#thank you for respecting my opinion and if you don’t like it you can unfollow or leave there’s no harm :)

[writers-ex]

smol reminder to treat everyone kindly on anon or your ask will be deleted, I am a human with feelings too <3 I’ll be back with an itzy spam shortly i hope everyone is having a good day/night ^-^

[lemotmo]

Hi!! First, I just wanted to say I always enjoy checking out your posts because you have such great takes and treat every single ask with such respect. Even when it’s something that you may disagree with, you always take the time to ensure everyone that it’s just your opinion and respect the other person’s point of view! :) It’s so refreshing to see because I feel like over hiatus especially the fandom has become somewhat of a dumpster fire…lol.

Also, I agree completely about Oliver. He always says that he trusts Tim and his writing so I don’t think he would necessarily ask to have Lou leave or for BT to end abruptly or anything. And as much as we all say “oh he hates that man” we truly don’t know. What we do know, at least by his tweets at the time, was there was some tension in his friendship with Ryan several years back. Like it’s crazy to think during the shooting arc and will scene and Eddie breakdown arc in s5 that there was so much tension offscreen. It just goes to show how much of a professional he is! I also don’t think the other side is true either where Oliver is apparently purposely not promoting BT or interacting with Lou on social media to “protect him from the buddie fans.” I just think Oliver isn’t super active on social media for his own reasons and people look waaayyyy too much into things. Anyway, sorry this was so long winded LOL I just wanted to point out that we truly don’t know Oliver or his thoughts and feelings and some people making these inferences sound almost more like headcanons and it’s giving parasocial.

First of all, thank you Nonny. That means a lot to me. I always do my very best to try to stay respectful towards people and ships on my blog. That doesn’t mean that I don’t give my very honest opinions and critical takes on certain topics, but I don’t feel the need to yell over it and use more explicit language. I also avoid specific shipping tags for ships I don’t like and character tags for characters I don't like. I find that being respectful like that ultimately gets you further.

Now, that also doesn’t mean that I don’t get frustrated with some takes in fandom. But I mostly -and wisely- choose to rant about that to some of my Tumblr mutuals/friends in private. Throwing out all of my more hateful frustrations in public would only generate more hate and I try to avoid that. My inbox is so much more interesting when I get positive asks. I admit that I get so many asks these days that it has become impossible to answer them all.

Now, I do want to reply to your ask because you talk about a few topics that are near and dear to my heart and -of course- I have some opinions about. 😊

I first want to address The Ryan part of your ask. I was around in fandom during those days. It wasn’t pretty, but the way people talk about this now is a complete overreaction. The cast’s reaction to this event totally gets blown out of proportion. There was some tension for a while there, sure. Oliver deleted some of his tweets/Instagram posts that had to do with Ryan and then he unfollowed him.

But it was obvious that it didn’t take Oliver and the rest of the cast too long to move on. I’m pretty sure that, by the time the shooting arc came along, followed closely by the breaking down arc, Oliver and Ryan were on good terms again. Maybe not as close as they were before at that specific moment, but still on good terms. Both men are professionals and they did such a fantastic job when it came to those amazing scenes.

Now, don’t get me wrong, what Ryan said was inappropriate and disrespectful, I agree. However, the man apologised immediately and he has been working hard since then to become a better and lighter version of himself. And he has succeeded as we can all see how well he gets along with the entire cast and especially the POC in the cast that have completely moved past his mistake.

These days Ryan and Oliver are like two peas in a pod. They have always been close and they have always had insane chemistry, but ever since the beginning of season 7 it has all been ramped up. I’m one of the people convinced that they got the news that Buddie is finally happening. That they got the green light to go there. Which is something they have wanted for a long time now.

Now, second… as to Oliver not liking Lou? I’m afraid that I’m going to have to disagree with you on this one. I really do think that Oliver doesn’t like Lou all that much. If he was upset and angry over what Ryan said in one video a couple of years ago, I can only imagine his horrified reaction to all those terrible, disrespectful and inappropriate Instagram posts Lou made, for which he hasn’t apologised at all by the way. That interview he did with Lou also doesn’t help. Oliver wasn’t comfortable at all. His body language screamed: “I don’t want to be here.” And Lou just kept on talking about himself. I don’t know why Oliver was even there. BT was hardly even mentioned.

So, while I don’t think that Oliver would ask Tim to get rid of Lou, I only think he wouldn’t ask in function of the Buddie arc they are telling. If Tommy’s presence is necessary in that arc? Oliver will suck it up like the professional he is, because if there is one thing he wants more than anything for Buck, it’s Eddie. If Tim were to tell Oliver that he wanted to take the BT relationship further in any way, I do think he would protest and say ‘no’.

Oliver not promoting BT or Tommy has to do with the fact that he knows that Tommy isn’t sticking around as Buck’s love interest. Tommy is a plot device. He has always been a plot device. That is the way the show set him up. He is meant to have a purpose in the Buddie arc. What that purpose is? We don’t know. But it’s all there in the narrative for those who are willing to look at it logically and from a writer’s point of view.

