#the situationship that turned her emo

[this-is-out-of-hand]

So season 2 of Arcane… wow

SPOILERS FOR SEASON TWO INCOMING

My contribution to the insanity? Some quick Vi sketches

[shyshitter]

i can’t believe no one is talking about cait x maddie. You just broke up w your butch situationship bc she didn’t want you to turn into a fascist so you go fall into the arms of the first person who encouraged you to become the leader of a police state. all the while the butch turns into an emo underground street fighter who pushes away everyone who shows her kindness bc she can’t handle them leaving her again. Insane show written by insane people for insane people who love insanity. and toxic gays.

[magical-girl-coral]

Good Guy Porter AU (AKA @wh1teegretorchid and I jokingly starting a prompt together at discord only for it to get wildly out of control.)

*Instead of being raised in the Cliffbreaker clan, Porter's father stole him away while he was still a baby to live in Bastion city where the stench of the city could cover their tracks. Thanks to the spy tongue curse, Porter's father couldn't tell his son why he ran away from home or why they can't connect with their family. All he could tell him was to stay in Bastion City no matter what.

*It stayed that way until Porter's father was diagnosed with lung cancer from the toxic air of the city. He joked in his last days that if he knew this is how he would die, he would picked up a pack to enjoy the ride. He died six months after starting his cancer treatment.

*Traumatized from his father's dead and pissed at the city for taking away his only family, Porter buried him as close to the Elmville as possible before moving their permanently. He bought a nice house in Tillering with what his father gave him in the will and became a health nut as a trauma response.

*This Porter is a redemption paladin in the honor of his father, who always believed in second chances, especially after escaping the Cliffbreaker cult.

*He starts working at Aguefort a week after settling down at his new home. He meets Jace Stardiamond at a teacher's night out during a weekend and they immediately entered a situationship.

*This Porter didn't meet Kipperlilly until near the end of her freshmen year. He found a day after the prompocalypse, punching a tree out of jealousy of Riz's success as a tragic rogue and frustration of doing everything by the book but getting no rewards for it. He suggests to her to multiclass into barbarian so she'd have a healthy outlet for her rage under watch of an adult. She reluctantly agreed when Jawbone said it was a good idea.

*While training with Porter after class, he starts suggesting her to go on adventures rather than killing pests in the school backyard behind the school's back, teaching her to break rules that hold her back. The High Five Heroes become actual accomplished adventurers on their own and Kipperlilly's need for validation from strangers weakens after bonding with her team and bonding with Porter.

*Shits goes sideways after the High Five Heroes return from their spring break. Lucy starts to get distant from everyone else, backing out of team bonding activities and failing her cleric classes. She gets more snippy and abrasive, causing concern about her friends and family. On the day her loved ones gathered for an intervention, Lucy goes missing.

*One the same day Lucy is declared dead from a scrying spell, the world delves into darkness for six months thanks to Riz. A voice in the back of Kipperlilly's head points out how convenient was for Lucy's killers that the Night Yorb was released on the day the town found out she was gone. Her hatred towards the Bad Kids come back with a vengeance.

More details under the cut.

*The party joins Porter's unofficial bootcamp to train so they could catch Lucy's killers. Oisin got buff, Ruben became emo, Ivy started dressing punk and they all maxed out their levels. They called it "the summer from hell."

*Porter and Jace were hit hard by Lucy's death too. Porter's developed a nasty temper and Jace was stressed out from trying to keep everyone in line. Porter's house became their HQ.

*Kipperlilly had already pretty much lived with Porter and Jace since her sophomore year thanks to a combo of found family and her parents being that neglectful. What was once a happy home turned into a horror movie where they're all trying to survive each other's grief.

*In the middle of summer when Gilear declared he plans on going on a trip with Hallerial, Jace is named the vice principal. He used his new found position to rewrite the party's achievements into just grinding rats in the Far Haven Woods so they'll be underestimated and whoever killed Lucy won't go after them. They renamed themselves the Rat Grinders to sell it, as much as it pained them.

*Ruben's song Get Mad in this world is a part of a five song demo album where he wrote a song for each stage of grief he suffered following Lucy's death. Get Mad was the anger stage and it became the song of the summer after a bunch of other teens related to it thanks to the lack of sun.

*Kipperlilly's campaign was written in Lucy's honor, calling out the school's irresponsibility with the students' livelihood and all the other injustices they've faced. In this timeline, Kristen does not call her four different dogs. Even she knows better here.

*Mary Ann joined the owl bears as a healthy outlet to the the stress caused Lucy's death and her teammates going fucking insane. She secretly burns through a rage every morning to stay stable.

*One of the plot ideas is that the bad kids get to be treated like NPCs for once, for better or for worse. Adaine's wizardry supplies get payed by Oisin along with the rest of the wizards to point out how insane it is that they have to buy it themselves. Kipperlilly hacks into the police data base to find possible suspects and releases Sklonda's final paycheck since she was already there. Gorgug and Fig aren't being personally groomed by Porter so they have an easier time with their classes. Kristen didn't lose Cassandra in this world and Fabian gets a new maid who's a "friend" of Cathilda's to look after him. He wonders what that speared sun tattoo on her shoulder means though.

*During the shrimp party at Fabian's, Oisin and Ivy's job was to drug up people at the party to loosen their tongues and gather more information was Kipperlilly was sneaking around at the police department. Oisin continued to hit his shots after meeting Adaine, but his aim was a lot shakier and he kept looking over his shoulder to see if someone is still there.

