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Bug make brain go brrrrrrrrrr
#trigun zazie#trigun stampede#trigun#zazie the beast#trigun fanart#fanart#trigun Zazie the beast#my god I love this funky little bug#they are so important to me#they are the problematic nb we needed#worm
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COP 3 really bringing out the worst of the "female coded MCs" takes on Choices Reddit. Lord please yeet me into Mount Atropo.
#like please ask yourself#why is the MC getting walked down the aisle only cringe or problematic when its a non-female MC. do yall not hear yourselves.#i mean I'm not gonna pretend Choices doesn't or has never had gender coding problems#and I'm also not gonna pretend like Choices doesn't write with wlm routes in mind#PB seriously does need more variety and should let us have masculine MCs and feminine LIs#but when ppl are acting like it's only a problem for m!MCs (and sometimes nb!MCs) that's where I start to lose sympathy#Choices and tbh most content in the romance genre in general is already alienating to us GNC/genderqueer folks#+ ppl who like non-normative romance#and takes like these just further alienate us#like idk psure there are men who LIKE being treated as the bride (and their female partner being the groom if mlw) for fucking once#and you'd be hard pressed to find media let alone an interactive game that lets them live out that fantasy#these stories may not have been intentionally made for them but it'd still be pretty fuckin meaningful that they get that here#and who knows maybe it can pave the way for other media to do it too and maybe even better/intentionally#it's fine to want masc MCs but dont act like its not important for f!players too#because as a gal I'm still waiting on when these stories will let me watch my husband-to-be walk down the aisle :P#cop 3#cop 3 spoilers#crimes of passion#crimes of passion 3#crimes of passion 3 spoilers#choices game#choices#choices stories you play#choices stories we play fandom#choices stories we play#cadybear vents#cadybear rants
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i am tired of being nice with lesbophobes because maybe they don't know any better or are brainwashed or truly think they are doing the right thing or i don't know what else. i am tired of not saying anything to avoid dramas. if your god said homosexuality is bad well then fuck him and everyone who agrees with this shit. if you like dicks you're not a lesbian. if you have a dick you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a dick you're not a lesbian. "amab nb lesbians" aren't lesbians, they're just straight guys. bi and other mspec lesbians don't exist and are lesbophobic terms. either you are attracted exclusively to biological women while also being a biological woman or you're not and never will be a lesbian. if you decided to be a lesbian because of your political views then you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a crush on a guy you are not a lesbian. if you think lesbianism distances lesbians from womanhood and means we aren't normal women you're a piece of shit. if you think you can become a lesbian or stop being one you are a piece of shit. if you think lesbians just need to find the right man i hope your house will burn with you in it. call lesbians queer and you deserve to be punched. if you think lesbian sex is disgusting go fuck yourself. if you think lesbianism is problematic or sinful in anyway kill yourself. if you think lesbians just need to try dicks kill yourself. if you think lesbians can be attracted to men kill yourself. now you can cry and say i am oppressing you, i don't care. die mad about it
#lesbian#mspec lesbian#bi lesbian#lesbophobia#lgbt#lgbtq+#pan lesbian#omni lesbian#bisexual lesbian#lgbt+#lgbtqia+#lgbtq#non binary lesbian#amab lesbians#cotton ceiling#the cotton ceiling#trans#trans lesbian#transbian#transbians#transgender#non binary#nonbinary#amab nonbinary#mspec safe#genderfluid lesbian#genderfluid#agender lesbian#agender#bisexual
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sorry it is absolutely fucking hilarious to get self-righteous about “buddie shippers” being problematic or whatever because, crucially, “shipper” and “fan” are not actually social categories. forgetting this is why we have men perpetuating actual misogyny against actual women and nb people, why i saw someone saying verbatim that eddie (latino man) doesn’t need to be queer because the show already has henren (black lesbians) to be “queer racial rep,” why i���m seeing people pretend like lesbians and bi women have some kind of hidden structural power, why i’m seeing people come up with insane conspiracy theories about hacking and crimes to defend a white man with a recorded history of racism who was being racist, why people are throwing around whatever fucking accusations they want at any given time because it’s easy to use real problems to make a point, why straight people feel comfortable saying whatever the hell they want to queer people who disagree with them, etc. etc. and, despite seeing a notable absence of people pushing back against behavior like this, i still don’t think these things represent people who Ship Bucktommy, but people who suffer overall from a deep lack of understanding of power and oppression, and who are too ready to say whatever the fuck they want in service of their tv show opinions. but anyway, if that’s how we’re playing it, i guess i will feel ashamed of being associated with Vile Buddie Shippers when people start expressing any amount of shame from being associated with Extremely Misogynistic Bucktommy Enjoyers
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Pronoun discourse is just as exhausting in person. A trans girl in my group project for History of Modern Europe refused to use he/him for me because "they/them is neutral" and I looked her in the eyes and said, "I will not reply to group texts, upload anything or share resources if you don't refer to me correctly. I use silence to train my dogs, I use it to train transmisandrists, too." She was furious and spent a few weeks misgendering me... until she realized I was serious and I would let all of us fail this group project because this he/him? Yeah, this he/him had a 100 on every single assignment up until that point and could take the grade hit. If other people can't, well, that's not my problem.