A few seasons ago Oliver just stopped talking about Buddie. In some of his latest interviews he confessed that he stopped talking about them because he didn’t want to lead the fans on. He knew it would never happen under FOX. As soon as the show came into the hands of ABC, he started yapping about Buddie again. Him and Ryan were so vocal about them. It was clear that something had shifted. They knew that they were finally going there. Buddie was happening, but it would take some time to get there.

When they got renewed it was obvious that Tim decided to take his time for Buddie and put a temporary break on their development, so he could do it right in season 8. That didn’t stop him from putting them together in every other scene they were in. 😉

Now, like with all good slow burn couples there has to be a narrative foil. And in comes Tommy. Tommy who seems interested in Eddie. Buck who clearly gets jealous over the fact that Tommy is stealing Eddie (and Chris) from him. And then Tommy realising that he won’t get far with Eddie, but Buck (who is completely confused about his own emotions at this point) seems a little interested, so why not give it a go?

So, why is Oliver not talking about Tommy or engaging with anything BT while he still talks about Buddie and interacted with Buddie stuff up until the finale? Because he knows where the story is heading. History is repeating itself. Oliver doesn’t want to lead the BT fans on, so he simply doesn’t react or interact with anything Tommy or BT. And there is also the element that it is very clear right now that both Oliver and Ryan are actively rooting for Buddie and only Buddie. They know what their characters need. Love that for us! 😊

None of this is about headcanons by the way. It has been said -in words- time and time again, by Oliver himself (and Ryan as well) that he would love Buddie to happen, if it was written well. He shows it in everything he does on social media. Him and Ryan talked about reading fan fiction and watching video edits. I mean, he couldn’t make it anymore clear that he wants Buddie and not BT. So, this is not a headcanon. This is fact.

This is also not about parasocial relationships. We all like Oliver and Ryan, but most of us admire them from afar. We don’t go into their inboxes to message them or we don’t send them weird messages. I know that there are always some more outspoken fanatics in every fandom and the Buddie fandom is not an exception to that. It sadly cannot be avoided, but overall we have been pretty good as a fandom I would say.

That brings us to Lou and his army of goons…

Mind you, I’m not talking about the many normal and lovely sane BT fans and multi-shippers who genuinly like Tommy. Ship and let ship and all. Most of these fans fully realise that Tommy’s time on the show is probably limited. Anonymous OP shoutout!

I’m talking about the select few (the more outspoken and loud fandom fanatics I mentioned before) who accused Buddie fans of hacking one of their Twitter accounts and who thought it was a swell idea to DM Tim with a too long video about strings of fate (which Tim later admitted to never watching)  and ask him about Tommy’s age and other stuff. That is just crazy and a big no no in any fandom. Leave the show runners and actors alone. I don’t care who you ship. Just leave them alone.

The biggest problem is this: Lou made up a bunch of nonsensical headcanons about Tommy and BT that go against every single thing we have seen in canon so far. Canon has shown us, time and time again, that Tommy isn’t really interested in Buck for a loving relationship. Everything he says is reduced to sexual innuendo. And no, I am not a little quivering virgin lady who is afraid of sex and who doesn’t understand the dynamics between two adults in a sexual relationship. I am, in fact, an adult who has had sexual relationships and who knows exactly how relationships work between two adults in their thirties or forties.

Fully grown adults have paid hundreds of dollars to listen to Lou spout his nonsense. These people have all bought the same shirt Lou was wearing in one of his cameos. They call it the Louniform. These people believe every single thing that comes out of Lou’s mouth and take it as gospel. They have extensively hated on Ryan and Eddie. And lately they have even been hating on Oliver because he doesn’t support BT enough in their eyes.

Now that, THAT is a textbook example of a parasocial relationship with an actor.

They call the Buddie shippers ‘homophobic’ for not liking a character. I myself have received some asks in my inbox accusing me of being homophobic. I’m sorry, But WHAT? Look, I have never lied about not vibing with Tommy. I don’t like him as a character. I’m not hateful about it. I don’t spew my dislike for Tommy all over the BT tag or something like that. I just respectfully talk about how he isn’t right for Buck on my own personal blog. This is called ‘Having an opinion and sharing it.’

Tommy is just not my kind of guy at all. I don’t vibe with his demeanour and behaviour. I don’t think he is a good match for Buck. I don’t like the way he treats Buck. And yes! I am a Buddie shipper! So of course a part of why I don’t like him is rooted in the opinion that he is the wrong guy for Buck. But there is so much more to it than only that. Now all of this is not me being homophobic. It is just me being critical and actually using my brain to understand what the show is ultimately really trying to tell me: Tommy is a plot device and we are not supposed to like him!

I’m tired of being accused of something that I am not, over disliking a character that we aren’t even supposed to like in the first place. It’s crazy behaviour. It needs to stop!

Anyway, I’m sorry Nonny. I didn’t mean to end up venting like this on your ask, but it just happened. Now I’m the one being long winded. Sorry.😊 I’m not mad at you or anything like that. Don’t worry.

