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my unpopular opinion for the day: i don't like the way the 911 fandom shoehorns the firefam into a nuclear family situation. Bobby may be a father-figure for Buck, but he is not really his father and Athena is definitely not his mother. neither of them raised Buck, or even knew him when he was a kid, and that's kind of a big part of being a parent
the thing that pisses me off is the mom!Athena thing, because it feels like the only reason people say that is because of Bobby and Athena's marriage. Buck and Athena never had that kind of relationship. she may affectionately scold him, but like Bobby she didn't raise him, and unlike Bobby, she doesn't feel any kind of responsibility towards him. she loves him and cares for him, and he's part of her family, but that doesn't make her his mom. in fact, Buck already has a mother figure, and it's MADDIE. frankly, Maddie is more of a parent to Buck than Bobby is
and this goes for Maddie, May and Harry too. Bathena are not parent-figures for Maddie. Athena is Maddie's friend, and Maddie's on-screen relationship with Bobby is almost non-existent, same with Buck and Maddie's on-screen relationship with May and Harry. they're not siblings, as far as we know they barely know each other.
I just hate the way people want to shove Buck and even Maddie into the Grant-Nash family like a little nuclear family cutout. Bobby will always feel responsible for Buck, more so than he does for the rest of the firefam, and Bobby is one of the most important people in Buck's life. but being a parent isn't just about a relationship dynamic, it's about child-raising, and money, and teaching.
#this post was mostly a response to a different post about Buck and Tommy having dinner with Bathena#and it being akin to Tommy having dinner with Buck's parents#that's not the same thing#it's not like Madney having dinner with the Lees#the Lees supported and raised Chimney#Bobby only met Buck as an adult#also another good example of a not-nuclear family dynamic is Owen TK and Judd#Owen and TK are father and son#and TK and Judd establish a brother-like relationship in one of the first few episodes#but Judd and Owen are decidedly not father and son#911 season 7#911 abc#evan buckley#bobby nash#athena grant#maddie buckley#chimney han#bathena#may grant#harry grant
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as a fellow cis bi person who has also dealt with a lot of prejudice, i really don’t think this particular conversation is about us
Idk, I think when people start re-using the exact same language that was used to attack bisexuals against other queer people while also spreading blatant lies about bisexual/queer history by straight-up pretending a huge part of bi history just didn't happen, the conversation starts becoming about us.
#Ask#Anonymous#I've been reading up on both sides here a lot#and trying to listen and learn#but when I start seeing biphobia happen...well forgive me if I find it difficult to be silent about it#also side note I didn't say I was cis I said I don't consider myself trans#that's not the same thing
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It would be kind of funny if what doesn't get me this job is that I failed the enneagram they just made me do. At least for the 2 seconds before I grab an axe and go out on a hunt for hiring managers.
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if there was ever a moment to say garcia isn’t straight it’s at that moment when emily looks at her like that bc damn girl
#cm shit#cm spoilers#i mean why not#for laughs i think jj should be the only straight woman on the show#as much as i will growl at anybody saying only gay ppl can play gay ppl#... if an actor Happens to not be straight and they mod the character to be the same#that's not the same thing
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Checked my tumblr, and it was in September 2020 that I did a post where I said I wasn't going to reblog art of Spock where he is green or blushing green. I wanted this to be a safe space for Jewish folks who find it to be uncomfortable. There was a lot of dramatic feedback from folks, including from Jewish people who said they didn't care if he was green. This isn't for them, it's for the folks who do find it uncomfortable.
If you look in my archive, from September 2020 until now, you will see a lot of Spock art that I have reblogged. What does that tell you? That it's really fucking easy to make art of Spock without making him green and plenty of artists have done it. So if you are an artist and want my reblogs and my followers to see it, you know what to do. Or not to do. 😉
#please stop debating this#it takes a lot of effort to argue about this and zero effort to just not draw him green#i just know someone's going to comb my archives for a gotcha#i have reblogged art where he has a sallow complexion#that's not the same thing
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One of the most infuriating online interactions is this....
Person 1: * says something something *
Person 2: * disagrees with opinions and/or facts *
Person 1: replies
Person 2: replies
Person 1: replies
Person 1 OR 2: WOW WHY ARE YOU ARGUING WITH ME. *replies replies replies replies* * gives more opinions * *replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies replies* OH AND I'M DONE WITH THIS CONVERSATION NOW BECAUSE YOU SEEM OBSESSED WITH IT OR SOMETHING.