She learned to call me he/him with incredible regularity once her grade was on the line. Suddenly, two words weren't incredibly hard to recall and abruptly, not every conversation with her turned into her lecturing me on how trans women have it harder than trans men. We were able to talk about the actual subject of the group assignment and she was able to remember he/him.
Meanwhile, the cishet members of the group had not struggled to recall he/him for me once, nor had they turned group project meetings into discourse once.
Why are queer people always most vicious with their fellow queers? I'm in MONTANA, and the people worst to me aren't the fucking rednecks, it's other queer people. Rednecks don't condescend to me about how they/them is neutral and good and indicates they're trying their best and trans men have it easy actually. It's the city queers sitting there going, "Rather than just call you he/him and spend this meeting for our group project focusing on the project, I'm going to treat you like the enemy and lecture you." People talk about the concept of a 'queer community' but getting lectured about how trans women have it worse than trans men (because I guess my saying 'use my pronouns' secretly implies I think trans men have it worse? idk, I don't speak bullshitese) doesn't make me go, "Ah, yes. My community! I feel so supported!" it makes me go, "Oh, fuck. Great, I'm stuck talking to an asshole."
Between this, the lesbians I've met on campus who keep making, "gays can't do math or science or history or whatever other subject we're in right now" jokes who seethe with contempt for the privileged gay men, the cis gay guys terrified of doing something perverted who view drag, cosplay, wearing a skirt, wearing makeup or fucking around with presentation at all as not okay/possibly problematic and the NBs who cannot emphasize enough to you that they're one of the good ones who don't dye their hair or wear stupid shit or use neopronouns like the bad ones do, and the utter disgust they all look at anyone with who dares use the word queer, I'm beginning to feel like "the queer community" is one of those things you don't get access to until you're 30+. Alternatively "the queer community" appears to "antis, but with rainbows and flags and ew you think the rainbow flag is for everyone you're so problematic", which is... not great, honestly?
I know this will get a lot of queer people very angry but I'll say it: there are 492 anti-queer laws proposed in the USA, not counting the ones that have passed. We should probably focus on that instead of going for each other's throats and then saying we're a "community".
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I don't think it will get many queer people around here angry, but yes.
We have more of a need to draw together into a community when everyone's dying of AIDS or getting beaten up or trying to stop laws that make it illegal for us to exist.
Some people have the privilege to shit all over that community. They don't see it as one, but it is.
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To an anon who sent this post (https://www.tumblr.com/romanceclub-confessionss/757727670678274048/confession-we-need-more-trans-andor-non-binary?source=share).
I cannot agree more, I was literally delighted when the first The One came out and it was revealed that Luka is a trans guy (I am transmasc too, and this his character was like a gift for me). The writer* of this novel made such a good representation with him ♡♡♡ And most of all, he has such a sweet and caring personality. Not to mention that sex scene with him was the ONLY sex scene in RC novels (and I read a lot of them!) that I found hot.
*actually, there were two writers. One who created all characters left their project and it was given to another author, who carefully and respectfully wrote remaining series and kept all characters' personalities.
