#thetiesthatbindus

[katmtz22]

// You are my ☀️ my 🌚 and all my 💫’s // #grandson #mykingdom #thetiesthatbindus #thenanafiles #happiness #comeawaywithme #katt

[allthingsgreengreenliving]

😱I can’t believe these girls are now 32, 28 and 23!! Where has the time gone??! 😳 I have been called many things in my lifetime. 🗣Daughter, sister, cousin, wife, friend.... But out of all my roles in life my most favorite role has always been the one where these three beautiful women have called me mom! 🥰😍 🤩 I can’t even begin to describe how incredibly proud I am of each and everyone one of them. They are my superhero’s!! 🏆🏆🏆For which I would go to the ends of the universe for these girls. 🦸‍♀️ They are each unique in their very own special way. 💗Seeing how they’ve grown up to be such strong independent woman, 💜 kind hearted, 🧠 smart, and so very loving make my heart want to burst into a million pieces!!!🥰😍🥰😍🥰 There is seriously no better joy in life then to see your daughters happy and thriving. Happy 🎉daughters day my beauties!! 👩🏻‍🦰🧑🏻👧😘😘😘 One of them made my day today. ☎️ Calling me to say she’s coming home 🏡 early from thousands of miles away. ✈️ Can’t wait to see her and hug her again!! 😭😭I’m one happy mama!! . . . . . #daughtersday #superhero #theelitesuite #empowersocial #daughters #strongwomen #powerfulwomen #thetiesthatbindus #bonding #family #justlove #allthingsgreenliving (at Santa Maria, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B23cAfIl99A/?igshid=w1i8my4h6kdh

[ginab24]

From time to time I DEFINITELY have! #TheTiesThatBindUs #ISeeYou 💙💋🖤 https://www.instagram.com/p/B2rQhg7BzVT/?igshid=sv7um8hrl3r1

[fairyhillcrafts]

Yes I m there again ... I m researching honestly - festivals - glamping - caravans - I want to make *Elsie * that's her name so far - look amazing - my nan was called Elsie - or otherwise known as the old lady- tough as old boots - had 8 children - lost two in childhood and then two more in adulthood - it must be so hard to lose your children no matter what their ages - she kept going till she was nearly 98, where we decided she only died because now she was bored and could cause any trouble! Trouble kept her going! Nothing like a good fuss - to get the blood pumping !! When she was 75 she was cleaning house for people aged 50 and she was saying * oh bless them they re so old and useless*!! She did nt like old people and never saw herself as one - on her 95 birthday she was dolled up wearing a tiara - with a walker - playing the * old lady card*.... till the music started and she threw that walker away and got her groove on.. to the gasps of some - and the amusement of the rest of us.. She was a bloody old sod - but she was a strong woman who had had a hard life till her husband died - who enjoyed the last 30 years - and boy did she enjoy them.. and it was only after she d gone - I realised - I wish I d known her better.. #family #strength #thetiesthatbindus #elsie #livedalonglife #tiara #andmusic #funnymemes #livealifelessordinary #fairyhillcrafts

[jeffybruce]

Gian Paolo Barbieri #wakinguptofashion #photographer #image #timeless #themessageisclear #bettertogether #blacklivesmatter #uniteinpeace #demonstrate #kidgloves #makeastatement #bunkerboy #youreapwhatyousow #equalityforall #colorblind #jointogether #showthemthemeaning #weareone #cowardsbully #symbolism #fashionpolitics #thehumanbond #thetiesthatbindus #signofthetimes #seepasttheobvious #staysafe #click https://www.instagram.com/p/CA-H_qbp_Fe7I3IPyhWyoO3iUztUe3_2H9nQjM0/?igshid=1jxgspp29avzy

[cedar-woods]

My husband told me that performing oral on me makes him feel like he's suffocating

So I've gone back and forth on posting about this, especially without making an alt.....but I could really use some different perspective here