*When Fig disguised herself as Lucy and went away on her skateboard, the hair on Ivy's arms stood up. She iced out Fabian from the rest of his friends and once they were finally alone, she took out her knife form her boot and threatened to skewer him if he doesn't tell her what he knows about Lucy. Fabian confessed he thought they killed Lucy because their first quest involved a preppy girl selling out her blue skinned friend to get a position in the student body. A misunderstanding cleared but a mental breakdown on the horizon, Ivy and Oisin book it out of the party to relay all the information to the rest of their party.

*Buddy's introduction was planned by Porter with recommendations in the hopes of getting the party a cleric with a deity that's the exact opposite of Lucy's might make it easier on the Rat Grinders. Unfortunately, he has the same bright eyed and believing there's good in everyone attitude that Lucy had, so he only pours salt in the wound.

*Buddy is having the worst time. His new party was visibly on the brink and none of his words of advice are helping. Helio won't answer his prayers when he asks what's going on. His grandfather is breathing down on his neck and keeps insisting on converting the rest of the Rat Grinders even when Buddy respects their no. And why does everyone seems angrier lately?

And that's all for now because this post is getting heavy and my computer is gonna break soon. I have enough for a part two but only god knows when that will be written down.

[ao3feed-piltovers-finest]

Every Song I Sing (I Sing for You)

by Oddball_Apollo

Caitlyn Kiramann is an immensely popular classical composer, her fame and popularity is widely known in Piltover though her identity is not known to the public, going by the alias Cadenza. However, Cait secretly aspires to be a folk/indie singer, touring the world.

Violet Lane is in a rock/alt/punk band, Hounds of the Underground, and are Zauns rising star. Though despite their rising fame the band is having trouble scraping by as Piltover producers have often turned them away. Their only hope being to make pave their own path.

The twos lives become intertwined when they meet at a bar for its weekly show and are both asked to go on tour across the nation. This could boost their fame to levels previously unknown, but can they share the spotlight?

Words: 5668, Chapters: 1/?, Language: English

Fandoms: Arcane: League of Legends (Cartoon 2021)

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: F/F, F/M, M/M

Characters: Caitlyn (League of Legends), Vi (League of Legends), Jinx (League of Legends), Ekko (League of Legends), Jayce (League of Legends), Viktor (League of Legends), Mel Medarda, Original Non-Binary Character, Sevika (Arcane: League of Legends), Silco (Arcane: League of Legends), Claggor (Arcane: League of Legends), Mylo (Arcane: League of Legends)

Relationships: Caitlyn/Vi (League of Legends), Ekko/Jinx (League of Legends), Jayce/Viktor (League of Legends), Mel Medarda/Original Character(s), Jinx & Vi (League of Legends), Caitlyn & Jayce (League of Legends), Caitlyn & Vi (League of Legends)

Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Rock Band, Alternate Universe - Bands, Touring the world with your enemy is totally not gay, (it is), Caitvi Focus, Useless Lesbians, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Cait is a Folk/Indie artist, Vi is a Punk/Rock/Alt artist, The Gangs All Here, minus vander...sorry hes still dead, Jinx and Vi are still siblings, Angst and Fluff and Smut, Slow Burn, Eventual Smut, Original Character cause im cringe but im free, Mutual Pining, your honor they are lesbians, Caitlyn is famous, Emo Vi (League of Legends), jayce and viktor are engaged, we dont talk about s2 arcane the situationships never ended shhh, chaotic friendships lead to insane situations

Read on A03. from AO3 works tagged ‘Caitlyn/Vi (League of Legends)’

[daseiins]

hello, im sean :)

20 y/o, they/he prns, designated tumblr dasein guy

i mostly post abt wizard101 and a bit of gta 5 here and there

below are a list of my wiz ocs :)

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Cowan Spiritwalker - 170 - he/him - death

-necromancer and aspiring mortician

-grown up emo kid turned demigod

-only a little bit murderous. he swears.

-too busy serving cunt to help you

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Miles Wyrmjaw - 170 - he/him - storm

-diviner and professional at stealing your old tech you���re not using anymore

-WILL tell you about whatever new device he’s making, whether you asked or not

-just a Little Bit unnerving

-makes bad storm puns when it’s been quiet for too long

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Scarlet Sunheart - 162 - she/they - fire

-pyromancer and the hottest girl who’s ever beaten you up

-tells the best campfire stories & can roast perfect marshmallows

-scion of bartleby but completely melts when pretty girls talk to her

-had a situationship with the old one that was so bad she swore off dating men forever

-will use her magic to light the bong

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Dakota Spiritweaver - 161 - he/she/they/it (any prns) - life

-Yeah That’s A Life Wizard I Guess

-nobody’s seen her face in years and plants grow wherever she walks

-he barely speaks but people always seem to understand what he wants

-more of a cryptid than a person

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Calamity Willow - 88 - she/her - balance

-sorcerer who has lived through The Horrors (her stomach hurts)

-maybe if i just look at my enemy with big sad wet eyes they’ll leave me alone

-i really wanted to go have some tea but sure i guess ill fight god instead

-will throw a shoe at you

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Ellie Seahaven - 39 - she/her - ice

-ice mains im so sorry

-develop her? i hardly know her!