#please you were in the same exact conversation#and you weren't done with the conversation#you wanted the last word#that's not the same thing#if you do this you are an asshole#so many people also take being disagreed with as being bullied#if you don't want people to disagree with you#don't post your opinions in a public space#or at least be honest and say 'I only want to hear from people who agree with me'
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"...'Villains and Monsters', huh? Not to demean or downscale, but isn't that just a matter of perspective, when you get down to it? Everyone's the 'Hero' of their own story, when you think of it, no matter how 'Heroic' they may or may not be, however noble, vile, tragic or exemplary. You're still people, however 'good' or 'bad' others see you... or however you see yourselves..."
"How we see ourselves can only go so far. How heroic would I truly be if I see myself as God's gift to the world and the best way to show this is to conquer 'lesser' people, even if they were living on that land for centuries before I would ever come? How about a child who can only see themselves as nothing but to be sent by God to punish a family for their backstabbing avarice as there is no other evidence to the contrary? Words, wishes, and intents have no meaning when it comes to execution and action. And in the end, there is only one objective perspective to have in all this--
"--And it's pain. It can be observed in others and within oneself. Be it from hunger or anguish, obtained or afflicted, pain is real and cannot be ignored. Time passes and history rewrites, but pain remains. Ideally, those who afflict pain on purpose, be it for glory, God, or gold, ought to be punished, not exalted. And yet here we are. We just happen to change one part of those goals… and it is for the Devil. So even all the more retribution must come our way.
"It's only a matter of time. We just happen to not be so delusional as to think there is anything left to our humanity."
#AAAAAAAAAAAA YES CALL THEM OUT ON THEIR BS#also HI CATHOLIC GUILT NICE TO SEE YOU#though I remind folks that as much as Franky talks as though he is a conquistador he is NOT#he ALMOST became one#that's not the same thing#trauma tw#[Captain Josep Frascona]#imperialism tw#colonialism tw#ableism tw
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watching death note with my family and after the college entrance episode my mom asked offhandedly if anyone had ever pictured L and light as a couple before. it felt like one single white dove had landed on a crystalline lake in a beautiful pure clearing. no i dont think anyones ever thought of that before
#she was shocked when i said yeah about 90 percent of tbe predominately female teen fanbase spanning 20 years. Mayyy eee#death note#lawlight#same thing happened when we watched sherlock
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idk man but something about Stanley "taught himself extremely advance physics/math/probably many other things while running a relatively successful business" Pines and Stanford "is wanted in almost every dimension with a judicial system of some kind" Pines is sooo fucking funny to me
#one day stan corrects one of fords equations and both of them have to stop. and stare in horror#the same thing happens when ford starts talking about all the times he broke out of prison#gravity falls#stan pines#ford pines#stanley pines#stanford pines
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I don't know how to tell people it's not the digital part or the computer part or the non-human part that makes it not art.
It's the fucking massive theft.
Disabled have artists have been making art since disability and art existed. It's not going to stop. No one's saying it should, and no one's saying anyone can't use non-traditional tools. What we're saying is that you can't use a tool that doesn't actually make art, it just strings together stolen hard work of others, and then claim that you "made" it. It's the same reason we don't let CEOs claim that they "made" the products they sell; they fucking didn't, they hired other people to do that so they literally wouldn't have to do it themselves and could profit off of the labour of others.
That's why AI is not art. It's a fucking slap in the face to all of the artists, disabled or otherwise, who spend years and years building up their craft, only to have it stolen so someone else can get rich and exclude them from art altogether.
You want disabled art to continue? Don't fucking support AI.
"ai is making it so everyone can make art" Everyone can make art dipshit it came free with your fucking humanity
#tw ableism#ai 'art'#it's not real art#it's equations which resulted in a picture#that's not the same thing#and it's going to be used to steal opportunities from disabled people and they're going to start there first#because no one stands up for disabled people but other disabled people
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My biggest tip for fanfic writers is this: if you get a character's mannerisms and speech pattern down, you can make them do pretty much whatever you want and it'll feel in character.
