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dayurno · 6 months

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juggling two job offers and trying to negotiate for a bigger salary has me feeling like i need a kevin day on my shoulder telling me i should refuse to be paid anything less than what i’m worth. save me corporate weapon kevi day save me

#dont get me wrong im very happy to be in a position to pick at all! and i liked both companies very much #BUT IT IS STRESSFUL…!!#i dont like telling people no….#im not a corporate weapon im a lackadaisical friend-maker with people pleasing issues #but im like omg am i being too cold…. am i being too ambitious…#i guess the good thing about working in tech is that theres more room for negotiation still but ah! ach. you know.#well i guess we will wait and see #save me kevi… kevi save me…#txt #kevin #but also i was talking to my friend and she was like soooo shocked id even have the gall to negotiate #so at least that made me feel better like omg we really are in this protestant work method shit for life… lets free ourselves sister #they dont really care abt us

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redysetdare · 10 months

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I'm an "AroAce Stereotype" I'm Romance averse/Repulsed> I'm Sex repulsed I'm non-partnering I hate the idea of marriage in all forms I don't want a QPR at all I'm loveless I'm someone who gets uncomfortable at sexual talk and sex jokes I'm someone who often has innuendos or sexual concept fly over my head. I'm someone who can't tell when someone is flirting with me I'm someone who can't pick up on romantic or sexual tension I'm someone who finds "shipping" to be annoying I'm someone who says "They just seem like friends to me" I'm someone who believed that attraction could be turned on or off I'm someone who can't make sense of romance at all and cant figure out what makes it different from every other relationship. I'm someone who thinks romance is stupid and sex is gross and I don't understand the big deal everyone makes about it I'm someone who never was upset to find out I was AroAce but rather relieved as I have a genuine fear of being stuck in a romantic relationship that i do not want. In all cases I am not an AroAce who can be considered "normal" by the standards of allo society.

I'm not just a stereotype for you to shit on. I'm not the reason aphobes are aphobic I'm not a problem that you need to erase and refute to be accepted by allos. I'm not an experience that you and ignore as "not really how aspec people are" just because You are not part of it. Stop leaving us behind. Stop throwing us under the bus. We deserve support too. We deserve to not be demonized and shunned because we're an "stereotype". We are not the problem. We are not a problem to be fixed. start fighting aphobes on their logic instead of trying to make up for our existence.

#text #ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #aroace #arospec #acespec #aspec #mostly talking abt aroace experience because thats me #but this can go for other aspec identities too #aphobia #im just tired of other aspec people agreeing with the oppressors that certain experiences are wrong #and promising that THEY aren't like that THEY are normal and shouldn't be ridiculed #but never do anything to protect the rest of us from ridicule #because really they just want to protect their experience they dont care about the wider community #and it's frustrating #because we should all be supporting each other because thats how things get better #if we tell aphobes there are exceptions then suddenly all aspec people can become an exception #because they dont care about us being socially acceptable aspecs they care about us not being aspec period #they dont want us to exist because then they have to question their world view and that dont like doing that #so they'll play nice with the ones they can pretend are normal before they decide that you're not good enough either

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mwagneto · 10 months

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a thing about rtd's era that i really really love seeing again is how he will usually wrap up the plot 10 or even 20 minutes before the episode ends and then the rest of that time is just dedicated to the characters talking to each other and dealing with their emotions and situations. like instead of a last minute win and a two minute goodbye they always get these massive spans of time to really get into everything emotionally and it always makes the episodes hit even harder

#this is rly on my mind since i just finished rewatching s3 too and like. the end of the #world plot wraps up in like 30 minutes the rest is just the characters talking to each other it's so good. houghhdgdgh #like they always leave so much time for everyone to just. HAVE CONVERSATIONS. and every #character has so many little things they do like for example martha calling up the ppl she #met during the year that never was.. like. you could say those scenes weren't necessary coz they #dont add anything to the plot and they really dont! we coulda spent that time on the Big Bad Villain. and yet it's a #much better use of that time because it makes everything feel so much more real #yes these ppl wont even remember meeting martha but here they are. they're okay and she cares abt them so much #same with the new ep like the plot ends at like minute 40 the rest is just them hanging out😭😭😭 it's so good....#doctor who #14th doctor #10th doctor #15th doctor #rtd #the giggle

