#theres no obligation ofc /gen

[gamergirl-lumine]

People can be so amazing. They really can. Don’t give up hope just yet, cynics!

But I’m a cynic… *moral dilemma* I love everyone!

Have a shoe! 🥿

(Because sometimes I’m random)

reminder to:

straighten your back

go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT

go take your meds if you need to

drink some water

go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while

maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)

reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about

maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

[the-pea-and-the-sun]

this is another "post that was in the tags of another post but the tags got too long so now its its own post" post

so i saw another post abt saying "thank you" instead of "sorry" and i remembered how i first saw someone giving that advice a long time ago and it made me realize how much ive incorporated it into my speech since and how helpful its been. like ive heard this advice get dunked on a bit since then but it rly is so much better for both parties. like ive heard it helps some people unlearn shame about their own harmless actions but even besides that its made so many conversations so much easier for me. saying 'i appreicate u being patient btw ik i tend to ramble/get excited' or something is sm better than 'sorry i talk sm' cuz the latter might make the person feel obligated to reassure u at best but the former makes the other person feel like they r a good friend for listening to u. and ofc other ppl have said this before but i just kind of wanted to share the ways its been useful for me.

whenever i suddenly realize that ive lost a bit of self awareness and control when rambling thanking the other person for listening/being patient while i get to my point is gen sm more helpful. like even besides the fact that theres no point in apologizing for something ultimately harmless that ive always done and am never gonna be able to stop from happening sometimes it lets u jus kinda keep talking seemlessly too. like if u say sorry an they're nice theyll prob stop and reassure u, which sucks bcz if you were just enthusiastically rambling abt something u probably dont want the conversation to suddenly turn into a conversation about the way you tend to ramble. assuming the other person is willing/would like you to continue and you're not done you probably just wanna stop and be considerate of the other person for listening real quick before continuing, and thats why an thank you allows the conversation to continue much more smoothly than an apology.

an ofc it applies to other situations too if u feel the instinct to offset shame to combat ur social anxiety this gives u an alternative to apologizing, which other people have talked abt but theres a lot of unspoken communication that happens in an apology vs a thank you that most people arent even aware is happening. like i started saying 'thanks for hanging out w me i had fun!' after outings an ppl always seem to respond well and it kind of helps to offset my anxiety abt if a social outing went well. like thinking "what if i committed a major faux pas and everyone knows abt it but me" sucks because there isnt a way to address those feelings directly without basically accusing the other person of secretly being mad at you, but what you can do is acknowledge as far as you're concerned, the social interaction went well (not to mention if the other person is having the same anxieties you are this can be helpful to them to). like well at least they know i had a good time an enjoy/appreciate their company thats all i can do. i did my best to be kind and respectful and if i did something wrong and they aren't telling me i simply cannot account for their feelings. however they felt/feel abt it is out of my hands.

anyway i might edit this post later cuz i gotta go to work i just had to get this out real quick hopefully this is helpful to some ppl :)

[pierrotdoesnteat]

positivity train!

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[gamergirl-lumine]

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@gamergirl-lumine

Yeah. I tagged my own name. You gotta love yourself first, to truly love others.

I know that, whoever is reading this, you are an amazing, beautiful human being. And anyone who says otherwise? I’m charging them for noise pollution, because then at least you make money off of ‘em.

Have the best day ever! Sleeping is so important! Don’t starve yourself for the media, you’re beautiful how you are!

positivity train!

if you see this or are tagged in it, tag a couple of your favorite mutuals/blogs and let them know you appreciate seeing them on your dash!

@h0neysugarfree @blueberrylovv @bequiteanddriveeeeeee @cherri-bomb-bomb @eg0mechan1c @fatrexicisback

[midwesternvibes]

OHHHH MY GOD THERES SO MUCH

Heres a glimpse into my mind lol

Imagine AU (the one where he dies)

Big Brother AU (Leo stop adopting children istg- AND GET BACK IN YOUR UNIVERSE!!)

Lost in the stars, Crossed in the end (stop making deals you can't handle dammit! AND STAY AWAY FROM THAT DAMN RABBIT!!)

Hamato: Next Gen (happy ending yay! Oh wait hold up they're not great at parenting oh no)

Across Dimensions (Rise Leo and 12 Mikey are better than everyone change my mind)

HIPS (shhhhhhh no spoilers tee hee)

Basically the same (Tony Stark put that purple teenager DOWN istg-)

Legacy of the Gods (Lou jistu can get bitches. 4 to be exact.)

One Jump (LEO JUST LET YOURSELF BE LOVED)

TMNT 2023 (MY OWN ITERATION LETS GOOOOOOOOO)

Do you get Deja vu? (Sad old man leo and weddings)

Hunger games au (?????)

Leon me alone!!! (LEO STOP GETTING SEPERARATED FROM YOUR BROTHERS (RAPH AND DONNIE STOP BEATING UP STRANGERS))

Villain leo au (no spoilers sorry tee hee)

GAH I think that's all of it??? HMU if anyone wants to know/ is intrigued by any of these!!!! Hamato: Next Gen takes up 18 pages in my ideas notebook ALONE

Tagging uh : @nardos-primetime @turts-my-beloved @microsofttothemax @gejnialnie

no obligation ofc and thanks for the tag @beetleviolet !!!!!

Wip Game!

Rules: in a new post, post the names of all the files in your wip folder regardless of how non descriptive or ridiculous. Let people send you an ask with the title that most intrigues them and then post a little snippet and tell us about it!

Alright, alright, I'll play lol A lot of my "wips" are actually either concept art or just the files for finished pieces. That being said, here's some that aren't finished that're from last year too :o

birbo

cain

dtiysconcept

falconer don

favorite

keychain idea

twinpathy brush tests

so many of these files are actually finished files and not actually wips in these folders oh my god- I need to reorganize them

Hmmm I'm gonna taaaaagggg

@superfruitland @sunnyyyteaaa @dragonpastels

and anyone else who wants in on it!