But I have to admit that Russian part of fandom is racist, homophobic and transphobic as fuck (well, at least the vast majority of it). I know it so well because I am actually Russian (I am not pleased with this fact myself) and can see all this -phobic hell in person. When it was revealed that Rachel is transgender, they begin to say she's "with surprise" or that she's actually a man. When Luka's identity came out, they begin to call him a girl and say there's something very wrong with him (obviously because he's an activist and is proud of who he is). This fandom cannot accept one(1) nonbinary person, Tai (I hope I wrote their name correctly, I don't know how to write it in English) from Hell and High Water, one of my most favorite stories; they began to call them names and so on and so forth, began to say that the mentioned novel has "too much representation" ("too much" in question: one nb background character; one mlm married couple who has a daughter and who are in background too; one mention that one of male LIs is bisexual).
I would LOVE to see more trans and/or nonbinary characters in RC novels, but I am a realist and I understand that this shitty fandom (I mean, Russian part of it) will never allow that.
I want to say I am so glad to see that people here love both Rachel and Luka, they are such nica and sweet characters and they deserve all the love in the world ♡♡♡
#not a confession
I completely understand your frustration. Unfortunately, many fans hold problematic views and refuse to listen to reason. It can be difficult to fight against such ignorance and bigotry, but I think it's important to continue advocating for diversity and inclusion in Rc. -mod lyn
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Seen ask about how MC is basically carries bros family, and it's make me feel feelings
I mean, when Lucifer lost his memory, bros was like "MC what should we do??? " dudes, you're ancient demons, why do you ask some human 😭
Honestly, I like that bc it's help me writing my MC lol But also, it's interesting contrast between bros, who so depend on MC, and side characters who saw that shit and was like "not on my watch"
Especially love when Barb and Sol told about this, I guess that's why I warmed up to Barb, bc Sol is already the best boy. I hope Mephisto, Raph and 13 will help MC to be yourself, not perfect one, who should be always strong and collected
/but, still, I like that MC able to help Lucifer with his burden and let him breathe, he deserved it. Sometimes I hate how his brothers treat him and I never wanted to be in anti Lucifer team :/
Sorry for my english and have a good day 🤝
Hello, my friend!
Ah yes, the demons being oddly dependent on MC is a little confusing, but I guess it's because they want MC to feel like part of the family?
Personally I think they make the brothers too reliant on MC in general, but I suppose it's because they want it to feel like MC is super powerful and strong, even if they're just a human?
I think I ended up kinda going with the opposite for my MC. I was kinda like okay, well, my MC is a just a regular guy. They contribute to the problems just as much as they help solve them lol.
And while I'm sure the side characters can be just as problematic in their ways, they all feel like they have separate lives apart from MC. Like they don't just fall apart whenever MC isn't around.
I already kinda get those vibes from Mephisto after the recent NB lesson where he was worried about them getting hurt. Like he took the time to make sure they were okay and then started asking them if they missed their family and such. I'm hoping the same for Raphael and Thirteen. I think I like all these characters more for similar reasons - they got their own stuff going on. They feel like they don't just exist for MC, they have more stories, richer lives. Whereas some of the brothers really feel like they just exist to fill the number of sins and are lacking more nuanced roles. This is easily fixed in fanfiction and I like finding those pieces of each character myself when I'm writing for them, but it can make them feel kinda flat too.
Lucifer is the brother that has the most going on, in my opinion. He's the most fleshed out, so I think we get more insight into him as a character. He definitely needs to take a break and I love the entire concept of MC being the one who's like, I see you and I see the work you do and I need you to hand some of that over to me so that you can rest.
#I like the idea that MC is strong and can carry the others#but I also think that's gotta be exhausting after awhile#give MC a break too#someone should just have MC and Lucifer go on a factory tour together#different enough to be exciting#boring enough to be relaxing#obey me#obey me nightbringer#sansarawheelvictim#misc answers
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Hi there, hope all’s well! 🌷
I just came across your post about the emotional starvation of (cis) boys (excellent visualization of what the majority of boys/men go through from the get go).
In my day to day life I offer services and rituals to celebrate and honor women in ways that the world often has not; and I work to be all inclusive (nb, trans, and whatever might fall in between or outside of that). This work uses, showcases, AND teaches this feeling of sorority/sisterhood/community safety.
In order to balance out towards the other side—because I have been saying this same thing about boys and men missing this vital bit of living, and therefor perpetuating the rift between men and women whether they want to or not— I’ve started apprenticing as a barber. This seems to me to be one of the “softest” self care rituals men indulge in.
