#that sucks actually. try harder

[gaydelgard]

i was talking about this Elsewhere but

obviously a characters gender can and should and does inform their writing and color how we perceive that writing

but also i think if you as a writer cant write a story and dialogue for a character that is meaningful and interesting regardless of what gender that character is, without changing anything between iterations

thats actually a failing on your part and maybe you should work on that

[littleplantfreak]

Chatterbox Pt. 1 - SFW

>Their calling/texting habits, especially with a partner that loves to be on the phone for hours (part two with the others dropping tomorrow I promise!!)

Hayato Suo - Phone? What phone? Just kidding. He texts a regular amount, but if you wanna be on the phone for a while, his limit is usually an hour unless you're both planning a date or something. He'd prefer to be with you in person otherwise. Invite him over~ He'll bring snacks and drinks for you.

Sakura Haruka- Better on calls than he is on texts for sure. Takes a long time to figure out what to talk about when you two do have calls. Likes to keep them half an hour or shorter regularly. If it's a special occasion or you're on vacation, he doesn't mind if the call goes longer, wanting to hear your voice even if it's only been a day since you left. Accidentally calls you on facetime a lot instead of like...a regular call. So you just see his ear or neck, or it's just completely dark.

Nirei Akihiko - Can talk for hours without fail. He does have an exact bed time that he sticks to though, so while he wants to keep talking, he's about 2 minutes from passing out on the floor. Has call parties that are so chaotic but insanely fun that everyone ends up cracking up during. Added Sakura to one of your calls before, but then Sakura thought you were WITH Nirei. "Sakura-san we're all on different phones." "But you both sound like you're in the same room???"

Kiryu Mitsuki - Calls you when he's gaming and you both just stay on the phone as a way of hanging out. Sometimes forgets you're on the phone and starts humming one of the osts and it sounds sooo nice. He'd sleep with the call still going if it wouldn't completely drain his phone battery. Depends on the day, but when he hasn't seen you in a bit, he's like "Just come over please."

Tsugeura Taiga - Loves calls too. Will call you when he's working out to show you that he hit his new goal. "Babe check out my form, let me know if you think my posture's off" And your just on facetime while he's in his local gym? He asks the people he's with if it's alright first though. Loves chatting or listening equally, so if you just want to hear his voice? He's got plenty to say.

Sugishita Kyotaro - He'll listen if you wanna chat as long as you want, he just doesn't say much. If the call goes on longer than 2 hours he might end up falling asleep. He has to be extra careful with his phone because he's prone to breaking it. It's got the strongest screen protector and case known to man. Actually waterproof at this point probably. Likes to send one set of character emojis when texting and just that set. He's got a special ringtone for you set, and answers it on the first ring every time.

Hiragi Toma - He's fine with calling or texting, but doesn't wanna be on the phone forever. If you have something to say, that's one thing, but if you're gonna talk his ear off, he's also one to just want you to come see him. Actually takes cute candids (unlike Ume who is a menace with them) and has one as your contact pic. Sometimes he looks at it and his stomach feels just a bit better during an attack.

Umemiya Hajime - GOSSIP GIRL FR! He's on the phone with you for hours telling you the juiciest secrets he's found out during the day. If you call him up at 3am cause you had the wildest dream? He's answering and talking about it with you until you're ready to fall back asleep. Has the UGLIEST candid of you you've ever seen and it's your contact pic smh. He has other ACTUALLY cute pictures of you on his phone but he's adamant that you look beautiful in all of them. If he's busy doing something, he'll pass his phone around to either his friends or Kotoha and the kids when he's home to keep you company. Kinda like those "Hey can you watch my boss for me for a second?" Tiktoks?

[daftpatience]

Do you have like a kofi or a gofundme going for your top surgery at all?

trans surgeries are covered in canada! the only struggle is how broken and slow our medical system is ;w;

if anyone wants 2 help me get the stuff ill need for recovery tho i can put this here ig :)

[stellewriites]

really fucking grinds my gears how my dad knows just how to make me feel fucking guilty for putting up boundaries and saying no

[spaghett-onaplate]

depression is really weird actually wdym i spent 2.5 years of my life in bed

[animalpetcel]

WARNING, MINOR SPOILERS FOR BABEL (AND CN MAIN STORY) INSIDE

Okay I finished the event. Despite my reservations, the CN ppl were right. It was a lovely event that made me throw another 10 pull at Ascalon's banner (I did not get her, sad. probably for the best bc I do love using Mizuki).

