussion, and that Feinstein had ‘taken care of it,’” Farrow and Mayer write.

After contacting Eshoo and Feinstein, the woman apparently stopped trying to speak out. “She had repeatedly reported the allegation to members of Congress and, watching Kavanaugh move toward what looked like an increasingly assured confirmation, she decided to end her effort to come forward,” Farrow and Mayer write.

Her report might never have seen the light of day, had Ryan Grim of the Intercept not reported on the existence of the letter on September 12. After more details came to light in the New Yorker, some progressive groups are calling for Kavanaugh to withdraw his nomination. Meanwhile, Sen. Chuck Grassley (R-IA), the chair of the Judiciary Committee, released a letter from 65 women who knew Kavanaugh in high school saying that he “behaved honorably and treated women with respect.”

After hearings in early September, during which Kavanaugh offered evasive answers to questions about abortion rights, affirmative action, and other subjects, his confirmation seemed all but assured. It remains to be seen whether the newly revealed allegations will meaningfully change things.

Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas in 2007. Aude Guerrucci (Pool)/Getty Images

What is clear is that the parallels between Kavanaugh’s case and that of Clarence Thomas are striking. In 1991, after Thomas was nominated, Hill told friends that he had harassed her when she worked for him at the Department of Education and the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, as Amanda Terkel notes at HuffPost. Specifically, Hill said that Thomas had repeatedly subjected her to unwanted sexual comments, telling her about porn he watched and his sexual behavior, and making a joke about a pubic hair on a Coke can.

Biden had heard about the allegations but did not delay the Judiciary Committee’s vote on Thomas. It was only after the vote, Terkel writes, that Hill was identified in the press, and, under pressure from women in Congress, Biden reopened hearings to allow Hill to testify.

But Biden reportedly caved to Senate Republicans on a number of aspects of the hearing process. He let Thomas testify before and after Hill, including at 9 pm on a Friday when many Americans would be watching, Terkel writes. And as Farrow and Mayer note (Mayer co-authored a 1994 book with Jill Abramson on the Thomas confirmation hearings), three women were willing to testify in support of Hill’s account, but Biden failed to call them.

Last year, former Rep. Pat Schroeder (D-CO) recalled what happened when she complained to Biden that Thomas’s hearings were being rushed. “He literally kind of pointed his finger and said, you don’t understand how important one’s word was in the Senate, that he had given his word to [Sen. John Danforth (R-MO), Thomas’s chief sponsor] in the men’s gym that this would be a very quick hearing, and he had to get it out before Columbus Day,” she told the Washington Post.

Hill had to face testimony before the Senate Judiciary Committee that she was an “erotomaniac” and lies about her in the press. The American Spectator called her “a little bit nutty and a little bit slutty.”

Race also became a factor in the hearings, with Thomas calling them “a high-tech lynching for uppity blacks,” as Victoria M. Massie noted for Vox in 2016. Meanwhile, Hill has asked, “how do you think certain people would have reacted if I had come forward and been white, blond-haired and blue-eyed?” Thomas was confirmed and sits on the Court to this day.

Calls have been coming for months to revisit Hill’s reports in the context of #MeToo. In a cover story for New York magazine earlier this year, Jill Abramson suggested that perhaps Thomas should be impeached for lying under oath about his conduct toward Hill. In an interview on Last Week Tonight this summer, Hill said “I’m feeling more optimistic than I was 27 years ago” and that harassers “should be terrified” of facing a reckoning.

But now the country faces a test of how much has really changed. Like Biden, Feinstein was apparently unwilling to investigate allegations against a nominee aggressively, though her reasons appear somewhat different.

“Sources familiar with Feinstein’s decision suggested that she was acting out of concern for the privacy of the accuser, knowing that the woman would be subject to fierce partisan attacks if she came forward,” Farrow and Mayer write. “Feinstein also acted out of a sense that Democrats would be better off focussing on legal, rather than personal, issues in their questioning of Kavanaugh.”