Would you say, in your experience, that this type of self care and perhaps the celebration/ritualization of milestones could help boys and men interact in healthier ways with their own masculinity, and the world at large?
I mean…yes and no.
Yes, because rituals and rites are nourishment for the soul, and no, because the kind of approach you're suggesting is designed to address systemic marginalization rather than systemic isolation. The reason why you don't already see cis men seek empowerment in relation to their gender because they don't need to be.
Instead, what they covet is to belong in despite of it.
See, the way we raise boys—and the experiences boys have growing into men—teach and reinforce this specific narrative:
"It doesn't matter who I am as a person, what my personality is like, or how strong of a bond someone forms with me; the moment I'm [too girly / too manly / not manly enough / the wrong kind of man / etc] my belonging is revoked and I'm disowned."
This is a trauma so ubiquitous within our Western society that many of us write it off as a feature of the XY chromosomes as opposed to conditioning. It's as omnipresent to men as objectification is to women, and equally as despised.
The origin of male isolation comes from the same place as everyone else's disenfranchisement: Western Imperialism. Western imperialism teaches us that the way we get anything good in this world is through acts of conquest:
"We become happy by conquering sadness." "We become healthy by conquering our bodies." "We become good people by conquering the parts of us that are bad." "We become good adults by conquering our behavior as children." "We become masculine by conquering effeminacy." "We become cherished and loved by conquering the parts of ourselves that are problematic and detested." Etc.
The only way I was every able to really truly heal my lifelong traumas was by ending the reign of conquest in myself. Conquest is what traumatized me to begin with, so ending conquest is what allowed me to heal.
My guess is that the same logic can be applied on a societal scale. But it would mean changing the way we go about achieving results.
(I also want to point out that cis men actually have tons of rituals and rites of passage in relation to healthy masculinity. They're just covert, and rather than speak to one's sense of agency—which is something cis women and trans* folks desire in relation to their genders—they speak to one's sense of belonging, which is, again, what cis men desire in relation to theirs.)
It's a huge topic. It's taken days for me to even write this reply because there's so much about it I could say. Let me know if you want me to address something specific.
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let’s run through that full trans anime list (reposted privately) I was talking about earlier shall we:
wandering son - for better or for worse, THE trans anime basically ✅
onimai: now I’m your sister! - sure, i'm sure many found trans feels in the pedophile protagonist turned into a middle schooler by his younger sister, but I think the whole consistent sexualization of said protag and the inflicting of the author’s piss kink upon them (MIDDLE SCHOOL!!) should mean no one with a brain recs this one. I hate that I had to type this out. no promising words in this paragraph. ❌
Tokyo godfathers - yep we love hana. good rec. ✅
ranma 1/2 - op idc how much u wanted that curse and as much as I like trans ranma like. reccing this anime 2 someone who wants a trans anime??? no??? there are gender bender anime that I WOULD rec for trans shit and this is Not One ❌
blue period - yeah this one tracks as far as i know good rec ✅
fantasy bishoujo juniku ojisan to - THIS is a gender bender anime that’s a solid rec for trans shit. commentary on gender and the epitome of ‘something very lgbt happened to me’ ✅
that time I got reincarnated as a slime - idc how much gender envy the protag gives u that doesn’t make it TRANS, but I’ll give this one a pass bc like. there’s a bit of funky body stuff. I wouldn’t rec it for trans shit but it’s not like ‘why the hell is this here’ 👍
komi can’t communicate - there is an nb/‘ambiguous gender’ secondary character. haven’t watched myself so idk how much of a joke it’s played up to be but they are there ✅
stars align - I wish this anime got finished. yeah it’s trans. ✅
one piece - is this a fucking JOKE ❌
the little lies we all tell - yeah uh a guy being blackmailed by his sister to going to her all girls school so she can stalk an idol at his all boys school is very trans. /s ❌
your name - a BODYSWAP ROMANCE MOVIE IS NOT TRANS???? YOUR NAME IS NOT TRANS??? like… ❌
ouran high school host club - do i even need to say anything. it is 2024. why are we still genuinely reccing this one as an lgbt anime. 'some of the actions taken by characters can be problematic' okay. sure. yeah. ❌
to your eternity - the mc is a shapeshifter yeah who does take on female forms at time. there's a lil bit of gender shit i guess??? i'll put this as okay. ig. 👍
wonder egg priority - idk why you would rec an anime and go like 'ending was bad' but. sure. it does have a trans character. and an INFAMOUSLY bad ending. 👍
zombieland saga - yes!!! we have a trans girl solid rec. ✅
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I love this bug with all my heart
#trigun#trigun stampede#trigun fanart#trigun zazie#zazie the beast#I love this bug more then anything#they are the problematic nb we needed
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So who's your most problematic one?