On the contrary, you helped me get some of these things out in a well written, but still respectful way. You got me writing about all of the fandom things that have been bugging me lately. I was on fire. So, in a weird way: Thank you for your assistance. ❤️

[hunterevie]

Once in a while somebody will ask if there is a way to remove kudos on Ao3 on the subreddit and that normally leads to people putting their opinion across about whether we should be able to remove kudos from stories. Whether this is because they’ve accidentally pressed the button; they’ve found the author has some troubling views or they got to the end of the story and decided they didn’t like it.

Of course I am very anti this idea because Ao3 is not social media. It’s an archive for people to put their stories out for all to enjoy regardless of the content. A kudos is just a way of somebody saying ‘I’ve perceived this, and at that moment I liked it.’

But it’s deeper than that. It’s about how this function can be used to run authors out of a fandom. Either because they’ve upset a BNF and that person wants to get revenge, or because they’ve written something problematic a lot of the fandom don’t agree with. Essentially, it’s about brigading.

Whenever I put this view across. I’m told I’m being too sensitive. Or I’m overreacting. And all I can think is, well isn’t it nice you’ve never been attacked on social media and didn’t almost stop doing something you loved due to the actions of others?

From my perspective, I can easily see how a remove kudos function can be used to completely destroy the reputation of authors. And that is just because of my experience on Twitter.

Because my profile wasn’t just outed to 6000 people because I happened to say something a highly aggressive BNF believed was aimed at her. No, it went further than that. She actively told people to block and unfollow me. How do I know this? Because I still have friends in that fandom who told me.

People I respected and thought were decent didn’t allow me to put my story across and decided to do exactly that, block and unfollow me. Because her ‘receipts’ included something anonymously sent to her, and something I wrote on my account that was vaguely similar. I mean anybody who can’t work out I wouldn’t say something on my account and then attack a person anonymously isn’t worth my time anyway.

But I digress.

Imagine you had the ability to remove kudos from a story on Ao3, and that person knew I was a fanfic writer and knows my profile on Ao3? (Which they do because I used the same username). That co-ordinated attack could leak over onto Ao3. They could ask anybody that’s ever read my work to remove their kudos so that my stats go down and it looks like my stories are more unpopular than they really are.

Sometimes people filter by most kudos. They may decide that a story with 15k hits and 50 kudos because of a co-ordinated attack isn’t worth their time. Because ultimately that person doesn’t know why the author has so low kudos. It could be because the quality of their work is bad? Which means they may skip over it.

And yes, whilst we are told as authors to ‘write for ourselves’ we don’t upload to Ao3 for fun. We do it because we do like the engagement with others and we do want to share our stories. So imagine how demoralising it would be to see stats go down just because somebody decided they didn’t like you?

Basically if this ever happened to me I’d never write again and I would just remove all my stories. Which would be a loss to me, and those who do like my stories. Because they’d be left with no answers on my current WIPs.

And I can see many authors taking the same course of action if a ‘remove kudos’ button was ever added. Because it’s an easy way to trash the reputation of an author, and it’s naive of people to think it wouldn’t be used as a tool for attacking others.

Anyway, enough of that. Thanks for coming to my TED talk about Ao3 kudos and here’s Jensen and Misha as a reward for sitting through it.

[barbatusart]

hello new folks coming in from the music posts (which is baffling to me haha) welcome aboard! PLEASE before you remain following a couple of things you should know:

- right now im like balls deep in baldur’s gate 3 so anticipate a fair amount of shitposting & prelim pages of a fancomic called De Rerum Natura (linked in full for your browsing enjoyment if you’re interested, 75ish pages so far with heavy act3 spoilers)

- my main bread & butter is pretty intense body horror & gore. the more extreme things i do tag with gore w, but typically they’re only tagged for & not under a cut. (unless the post in question is related to an existing intellectual property, then itll be placed under a cut for the sake of tag browsers) please have your tag mute function ready if you want to remain following but don’t want to be smacked in the face with that kind of material!

- i am an adult man in my mid 30s. while tumblr has banned pornography i still consider what im able to post on here to be adult material; that & from time to time i link to pornography ive drawn whenever the mood strikes me. as such, i am not comfortable with anyone under the age of 18 following this blog, and i would deeply appreciate it if you would please unfollow asap if you are a minor. thank you for respecting my wishes on this matter.

please feel free to unfollow for any reason if any of the above is not something you want to come across! i take no offense lol; im of the opinion that everybody should curate their online experience for the most enjoyable browsing possible. if you would prefer to stick around, i thank you for your time & hope the things i do can entertain you!

[odessa-2]

If you want to feel good about Sam 24/7 and not face the shady tactics (like a man peddling he doesn’t have children when he does) then stop reading Shipper blogs who, from time to time, scratch the surface and reveal what’s underneath. Fine, but in doing so you sell women and their intelligence short, brainwashed by PR spin, an ignorant baboon. How does that help the perception that women are here to humour men (many far less intelligent) and mustn’t make a man feel bad about anything. I read a well known Shipper encourage other Shippers to block Shipper accounts like you who think for themselves. Well I know what I’d rather be as a woman thank you very much! Informed with a balanced, real opinion! They praise Cait for it but don’t want to be like it themselves when it comes to Sam! Do they think he’ll respect them more? Doubt it!