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Dorian Nightburn - 29 - he/him - myth

-the most sopping wet cat of a conjurer you’ll ever meet

-sorry about the Horrors king at least you have a boy to kiss

-covered in noisy trinkets and hates excess attention

-Having A Bad Time Overall

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[scarletlizzard]

Tw: Men

EMO FRIENDLY? I SHOULD'VE STAYED EMO. My first bf broke up with me because I didn't dress like the popular girls and also because I didn't want to kiss him in public 💀 (I was 16) and that's when I turned into a lesbian /hj. But tbh my first ever wlw situationship (because, yeaahh, we never got to the "let's date and move in together" part) left me "violently crying, screaming, shaking, throwing up, pulling out my hair, bashing my head into the wall and going apeshit crazy" (not in the good way) I met her the day after my birthday and I cut things off mid January. Now I dress like I want to without caring about being criticized. Sadly, my style is almost the same as the ones I said before, but now that I think about it, my make up and style do vary but most of the time it's inspired by Taylor Momsen.

🫦🫦

Thanks for the TW 🙏

That's so fucked up?? Men are kinda... the worst? Ahh I'm sorry that happened. I think everyone has to have a situationship at least once in their life 😅 Although FUCK that. Clear communication is so fucking hot. You wanna be in a relationship? Great. Just wanna hook up? Cool, thanks for letting me know ahead of time. Both are fine and valid, communication is key though. No one asked for my thoughts but there they are 🫶

Your style sounds cool! I just... don't have a style. Very loser core (not being mean just that's all I can explain lol) Y'all ever seen the movie Bottoms? 💀

[deertaz]

I'm Back

This account was something I made when I was 14 and in a very bleak time of my life. I have deleted most of my old posts, not only because I wish to forget that time, but also because as an adult, I now understand how venting towards a public space can validate and enable the self-harmful behaviours of other people.

Luckily this account got nothing more that a few notes, with a handful of people looking at what I posted. But, I would like to apologise to anybody who saw my posts and were triggered by it.

I never participated in any group chats or messages encouraging my or the EDs of others. Even then, I saw the danger of such things. However, through sharing my experiences and harmful thoughts in visceral detail, I may have contributed to the validation of others as mentally damaged as I was at the time. Again, I am lucky that next to nobody saw this account.

So, take this as a reintroduction of myself;

Hi, I'm 'Taz', I'm 19. I'm in Uni right now with a freelance job. I love dressing in alternative 'gothic' styles, listening to emo, metal, goth and alternative music. I've experienced a lot since I've been gone, and have been incredibly lucky over the past 3-4 years since my departure.

I have gained lifelong friends who truly value me for the person I am. I graduated high school at 16 and, since then, have found a confidence in myself that I never knew I had. I am capable, thriving and happy with myself and the things I have accomplished so far. I spoke in front of a crowd of 200 last year, and realised how the only thing holding me back is myself.

I no longer feel ashamed about my interests, nor my appearance. I don't hide my love for childish and nerdy things. I'm just a bit odd, but standing out both appearance-wise and personality-wise have turned out to be an asset. It has drawn the most remarkable and kind people to me. I met my platonic soulmate, who has been my best friend for 3 years.

And yes, I have not been friends with that girl I ranted about in 2019 for over 4 years (left the post up since I believe it isn't harmful). What she said and did to me wasn't okay, I'm proud of myself for finally being able to cut her out of my life. I was a very insecure lonely person, who didn't understand how friends should treat you. I never had friends as a child, since I was considered weird. So joining high school (I was 11, UK) made me try to change myself, I was quiet and agreeable. When she offered me friendship I was very happy, but did not have the self confidence nor the wisdom to realise that she was treating me horribly. I understand now, and am quite a lot better with setting boundaries.

I have had two partners, and one on and off situationship thing (lol). I'm not a lesbian, I'm Bi with a preference for women. My parents know. I have a 17 year old brother who I love to pieces, every day I am taken a-back by how much I get on with him. I value our closeness and am very grateful that he's in my life.

My relationship with my mother has been rocky at times, especially from 10-16. But I no longer live at home, so my interactions with her have improved a lot. I love her, she is a kind person, though very temperamental. She is also no longer bedridden!

I am now 19, I am older. I am much better at handling her outbursts. I stand up for myself without shouting back. I realised the best way to respond to her is either by removing myself, or by asking her questions, 'did you take your meds today?', 'why do you think you are angry?', 'Does this warrant shouting?'.

My favourite thing to say is, 'I love you mum, but I hate how you are acting right now.'

It shows to her that I love her, what I'm saying isn't an attack on her character, but on her current actions. It's a pretty good way of letting her know (I think).

Anyways, rant over (for now). For anybody still struggling with an ED, please seek comfort in others. Tell somebody. It's a slow recovery, and you might relapse a few times before it gets better. But it does get better. For anybody still in those awful teen years, it's a shitty waiting game but the end post is in sight, and it's a path to something far brighter.

-Taz

[my-name-is-bunnyfoxy]

warning this is gonna be a very long post. Get prepared.

Let's do this...

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1)DOGDAY X CATNAP:

LITERALLY MY OTP

Sun x Moon duo>>>>>>>>

I love them so much!!

Their dynamic is so amazing, I love it, I wanna squeeze them, they make me mentally ill OH MY GOD

Introvert x extrovert

Energetic x Calm

Sunshine x emo

Unpopular opinion: Their relationship can work as friends, brothers, dating anything really.

I hate the fact that the fandom sexualizes them so much and makes their ship problematic like- GIVE ME SOMETHING CUTE COME ON!!!