Okay. So I've done Alec, Kelp, and Oak, so really the only one left is Tarlyn, who I honestly think is indeed my most problematic guy (gender neutral)
First of all, he's dead. Best get this out of the way. He is doomed by the narrative and bitches would die mad about it.
Then, let's talk about "guy (gender neutral)". He's an nb amab character who never questioned his gender and therefore used he/him all his life, so basically we're all misgendering him somehow so this is problematic.
His whole story is dark and edgy and awfully problematic. This sad wet rag of a boy covered in glitter never had a break; he was tormented by his mother his whole life and he never stopped loving her.
And that's not even touching on his actions yet. This anxious pixie nightmare boy is a spoiled LIL BITCH who thinks (or at least acts) like he's larger than life and better than everyone because that's the only way he can cope with his loneliness, looking at everyone as if they are beneath him. He is an arrogant bastard who genuinely thinks his nobility means he is entitled to his luxury, and that his intelligence makes him superior, and that his command of magic makes him deserving of accolades and applause and praise. But that's just to cover up his abysmal lack of self esteem, his vulnerability and his need for connection.
He is never nice to other people unless they're of higher status than him, or important in some way, otherwise he is either catty and rude or just uninterested and aloof. He unknowingly yearns for someone to love him (granted, abuse has made him incapable of identifying, let alone giving love), but whenever someone is nice in any way, he can't believe it is real and reads it as interest, as them wanting something in return. He reduces everyone into shrewd social-climbers in his eyes (thus insulting them) bc that's what his family is.
He insults his servants, he wears blood jewelry (and a bunch of it), he is vain and petty and snobbish and finicky, he uses magic to spy on people, he never prepared a single meal in his entire 150 years of life, he was over 100 years old when he started questioning whether it was really true that short-lived races are inferior to elves. He is a poor little meow meow born and raised and abused by multimillionaire right wing conservatives. My boy Tarlyn would vocally defend Trump in a modern au, what more do you need me to say? He is Problematic.
He spends a lot of time overthinking and questioning his family in his mind, but he never actually does anything to change shit.
Negative intervention wizard all the way. He doesn't start bullying anyone, but his friends do and they count on his magic to execute it, and he delivers. He was witness to {redacted}, designed a destructive magical item to be used by foot soldiers in an attack against the neighbouring nation, witnessed workers being gravely injured in his family's mines, and possibly even more! What other shit will we discover Tarlyn did?? The horrors are not over yet weeee!
And then, to escape all this shit, this extremely romantic asexual bitch (who needs to like someone to enjoy sex with them) seeks out sex with randos!! Because he is so lonely and he copies his jackass friends and his jackass brother and he is a people pleaser and he doesn't know how to set boundaries.... But he is so intelligent he convinces himself love is not real (he's never fucking seen it! Only in fiction! So it must!!! Be!!! Fake!!!!) and that he does want sex, when in reality he wants kisses and cuddles.... And he keeps getting in (or remaining in) these situations where he just proves it to himself that people only want to use him/his body/his magic/his position (whether that's true or not, he always manages to see it that way), thus confirming his cynical expectations and keeping himself miserable.
And that's not mentioning {redacted}.
Tarlyn wins my Problematic OC of the Decade Award!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
#tarlyn Icozrin#problematic ocs#he wins by a landslide lmao#tho I think Kelp would cause more divide bc he's a terrorist so it'd be like with Anders#but anyway#at least Tarlyn is reborn a goblin#in a happy loving family#and they are so so loved#and accepted exactly as they are#and taken care of#and taught how to recognise their emotions#and love redefined them#cw mental illness#cw character death#temporary character death lol#cw child abuse
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DD requested a classic chocolate on chocolate birthday cake so this is what I made for her.