I could not agree more with you Anon. Get out of my brain 😜. I don't think it comes as a shock or it's a secret, or is anything out of the ordinary that certain shippers (me included) delve into and comment on the farcical nature of the narrative and explore Sam and Cait's behaviour towards their fans and mind games they are complicit in. I personally don't care if people find it offensive or not conducive to their inner peace. I offer my opinions and people are welcome to agree or disagree or read me if they choose. Conversely they can also unfollow or block. That goes without saying. But when we have other bloggers suggesting it and calling for a block then we have an agenda on our hands ladies. Just my humble opinion of course.

[guccibootyellow]

I don’t usually reply to stuff like this but I’ve had a couple of replies in general and I’ve had people message me privately that I’ve ignored. I’m only going to say this once (just because I know what the su and bellow fandom can be like and I really don’t want to get into it or start anything).

I’m well aware, canonically, this may be the case but coming onto a bellow blog where I’ve made it clear I hc them as a couple and all the scenarios that this might include, I don’t appreciate being told I’m being icky or gross or wrong (as mentioned in private messages bc of what I’ve shared) for a harmless hc that you can by all means scroll past or unfollow me for. Let’s not do this please, guys.

If I don’t personally agree with someone, I don’t make people feel bad or message them to specifically disagree with personal hc’s or perspectives. I just leave it be because it doesn’t affect me and it doesn’t matter (they’re not real people; it’s just harmless fun). Please give me the same courtesy and stop replying or messaging me just because you don’t agree with me.

Feel free to mute, block, or ignore. But please don’t start making moral comments or messages on my posts or to me personally just because I hc something differently to you or express my ships differently. You know I’m a bellow shipper; this is what this blog has always been. You know I post or talk about nsfw, seriously and as a joke. Please don’t make comments when you know this is the case.

I don’t want to argue; I don’t mean to offend. It’s just that I’ve seen this happen a lot with the su fandom and I’ve been in multiple fandom spaces enough to know that this doesn’t need to happen. I’ve also been in this fandom enough to see how su fans treat each other.

Like I said, if you don’t like me or my opinions, feel free to ignore me. But don’t come to me personally and start making comments. I’m not sure what you get out of it but I’ve had this a few times now (not just this reply) when I don’t usually so please respect my space. I’m respecting yours.

Thank you so much 😮‍💨🙏🏼

[seulszn]

I'm Sorry,

I would like to apologize to all the POC writers I have offended with my actions and who where sent death and rape threats because of it. I will like to apologize for the mess I have made under the Ellie and Abby tag I didn't mean for this outcome to happen at all. All I wanted was to say my opinion on a matter that is a very serious in the community. I didn't expect the outcome to be like this I didn’t expect anybody to get hate and I didn’t expect people to give up on something that means so much to them (writing) I deserve the hate coming to me because I wouldn’t mind my business. I'm truly sorry for my actions and if I can go back in time to change what I did I 100% would

And about the minor thing in my household I was raised with 13-16 being a minor and we didn't consider 17 to be a minor we consider it a young adult or adult so I put that in my bio because I thought I would be considered a adult. No I don't read anything that is 18+ I don't interact with blogs that have the 18+ warning anywhere and I respect peoples wishes when they say for us minors to not interact. But that doesn't mean I deserve to be harrassed for my age because if it I was only in “adult business” because again I thought I would be considered one.

And about me blaming those two authors for the hate and harrassment was only because the username who was sending me hate was a fan of them (elsweetheartfan) and I was so stressed and mad at the fact that I was getting this suff that I blamed them and for that I apologize to them.

And people I think are saying I made that hate account when I didn't when I made my last post I left Tumblr (cause I had too take a break cause the hate was really really getting to me and then I thought about Self harming) I didn't make that account to hate on anyone and I wouldn't make that account to hate on myself I'm not an attention seeker.

I have been misgendered a lot my pronouns are They/Them the only reason why @jolyneswif3 uses She/They is because that is my sister please don’t misgender me just because of something I did.

I'm not delusional I have schizophrenia so with people anonymous asking me if I'm delusional as an insult really hurts. And with (@/elsweetheartfan) and a lot of other anonymous asks yes I am Haitian and Greek it exists my mother's side lives in Greece and I live with my Haitian grandmother I wouldn't lie about my race or ethnicity. I started writing because I wanted to make inclusive content for WOC. I made this blog to share my stories with the world. I made this blog cause I felt like TLOU Community isn’t really inclusive enough. I never said white people couldn't read or write about Ellie what I said was Ellie canonically dates WOC so not being inclusive knowing what Ellie dates is kind of stupid.