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bacchuschucklefuck · 4 months

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love thinking kipperlilly spends her afterlife looking for lucy in a familiar forest

#not art #fhjy #fhjy spoilers #like. does she have a mean of knowing lucy and yolanda got sent to cassandra's domain to hang out for a bit #kipperlilly's isolation means so much to me. she is punished for everything she's done she just doesn't pick up on it #until the moment she dies! one more funky thing that mirrors riz in which he's actively tried to cultivate a community and denied it #until the bad kids. while kipperlilly does not want or care about a community she just wants someone who validates her #but she does Need a community so she latches onto the person she lets closer to her to fulfill her emotional needs #she took the ritual willingly so this might genuinely be her first death. probably terrifying #probably not even enough bandwidth to feel mortified. maybe immediately seeking something comforting out of instinct alone #lmao honestly thinking too much abt fantasy high afterlifes gives me a headache And a visceral fear #Im not religious but I grew up in a culture with a dominantly buddhist/taoist cosmology its Scary that u just go to A Place after u die!!#and then ur still urself!!! thats scary to me what do u mean u stay like that forever. thats fucked #but yeah I think this influences how I see kipperlilly turn out a little bit. in a sense I think of her as being a ghost now #yknow. trying to solve something from life so she can move on and. stop living this life etc #man the reveal that lucy took being killed pretty seriously and is like yeah the others are decent and even sweet #and probably was just trying to hold her party together and do what she thinks is moral by hearing kipperlilly out #lol lmao etc. gods I gotta wonder how kipperlilly's mindset handled jawbones' help #it really is damn tragic tho. I stand by what I said folks like this will complain and be nasty to be around #but they dont have enough desire to inconvenience themselves to off the bat do something abt what they find unfair or whatever #its when theyre handed the seemingly very easy means to be right that they'll start being dangerous #its horribly tragic that the supposed metaplayer and the self-perceived mastermind turned out to ultimately be just an useful idiot #yknow what. I think personally in my heart kipperlilly moves on from her afterlife the moment she says sorry #doesnt even have to be to lucy but that's probably gonna be who received it #ah.... teenage rebellion. teenage gamejacking

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sweetvalentinescandy · 2 months

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grrriaanwwnananannn i tried to make a cool effect but its not really that cool

sorry fo the casual negativity but im going through the craziest art crisis ever and like im completely overhauling as much as i can from my old art style so all i have rn are doodles ahhhh its so frustrating but i feel like i should post somethin anyway just to make me feel better

#dsmp dni #as much as that will help anything #hermitcraft #hermitcraft whatever season honestly #hermitcraft is very long i realized #in the early episodes of grians season 6 pov rn #ive watched it out of order so i mean i finished season 8 #if youve seen that one time i talked abt hermitcraft in my tags #u know how scared i am to post any hermitcraft fanart #not because im not proud but because im just scared #minecraft smp fandoms are…. not always the kind of people i want to attract #no shade i just dont have a lot of faith #grian #does this count as a specific grian #i dont know any of the grian lore #or any lore #i really dont care about the lore #theyre just funny guys building cool shit on a big server #grian fanart #hermitcraft grian #i dooonnnt know really #i usually use tumblr tags as like a personal diary but rn im just feeling bitter #I HATE MY ART!!!! I HATE DRAWING!!!#the art crisis is less an art crisis and more an identity crisis #i think im getting on the right foot with my art wnd then i feel like i mess it up?#digital art especially i just hate everything i do digitally #really negative what a debby downer am i right #but nobody actually reads tumblr tags #also its my blog i can be a debby downer on my blog #for archivial purposes obviously

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idiotsonlyevent · 5 months

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i kind of dont like the chilchuck interpretation that he's viewing the rest of the party as 'replacements' for his kids.... like not only does chilchuck not need 'replacements' for his daughters, bc he's still in contact with them, but also that framing very significantly changes his dynamic with the rest of current party (who are all adults). like i dont think a character who's been infantilized throughout his adult life and is very cognizant of party dynamics would do that?