We are heading out shortly to take her to lunch and then having cake and ice cream with my parents and opening a few gifts.
I’m going to try to get out for a quick walk to try to destress. I spent my morning/afternoon caking and shopping with Ms. 6 (and NB who insisted on tagging along). The amount of energy it takes me to manage that type of situation right now is astounding to me. It was fine—even good. Ms. 6 was happy but I am beyond drained from being a cheerleader and trying to help choose appropriate teen clothing for school that keeps her happy and meets (super minimum) dress code standards, as well as being the thinking brain for most of my family members who are struggling with ADHD.
DH seems to have extremely limited skills for being on time (problematic when kids need to be dropped off and picked up on time), prioritizing tasks, and motivating himself to do super necessary things like getting a job. I’m weary and angry as I have been the breadwinner for nine of our nearly 13 years of marriage. He needs to be working a legitimate job making actual money as our adoption assistance is ending for two of our kids in the next year or so, and we are not all going to make it on my $53k/year. Cue further stress for me: finding the jobs, walking him through the application process, nagging him to ensure he’s met the deadline. I had no idea this is what was in store when we married. He wasn’t diagnosed then and it’s a lot easier to manage crap when you’re only taking care of yourself, so even if he was diagnosed, I don’t think I would have been prepared for what we are dealing with right now.
Any advice from people with ADHD or those successfully married to a partner who is? I’m really struggling as my attention is needed elsewhere, and frankly I’m beyond tired.
#adhd#living with mental illness#birthdays#birthday cake#caking#shopping#parenting is hard#parenting teens
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🫀hello, I'm 21+ she/they and looking for someone to write with, 18+, preferably 21+ m/f, m/m and f/f, as well as a mix of pairings with nb/trans folks (basically looking for anything, with slight preferences, but the main thing to note is I only write subs (who aren't necessarily bottoms) when it comes to nsfw)
I'm looking for a fandomless rp with ocs. I have a couple ideas, though not anything I'm too set on, and would strongly prefer to figure out the plot and specifics together
romance, angst and fluff, hurt/comfort, fantasy/magic in a modern setting – love it, adore it, gimme anything dystopian/apocalypse or just dark/horror/mafia/historical settings are not up my alley cannot do actual slow burn justice, but yearning/pining is fun. smut is required, can even be the main focus, but still with plot
age-gaps and (step)cest are something that I am very interested in at the moment and would love to write (not looking for 🍪 though) I won't do any non-con, (extremely) toxic/abusive dynamics, pregnancy, humiliation/degradation. no scat, vore, gore, bestiality either
basically, I'm looking to write somewhat problematic things but with genuine romance and maybe slightly rose-tinted glasses
I write on discord only, multi-para (I break 2k characters limit but not always, and it depends on the scene) and in 3rd person. I don't expect you to match me, sometimes I just write a lot and don't need you to do the same – simply give me enough to work with (2-3 paras at least)
rapid fire is the dream, but I do have a full-time job, so looking for anyone active who can do 2 (and more) posts a day (currently on vacation, so will be more active the next week and a half) if you'll take longer with your post – please communicate so (also if there are any issues/you don't like something – tell me too) if you have a tendency to be inconsistent in your activity or disappear/ghost, please don't interact. if you cannot realistically write 2 or more posts a day, please do not interact either
I generally make ocs for specific rps to make sure they fit whatever we come up with. irl face claims or picrews/art/etc, all fine, I just need to have a visual of what your oc looks like - if you have a preference, I'll adjust
I'd like it if we could chat ooc and exchange headcanons, pinterest boards, gush about our ocs, plot together, etc. also looking for this to be long-term
for est timezone, I'm active during late day/evening and night. also english is not my first language and typos happen
if you got through all this and are interested, please like this post and I'll message you
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#oc rp#oc roleplay#fandomless rp#fandomless roleplay#mxf#fxf#mxm#mxnb#fxnb#nbxnb#dark roleplay#dark rp#spicy#dead dove