Again I am truly sorry for and POC who was harrassed because of me that wasn't my intention at all and if anybody wants a personal apology by me my dms will be open. I will be leaving this account for the mean time to grow and mature and change as a person cause the actions I've shown wasn't mature. Please don't Dox my information and please stop harrassing my family they didn't do anything to be brought into this mess this is all me. So if you wish too unfollow me for this I understand completely.

My last post somehow got deleted but I apologize for everything thank you for the support and goodbye for now orevwa :).

[darkangel1791]

This might be a controversial opinion piece on the movie, "The Apprentice."

I don't feel as if any insult to Sebastian as a person, or an actor is intended in this piece. There is a mention of seeing Sebastian in the make-up as something that would "ruin your day", but I believe this comment would be made by this author about any actor made-up to look like Donald Trump. There is criticism of his decision to play Donald Trump, and for the movie to be made, and a mention of John Mulaney, so continue at your own risk.

It was authored in December 2023 someone named Sarah. And published on a site called Lainey Gossip.

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Block or unfollow me if you are offended by my posting this.

Read below if you don't want to click on the link.

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DECEMBER 5, 2023 17:16:12 BY SARAH

I ignored it as long as I could but now there are photos and there is no denying it any longer—Sebastian Stan is playing Donald Trump in an upcoming movie, and this is a mistake. 

The film is called The Apprentice, but despite the millennial title, it’s about a younger Donald in the 1970s and 1980s, when he took over the family real estate business and turned himself into “what a hobo imagines a rich man to be” (when John Mulaney nails it, John Mulaney nails it). Per Deadline, Stan is joined by Jeremy Strong as Roy Cohn and Maria Bakalova as Ivana Trump, and the film is being directed by Iranian filmmaker Ali Abbasi, who won an Un Certain Regard award at Cannes for his 2018 film, Border, and competed for the Palme d’Or with his last film, 2022’s Holy Spider. There are now photos of Sebastian Stan done up as The Donald which you can see here, if you want to ruin your day.

These are VERY talented people, but this is a mistake. Making a movie about Donald Trump, no matter the intent or how vicious the portrayal may be, is a mistake. It is giving that guy exactly what he wants—validation by people who hate him. We would be SO much better off if Hollywood ignored him. He probably never would have become president if the media treated him like what he was in 2015: a joke, an unserious person running an unserious campaign. But the ratings were too good, they couldn’t ignore him because cable news—a dying industry—boomed during the Trump years, so they kept feeding the beast and now there’s a chance he will actually get to be president AGAIN and no Hollywood movie is going to stop it. 

I’m not saying we ignore Donald Trump entirely. At this point, we can’t. But he belongs to the realm of serious, investigative journalism, hopefully revealing and elucidating more (alleged) crimes that might halt his path back to the White House. Turning Trump, even a younger Trump, into entertainment is a mistake, just as it was a mistake with Vice and W. regarding Dick Cheney and George W. Bush, respectively. Some people don’t get the biopic treatment. Some people shouldn’t be converted to popcorn entertainment. 

But I get the appeal of this project on paper. Sebastian Stan has a knack for portraying rich assholes in a most unflattering way—his brief appearance as Robin Hood co-founder Vladimir Tenev in Dumb Money was a masterclass in turning a certain type of Silicon Valley bro into a walking punchline—but not even he will be able to overcome the simple fact that Donald Trump loves any and all attention and he especially loves living in people’s heads rent free. Don’t give it to him!

The other casting is equally good. Jeremy Strong excels at playing complicated, conflicted losers, and Roy Cohn was certainly that, and Maria Bakalova as Ivana Trump is a stroke of genius. And Ali Abbasi probably has a lot to say about this man, but again, it won’t matter, the people who need to hear the message don’t even live in the same world as the messengers, and it will only give Donald Trump tingles that Hollywood can’t quit him. There is literally nothing to be gained here. 

But art! No. We’re too close to the morass of the Trump years—too threateningly close to more Trump years—to see it clearly, to have the perspective needed to create even halfway decent art about it. But people will insist, like I said, I see the appeal on paper, and no one has been able to resist the lure of ratings and attention that comes with anything connected to Trump. People will be curious about this movie which will undoubtedly be on the long list of Oscar contenders next year. I super look forward to giving Donald Trump extra attention during a contentious election year in the US. Or, you know, everyone could decide to do literally anything else rather than give Donald Trump what he wants, which is attention, any and all attention, and the knowledge that people who hate him can’t stop thinking about him. I am begging Hollywood to stop thinking about him.

[riecaloca]

ok so i’m sorry if this is annoying but i’m genuinely confused- your pinned says you don’t care if swifties interact but you also post/reblog alot of stuff with swifties dni tags ?? /gen /nf

-a swiftie who’s also mutuals with you (has been for awhile)

Its not annoying, don't worry! :-)

I genuinely don't mind having swiftie mutuals because like, while I don't like taylor swift, my mutuals are cool and i respect them a lot, and I like a lot of other stuff they post, along with their vibes!

The reason I tag some of my stuff as "swifties dni" is geniunely because I care about my swiftie mutuals. I figure y'all probably don't wanna interact with my anti taylor swift stuff.