My one thought is that I still don't know how to feel about Theresa's character. I don't think she was horrible. No, I think this event helped me realize her purpose and beliefs a bit better, as well as how she plays off of Theresis (I still don't know how they're gonna end of his arc tho. Bc for me, given how Theresis wants to stay behind in the past and give the Sarkaz the push they need to join Theresa, who pioneers in the future/use violence to clear a path for her ideals to be heard by others, it makes sense for him to join her in death but from what I know, post Victoria arc the man is still kicking so ???) So I guess my weird nitpick is that she often comes off as weirdly passive in a way that I don't think is intended? Like, she talks big about how she dreams of a future of unity for Sarkaz and all Terran races, but then when Theresis or others are obviously fanning the flames of war, she doesn't really try hard to get them to stop? And even when she's making a case for others, she kinda just accepts their initial answer most of the time and rarely pries further. And even her plans for Babel seemed kinda more reactive then proactive. Idk, I just felt like she would have over time, given her situation as King of Sarkaz, become more outwardly passionate about convincing others (especially her own people, who would naturally struggle to imagine the future she dreams of because of their past/hive-memories) to join her cause. Tho I guess she technically became more aggressive/passionate when Doctor's indecisiveness nearly fucked everything up

Also sometimes she come off too much as the "tragic backstory person who did no wrong and everyone loves" but that's the point of her character so it would be me complaining of water being wet I guess.

[arolesbianism]

Time for more eternal gales isat au, this time featuring Sier as Isabeau, creating a sprite I can never use next to Aris’ because despite my best efforts it would make them look tall

[selfinflictedgunshotwound]

i'm kind of amazed how most of the stardew marriage candidates just want you to be their manic pixie dream whatever by agreeing with everything they like and plying them with compliments or praise or whatever (which is fine but a bit. Much) but for shane his romance is just you being there for him while he figures his own shit out... dunno why i never wanted to romance him before he's so good

[nexus-nebulae]

i want to remove my new shrimp's pringle bc i wanna whack people with the Plush Tube but it's sewn on so I'd have to use my seam ripper

it won't make holes and he will still have the pringle only he can share now

[unheavenlybody]

damn i rly gotta worry abt buying groceries every week for the rest of my life... only 23 and i've had enough. you buy stuff you eat it and then ur fucked all over again!!! noooo 🫠🫠🫠😖😖😖

[mer-se]

please pick friends u can argue or have misunderstandings with and actually communicate with immediately after like, it’s so fucking important

[samuraisharkie]

literally didn’t have to be this way. Harris could have had a better shot if she was being anything other than a fascist warmongerer who doesn’t listen to anyone but her monetary benefactors

[poisonedapples]

Super heavy vent ahead in the tags

[scarlettcryptid]

i was telling myself it was okay that i sucked at guitar hero's easy mode at the arcade earlier and that no one was even paying attention to me but then my mom said there were 3 dudes watching me when she walked in

[chibishortdeath]

Hmmm I kinda want to make a side blog for RPG Maker game development related things to be able to talk to more experienced people in that community, but at the same time I both don’t really think I’d get much attention and don’t want to accidentally spoil my own game (^^ ; ).

I have a rough story, concept doodles, a tileset, some character sprites, an enemy that walks around but can’t initiate battle yet (if I even decide to have a battle system), a couple rooms with some events, and a functioning run button, but I’m still lost on how to do much else at the moment. Especially since this program has the ability for scripting, meaning I’ll probably have to learn and actually retain another coding language.

So, I’m not very far at all lol. Idk how well that’d go over on the established fandom website, but eh.

[perenial]

finished private rites. haven't reached the final page of a book and said "wait thats it????" aloud in a while