They are literally a ship in every AU of mine lmao

Also an unpopular opinion: I feel like it's fine to ship their bigger bodies experiments, AS LONG AS! They are the same age/close to each other's age (whether that be that they are both kids or adults idk I cannot figure their ages out and if the toys can age), there is no problematic stuff going on and also that it's before the events of the game and also before the Hour Of Joy. In other words, they were like a couple way before everything went downhill. Maybe one of them or both had feelings for each other but never acted on them or they did in fact date. Maybe they had a situationship!? Or even better!! They knew each other when they were both humans and were childhood friends!!! Also just think about the angst potential man!!! Imagine you befriend someone and you then fall in love with them and you built years of trust and love only for your partner to throw it all away for a false god who manipulated it and turned it into a mindless slave. Like that is depressing. And I really wanna actually know if Catnap ever said anything to the Prototype about killing the Smiling Critters. While I believe it's hinted at that he didn't get along well with the other critters, let's go with the idea that they did and or Dogday was the only one to care and love him. Like- was there ANY hesitation?? Was Catnap horrified of the idea of killing his assigned friends, especially his best friend and possible lover like-!? OH MY GOD THE ANGST MAN-

Anyways uhhhh- their first date or even their first kiss is during a solar eclipse because I said so!!!

they are also so calling their child Eclipsa, Luna, Solar, Eclipsa or anything sun and or moon themed related. Or maybe even planets related since uhhhh- tehnically the moon and the sun are planets- Yes I'm aware the sun is a star don't come after me-

they groom each other lovingly

Dogday learned sign language just for Catnap and even when he is talking he used it because honestly to him it's fun.

Dogday wants Catnap to play and enjoy life. Meanwhile Catnap wants Doday to relax and rest every once in a while.

Don't kill me but Dogday is wearing the pants in this relationship.

They cuddle in bed together.

I hc Dogday can play the guitar so he writes songs that are dedicated for Catnap only.

They both actually dream of settling down, getting married and even possibly having kids. I headcannon they would absolutely love to have as many children as they can.

Nothing else to say other than infinity/10.

2)BUBBA X BOBBY:

It's actually kind of cute to a certain degree.

While not my most preffered ship, I can see it really.

I feel like Bubba would stay up late working meanwhile Bobby is awake the whole time and makes him coffee and or food while encouraging him to not work too hard and stress himself.

Bubba might feel guilty he doesn't show the same amount of affection to Bobby as she does to him. To that he feels guilty so whenever he gets the time, he spends time with her and does whatever she loves. Even maybe taking her out on fancy dates.

He genuinely loves her <3

Overall maybe a 5 or 6/10(?)

3)BOBBY X HOPPY:

Ahhhhhhh I love them so much!!!

Also my OTP!

Bobby is Hoppy's biggest fan and supports her all the time.

Bobby attends all of Hoppy's games and even will sometimes try to get in some of the sports she does. Even if she might not be that good at certain things.

Hoppy adores Bobby's affection and absolutely craves for her attention.

Hoppy will sometimes be whinny and demanding with Bobby. Pleading and begging her to give her her attention.

Lesbian jock x soft girl.

WAIT- BOBBY AS A CHEERLEADER THAT CHEERS FOR HOPPY YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Bobby also might be the reason for Hoppy to cool down a little and relax.

When they are tired they simply cuddle in bed and Bobby plants several kisses all over Hoppy's face.

Bobby so plays with Hoppy's ears. Hoppy's ears are sensitive and she only trust Bobby to touch them.

Bobby keeps talking about how happy she would be for Hoppy to be her wife and marry her, have kids and live with her. They both actually want to do it as soon as possible. I mean they are both happy so why not get it over with am I right?

A solid 10/10.

4) CATNAP X HOPPY:

Not really too into it really.

Although- Calm x Loud and tired x energetic dynamic <3

I think it be cute to some level.

Although Catnap would get annoyed by Hoppy constantly trying to pull him out of bed just so they can go and play. And Hoppy hates it when he spends all his time being lazy and not doing anything.

Catnap would probably try to get into her interests but just can't really. Although despite that, he is still very supportive and wants to show his support for Hoppy.

If they did get in a relationship I feel like it be a bit more short lived as they don't really see fit for each other. They are still friends though of course.

I'd give this a 5/10 if I'm gonna be honest. I can maybe see it... I guess...

5)HOPPY X KICKENCHIKEN:

This was actually my OTP before Hoppy x Bobby.

Even though that has since changed, I still love this ship.

Rivals to lovers in my opinion.

They both respect each other despite their competitive attitudes.

They challenge each other left and right.

They still love one and other.

"Anything you could do I can do better than you" is all I hear with these two.

They would probably deny their feelings at first until they eventually come to the conclusion that they do actually wanna make out with each other.

Their favorites sports are football and basketball.

Hoppy attempted surfing for Kickin and she ended up loving it and now does it whenever it's summer time and warm.

Kickin teases her by touching her ears which she gets annoyed by.

They throws jabs at each other and tease each other a whole ton. In an affectionate way of course.

Dope ship, I love it, I know some might find their dynamic generic but I love it and they absolutely fit with each other. 10/10.

6) BUBBA X KICKENCHIKEN:

Jock x nerd

I love their name star student!

I feel like Kickin makes the worst pick up lines and yet somehow Bubba actually likes them.

Kickin keeps trying to convince and tell Bubba to relax every once in a while. As Kickin wants Bubba to enjoy life and not waste it by simply working and or studying. Not saying he should suddenly stop doing what he likes but to just make time for himself to relax and maybe even enjoy other things as well.

Bubba has no idea how he fell for this dude but he did.

Kickin fell hard for him, but Bubba fell harder.

Bubba tutors Kickin.

They both enjoy sunbathing and swimming in the water.

I forgot to mention but- dumbass x smartass lol

In my opinion 9/10!