Logic: Characters, just like real people, are mallable. There is typically very little that's so truly, heinously out of character that you absolutely cannot make it work under any circumstance. In addition, most fans are also willing to accept characterization stretches if it makes the fic work. Yeah, we all know the villain and the hero wouldn't cuddle for warmth in canon. But if they did do that, how would they do it?
What counts is often not so much 'would the character do this?' and more 'if the character did do this, how would they do it?' If you get 'how' part right, your readers will probably be willing to buy the rest, because it will still feel like their favourite character. But if it doesn't feel like the character anymore, why are they even reading the fic?
Worry less about whether a character would do something, and more about how they'd sound while doing it.
#I have a bit of a problem with giving everyone the same speech patterns but on god I try#Bc genuinely. This is the no. 1 most important thing while writing fanfic#If you can make a character sound like they would say that it doesn't matter if they actually would#My posts#Writing wise
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The math just adds up!
#dungeon meshi#falin touden#marcille donato#farcille#I always loved how chapter 27 ends with them both so bloody and 28 starts with them in the bath.#not just because of how iconic the bathtub moment is but because you know they had to scrap off so much gore first.#I think everyone in the party took a very long and methodical bath but Falin was basically *all* blood*.#Being covered in blood is one of those 'just girly things' that women deserve to stop being shamed about.#I just don't think Chilchuck is progressive enough. He probably made them take a bath first B*/#Okay jestering aside I want to just highlight -#The magnitude of Marcille's joy at seeing her dearest friend again! Of holding her and sharing her presence in the same room!#Something about this reunion feels like a beautiful dream you are afraid of waking up from...
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Keep seeing that post where OP starts like 'Thinking about...grieving the undead' and then adds on about like. Real life situations where people have not died but have left your life and you would have reason to grieve them.
All respect, that's an important concept, but that is not what I am thinking about when I read 'grieving the undead'.
#your brother is a vampire. he's sitting across the table from you chatting with your mother about her day#and he's dead and he's gone and he's never coming back.#he laughs the same and he talks the same but his arm is cold when he grabs you in a headlock and your dog won't be in the same room with hi#he'll still hang around watching TV with you and give you wedgies and make stupid jokes#but you can't tell him about the bullies at school anymore because this thing with your brother's face will just find them and kill them.#and not even stupid fucking Jason deserves what the monster in your dead brother's skin would do to him.#your brother is dead and lost and right there in arm's reach and gone forever with no hope of ever getting him back.#i'm sure there are corollaries to be written about like ghosts and zombies but this is the one i'm personally hung up on recently
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i dont know how to explain it but joining extremely small fandoms with only a few people in them feels like this
#doodles#ms paint#memes#life is paint#dat me#this post is about#art#knight rider#but also probably a couple other things#you will see the same 3 or 4 usernames regularly. you'll be mutuals with LITERALLY half the fandom (two people).#you are all circulating the same 47 TOTAL posts around between each other#edit - i am formally claiming this post for the knight rider fandom. finally my first 'this post is about x' banner ......#not that i care people are relating but i want people to know this is about a man who solves crimes and is gay for his car#(the car is also gay)
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not to sound like a boomer, but I need some people to learn how to write emails in a semi-professional (at the very least) format so you're not cold emailing a business/potential employer/any other stranger about formal matters in the exact same way you'd DM a close friend on instagram
the formality/language can loosen up in the email chain once you've established a rapport and you match the other person if they're being less formal, but please don't have the very first email you send a stranger be written in all lowercase ultra-casual sms slang with no greeting or signature and a billion emojis
#this sounds like a 'argh kids these days doing [insert exaggerated story they don't actually do in reality]' kind of thing#except that I've gotten soooo many emails like this#there's a reason that I don't have my DMs open on any socmed and it's bc they attract people getting way too casual/parasocial immediately#and forcing people to write out an email both filters out 90% of weird impulse messages and also throws them out of that casual headspace#except that I can actively tell when this fails and someone is treating emails as if they're the same thing as DMs
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i think the best genre of image is "creatures trapped in starbucks cups with receipts reading [cup of water (no water, no ice, creature)]"
#bugs#the stupid wasp cup isnt really an example of the same thing but it's also a good image#starbucks employees are you like. required to print a receipt for every single cup you use#are your managers hovering over your receipts and remaining cups and going 'somebody got a free cup! someone should be fired for this'#because that sounds realistic under capitalism
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