About 6 weeks ago my husband gave me oral. I felt like he is wasnt really in to it. Oral was something that used to occur regularly. It was his go to for helping me orgasm. He seemed to enjoy it, I never had to ask for it etc. This changed about 6 months ago. He's probably gone down on me 3-4 times in that time. He had some sinus issues at the start of that time and couldn't breathe too well so I guess it made sense that he couldn't go down on me

So this fateful day I mentioned that he didn't seem really in to going down on me lately. Asked him what was wrong. I wasn't really prepared for his answer, which was "when I do it I feel like I'm suffocating" (oral with me on my back, for what it's worth) he went on to tell me that he doesn't know why. That he knows nothing has physically changed. That it's his issue, it's in his head and not me etc.....

This hit me pretty hard, it hurt to hear. I can't quite explain it, I guess it was a hit to my ego. I can't help but feel like there's something wrong with me, even though he insists there isn't. He went from doing it all the time to hardly ever

For what it's worth (because I expect people to ask these questions) . Nothing has physically changed. I shave a couple of times a week. I shower daily, sometimes twice. I don't have an infection. I haven't gained weight etc

He hasn't gone down on me since this conversation and we'd reached a point the last month or so, where the only orgasms I was having with him were the times I managed to orgasm from piv alone (which is new for me and has happened about 5 times in the last month)

So today we had a big talk. I'll stick with the parts relevant to this line of conversation. When oral came up he said he thinks about it and he wants to do it, but he can't get past the fact that he felt like he was suffocating a few times. Then he said he was willing to give it a try if I hold my labia open so he has easier access to my clit. I felt awful, again like there's something wrong with me. My pussy all of a sudden makes him feel like he's suffocating?!

I told him I felt like that would be awkward, and that I didn't want it to be, because it had always been so good

Honestly, this is the only time in my adult life that I haven't wanted him to go down on me. Of course the longing is there, I think about it all the time, but when I think about him actually doing it.....I feel embarrassed and awkward and I wish I'd never asked what the problem was.

How can we move past this? How can I feel comfortable with him attempting to give me oral again? I feel like this is already probably the least "suffocating" position, but someone correct me if I'm wrong! I'm open to any suggestions right now

submitted by /u/TheTiesThatBindUs [link] [comments] source https://www.reddit.com/r/sexover30/comments/c3o14q/my_husband_told_me_that_performing_oral_on_me/

[3littlebyrdies]

My prayer for others, that they have a bond as strong as our family shares. #familyfirst #thetiesthatbindus #nothingiwouldntdoforthem

[kahjodan]

We may not have it all together, but together we have it all #TheTiesThatBindUs ❤️💛💚🌰 My beautiful little Gam Fam

[singingfolife]

Me and one of my favorite people on earth @papidon304 having fun after the barber shop. #thetiesthatbindus

[katmtz22]

// Sweetest boy ever!! The best part is the pecking sound, melts my heart!!! // ❤️🙊😍😘#thenanafiles #grandson #mylittleman #family #myheartandsoul #thetiesthatbindus #preciousmoments #katt

[oilonh2o]

New projects planned; #thetiesthatbindus #family

[uwpanhellenic]

Ready for some house tours! #uwffr13 #round2 #day3 #thetiesthatbindus (at UW: Greek Row)

[nickeym11]

[katmtz22]

// He's a big boy // 😍🐥 #mylittleman #grandson #thenanafiles #mykingdom #dinnertime #thetiesthatbindus #family #katt

[katmtz22]

// Big shout out out to my daughter who cleaned out and reorganized my pantry, you're the real MVP // 👍🏻🙌🏻🦄 #therealmvp #organized #thetiesthatbindus #happyhappyjoyjoy #katt #shegetsme

[katmtz22]

// My walking partner // 🌈🦄😎#shoeloveistruelove #familyfun #nike #teachinghimyoung #thetiesthatbindus #workoutmotivation #grandson #shoelust #katt #thenanafiles