#like i do think he gets something out of caring for others (and on some level he's used to it and its become a habit)#but i think its more of a routine/structure/who he is as a person thing.... idk #its conflating 'caring' with 'parenting' in a really weird way imo #like he is not 'fathering' senshi or laios and he's not really doing it for marcille either imo #he's just neurotic + performs 'caring' through acts of service #i think as im typing im realizing it might be a semantics/word choice issue bc i can see why ppl would see this behavior and immediately #call it that. but i still dont think its accurate/i dont like the phrasing bc of how it reframes the party dynamic. idk #his thing w izutsumi is different but. again: still not a replacement for his daughters and i have more to say abt their relationship #that isnt relevant to this post #L.txt #dungeon meshi #chilposting

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kitteqq · 3 months

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stomach hurts. im gonna beam that to swagkitty

#brickbattler #swagman #coolman #brickbattler takeover au #roblox #roblox fanart #roblox art #fanart #artists on tumblr #illustration #crowart #crowpost #dont worry abt that au tag its gonna be fineeeee ahaaaaaaaaaa #just uh. dont look at how swags horns are more sharper. or the corruption. its normal its fine! even. mhm #thanks malo for saying this au all those months ago it just always ruins my life huh #coolkitty has a hint of blue if u care. bc. the hairdye of bb trio used to be blue.... if u care.......#did i ever takeover au yet. anyways its postgame that swag takes over robloxs job. its going well!!!!! except uhm he. is Not experienced #and bad decisions can really snowball . more n more..... whoopsie

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1amchrliee · 6 months

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I fucking hate Sam Winchester

#I don’t #he just really gets in my nerves #I DONT CARE ABT YOU HAVING DEMON BLOOD #STOP FUCKING USING IT #LET DEAN HAVE HIS MOMENT #PLEASE #I love him still but my god #I’m on season 4 w #ep like 17 #idk man #supernatural #spn #sam winchester #dean winchester

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puppyeared · 8 months

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MAN your art, but especially the latest pieces of Walking Fire Friend and Sparkle Dog really have the vibes of like, sanrio?? I want stickers and half a dozen accessories with them plastered all over so bad

!!! thank u for the kind words!! im playing around with the halftone effect, i like how it makes it look like a newspaper comic ^_^

#i also wanna design stickers so sososo bad.. id love to make some skip to loafer stickers with the main four <3 #i dont reallyknow much abt the process itself though.. and i dont have a paypal or any way to send or receive money in the first place orz #im sure ill do it once i figure it out but i appreciate the sentiment!!!#its been my dream to make my own custom motivational stickers with little dogs.. like the ones i used to get in grade school lol #im not sure if ill keep going in this direction with my art bc its all experimental but its been really fun playing around with it #its bothered me for the longest time that im just ass at rendering or putting detail in my art. but at the end of the day i just dont #care enough to go thru with it and i prefer to keep things simple anyway so that reflects my own tastes ig...#this is probably the closest ill get to a soft render that i like to see so if i could do more for that ill definitely try...!!!!#yapping #ask #answered #doodles #sona #puppysona

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this-doesnt-endd · 3 months

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A little appreciation post for my dad for fathers day cause i love him and im very greatful to have a dad who loves me and is in my life and one of my favorite memories is that when he bought his first house two years ago he wanted me to be the first person to step foot in the house aside from him cause i always believed in him and he knows hes not perfect and has made mistakes but i couldnt ask for a better dad.

#he always wanted the like nice house with rooms for all of us kids and a nice big yard and he tried but the rescession and divorce #and family loss and trying to get upward movement in his job without a degree didnt always allow for that but he tried #and i told him id always believed he'e get a house one day and itd be all his and he did and when it happened he got me #on a cross country train so thatd id be there i literally sat right next to him as he signed the papers and got the keys #and i find it interesting cause the first time o saw it it looked exactly like the house from my dreams like down to the layout it #it was just all so meant to be #and while i dont physically see him as much and id like theres never a day were i dont get a text or call or instagram reel sent and he #often tells me abt how proud he is of me and how he loves me and hes always believed in my dreams and anything i want to do and im also #really proud of him cause hed told me before he never wanted to be like his father who was not around and the breif time he was wasnt good #and hes never been like thats hes alwayd been loving and caring and supportive and trys the best he can hes always been a great dad #and i know not everyone gets that or even gets to have a dad so im very very greatfull that i do