7) BOBBY X CATNAP:

AHHHHHH I love them so much!!

They have a very cute and adorable dynamic in my opinion.

Sweet loving and extroverted girl x Calm quiet introverted boy!!

Catnap's original name was supposed to be Kuddle Kitty... they both cuddle in bed.

Bobby doesn't mind laying around in bed with Catnap all day. In fact, she enjoys it! Mostly because they can still cuddle and show each other affection.

Bobby would absolutely help Catnap express more emotions and show him correct ways of dealing with his feelings.

Bobby manages to learn "I love you" in sigb language first. It does take her a while but she manages to learn how to do sign language. She panics if she messes up or not and sometimes gets lost with her hand movements. Catnap reassures her it's alright and that she will learn and figure it all out. That it takes time.

Bobby sends several gifts to Catnap whenever she can.

While Catnap would love to settle down one day, he finds it funny how excited Bobby is and is also a little taken aback by her planning way ahead of herself on how their wedding would be like, how many children they will have, where they will live, what traditions they can have, how many grandchildren they will have, what pets they might wanna have, where they will retire, when and how they died and where they will be barried-

Overall 10/10 as well!

8) PICKYPIGGY X CATNAP:

I wasn't originally that big on the ship but honestly, it has a little bit of potential.

While not my most favorable ship, I do kind of ship it tbh-

I actually headcannon that Catnap loves baking. Baked food takes time to be actually baked so he can take a nap while he waits. He only wakes up when the timer goes off. And I headcannon Picky's favorite foods are baked foods. So I feel like they would both bake together.

Catnap actually has a massive sweet tooth so him and Picky together bake cakes, cupcakes, cookies, brownies, muffins, pies, literally anything.

Picky would definetelly tease him from time to time. It's affectionate banter don't worry.

I imagine they are both rather lazy so they often just chill in bed or on the couch. Watching movies, playing games, reading or anything really just to past the time.

Okay even though I just said I feel like they are both lazy, I feel like Picky is the most hardworking between the two. As she does a lot of the chores. Catnap makes sure to help out because he doesn't want her to stress herself and overwork.

Catnap will randomly get up at night to grab some water and just finds Picky making chocolate pudding at 4 o'clock in the morning. This is a habbit of hers which led him to believe she is some sort of insomniac.

Nice ship, pretty cute in my opinion, 6 or something/10.

9) PICKYPIGGY X BUBBA

ngl this was more of a random ship that came out of nowhere in my opinion xp

however, I could maybe see the appeal?

I love their ship name sparkle! <3

book lover x food lover

I like to think they are very hardworking. Bubba does the typical normal jobs while Picky does chores. Sometimes both will help each other out.

Similar to like I mentioned in the Bubba x Bobby section, Picky makes Bubba food and coffee while working. She often stays up late and waits for Bubba to finish.

Bubba always makes sure to show his appreciation towards Picky.

Don't harm me but... Bubba is malewife material idk why...

Situationship maybe??

When somebody asks them if they are married or not they actually ask each other "wait did we actually get married or-?". 'Cause they act like a stereotypical couple. This would sorta lead to them actually genuinely wanting to get married.

Kids is very debatable. Reason I say this is cause both are very busy people. Maybe by the time they are in their 30s or something they might try for a kid. I feel like they would only have one or possibly two. Depends on the circumstances really.

They enjoy simple things like going on a small city stroll, sitting in a park, going to a restaurant. They don't go for anything big. As long as they are enjoying themselves then it's all good and dandy.

Overall, 8/10 in my opinion.

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Being honest- I genuinely don't hate ANY smiling critters ship at all. Why do I say this? Because honestly there is nothing problematic with ANY of these ships. It's only problematic when it comes to how a fandom depicts a certain ship in their AU or something like that. But canonly, these ships are fine. I have my prefrences, I have my OTPs and ships I like and will indulge in but, there is not a single smiling critters ship I don't either dislike or hate. Even with ships I'm not too big on I don't hate. This is probably the first time ever because I always have at least one or two ships I hate from a certain fandom. But here, there is none. I will only dislike it depending on how a ship is depicted in maybe I don't know someones AU or whatever, that's it really. But talking about my personal opinion, I just don't man.

Well, I'm finally done. To @justmi1000 , you owe me money after the long ass paragraph essay I had just wrote. Have a good day/night.

Doesn't it happen to them that they want to give their opinion about a ship but they don't do it because no one asked them?

and since I want to waste my time..

here I ask you

WHAT IS YOUR OPINION (NEGATIVE OR GOOD)

OF THESE SHIPS:

1) DOGDAY X CATNAP

2) BUBBA X BOBBY

3) BOBBY X HOPPY

4) CATNAP X HOPPY

5) HOPPY X KICKENCHIKEN

6) BUBBA X KICKENCHIKEN

7) BOBBY X CATNAP

8) PICKYPIGGY X CATNAP

9) PICKYPIGGY X BUBBA

It doesn't matter if it's negative or positive.

shout how much you love a ship or how much you hate a ship!!