On September 14, a Feinstein spokesperson issued a statement to media telling a somewhat different version of events. “The Senator took these allegations seriously and believed they should be public,” the statement said. “However, the woman in question made it clear she did not want this information to be public. It is critical in matters of sexual misconduct to protect the identity of the victim when they wish to remain anonymous, and the senator did so in this case.”

Feinstein later said that she had tried to find ways of investigating the matter without revealing Ford’s identity. And Ford’s lawyer, Debra Katz, told the Post that she believed Feinstein had respected Ford’s desire for confidentiality, but that “regrettably others did not.”

Whatever the case, as Vox’s Zack Beauchamp notes, if confirmed, Kavanaugh could cast the deciding vote to overturn Roe v. Wade and would surely be an influential voice in a number of decisions affecting women’s rights. If he tried to assault a woman, even years ago, and if he is lying about that now, that information is highly pertinent to his ability to respect women’s equality and autonomy in his decisions.

If Farrow and Mayer’s reporting is correct, Feinstein apparently acted in a way that, even given her reported concern for the accuser, feels very 1991. She seems to have been banking on the idea that drawing attention to the allegations against Kavanaugh would be a losing move for Democrats. Essentially, she appears to have been betting against #MeToo, figuring that the power of public outcry against sexual misconduct would be too weak a weapon against the nominee. We’re about to find out if she was right.

So far, it has been hard to measure the impact of #MeToo. We can point to the firings of high-profile men, but it’s more difficult to tell how values and attitudes in the country are changing. But now, senators are hurtling toward a chance either to send a man accused of attempted sexual assault to the Supreme Court or to decide that such allegations disqualify him from one of the highest offices in the country, one that would give him the power to make decisions with life-or-death consequences for Americans.

In the coming days, Republicans and Democrats will surely weigh how their constituents will view their action — or inaction — on Kavanaugh’s confirmation. Where they come down will say a lot about what’s changed, and what hasn’t, since 1991.

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5 Ways We Teach Rape Culture in Schools

How do we teach sexual consent in schools? You’ll probably say, “Well, we don’t teach it,” which is mostly true. Most schools don’t have consent written into their curriculum.

But here’s the thing: There is no neutral when we talk about sexual consent. By not actively working to undo the damaging messages of our culture, we are passively supporting them. In fact, many of them show up in the policies and cultural norms that we enforce.

I was thinking about this recently because a group of legitimately kick-ass people here in Minnesota is pushing for legislation that would require consent education in K-12 classes. Their effort is based on some of the affirmative-consent education that has spread in higher-ed institutions, and seeks to make it part of a healthy, comprehensive sex-ed experience.

The more I thought about what consent education looks like now in schools, the sadder and madder I got. Just because it’s not written into our curriculum doesn’t mean we aren’t sending constant and strong messages about consent, and they aren’t great.

When we choose to have no curriculum or plan for teaching consent, these are the messed up lessons we teach our kids instead.

Bad Lesson 1: Touching someone means you are sexually attracted to them.

This weekend, I was out at a coffee shop, and watched as a young girl, maybe 2 years old, walked up to the man in front of her and put her hand on his knee. The girl’s mom said to him, “Oh, looks like she’s got a crush on you.”

Like, I get that’s a thing that we do, but I think it’s weird.

I think it’s super weird, and we do it all the time, and we do it with younger and older kids. We act like a hug is a sexual thing, like lying next to each other is too close. Doing so, we miss an important chance to teach about how to negotiate touch, even non-sexual touch, in a healthy way. When we discuss different kinds of touch, different meanings, and how to communicate about them, we help keep young people safer from those who would actually want to hurt or take advantage of them.

Putting such strict and extreme meaning to touch enforces the idea that someone touching you, on your shoulder or even in some playful, flirtatious way, is communicating more than it is, and at the same time excuses non-consensual behavior.

Bad Lesson 2: Your body is not yours.