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pinkseas · 1 month

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hearing "how are you feeling? are you getting enough sleep? are you taking anything for it? are you drinking water?" from the besties: 🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭🥰🩷❣️💓💗💝💘💖💕💞🙏💝💖💘💕💞💗💓❣️🩷🥰💘🥰🥰🩷💞🥰💞🩷💞🩷💕❣️💘❣️💘❣️💕🥰💗💓💖💗💗💝💗🙏💞🥰💕🥰💘🩷❣️💘🩷💗🩷💗🩷💕💓💞🥰🥰🥰🥰🥺🥺🥺

hearing "how are you feeling? are you getting enough sleep? are you taking anything for it? are you drinking water?" from your parents: 😐😐😐😐💀🙄💥😬💥💀🙄💀😐😒😐💀🙄💥😬💀😬🙄💀😐😒🙄💀😬💥😬💥🙄😬😒💀💥💥💀💀💥😬💥💀😬💀😐😒😒😐😐💀💥💥💀💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥

#idek man #when cherry asked earlier i fucking Melted it was the sweetest thing ever #but my parents asking me the same shit just now made me want to kill #something something knowing someone genuinely cares about u and cares abt the answer vs #the amt of times i used to hear well are you really sick? are you too sick to go to school? yeah of course you are #really convenient of you to be sick today huh. yeah sure go miss school not like youre missing multiple classes or anything #<- when im sick my kneejerk response is to '''play it up''' bc i know i feel bad but i dont know how to express w/ my face and voice that-#-i feel bad so theyd always assume i was lying and i had to learn how to actually act sick instead of them trusting me at all #.#is that an autism thing. is having to teach yourself how to express that you dont feel well bc your face and voice just Dont Do It an-#autism thing guys be honest. <- learned a lot abt facial expressions & autism the other day and now things r starting to click #alyalyoxenfree

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motherforthefamicom · 2 months

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redownloaded an old art program

#specifically its tayasui memopad…#sketches was like borderline unusable last i redownloaded it #which was like.. oct last year #maybe its gotten better but i dont feel like bothering with it anymore haha #memopad i never used much aside from little scribble doodles (id make a scribble and try to turn it into something)#but its changed a lot since i last used it.. which was like four years ago so i cant be too surprised i guess XD #its still pretty jank but in a more manageable way . i missed rhe sketches brushes theyre very lovely #sorry for all the rambling haha #ive been feeling really shitty lately and have barely been able to draw it feels like #a lot of what i have made ive had to really.. force myself to get out. and i havent been as satisfied with it as id like to br #this is kind of janky still but i like it and i had fun making it #everytime i draw these two its exactly the same cuz i have to remind myself what their designs even were everytime >_<‘’#hopefully i do some more stuff today. its already getting late but im feeling a little better #getting back into the swing of things or whatever #i thought someone on af was ghosting me or whatever but turns out they were just . busy. ( <- figures i need to stop assuming haha) and #they also made this amazing revenge im absolutely in love with its so cute #really made my day =)#scribbles #furry tag #good god i write way too much in these #sorry #anyways #queueing this to post again (its the 14th as im writing this) i feel like that worked alright for me last time #im kinda making this post impulsively i am. constantly going back nd forth on whether i even like posting my art nowadays #oh well #yeah queue i wanna know #mother series #<- i forgot to tag that . for blog organization mostly these r just #nothing burger npcs barely anyone cares abt (nintens sisters lol)

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crows-murder · 4 months

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forever mourning how quickly fandoms die nowadays 😖

literally almost as soon as the series ends :///

#like. not to sound old but #fandoms used to last YEARS after the actual show/movie/series ended #i miss that :(((#just posted a fic for a show that ended in 2021 and its gotten LESS hits than the fic i posted for psych 2006 #i dont really care abt stats bc i post fics mostly for me but #i do still like to meet new ppl and make friends in fandoms #i want buddies!!!!#YES im late to the party but 2021 guys come on 😭#im not crazy for thinking that's too soon to die right ajdkfkvkvl #anyway im not really bothered bc the fic is written for a niche audience to begin with so i was more or less expecting that #ghost post

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criminey-christmas · 4 months

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this whole jack unfollowing mark thing, i can feel 16 yr old me trying to give a shit and i just don’t lmao