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L E A Releases Alt-Pop Hits with an Emo Flair on "Happy Never Ending" EP

Today independent alt-pop artist L E A releases her “Happy Never Ending” EP. The collection of tracks is jam-packed with brilliantly memorable pop hits overlaid with an in-your-face pop-punk attitude, which perfectly marries two of the most beloved genres of 2023. The tracklist ends on a high note with featured guest vocals from one of the scene's most beloved frontmen, Kellin Quinn of Sleeping With Sirens on the EP’s title track. The release showcases L E A’s sassy and sincere storytelling chops as we follow her through the trials and tribulations of being a young independent artist navigating love, life, and the music scene.  “Happy Never Ending is the perfect finale of my sophomore EP. This project dives head first into the pop-punk genre and explores themes like financial trouble and fear of not making it as an independent artist (FTS), realizing and recognizing my true feelings (F U LOL/I Guess I Like You Anyway), and the past and present experiences of a never-ending situationship (Like Yesterday/Happy Never Ending).” - L E A Growing up in the small, yet touristy beach town of Point Pleasant, New Jersey, L E A was homegrown from every and all kinds of rock n roll. The Los Angeles-based artist has intertwined the boldness of punk with the beachiness of pop turning her into the alternative pop act she is today. Read the full article

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→ updated: 1/6/22!

𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐒 𝟏-𝐀

bakugou katsuki

→  the aftermath of white noise with bakugou katsuki

pop +alt/indie + rock + contemporary + R&B!

→ duration: 1h + 21mins

→ summary: between the aches in his arms and the weight in your heart, you wonder if it’ll all get better, but the way he cries into you that night tells you it won’t.

→ shadow prodigy

genres here.

→ duration: 1hr + 13mins

→ summary: bakugou always lived up to expectations, always, but when he gets stranded at a small fishing village, he finds something about it makes him feel changed. he finds you, and in turn, you set him free.

iida tenya

→ going different ways in life with iida tenya

♫ alt/indie + folk + pop!

→ duration: 2hrs + 10mins

→ summary: say the journey is the most important part, so as you both build different universes, though it will hurt, you must trudge on.

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→ celestial to me, he vows

genres here

→ duration: 1hr + 4mins

 → summary: iida’s always been a man of logic, but when he meets you he supposes he might be open to hearing about angels. after all, when nothing can beat the light of your smile, he has to believe there’s some divinity out there somewhere

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kaminari denki

→ kaminari denki’s shortcut to reaching your heart

alt/indie + pop + rock, + electro pop + hip-hop/rap!

→ duration: 1hr + 58mins

→ summary: you vowed to never fall in love, but here he is doing he impossible; both miles and millimeters away — he’s giving your life a little bit more color.

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sero hanta

→ sneak peeks: one

→ playlists:

→ seeing the big picture with sero hanta

pop + house + alt/indie!

→ duration: 1hr + 43mins

→ summary: some called it fate, you called it bad luck, and with the way he always seemed to show up at the right place at the right time, you couldn’t help but hate him. 

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todoroki shouto

→ clever as a four leaf clover

genres here

→ duration: 1hr

→ summary: there’s something about growing up with someone that makes you fall in love. maybe it’s the way you can’t imagine a life without him, maybe it’s how you’re always extra lucky, but whatever it is, you never wanna run out.

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uraraka ochako

→ visiting the new bakery with uraraka ochako

pop!

→ duration: 1hr + 43mins

→ summary: someone’s always perfect for somebody, but as you watch her stare at him, you wonder if you should tell you you’re not fond of the sweets she makes you taste.

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𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐒 𝟏-𝐁:

monoma neito

→ being archenemies with monoma neito

♫ pop + alternative indie + rock + teen pop!

→ duration: 1hr + 31mins

→ summary: he’s like every annoyance in one form; the ultimate pest - so why is it that he lives in your head rent free, with room service?

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𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐒 𝟏-𝐇

hatsume mei

→ finishing gadget commissions with hatsume mei

♫ pop + alt/indie + hard rock + punk + emo!

→ duration: 1hr + 22mins

→ summary: with dirty hands and cheeks and your proejects scattered across the shop, she makes you feel more human than you’ve ever been, and what a gift it is.

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𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐒 𝟑-𝐀

amajiki tamaki

→ sneak peeks: one

→ playlists:

→ right person, wrong time with amajiki tamaki

pop + alt/indie + new age!

→ duration: 1hr & 28mins

→ summary: in rough times, he’s the water to your petals. he hopes you two can build from the wreckage, to bloom, and because you love him, trust in him, you do.

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𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐒 𝟑-𝐁

togata mirio

→ learning about love and life with togata mirio

♫ pop + r&b + soul + alt/indie + funk rock!

→ duration: 1hr & 32mins

→ summary: sometimes it’s hard to love being alive when everything seems dark, but god, does he show you the light. he’s the brightest thing you’ve ever seen.

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𝐕𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐍𝐒

DABI

→ bite sized playlists:

→ the situationship of you and dabi

♫ alt/indie + punk + pop + R&B + soul!

→ duration: 33mins

→ summary: every time you plan to leave, he gives you that stupid lazy smile. And like a moth to a flame, you come back, ‘cause like an idiot, you love him.

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𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐎𝐄𝐒

aizawa shouta

→ sneak peeks: one

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This one really stings to admit, but some of us women fall victim to narcissistic men without realizing the signs.  They seem so charismatic and charming at first.  They shower you with praise at first and really make it seem like they want to (and I’m going to quote my last narcissistic situations hip) worship you.  But then the narcissism starts to bleed through the facade. 

You have to be aware enough; which is the hard  part. And which is why I’m posting this.  A narcissist is going to let some fucked up comments drop; and/or they are going to behave in ways that just don’t line up.  It will make your mind do the double-take, cause you to internally assess even just for brief moments you may not even consciously perceive, that their response doesn’t fully make sense.  You might find him making weird excuses about why he can’t just behave like a normal dude, or you literally might even catch him in paradoxical behaviors if you have the wherewithal to assess the situation from a distance.  