Like, back when I was a swiftie, I had the tags "swifties dni" and "anti taylor swift" blocked because I didn't want to see that negativity. I understood that people didn't like taylor but it hurt to see others talking negatively about her, so I took it upon myself to block those tags and enjoy the other stuff my mutuals posted. So now I give my anti taylor stuff those tags just in case my swiftie mutuals block those tags. I don't want to put anti taylor swift stuff on your blog if you're trying to block it. :)

I mean I probably could just tag that stuff as anti taylor swift, cause that alone gets the message across and since a lot swifties don't wanna interact with anti stuff anyway (so the menacing and foreboding "swifties dni" tag is somewhat unnecessary)

anyways, to sum up, I really like and respect my swiftie mutuals. I don't mind if y'all are swifties because we are both can respect each other's opinions. I just use those tags in case my mutuals want to block that stuff, but since youve brought it up, I will just tag it as "anti taylor swift" and if you don't wanna read it, I guess you could block that specific tag or ignore it

Not to worry, though, I am not primarily an anti Taylor Swift blog. Now that TTPD has been out for a bit, my dislike of Taylor is not the center of attention, so you won't be seeing a lot of any anti ts stuff (aside from a few posts here and there). I will return to reblogging and posting about merlin and Narnia and umbrella academy and the women I like and all that jazz.

Thanks for bringing this to my attention! Love y'all, and if you ever wanna unfollow me cause of what I post, that's okay 👍

❤️

Rieca

[bliss-wily]

Hey, Welcome! Thanks For Viewing.

Just some information about me and this tumblr.

Hi, just refer to me as Bliss or Blissy. I’m a 26 year old cis female. I identify as demisexual and I am autistic with social anxiety. I can be a little awkward in conversations but I’m a good listener. I’m an introvert and always have been but I try to be friendly - but sorry if I’m socially awkward.

This is just a personal tumblr that I run for fun, sometimes I take hiatuses without warning and other times I will post nonstop. There’s no in between, it’s just how time allows me.

I won’t be offended if any of you wish to unfollow me, as I will likely post a lot about Zarbon and other members of the Frieza Force. I know that is not for everyone and there will be no hard feelings.

If or when I become a little more confident I might post art and writings. They will be cringe, no doubt about that. Just to clarify: to me only my own stuff is cringe - everyone else? Your stuff is amazing, I love to see it. Creativity has never been my strong point, hence why I used to post only screenshots. However, I’m all for spreading positivity around here and the only way to improve is to keep trying.

Content on this tumblr will be safe for work, Dragon Ball is a series aimed at teens and I want to respect that. I just like seeing the more wholesome or funny side of things. Also, it’s just personal preference, as I know how quickly somethings can be taken out of context. I just want to have this be a safe place for everyone.

Also, I don’t mind ocs at all. Nor am I a crazy shipper who gate keeps or insists my way or no way. I like seeing other perspectives and I will always respect opinions. In fact, I love hearing lore, imagines, headcanons, stories, and oc bios. This is a safe space, I promise. I don’t bite, I’m friendly.

This has been a well overdue info post. Feel free to look at all past content, it’s most game screenshots. You may use anything as you wish. Any pictures attached to my newer posts are solely from the anime and manga - the most I’ve done is edited them. I don’t support AI art, I’m only using official media for content. The most I’ve used outside of that is Gacha Life, as seen in this post.

Once again, I apologise if I am bombarding dashboards with Zarbon. The man is my special interest, has been for nearly a decade. I still play Xenoverse 2 as well and participate in raids and parallel quests - but I’m on PS5 more than Switch these days.

Anyway thanks for stopping by! Please enjoy the content and use the search box. All my posts are tagged by character.

~Bliss~

[bridgertonopinions]

Why should Luke Newton be savvy as to covering up his entire existence online? If the fandom didn't have an entitlement to everything about him, this wouldn't be a problem, because he has done absolutely nothing wrong. He's the number 3 actor on IMBD right now, Bridgerton is a global phenomena and a huge success again in massive part thanks to him. He's one of the best actors on that entire production, and yet all anyone on here can talk about is 'oh, he's dating so and so' as if it has any bearing as to his ability to do his job. He's perfectly pleasant and kind, he's respectful and has met this fandom with more grace than we deserve. We harassed his last gf, Jade, and now any woman associated with him is under threat of the same all because what? They're not Nicola? Calling a woman who has done absolutely nothing to you 'Toilet Twerker' as a nickname? Are we in middle school? This is Bridgerton Opinions? Here's my opinion. This fandom is full of chronically online, internet poisoned mean girls who desire to know and dictate everything about LNs life unfairly. It criticizes how he does his hair, every outfit he wears, every action he undergoes, his friends, women in his circle. It made fun of his longterm ex-gf for having PCOS openly on Insta and almost certainly contributed to their breakup. It stalks his page to determine when he likes various pictures. It went after Ruby Barker for just playing a character love interest to his character. It's called him a groomer for allegedly dating a grown woman of 23. It's insisted he's had work done to his face. It calls him ugly. Makes remarks about his intelligence. Why? He was cast to do a job and he does that job well. He's a fantastic actor and a kind, attractive man who helped craft a beautiful season that we are obviously invested in. No other actor on this production is treated with the same vitriol and disrespect as he is and he has done absolutely nothing bad. He doesn't owe any of us anything outside of being a decent person and performing well. He's done that in spades. Nicola herself has said that she wants to defend him and no wonder because her own fans are a bunch of bullies. Time to do some self reflection.