#at my old ass age this feels so juvenile #the parasocial relationship has stopped parasocialing #i dont care if theyre not as close as they used to be #they are grown men living in different countries of course theyre not gonna be as close #‘oh something big mustve happened!!’ or they just had a falling out #either way its not our business #until something comes out where one of them has done something actually bad it really doesnt matter #theres so much shit in the world that this just doesnt warrent any stress over #and thats not me talking shit abt people #like i said a few years ago i wouldve been one of them #but if this is genuinely making you stress out and feel anxious then you need to step away and ask why #these are men you most likely will never meet #their personal lives are none of our business and dont need any of your emotional energy #well that’s content #markiplier #jacksepticeye

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skelevision · 4 months

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english jinriki utau is coming along!! hes based on a tts so he sounds kinda harsh and choppy (so im tuning him more robotically than i usually do). im actually enjoying working on his design. which is rare! so theres a wip of that too. his name is J, hes a decommissioned aquarium tour android. and hes just a little guy. he likes going to the beach and pointing out all the animal species he can find. hes not supposed to be able to sing And his vocal system is damaged, but he hangs out with androids who can sing and hes enamored with music so he tries his best

#spooksposting #oc #my art #vocal synth #utau #J #video #its almost 6 am......... i fucked up bigtime #u know i had to use a mili song....... i rly need to play library of ruina actually its so intimidating though 😭😭😭#i love this dude #most of his memory got corrupted so he really only knows what his model was intended for but based on bits and pieces #there was a long time between his decommissioning and abt a decade before the present where he was cared for by someone #and there were definitely alterations made to some of his systems but hes unsure what #he has his own kind of grief abt not being able to remember any of that bc he knows he was happy. whatever that means for him #i dont think even he knows #but hes chillin bc hes still alive after all this time #sorry i got back into vocal synth stuff recently and immediately started worldbuilding and shit w my utaus #and ofc they ended up way more personal than most of my ocs bc they all involve my own voice or directly interacting w characters who do 🫠#theyre all androids or computer programs so far in-universe and im like ah! perfect for dissecting all my brain processes #oooh i get chatty when im tired #anyawy my head hurts goot bye #spooks vsynth

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hivepixels · 3 months

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#i wrote the arsl essay really emotionally if it's illogical i'm very sorry it's just my impression T0TTTTT.........#mumblings #EVEN THE SOLLUX ONE IS CRINGE TO ME I CANT LOOK AT IT ANYMORE i'm just glad people who've gotten something out of it can feel #more reassured in their enjoyment of these characters bcs theyre awesome & i like when people think abt them esp in relation to each other #i was so 👀!!! by how sollux detected his relevancy was reduced compared to the rest of the meteor crew and chose to step away with aradia #and since her arc was pretty much finished around the same time as his i rlly love how they complete their jobs then go off have fun #(well sollux is extra funny bcs he doesnt WANT to be a Main Character but mf can't resist adding his two cents backseat commentary LOL)#anw.. idk if ive ever mentioned but i dont care for pale arsl whatsoever skjskj highkey resent the popularity of that depiction but i don't #have grounds to complain since it gives people a reason to keep including aradia with sollux somehow #once again coming from a dvkt background i often saw aradia and sollux entering as a pair so it was wild to switch to slkt and #find out a lot of sollux shippers don't like aradia as much. or at all #<- was scrolling old posts and saw that people have been discussing this same exact thing years ago LMAO the cycle repeats itself #i think sollux should 🥺👉👈 for aradia forever its funnier to think he likes her so much and she's just. occupied by more important things #ANYTHING SHE NEEDS HE WILL COME.... SHE JUST HAS TO ASK. BUT WHAT CAN SHE POSSIBLY ASK FOR WHEN SHE'S ALREADY SO CAPABLE....... HSJAHAA #back when she approached him for tech and research assistance he could feel useful but now. he's huddled in the corner sad puppy #its so ;;; when ppl make him super relieved to see aradia like WAAGHHHHHH SHE'S HERE... SHE'S HERE FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!#sollux wanting to be more important to aradia is a thought i revisit a lot he just wants to know if there's anything there #but he can't pick Just One Thing and regardless of the outcome good or bad he'll always regret screwing it up #in reality its not his fault lol just like karkat dude's got the self-sabotage instinct for things no one holds him against for so. yeh #STILL don't take my opinions as truth gospel alright i'm a fangirl not a meta writer!!!!!!!!!

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