One year, in a building I taught, a young woman was being disciplined by a behavior dean. He was walking her to his office and she said, quite clearly, that she didn’t feel comfortable being in his office with him. He told her that she had to go anyway.

Luckily, her friends saw it, came to me and I went and sat with her in the office, but still. This is a version of something that happens all the time in schools, whether or not the student is able to so clearly express their discomfort at the time.

I had never thought of the way our control of student behavior takes away agency over their bodies until I interviewed my wife, a sex therapist and author, last summer. She pointed out how we often control students by telling them where and how to sit, when to go to the bathroom, how to walk, where to be and who to be near.

Some of those things are likely necessary because we need schools to work and to cut down on the flaming chaos of the hallways. But my wife’s outside perspective made me realize that when we do those things, we’re sending a bigger message about their bodies at the same time.

Bad Lesson 3: The behavior of others is your responsibility.

The most egregious way we enforce this in schools is through our dress codes. I’ve written about it before, and so have many others, so I won’t spend too much time here on why dress codes are often sexist and shaming.

They are.

When the dress code is used to say that whatever harassment or teasing or touching can be blamed on a skirt that doesn’t hit your fingertips, or that someone can claim your body because they have seen your bra strap, dress codes are giving a dangerous message to students.

I’ve heard similar messages applied to staff, where an unruly class has been blamed on the outfit of the teacher, where unwanted advances from a coworker have been blamed on—I kid you not—the sharing of food.

When we don’t have real conversations about what consent means and how it is given, we assume too often that any victim of harassment or assault must have, in some way, asked for it. It’s not a statement many of us would feel comfortable saying out loud, so it shouldn’t be an idea that is written into our school handbooks.

Bad Lesson 4: Boys are bad.

Once upon a time, I was a boy in school. I didn’t like it. I remember teachers making jokes about how messy and unruly boys were. I heard jokes about how young men were like children. Now, I hear those same jokes in the staff lounge about teachers’ husbands.

We aren’t good at boys in school. Not as good as we could be. We boys will be boys them too often.

We also allow room for jokes and comments about “real men” and delight at the male teachers at the assembly when they put on a dress. So absurd! A man who would reduce himself to being a woman!

Masculinity is fine. It is great. But toxic masculinity is, quite literally, killing us. When we allow for or encourage this culture of “bad boys” in schools, we allow for an idea of men who get what they want because they want it, of boys who can comprehend no larger threat to their self-worth than a girl who won’t give them the physical or social attention they want.

Bad Lesson 5: Sexual violence is less terrifying than sexual pleasure.

What do the standard texts in our schools tell our students about love and relationships and bodies? I’ve been wracking my brain about this for days, going through the texts I’ve taught, that are taught in buildings where I’ve worked, that I was handed when I was in school. I’m struggling to find examples of healthy romantic relationships.

At first, I was struggling to think of examples of any real relationships in books, which seemed to be by design. I can imagine that we are mostly terrified of addressing romance, most especially sexual romance, in classrooms.

That said, I could think of tons of books and stories that carried rape scenes in their pages, or that alluded to sexual assault or molestation. Tons more had scenes of physical abuse of children and partners. But none, none that I could think of, suggested that sex is something that people find to be enjoyable when done in a healthy, consensual way.

Seriously, the most sex-positive piece of literature I’ve taught that is typical in schools was “Romeo and Juliet,” and they get married after knowing each other for like a day, speak a full five minutes to each other, and then both commit suicide. Not good.

We Can Do Better

When we don’t include healthy relationships as models in our schools, we hope they learn those skills elsewhere, but most of the messages they are getting about relationships are from “The Bachelor” and the messages about sex are from Pornhub.

We are missing a grand opportunity to teach something necessary, to tell counter-narratives to rape culture. We need to take a hard look at how we work against consent in schools, but more than that, we have a chance to take action and provide our students with the tools they need to understand and engage in a culture of consent.