This is very heated and I’m posting out letting you voice your opinion

You say all of this and yet you have come to my blog

I created this space to let people vent, speculate, give their opinion, etc

I don’t agree with everything that people say or do on here but I’d rather them vent here than to these people directly…..

This is what I mean by combative

It says in my bio this is a speculation and opinion blog, if you do not like it then you can block me, unfollow me and never come into my asks again

I think Luke is incredibly talented, kind, and generous

Am I confused by his actions? Yes

But I have not once uttered a word of hate towards him

I’ve never participated in trolling and hated on Jade nor Antonia

I simply discuss speculation by what I am seeing

If you feel the need to come to my blog, then you yourself are participating in speculation and opinion

I think someone also needs to self reflect

[walkingintheheartbreaksatellite]

@anon

Hi anon! Thanks fo popping in! I am not going to post what you said but here’s this for ya. Just letting you know, I don’t accept this kind of negativity here on my blog. You are more than welcome to have your opinion and I respect that you have it, but I am also entitled to mine. I like her music. I could say the same thing about people stanning Kanye or whatever but I don’t. People would also say things like this about Brendon Urie from Panic! At The Disco. I still listen to panic. So please keep this kind of thing to yourself💗 This is my blog and I’ll I’m doing is sharing something about an artists music that I like. I stay out of the rest. If this bothers you, please feel free to message me like a person and we can talk or just unfollow and block me if you so wish. Thank you💗

[firespirited]

I briefly tag-mentioned that I’d been working through feelings towards it/its neopronouns because the first reaction was a solid “oh I don’t like this at all - i’ve been itted and that was really unpleasant, most animals aren’t ‘its’ to me either”. So that involved seeking out people who’ve explained their choice and carefully reading and absorbing what its’ trying to convey and getting used to the ideas presented and understand the gender euphoria found in it.

Late last year there was emotional conflict between my images used for age regression and what that means to me as an adult who enjoys toys who wasn’t really allowed to be a childlike during childhood and sometimes gets distressingly perceived as childish as an adult - I don’t engage in play in the sense that most children do but then again I didn’t back when. I still don’t fully *get* what age regression is: the information out there is conflicting, entirely in jargon, sometimes demanding to be seen as valid without any testimonials or explanations because the people involved don’t want to have to justify their life or are too busy dealing with their own stuff (and I understand) however there’s not exactly a primer out there, not by the non-kinky or ‘look at this cringe’ folks.

I’ve recently been followed by a few people who don’t wish to interact with people with certain ideas about plural systems or age regression and the problem is that I have no answer whether I’m safe to interact with because I have no clue. These are areas where the information out there is either in bad faith or riddled with internal community conflicts. Often the basic premise is missing: these are a series of identities and what they mean in opposition to each other yes, but what’s the basics here? how did it come to be? what does it mean in practice? why does this matter to you? how is it helping? And I mean that with actual open honest curiosity as a fellow different kind of weird-brained person.

I’ll be honest, I would prefer people referred to any voluntary practices as something more akin to spiritual practice than folding it in with involuntary trauma responses. I find it uncomfortable not because it’s different but because it actively clashes with how I’m trying to grow.

It’s been very important personally to separate maladaptive or temporary coping mechanisms from others and learn to redirect impulses towards healthier ones but with an emphasis on not feeling shame about the not-great or not constructive practices.

So while I continue to seek out resources and a better understanding, I might not be validating or safe, maybe you can think of it as clashing disability needs?

For me there is no safety in daydreaming, no happy place at a certain age and the different facets of myself must be all fully integrated, intrusive thoughts carefully labelled as stray firing neurons, depressive or despondent thoughts put in a basket that says “full context required before you engage”. Re-integrating anger as part of myself that is not the devil on my shoulder, not shunned and even helpful has been a multi decade process for example.

Hope that’s clear enough, I won’t go out of my way to be an asshole but not sure I can engage in a way that makes you feel respected and understood, the best I can do is admit I have no clue what’s going on and don’t want to form an opinion without much more learning.

Thank you for reading, if you plan to unfollow please do let me know by anon why or if you have anything you think I should read/watch/listen to.