 HINT: normal, emotionally healthy guys behave like your platonic guy friends, and like your best girl friends who you love spending time with, but aren’t sexually attracted to.  Your best friends would never make the kinds of comments and excuses a narcissistic guy is going to make.  Your best friends would never behave the way a narcissistic guy will behave.  Your best friends set the bar of how you expect your romantic partner to behave.   The narccisist’s comments and/or behaviors succeed in making you feel less and less confident about yourself, and less comfortable with the nature of the situationship.  

Another alarm bell of a narcissist is that he will push everything to move way the hell too fast.  So you will go from complete strangers to couple or complete strangers to sex way the hell too fast.  A lot of advice out there wants to brush off this idea that people can have sex too soon, and that having one night stands or having sex on the first date is socially acceptable.  As someone whose mind and emotions got momentarily totally fucked over thanks to unknowingly entertaining a narcissist, let me warn you that having sex way too soon is dangerous, ladies, not only because he could give you STDs even if you use condoms (ask me how I know-- there is a host of STDs that cannot be prevented by condoms, google it), but also because sex is one of the most powerful drugs there is, and it starts to cloud your rational judgement.  Your ability to rationally assess situations is what keeps you out of potentially dangerous situations.  Do you think women just magically and willingly stumble into abusive relationships?  No!  All abusers start off as narcissists, let me assure you.  

To quote an amazing sermon I heard on having sex too soon, “there is no condom for your heart”.  And that’s the thing about getting involved with a narcissist: he’s not going to fuck up your vagina.  He’s going to fuck up your mind, your heart, your sense of trust in men, your emotional wellbeing, and your sense of trust and confidence in yourself. And it’s not going to be easy to reverse this damage, even if you don’t stay with this person.  

As soon as a narcissist reveals his narcissistic true self, you have two options: 

A) Immediately call them on their bullshit at the very first sign of any self-obsessed, or negative comments about you or others; and make it abundantly crystalline clear that when people make those kinds of fucked up comments, or when he behaves in ways that make you feel uncomfortable are not people you want to associate with. And if he does it again, you remind him of the last comment he made, and then you say “I’m so sorry but this isn’t going to work out”. 

The narcissist doesn’t get three chances, he gets two; because you’re paying attention.  And because your mind, heart, and sanity are not worth a third shitty memory.  HINT: any time a guy says something that makes you do the double-take, turns on your fight or flight response, and/or you feel yourself starting to feel insecure, ashamed if any of your friends was to hear him say that kind of shit, or maybe you start to feel a sense of shame about yourself, oh no. And not “oh no!” like “this is crashing and burning”; or “oh no! run away from the boogie man”, I mean “oh no” like “oh h*ll naw, honey. This ain’t gonna work for me”.  Never are those kinds of comments or behaviors EVER going to work for you, if you are a high-quality, self-respecting, kind-hearted winner of a woman.  

Why is catching the signs and hints of narcissism so important?  Because they are going to be artfully and subtly wrapped up in his seduction, charm, and constant reassurance that you are his and he is yours; and he loves and adores you (prolly way the fuck too soon).  These shitty, toxic darts are going to be camouflaged in a forest of all the reasons why you guys are so compatible and all the reasons why he adores you, and all the reasons why you’re so attracted to him.  

The truth is, all people courting you should praise and adore you and remind you why you’re amazing.  They should all fully recognize why it is they want to be with you and why they’re choosing you, and they should not hesitate to share that with you. You should feel attracted to ALL the guys you want to possibly start dating.  But with healthy, normal partners, there are no blow darts laced with emo-toxins involved in the reality whatsoever.  But with a narcissist, these kinds of emotionally toxic “darts” will fully be there and your experience will be riddled with them if you know what to look for.  And please trust me when I warn you that it starts with these little comments, and then it grows from there. 

Option b) the very first time you ever hear a person make negative comments about anyone else our yourself, immediately check them on it and make it clear that won’t work for you.  Watch their reaction, and if their response is not shame-filled, humble, self-correcting, repentant, and abundantly apologetic on incident #1, rapidly GTFO assuming there will be more where that came from. You want to partner with someone loving and whose default nature feels sweet to be around.  

Fellas, females can be narcissists, too.  But it is way more common to meet narcissistic males.  One of my sisters is a hardcore narcissist and don’t even ask me how, but she constantly has boyfriends (which of course never stick around).  She even got one of them to impregnate her; and now that poor unfortunate soul is stuck in her life forever.  

Some of her characteristics are that she drinks way too much and has a history of drug use and drug addiction. <I’m not saying people in recovery  aren’t datable.  But the key is that they need to be 110% fully in recovery and sober of ALL intoxicants if you want to date anyone in recovery.  Trust me.  Been there>.  She’s controlling and always wanting to tell other people how to live their lives. Like literally down to how to train their dog or telling grown adults how to style their hair.  Not just, helpful advice. Controlling.   She’s super critical of nearly anyone she does not need to get something out of (she’s a bully, basically), and 

She speaks negatively about others.  She’s easily argumentative, and can transform what was supposed to be a pleasant family dinner into a personal attack on someone at the dinner table; or predictably create some other highly tense situation that makes you wish you never accepted a dinner invitation.  She may be able to inhibit her true nature for 48 hours, but on day three of being in her company full-time, she WILL transform into her usual narcissistic self. 

