#the whole brain child

[my-commonplace]

The Whole-Brain Child, Daniel Siegel and Tina Bryson

[discoveringmyself88]

♥️

[berryicet]

@flareboi you gave me a bit of inspo

[enderspawn]

to be fair. on one hand it’s so emotional seeing that both the players and the admins/eggs are so effected by all this. they cared so deeply and got so attached.

but on the OTHER hand, it’s exceedingly funny to imagine them just trying to like. be Normal Friends after all this. like “hey i know we’ve been interacting for literal weeks where you were my son/daughter, buts it’s nice to finally meet you!!! what’s your name btw.”

[drenched-in-sunlight]

Right, let’s all blame everything on Marika 😂👍 it’s not like she can even talk anymore to defend herself 😂👍 why didn’t she run from the torture jar faster before her blood became tainted and her psyche forever damaged am i right? 😂

God i hope i get to beat this guy’s ass later on.

Also wtf Miquella… finding out your mother used to be abused & thinking wow i need to renounce all of this history is crazy. I knew he was spending too much time with Radagon, their brain cells were merging. I hope to God he found Bonny village after discarding Trina which was why all his love and empathy was gone so he made that headass remark. Because if not then istg i will beat your ass too, Miq. What the fuck.

(To make it clear, this is not even about Marika’s conquests later on btw, this is specifically about her origins. “His bloodline was tainted” “unhinged from the start”. This guy’s castle is right next to Bonny Village and Whipping Hut and his Swordhand of Nights bodyguards are implied to be born in Bonny Gaol (one of those girls is even a puppet !!! wtf !!! Like what that freakass Seluvis was doing in the base game). If there’s a walking hypocrite around here i only see him.)

[bbaycon]

Gramps are catching up after 3600 yearish

[cheeseboi420]

Every time i think abt robin!jason being betrayed by his mom i cry actual real jesus tears. I could have parented him :(

I think about it so frequently ive genuinely started plotting a reader insert fic where reader takes the place of sheila and jason gets to reunite with a mom who actually Loves Him. Would anyone read that??? Is anyone reading this????? Hello jaybin nation?????

[luck-of-the-drawings]

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saw alot of comments on prev pages; saying 'i HATE that mean teacher! im gonna FIGHT HIM!!' & i LOVE the energy!! it WOULD be nice. to have that catharsis. but the story of young tidestrider is Not one of catharsis. it is a story of being so small and so special and sucking so bad.

[unh0lyvenom]

you idiot. we could have been... us.

[idk-bruh-20]

Irondad fic ideas #154

CW: this one's pretty gruesome. read at your own risk 

Peter is a young child who's been kidnapped. His parents and/or his aunt and uncle were killed and he was taken. Along with a bunch of other little kids, he's been held captive and experimented on.

When the Avengers suddenly bust the kidnapping operation, the kidnappers try at the last second to destroy their research. They gas the small room where the kids are being held.

It's Iron Man who ends up blasting through. What he finds is horrifying. All but one of the children are dead.

The one who's left is just sitting among the bodies, crying, shocked, terrified. Iron Man carries him out of there, then once they're safe from the gas Tony steps out of the suit to comfort the kid while he's given oxygen.

Little 5-year-old Peter Parker imprints on his savior hard.

He just went through an unimaginable amount of trauma, then Iron Man burst through like an avenging angel. This is the first time he's ever felt protected in his memory. Tony holds the crying kid, and the kid can tolerate no one else near him.

This becomes a slight problem when they get back to base. But Tony can't find it in him to let SHIELD take the kid away, let them strip him of this one tiny bit of comfort. He keeps seeing all those other kids when he closes his eyes.

This one needs him right now. And if "right now" eventually becomes "this is my son," well. Who could've predicted that.

[my-commonplace]

When relationships are cold and people are essentially distant, critical, or competitive, that influences what the child expects relationships to feel like. On the other hand, if the child experiences relationships full of nurturing warmth, connection, and protection, then that will become the model for future relationships--with friends, with other members of various communities, and eventually with romantic partners and their own children.

- The Whole-Brain Child, Dan Siegel and Tina Bryson

[cconfusedkat]

I don't got Too much to offer at the moment ,BUT !!!!! DHWJDHSFNW I wanted to elaborate further on my infodumping regarding Shamura's old town as a child as well as what their life was like before the crown of war and wisdom

Itll probably be about another minute or so :>c possibly up to 1:56 id say

In Short,,, shamura went from being a simple child attending church every week -> a new priest that helped volunteer with the church -> becoming a cardinal at the clergy ,,, Piling that all with other after school activites (regarding sports & gifted) they were frequently VERY stressed out as a child,,, it lead to them burning down the whole clergy and "crying for absolution",,, No one knew the cardinal burnt down the clergy so the town had been very paranoid,, and it was all this almost 17 yr old's fault with not knowing how to cope with it :'-]c

They were the smartest & most "prodigal" child of silk cradle at the time,,, often having people both older and younger look up to them for how they were the best example of a church kid should quote on quote Behave

With all the heavy set expectations they had really bad coping mechanisms such as not only being a perfectionist immediately at 11 years old ,but Also being too obsessed with the idea of fire and eventually it dwelling into pyromania (which mental illness that long ago was deemed as psychotic so they were very undertreated) ,,

[skunkes]

observations while im continuing my first DM reread after the talon brain invasion of september 2023

[souenkun]

I had a nice talk with @teriiblog about my aokabu being married fic, and although we got kabu's hand placement wrong in our excitement, it still got me thinking: what if, after aokabu got married, kabu changed his battle pose by laying his left hand (with his wedding ring on!) over his heart, instead of his right one (which showed the galar league symbol on his glove)? It could become a way for kabu to show his devotion for larry, even if they could still live in their respective regions after tying the knot? 😭💖

Kabu could keep this very same battle pose, just that he'll exchange his right hand over his left one! 🥺🥺🥺 the galar league might not mind it too, especially if this change in kabu's pose takes place in leon's leadership! 💗

[dreadfutures]

And lo! in the month of darkness And lo! his name destroyed And lo! he still whispers in silence And lo! he went into the void

The blood ran out, and I became a god.

[mulders-too-large-shirt]

the x files au where everything is exactly the same except mulder takes home the child neanderthal from the jersey devil episode and raises them as his own