[channelangel]

Hello, angel.I'm going to tell the anon who thinks I'm spreading disbelief, I ask you to carefully read the text I wrote to you again, kindly and respectfully. First, please carefully research the meanings of the words you use.Disbelief means inability or refusal to accept that something is true or real, basically lack of faith. I didn't use anything related to faith, I just put my own thoughts forward and offered ideas. Meditation is something that can give you a sense of calm, peace and balance that can benefit both your emotional well-being and your overall health. You can also use it to relax and cope with stress by refocusing your attention on something calming. Meditation can help you learn to stay centered and keep inner peace.I also said “I don’t know if it is possible…” I told you what I learn at school or while researching. Excuse my ignorance if there's really something about s3x meditation here, I'll look into it more next time. if you read carefully what I wrote, I used the phrase “i think you are lying…” this is my opinion if you read the text again you can see that I am not forcing anyone to do anything in any way, I am just stating my own opinion and I have never used bad words or anything like that while expressing it. Also, if the "bj" method worked for you, I really congratulate you, I have never claimed that it is fake. I just find it inappropriate for you to write such sexual details in a community where there are also younger people.And if you think I have a problem having limiting beliefs, I respect that because it's your opinion. You can be sure that I will take this criticism positively and try to improve myself.Maybe I should unfollow people who produce content 18+ or people who answer such sexual and similar questions because I am an individual under the age of 18. I wish everyone a successful and beautiful day!

hi love! yes i agree and we should leave this topic alone since i have only just turned 18 today and this blog sole purpose is only for the void state or loa not sexual content ! Thank you love

[091400]

091400’ GUIDELINES

This blog is 18+, and my content it’s mostly NSFW so, please, if you’re a minor, don’t interact with this account.

You can always talk with me via asks! Thirsts, opinions, things about your day, etc, they’re always welcomed in my ask box. That means it’s always hard hours on my blog, so if you want to share some of your thoughts with me, please do!

English is not my first language, also I have another blog where I write for a very different fandom, so, if you find similarities, do not, heh.

‎I have all the right to reject your request if I feel uncomfortable or I just don’t want to do it, so please respect that.‎

‏‎I only write for afab!reader. and I write for myself because is the content I enjoy, you can always write your own content if you don’t like mine, thanks.

I DON'T WRITE: eating disorders, age play, severe health-related issues, scat/vomit, feet, self-harm/suicide.

THINGS I LIKE TO WRITE: sub men, breath play, spitting <3, pegging, toxic relationships, perv!skz.

* I want to remind you that you’re in charge of your own experience in platforms like this and well, the whole internet. I will tag everything properly as triggers but remember that if you don’t want to see this content at all you can block the words, the tag, and even unfollow/block me if you want, I can't stop you because I said, it’s your own internet experience.

091400 © do not copy / plagiarize / repost or translate my work on any other platforms.

[4ng3lvamp]

𝐆𝐔𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐆 𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐒

i don’t have an age limit on my blog! anyone of any age can interact! but please if you’re an adult don’t flirt with me or say anything sexual. i’m perfectly okay with pet names, i actually find pet names really comforting, just nothing inappropriate. i’m okay with compliments as well! if your an account that doesn’t let minors interact or has “MDNI” in their bio, please don’t interact. you’re kind of just going against your own rules. unless we discuss it beforehand. if i follow you and you’re a MDNI account, please let me know to unfollow you/not to interact with your posts! sometimes whenever i search up “___ x reader” it’ll show me fluff as well as smut and sometimes when i’m reading really good fluff or angst i just kind of absentmindedly follow without checking the account first. that’s a mistake on my part!!

i’m a very sensitive person, please don’t be mean. i know people are going to hate nonetheless, but i mean towards each other. most the time i can handle hate towards myself, i don’t usually bother me. but if negative things are said about my friends or people i love, then it’s a problem. let’s all be kind and love each other, if you have a problem with someone please handle it on your own time!! i don’t want any negativity on my page. but, i do like putting my opinions out in the world for people to see and decide if they disagree or not, so i’m okay with respectful conversations!

i may or may not right smut, it honestly just depends on how comfortable i am and how much it is. i’ve written smut like twice and never posted it because i cringe at myself sometimes.

constructive criticism is appreciated!

if my request say closed you may still send request, just don’t expect them to be done immediately!!

DNI: if you’re racist, homophobic, transphobic, sexist, ableist, misogynistic, bully people who use neo pronouns, discriminate against someone because of their religion, say slurs you can’t claim, etc. just be a good person.

BYI: i’m very busy with school, so i might not be active much sometimes!! i write on my own accord, if i don’t have motivation i won’t write, nor will i try and force myself to write. if you send a request, and i don’t answer immediately please don’t be upset! i’m either busy, haven’t seen it, or don’t have the motivation to write.

also, i struggle with tones and social cues, so if you don’t mind, please use tone tags! if you don’t know what a tone tag is, here are some examples: /j = joking, /srs = serious, s = sarcastic, /p = platonic, /r = romantic, /nm = not mad or upset, /neg = negative connotation, /pos = positive connotation, /lh = lighthearted, and there’s probably some more but those are all the ones i know of right now!

also, my blog is a safe place for everyone! regardless of race, gender, sexuality, etc! just be respect please!! thank you, my loves! and if you’re ever uncomfortable with anything i do please let me know immediately!