 During challenging situations, she loses her patience and temper--she can’t laugh through it and just roll with the reality.  She’s always going to start some sort of a debate and make people feel at odds in social situations.  She also has no filter and will unroll these absurd comments and behaviors in company and in public.  She’ll cut you out of her life, and then when you show up to a family event she’ll act like that never ever happened and never acknowledge it.  People who don’t know her on a deeper level are attracted to her charisma and will sing her praises.  

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Random acts of kindness

I’m sitting here remembering all the gestures that mean more than words. 

One day I was in high school and I went to the bathroom and burst out crying. I just couldn’t handle the overwhelming emotion of my dad who had always been there for me possibly having prostate cancer complications during surgery. No one was in there and I didn’t want to cry in class. I had kept it together for weeks not telling anyone but one day I just couldn’t take it anymore. I just had to cry because I wasn’t sure if my dad was going to be alive or not. I think a friend of a friend came in and asked me what was wrong. So I told her. And all I remember her doing is giving me a hug and a shoulder to cry on. It felt so good to have someone there to do that even if I didn’t know her. I don’t even remember her name I just remember I was glad she gave me a hug. All we need is a shoulder to cry on.

I remember my best friend in high school Lupe would always get me something on Valentine' Day. We were single for the most part so it was a nice gesture. No other friend had done that but her and it was nice to be remembered even if it wasn’t from the boy I had a crush on. Recently I called her to have a heart to heart about all the relationships I had and she told me about her relationships and gave me the best advice. There was a lot of crying involved but I needed solid advice on how to deal with my problems. I called her because I remember her telling me that I deserved better than the first guy I ever got sexually involved with in college. The relationship was so toxic that I was starting to get depressed again in college. Luckily she is a psychologist so she is the voice of reason who told me things I need to read up and work on. And I was right I need to be single for awhile. I learned a good lesson on accountability. Sometimes all we need is someone to talk to on the phone. 

When we had to put our cat down it was the most devastating day of my life. She had been with us since she was a baby kitten and I was so sad we had to put her down. We simply did not have enough money to pay her surgery and there was no guarantee that she would be able to see or fully function after her stroke. We said goodbye she was suffering until she was peacefully was injected. We came home and had her litter box, food, and fur around the house. My mom asked me if I had anyone I could give anyone the leftover cat food so I called my friend Alma. She came over and gave me a hug as soon as she saw me ready to cry. I’m glad she came by that day. I needed a shoulder to cry on.

Several years ago my best friend Karari's house burned down and I remember they had lost everything. It was right around the time school was about to start. I quickly brought over all the brand new school supplies that I had at home so my friend wouldn’t have to worry about not having any. One year I also baked my friend peanut butter cupcakes with jelly in the center because I remembered that they loved peanut butter. Last year I also made that friend an oil painting of a galaxy for their birthday. However, since oil takes ages to dry It may have been still wet. It honestly didn’t turn out as good I hoped but my intention was to give them something they would love to look at even if it did suck.  My friend loved doing galaxy nails so I deemed it fit. At one point I also saw a pretty blow dryer and hair brush set with a galaxy print at the store and I couldn’t resist the urge to get it. No occasion just thought it would be nice for them. It’s the least I could do. They had always been there since high school when I was an awkward as fuck depressed (what people now call emo) teenager. To be honest, I only had like 2 close friends in high school. Everyone else I didn’t really talk to on more than a superficial level. I also remember that friend had come over to discuss my last situationship. I told them all about my past and they comforted me with words. Sometimes all we need is a bestie to come over asap, listen, give good advice, even if I am crying like a bitch.lol.drink wine and read our tarot. 

Last night another best friend came over for a waxing session. (This friend is not the same as the aforementioned. We shall keep him anonymous.)  Before he left I gave him some leftover Puerto Rican food because omg they gave me so much arroz con gandules. I could not eat all those carbs and not feel guilty about.  He text me this morning to thank me how much he loved the food. 

Two years ago we went to visit a Muslim friend who left town to work in Milwaukee. I brought over a ginormous Costco bag of dates for him. I did not know the significance of dates used for breaking fast. I just remembered they ate a lot of dates during Ramadan so I brought them over. I got a lovely text back the day we got back telling me how grateful I was to leave him with a giant bag of dates. Sometimes it is important to pay attention to little things.

And last but not least a long time ago (in what seems like a galaxy far away) a guy I was interested mentioned he loved Star Wars and would love it if a girl could bake him some Wookie cookies. I brought them over on our first date. He seemed to really enjoy them. That relationship didn’t last because he was secretly into his friend the whole time we were supposed to go on a second date. But that is the type of person I am. For better or worse.

I actually baked some recently for a dude I thought was going through a rough time. I felt bad for canceling on our first date and remembered he liked Star Wars as well. I wanted him to have them as an early Bday gift/gesture of kindness. He is ignoring me because he’s too busy being a jerk but it’s the thought that counts.

Even though the Star Wars liking guys (must be a strong correlation between jerk and that film. Makes me want to watch it even less.)  didn’t care and I later thought it was a stupid thing to do for guys. I remember Karari telling me that when you do something nice for someone even if the relationship doesn’t work it’s the thought that counts. It’s better to live in the moment than to regret something that happened in the past. It doesn't devalue a random act of kindness.

As I sit here and think of all these acts of kindness done for me or by me. I am grateful and truly blessed to have the friends I do. I am also glad that I did those nice things because it is the least I could do as a person/friend. Compassion is an important trait that unfortunately, not all people have. It is nice to pay it forward and even nicer when you see someone genuinely thankful for whatever it is you give them. It doesn’t matter how much it costs. Hugs are free. Listening is free. It’s always nice to see a random thank you text.