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Knight Landesman, an art-world gatekeeper and longtime co-publisher of the influential trade publication Artforum, resigned on Wednesday, just one day after artnet News writer Rachel Corbett first reported allegations of sexual harassment made by several women and men against him.

The resignation came the same day former Artforum employee Amanda Schmitt filed a lawsuit in the Supreme Court of the State of New York against Landesman and her former employer, alleging that Landesman sexually harassed her for years while the magazine’s executives did little, despite being aware of his behavior, according to the complaint.

The 27-page complaint includes allegations from eight other women, who, though not plaintiffs in the case, said that Landesman harassed them as well. Since the suit was filed Wednesday, more women have come forward to artnet News to recount their own experiences with Landesman, a figure the New York Times described as “a pillar of the international art scene, a man-about-town known from the galleries of Manhattan to the Art Basel fair in Switzerland for his primary-colored suits and deep connections in the industry.”

The allegations against Landesman include public groping, lewd emails, and requests for kisses and backrubs, as well as professional retaliation when his advances were rebuffed. “Landesman engages in unlawful sexual harassment and retaliation, preying upon young women and using Artforum’s power within the industry as leverage to empower himself and harm and silence others,” the complaint said.

In response to inquiries from artnet News, Artforum posted an official statement on its website on Tuesday, noting “we required that Mr. Landesman attend therapy, and took companywide steps to address any workplace transgressions” and describing Schmitt’s claim for damages as an “attempt to exploit a relationship that she herself worked hard to create and maintain.” It has since announced that it will form a task force of women at the magazine to investigate working conditions at the publication.

“In the past days, we have met with our staff and they have told us that Knight Landesman engaged in unacceptable behavior and caused a hostile work environment,” Artforum said in a statement posted on its website on Wednesday. “We will do everything in our ability to bring our workplace in line with our editorial mission, and we will use this opportunity to transform Artforum into a place of transparency, equity, and with zero tolerance for sexual harassment of any kind.”

Michelle Kuo, the publication’s editor-in-chief for over seven years, resigned last week. “I resigned because I felt that, in light of the troubling allegations surrounding one of our publishers, I could no longer serve as a public representative of Artforum,” she wrote in a statement provided to ARTnews. “Though I may continue to advise the magazine through its transition, my final date as an employee at the magazine was [Thursday].”

Schmitt’s Lawsuit

Schmitt’s suit charges that Landesman and Artforum violated New York City’s Human Rights Law, and is seeking $500,000 in damages, among other relief. The court documents provide a precise and and public accounting of Landesman’s harassment of her and several other women. The complaint charges that “unwelcome sexual attention” from Landesman began shortly after Schmitt joined Artforum in 2009, when she was 21 years old, as a circulation assistant—her first real job. Landesman summoned Schmitt to his office after she was hired, asking her a series of personal questions while “touching her, uninvited, on her hips, shoulders, buttocks, hands, and neck.”

“Because Schmitt was so young and had never worked in an office before,” the complaint reads, “she was uncertain how to fight back and uneducated about how to do so.” Landesman continued his unwanted physical contact even as she repeatedly rejected his advances. Landesman also sent lewd messages to Schmitt, which continued after she left the publication, including rebukes for unreciprocated sexual advances. One message, sent in the summer of 2013, asked if Schmitt was “ready to make it a bit physical,” according to the complaint.

The unwanted sexual advances sometimes followed important professional invitations from Landesman, the complaint charged. In one incident from March 2013, Landesman invited Schmitt to an Artforum dinner attended by influential members of the art world. There, the complaint reads, he proceeded to touch her “without consent in this public setting, degrading her in front of potential clients and employers.”

Landesman later sent an email giving Schmitt a “B- on your delivery to me,” adding that “I obviously haven’t fully explained to you in a way that you can absorb and resonates [sic] exactly what I am trying to say.” The message is signed “A Kiss.”