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alrighty, been a few months, let's try this again with a tweak or two 🫀hello, I'm 21+ she/they and looking for someone to write with, 18+, preferably 21+ m/f, m/m and f/f, as well as a mix of pairings with nb/trans folks (basically looking for anything ig, with slight preferences, but the main thing is I'd be looking to write my character as a sub)
I'm looking for a fandomless rp with ocs. I have a couple ideas, though not anything I'm too set on, and would strongly prefer to figure it out together. romance, angst and fluff, hurt/comfort, fantasy/magic with modern settings – love it, adore it, gimme anything dystopian/apocalypse, or just dark/horror/mafia/historical settings are not up my alley cannot do actual slow burn justice, but yearning/pining is fun. smut is required, can even be the main focus, but still with plot age-gaps and (step)cest are something that I am very interested in at the moment and would love to write (stepmother/stepfather with a daughter/son with me writing as the stepparent is the idea I'm still stuck on - not looking for 🍪 though) I won't do any non-con, (extremely) toxic/abusive dynamics, pregnancy, humiliation/degradation. no scat, vore, gore, bestiality either basically, I'm looking to write somewhat problematic things but with genuine romance and maybe slightly rose-tinted glasses
I write on discord only, multi-para (I break 2k characters limit but not always, and it depends on the scene) and in 3rd person. I don't expect you to match me, sometimes I just write a lot and don't need you to do the same – simply give me enough to work with rapid fire is the dream, but I do have a full-time job, so looking for someone active who can do 2 (and more) posts a day (currently on vacation so will be more active the next week and a half) if you'll take longer with your post – please communicate so (also if there are any issues/you don't like something – tell me too) if you have a tendency to be inconsistent in your activity or disappear/ghost, please don't interact. if you cannot realistically write 2 or more posts a day, please do not interact either
I generally make ocs for specific rps. irl face claims or picrews/art/etc, all fine, I just need to have a visual of what your oc looks like I'd like it if we could chat ooc and exchange headcanons, pinterest boards, gush about our ocs, plot together, etc. also looking for this to be long-term for est timezone, I'm active during late day/evening and night. also english is not my first language and typos happen
if you got through all this and are interested, please like this post and I'll message you
give a like and anon will get back to you
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Uchiha Week 2023 - Our Intention + Rules
from the 17th to the 23rd of July
Our intention for this event is to put some light on the Uchiha clan and celebrate all its members. The Uchihas are not only a shinobi clan but also a group of families, and like in any family gathering there is always the popular one, the prettiest one, the black sheep, the weird one, the problematic one, the one that no one remember the name, and so on and so forth...
We, as a fandom, act kind of the same way towards each other. Yet, this summer we wish to reunite the whole Uchiha fandom under the same positive task of creating more contents for our blorbo and why not creating also more content for some Uchiha that you usually don't pay much attention. Let's bring everyone together and celebrate what set them aside as the most popular and powerful clan of the Narutoverse.
Full Prompt HERE
!! RULES !!
1. Use the hashtag #uchihaweek2023 or #uchihaweek
2. At least one Uchiha-born needs to be the focus of your art :
-Main Uchihas : Sasuke, Madara, Itachi, Obito, Fugaku, Mikoto, Izuna, Tajima, Izumi, Shisui, Naori, Kagami, Sarada, Indra (yeah… technically not an Uchiha but he fathered them all!)
-Minor Uchihas : Inabi, Tekka, Uruchi, Teyaki, Yashiro, three unknown Madara’s brothers, Madara's mum.
3. Loose interpretation, and/or NSFW version of each prompt is allowed except inc*st and paedo***.
NB: inc*st concerns family relationship : parent/children, grandparent/grandchildren, sibling/sibling, first cousin/first cousin. A clan is different, by definition it's a mix of different family lineages which see themselves as descending from the same distant ancestor (in this case Indra).
4. If you need help to brainstorm your ideas, join our Uchiha Week channel in our Madara Squad discord HERE
5. Send us comments/asks/DMs or contact directly our mods @al-hekima-madara-blog and @margretesonigiri for more informations !
#uchiha week#uchiha week 2023#uchiha#uchiha clan#uchiha family#uchiha art#uchiha fanart#naruto#naruto fanart#naruto manga#naruto shippuden#sasuke#sasuke uchiha#sasuke fanart#madara#itachi#itachi uchiha#itachi fanart#obito#fugaku uchiha#mikoto uchiha#izuna uchiha#tajima uchiha#izumi uchiha#shisui uchiha#naori uchiha#kagami uchiha#sarada uchiha#sarada fanart#madara uchiha
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