Court documents include another email sent in 2013 while Schmitt was searching for a new job, Landesman asked, “are you making yourself climax Amanda? How often? Or I can’t ask that inside your boundaries?” According to the complaint, Landesman continued to harass Schmitt even after she explicitly asked him to stop sending her messages.

“I fully recognize that I have tested certain boundaries, which I am working hard to correct,” Landesman said to artnet News in an email ahead of the publication of its story Tuesday. “I have never willfully or intentionally harmed anyone. However, I am fully engaged in seeking help to insure that my behavior with both friends and colleagues is above reproach in the future.”

More Women Come Forward

Other women in the complaint described a similar pattern of harassment. In one account included in the document, Landesman asked Elisabeth McAvoy, a 22-year-old Artforum employee who was sharing a bedroom with her sister, why she didn’t move so that her sister could masturbate herself to sleep. Another woman’s account said Landesman publicly humiliated her at a dinner in late 2012 after she did not give him the backrubs he requested.

In an account from May of 2016, Landesman promised to introduce writer Valerie Werder to her idol, art critic Chris Kraus, at an art industry gala if Werder would “stand by his side all night,” according to the complaint. After asking Werder a series of sexually explicit questions, including “whether her boyfriend was satisfying her,” he introduced her to Kraus, the complaint states.

“After making the introduction [Landesman] grabbed her buttocks and squeezed them the entire time that Werder was speaking to Ms. Kraus, one of her professional idols and the person she most wanted to meet at the event,” reads the complaint, which adds that after Landesman subsequently set up a lunch between Werder, Kraus, and himself, he sent Werder an email reading “A lunch! And after I beat you a little on you[r] ass.”

“While their stories suggest a pattern of harassment, it remains unclear if they can be considered as corroborating evidence since some of the accusers never worked for Mr. Landesman,” according to the New York Times.

Another account in artnet News shows how the consistency and seeming acceptance of Landesman’s behavior had the effect of minimizing it. Landesman invited curator Zoe Larkins, who was interested in writing for Artforum, to a surprise meeting at what turned out to be his empty apartment where he “kissed the back of my neck and my back,” she told artnet News. “I knew his behavior was inappropriate, but I assumed, because his reputation for such behavior was so well known and, it seemed, accepted, that it wasn’t more than that.”

Artforum’s Response

In June of 2016, Schmitt met with Artforum co-publishers Charles Guarino and Danielle McConnell, showing them messages that Landesman sent, according to the complaint. “Though he professed to be horrified, Guarino admitted that Schmitt’s complaint was not the first he had heard of Landesman sexually harassing young women,” the document reads.

The complaint said that Guarino and McConnell promised action, and denied none of her allegations. Guarino said that he would work to ensure “whatever may have transpired never happens again,” according to an email filed with the suit. Despite the promise, Schmitt’s complaint details continued harassment from Landesman, including one incident in which he interrupted a public dinner she was having with her boyfriend, an artist and a Bard College faculty member (who is also a regular Artforum contributor), proceeding to “defame, demean, and humiliate her.”

In June of this year, Schmitt hired an attorney who sent a letter to Artforum and Landesman, demanding that Landesman cease the harassment. The letter asked both the publication and Landesman to make a donation to a charity supporting women in the workplace, and that they pay her legal and therapy bills and institute structural changes to ensure nothing similar occurs in the future, according to the complaint.

According to the complaint, while negotiations proceed, “Artforum held a mandatory meeting with all of its New York employees in which it stated that it was likely to soon be the subject of a lawsuit based on Landesman’s behavior. In this meeting, Artforum falsely told its employees that the potential plaintiff’s (i.e., Schmitt’s) claims were ‘unjust’ and that she had had a ‘consensual and non physical’ relationship with Landesman.”

The current suit was indeed filed after negotiations broke down over what the complaint calls the two parties’ “refusal” to make the donation and their insistence that Schmitt not speak publicly.

But, the complaint said, “Schmitt refused to be silenced.”

—Isaac Kaplan

from Artsy News